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Do you feel that you struggle with being authentic? 

Do you want to overcome the judgment of society's perceptions of what it means to be authentic? 

Today, Jay sits down with Lil Nas X. Lil Nas X is a 24-year-old award-winning rapper, singer, songwriter from Atlanta, Georgia. Dubbed “an internationally recognized phenomenon” by Billboard, Lil Nas X rose to fame in 2019 when he released “Old Town Road” and shattered genre norms, disrupted the charts and went viral worldwide.  After a highly successful EP and several multi-platinum songs, Nas went on to release his critically acclaimed and GRAMMY-nominated debut album Montero in September 2021, which featured the culture-shifting 6x Platinum hit “MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)”. Following the release of Lil Nas X’s latest single “J CHRIST”, his beautiful new documentary, Lil Nas X: Long Live Montero, debuted this weekend on HBO and is available to stream now on Max.

In this vulnerable episode Lil Nas X shares his story from being a shy kid in Atlanta Georgie to achieving his wildest dreams. Lil Nas X has proven that there is power of self-awareness and embracing your true identity, even in the face of loss and grief. He shares with us personal stories that have shaped him into the person he is today, and the person he is working on becoming. 

The conversation navigates through fears, the misunderstood aspects of Lil Nas' message in his latest single, and the importance of cherishing time with family. They discuss spirituality, the quest for genuine love, dealing with a lack of control, and overcoming inner voices. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

• How to embrace authenticity
• How to deal with societal expectations
• How to be true to yourself
• How to genuinely believe in what you love to do
• How to make peace with your inner voice

Tune in for a thought-provoking and heartwarming conversation that validates our humanness, flaws and strengths, and our ability to overcome difficult times.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:42 Fascination for Time Traveling
• 03:55 Lil Nas X Helped Montero Morph Out of Being a Super Shy Kid  
• 07:04 There’s No Reason to Stop, Even You Mess Up
• 08:57 What’s Your Favorite Childhood Memory?
• 10:32 Becoming Self Aware and More In Tune with Your Sexuality
• 11:24 Losing a Loved One to Cancer
• 16:22 A Song About not Being Present When a Loved One Needed You So Much
• 17:39 Appreciating and Cherishing Time Spent with Family  
• 19:27 What Scares You the Most Right Now?
• 20:56 What Does Positive Chaos Look LIke?
• 22:14 The Part of Montero’s Message That Got Misunderstood
• 26:30 My Relationship with My Father
• 28:52 We All Have Our Own Ideals in Seeing Other People 
• 31:09 Freedom to Explore Your Spirituality
• 35:05 This One Being That’s Connected to Everything
• 36:28 Being Authentic and Relatable at the Same Time
• 38:37 Fully Open to Finding Real, Genuine Love
• 42:10 Overpowering the Voices in Your Head
• 45:23 The Ability to Recognize that Everything has Its Place
• 45:58 Allowing Your Younger Self to Grow 
• 47:35 Things that Haven’t Been Said to My Family Are in the Documentary
• 50:35 How to Help Others Work on Their Best Self
• 54:04 How Do We Deal with Our Lack of Control?
• 56:03 Why We Need to Relax Sometimes to Stay Sane
• 57:23 The Habit of Watching a Movie to Take a Break
• 59:34 What Are You Focusing on Over the Next 12 Months?
• 01:01:39 Do You Believe in Angel Numbers?
• 01:03:24 What Do You Do When You Can’t See the Signs?
• 01:05:11 Lil Nas X on Final Five

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Two of the most noteworthy elements of our 20s are dating and our experiences with mental health. They also interact - our mental health will influence how we date, how we deal with rejection, how we meet new people, and subsequently, our dating experiences can have a profound impact on our mental health. In this episode we dissect everything about this interaction and how we can take care of our mental and emotional wellbeing, avoid codependency whilst also finding the love we deserve.

We also talk through some advice for people who are dating partners with mental health struggles and how to support them, whilst also not stepping into the role of caregiver or savior. Listen now! 

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In this episode, we delve into the world of longevity, health, and vitality with the esteemed Dr. Mark Hyman, where you'll discover the keys to living a longer, healthier, and more fulfilling life.

Dr. Mark Hyman is a distinguished figure in the field of Functional Medicine, renowned for his commitment to promoting health and well-being. With a background as a practicing family physician and as a fourteen-time New York Times best-selling author, he has left an indelible mark on the world of medicine and holistic health. Dr. Hyman's passion for uncovering the secrets to living a longer, healthier life has made him a sought-after expert, and his influential work has inspired countless individuals to take charge of their well-being. As the host of The Doctor’s Farmacy one of the leading health podcasts, he continues to share valuable insights and empower listeners to lead vibrant lives. Dr. Hyman's dedication to improving human health and his advocacy for functional medicine have solidified his reputation as a true pioneer in the pursuit of wellness.

Check out Dr. Hyman’s book, Young Forever: The Secrets to Living Your Longest, Healthiest Life

In this episode you will learn

• Insights into the possibility of being stronger, fitter, healthier, wiser, smarter, and more energetic at 60 than you were at 40, and the steps to achieve it.
• The 7 Core Biological Systems that underline disease.
• How to get your health-span to equal your lifespan.
• The impact a healthy love life has on your lifespan.
• Top nutritional supplements that can support your quest for a longer and healthier life, enhancing your overall well-being.

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Ever wondered why your single aunt seems to radiate happiness like she's got a secret we're all missing out on? Buckle up, because I'm peeling back another layer of modern love and independence on All About the Joy.

This week's heart-to-heart is a deep dive into a TikTok phenomenon that's got everyone talking: the growing trend of financially secure, mature women embracing the single life. We'll explore the viral voices of men who've noticed this shift and my take on what it really means to find peace and self-sufficiency outside the traditional partnership model.

Forget the outdated blueprint for love; we're scripting a new narrative that celebrates personal growth, shared dreams, and the joy of learning from one another.  I'll share why I believe love isn't out of reach at any age and how readiness—not timing—is the key to finding a connection that adds extraordinary value to our lives. Join me for insights, and a fresh perspective on companionship that's all about embracing the life you've built and the unexpected ways love can still find a path to your heart.

(The book referenced is  "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" written by John Gray) 

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EP 129 - Jeff Brekken, You TRULY Need Help In Life

It’s absolutely true that no one can do it alone. There is NO WAY that you can be the best person that you can find for every single task in your business. There is more than likely a chance that you also can’t afford to hire for every position that needs to be filled, so what options are you left with?

What You Will Learn 

• Why you can’t be a loner and you need to surround yourself with good people

• Why you need friends who view your relationship as a two-way street and aren’t afraid to give  back when you need them

• Why you should reach out instead of getting frustrated when you encounter the parts of your business that you are less skilled at

• The benefits of outsourcing over hiring to do things internally in your business

• How exercising gets the blood flowing and gets your brain going and the ideas can start coming

• Why you need to build a team of experts around you to help you do the things that don’t require your special touch 

Favorite Quote: 

“You truly need help in life. Don’t be frustrated in areas you don’t know that much about. Get help for that.”

-Jeff Brekken     

How To Get Involved:  

Addicted to Winning connects listeners through stories that prove why mindset matters. Jeff Brekken was working a 60-hour week on his family’s farm by the time he was 10. When he wasn’t helping with the harvest, he was at the hockey rink. Jeff’s early life experiences taught him he needs to be either all-in or all-out.

In 2000 he started a single-family home construction business and by 2008 he was looking for the next big thing. Jeff founded the Blue Sky Benefit Solutions & Rise Above HR/ Recruiting on top of a lifelong passion for helping people. Through this show, Jeff will take that passion one step further.

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Technologist, serial entrepreneur, world-class investor, self-experimenter, and all-around wild and crazy guy Kevin Rose (@KevinRose) rejoins me for another episode of The Random Show!

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[04:57] Tequila disclosures and investment discourse.

[10:42] Startup advisor considerations.

[18:40] The hit rate of past New Year’s resolutions.

[20:13] Henry Shukman’s new meditation app: The Way.

[22:44] An overlooked advantage for the early investor.

[24:15] Saucelessness and second brains.

[27:41] Protecting your phone’s collage of schwanzes.

[34:20] Privacy and liability concerns in an AI-guided world.

[40:42] Minimalist delegation, foot faults, and surrender.

[46:30] Quick, creative collaborations.

[51:39] My post-holiday physical reboot.

[59:02] Kevin’s physical reboot.

[1:03:18] Taking a break from caffeine, alcohol, sex, and sweetness.

[1:16:26] Cacao ceremonies and perilous tobacco cocktails.

[1:22:18] Radical Acceptance and the origin of TimTim.

[1:24:34] How NFTs drove Kevin to ketamine.

[1:57:09] Kevin’s robot-enhanced Tyler Hobbs tattoo.

[2:02:45] What kind of tattoo might I get, and why?

[2:09:11] Advice for our former (and current) versions.

[2:21:25] Ayahuasca agony alleviation and alternatives.

[2:34:07] Gratitude and parting thoughts.

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EP 126 - Jeff Brekken, Inner Circle Talk

Your inner circle can easily be compared to having your very own personal Board of Directors. Who would you appoint to that board and why? How closely does your inner circle currently resemble that dream Board of Directors, and if doesn’t, would you be willing to make changes to get it there?

What You’ll Learn:

• What exactly is your inner circle and why it’s so important to be choosy about who is in it

• The reasons why Jeff has been slowly paring down his inner circle

• How decreasing the number in your inner circle will help you get your time and your life back

•  Why and how you should rank the 5 people closest to you that you speak with the most

• What to do if you realize you are the most successful person in your inner circle

•  Why you should think about your inner circle like your own personal board of directors

Favorite Quote: 

“You either work for time or you work for money.” 

-Jeff Brekken

How To Get Involved:  

Addicted to Winning connects listeners through stories that prove why mindset matters. Jeff Brekken was working a 60-hour week on his family’s farm by the time he was 10. When he wasn’t helping with the harvest, he was at the hockey rink. Jeff’s early life experiences taught him he needs to be either all-in or all-out.

In 2000 he started a single-family home construction business and by 2008 he was looking for the next big thing. Jeff founded the Blue Sky Benefit Solutions & Rise Above HR/ Recruiting on top of a lifelong passion for helping people. Through this show, Jeff will take that passion one step further.

If you enjoyed this episode, head over and visit us on Apple Podcasts - leave a review and let us know what you thought! Your feedback keeps us going. Thanks for helping. 

Why do you love the way that you love?

How do you have the best relationships of your life (including the one with yourself)?

Today, Mel sits down with expert in attachment theory Thais Gibson to explain the framework to improve any relationship in your life.

Her work on the subconscious mind and personal transformation will empower you to set better goals and have happier and healthier relationships.

Topics discussed include:

• How to have secure and healthy relationships (including your relationship with yourself)
• What your “attachment style” means and the 4 types
• How your subconscious mind drives a lot of what you do
• What love is supposed to look like
• How your attachment style impacts your personal goal-setting
• The biggest limiting beliefs from childhood (which one is yours?)
• How to figure out your attachment style
• How to make your attachment style “secure”
• The difference between “core wounds” and “core needs”
• The 2 things you did in childhood that made you a people-pleaser
• How to feel less anxious and overwhelmed in relationships
• How your fear of abandonment shows up in your relationships
• The one question to ask yourself before you argue with your partner
• What your new love interest needs if they have a hard time trusting
• How to reprogram your subconscious mind for healthier relationships

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Today’s episode is a life-affirming compilation on the theme of community and connection. I chose it because it’s a subject that comes up in one way or another in almost every podcast conversation I have. Researchers, thinkers, and experts alike are concluding that one of the most significant contributing factors to our mental, physical and emotional health is our interactions with other human beings.

Our ancestors evolved as a collective – ancient humans thrived in tribes. From keeping safe at night to hunting for and sharing food, coming together as a community was essential for our survival. And it’s easy to forget we’re not that different today. Sure, the world has transformed. Travel and technology mean families often live far apart, and younger generations are more likely to communicate through screens than face to face. We can survive without community, but can we really thrive?

Science has shown how loneliness affects more than mood, leaving a lasting imprint on our mental and physical health. Reaching out to others then, is one of the best things we can do to protect and improve our holistic health. And I don’t just mean asking for help. By giving to others, volunteering your time or lending an ear, your own wellbeing is boosted alongside the recipients’. Feeling part of a community is as much about making a contribution as being welcomed.

Of course, it can be easier said than done. Maybe you don’t have family nearby, you work alone, or you find it hard to make friends. This podcast is here to help. I guarantee that by the end you’ll feel compelled to embrace community, convinced of the reasons it matters, and inspired by all the simple, actionable ideas this wonderful selection of guests share.

You’ll hear voices including Dr Gabor Maté, Johann Hari, Dr Tommy Wood and Professors Laurie Santos, Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz. Together we cover the reasons connection is key, the health benefits it affords, and how to find your community. We hear from Dr Pippa Grange, Dr Dacher Keltner, Kelly McGonigal, The Happy Pear, and many more on how to cultivate friendships and intimacy, and why it's kindness that counts.

My team and I really enjoyed compiling this episode for you and it’s served as a reminder to all of us, too, to prioritise the people in our lives a little bit more. Even if that’s something you already do, is there someone you could reach out to who might be struggling to do the same? Each clip in this podcast comes from a full-length episode, so if there are voices that particularly resonate with you, check the show notes for links to listen to their episodes in full. Together, these clips are a celebration of the power of community and friendships old and new – I hope this episode helps you to find yours.

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Looking for inspiration or role models? Look no further.

Are you ready to take your life to the next level? Here's why it's time to be a loser.

In this special episode of The School of Greatness sponsored by BetterHelp, Lewis chats with Haesue Jo, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp. Haesue's expertise lies in Asian American mental wellness, anxiety and stress management, relationship and family dynamics, and trauma relief. We discover how childhood trauma can significantly impact their current relationships, gain insights into valuable lessons single individuals can learn in therapy to enhance their future relationships, and explore the benefits of couples therapy in strengthening relationships.

The episode also delves into the reasons behind couples breaking up and emphasizes the importance of self-love in fostering healthy relationships. Haesue Jo sheds light on the concept of self-sabotage and the challenges of taking actions that are beneficial but difficult.

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In this episode you will learn

• How childhood trauma can impact current relationships.
• Valuable insights for single individuals to improve future relationships through therapy.
• The benefits of couples therapy in strengthening relationships.
• The importance of self-love in fostering healthy relationships.
• Tips for processing trauma and grief.

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Longevity is a hot topic these days. We’re obsessed with anti-ageing as if getting older should be avoided or even reversed at all costs! Of course, we can’t do that and I’m not sure we’d really want to. But today’s guest brings valuable insights about what we can do, to make sure we age healthily and happily.

Professor Rose Anne Kenny is a medical gerontologist, Regius Professor of Physic and Chair of Medical Gerontology at Trinity College Dublin. She’s the Founding Principal Investigator of Ireland’s largest population study of ageing (TILDA) and the author of the international bestseller Age Proof: The New Science of Living a Longer and Healthier Life.

In today’s conversation, Professor Kenny reveals that while 20 percent of ageing is genetic and can’t be changed, 80 percent is epigenetic – in other words, we have the power to influence how quickly or how slowly we age.

Her number one recommendation is to have good quality friendships and relationships throughout our lives. Then follow a healthy diet, plenty of exercise, and reduce stress. Nothing too surprising, perhaps. But what might surprise you is just how far reaching the effects of these relatively simple measures can be – and how much what you do in your 20s can impact your 80s.

We talk about how to avoid metabolic syndrome and why it’s important to know key biological markers throughout life. We discuss the benefits of community, family, volunteering and inter-generational friendships, and the undercurrent of ageism that prevails in society.

Loneliness increased threefold during the pandemic, according to the TILDA study, and it’s left some people feeling afraid to reconnect. Yet isolation is known to cause inflammation, suppress immunity and speed ageing.

Professor Kenny believes we should flip convenience on its head when it comes to exercise. Instead of taking the easy option which means moving less, we should look at the ‘harder’ options, such as taking the stairs or carrying heavy bags, as convenient ways to build activity and strength training into our lives. She also shares excellent advice on sex and intimacy, sleeping better, laughing more, and finding purpose all around you.

This is a wonderful and practical conversation that is going to give you a variety of simple ways to play the long game when it comes to ageing. And the empowering message is that it’s never too early or too late to start.

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The past few years have challenged Whitney Wolfe Herd like never before. The Bumble CEO kept the company afloat as the pandemic halted in-person meetups, then became the youngest female founder ever to take a company public...all while in the throes of first-time motherhood! 

This week on How I Built This Lab, Whitney offers perspective on leading and learning in extraordinary times. Plus, how social media may be fueling a loneliness epidemic and Whitney’s current obsession: harnessing the power of artificial intelligence in the name of love. 

And check out Bumble’s origin story told in October 2017.

This episode was produced by Sam Paulson with music by Ramtin Arablouei.

It was edited by John Isabella with research by Sam Paulson. Our audio engineer was Neal Rauch.

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I was talking sh*t about my daughter and got caught red-handed. Talk about unnecessary drama.

We've all been there. And according to today’s expert, this type of conflict is causing more stress than you think.

Today, I am joined by Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, holistic psychologist, and renowned body-based trauma expert. He says there are 6 telltale signs that you’re addicted to stress.

I never considered myself to be a person who is addicted to stress until this conversation.

Dr. Lyons is certified in more healing modalities than you want me to list and has even created his own body-based trauma therapy called Somatic Stress Release™, taught in over 20 countries.

You and I are digging into the fascinating science, research, and psychology of stress. And more importantly, you are going to get the tools you need to remove it from your life.

Dr. Lyons will explain why we keep ourselves on edge, why we find ourselves picking fights, gossiping, zombie scrolling, and staying in relationships where drama is present.

This is a cycle you need to break. It’s time you slow down and learn:

• The shocking ways you are addicted to stress.
• How to deal with drama-addicted friends and significant others.
• What zombie scrolling, zoning out in front of the TV, and always being on the go say about you.
• What it means when you always need to be the center of attention.
• What “revving” is and why you need to stop doing it today.
• The 3 ways to break free from a stress addiction.

If you’ve read this far, it means you want to feel less stress. I want that for you, too.

That’s why I can’t wait for you to listen and learn how to remove all the unnecessary drama from your life.

Xo, Mel 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• 3:28: What exactly does it mean to be ‘addicted to drama’?
• 4:56: Here are the 9 external signs you might be addicted to drama.
• 5:00: If you use these 6 words, you might be addicted to drama.
• 5:15: Do you feel these two emotions when things are calm?
• 5:30: Gossiping is a double-edged sword
• 8:23: How addicts feel inside vs. how they seem to others
• 10:26: What is a revving reflex?
• 11:10: Whoa. I had a major lightbulb moment here.
• 11:50: Addiction to drama is really an expression of trauma.
• 12:57: Mic drop: We chase our drama to avoid our traumas.
• 15:15: How we are reclaiming this word ‘drama’.
• 16:00: The 3 ways drama feels good.
• 16:12: What is drama exactly?
• 20:15: Dr. Scott begins to share his own vulnerable story.
• 21:20: Are you ‘drama bonding’?
• 23:50: This is why hurt people can’t let go of drama.
• 27:35: What is dissociation?
• 28:20: Do these signs feel familiar in your own life?
• 36:55: Examples of childhood traumas that can create drama addiction.
• 37:50: Here’s what we did so that our kids felt abandoned.
• 43:25: How to be in a healthy relationship with someone like this.
• 48:15: Do this so you don’t get involved in their drama cycle.
• 51:40: One surprising sign of dissociated tolerance I bet you’ll recognize.
• 54:00: How the heck does stress give you pain relief?
• 1:00:20: How do you create boundaries around controlling children?
• 1:06:22: Here are 4 ways to take control and end the drama addiction.

Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.

Disclaimer

You're dating someone new and suddenly, they show up to a date wearing crocs, or wear goggles to the beach and you get the ick. You immediately lose all attraction to them, you feel the immediate need to end the relationship, why is that? In this episode we break down some of the surprising psychology behind the ick, including the links to our intuition, emotional unavailability, rejection sensitivity and more, but also why the ick isn't always a death sentence. We also discuss why we voluntarily give ourselves the ick towards the people we're interested in and how we can use it to detach from people who may not be good for us. All of that and more! Listen now. 

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In this episode you will learn,

• How vulnerability is a crucial aspect of human connection, even if it's challenging due to societal expectations and norms.
• The power of understanding and connecting with people on a deep emotional level by observing their body language and emotions.
• Why effective communication can be especially difficult for young black men who may feel pressured to conform to certain stereotypes.
• The importance of evolving and adapting to different roles and situations throughout your life.
• That true success and greatness are achieved through consistent and disciplined habits, regardless of your background or circumstances.

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