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    The MAIN Cause of BREAKUPS (Do THIS to Heal YOURSELF & Find LASTING Love!)

    enNovember 10, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • The impact of childhood trauma on relationshipsPrioritize healing and self-reflection before entering a new relationship to ensure healthy and fulfilling connections.

      Childhood traumas can greatly impact our current and future relationships. Trauma, such as abuse, witnessing violence, or significant loss, can shape a child's worldview and sense of self. If not processed or healed from, this trauma can lead to a lack of trust in the world and in others, as well as a negative self-perception. These core beliefs can then manifest in adulthood, causing challenges in communication and relationships. While entering a new relationship before addressing trauma is not necessarily a "no," it is important to take inventory of one's emotions and ability to communicate effectively. Self-love and introspection are crucial in order to receive and maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Ultimately, healing and growth should be prioritized before entering into a new relationship.

    • Enhancing self-worth and love through therapy.Therapy helps individuals discover their value, break self-fulfilling prophecies, and improve self-esteem, ultimately leading to healthier relationships.

      Therapy can be a powerful tool for individuals who are single and looking to enhance their sense of self-worth and self-love. Therapy is not just about preparing for a relationship; it is about discovering one's own value in the world and increasing self-esteem. Through therapy, individuals can start learning about compassion, patience, understanding, and kindness towards themselves. This is particularly important for those who have grown up believing they are undeserving of love due to past traumas or conditioning. By processing and healing these experiences, individuals can break the cycle of self-fulfilling prophecies and destructive behavior patterns. Ultimately, the main cause of breakups often boils down to couples not being on the same page, whether it is due to communication issues or a lack of shared vision and values.

    • Building Trust and Effort in RelationshipsSuccessful relationships require trust, effort, open communication, and the willingness to work on issues. Understanding each other's dynamics and practicing emotional agility can strengthen the bond between partners.

      Successful relationships require willingness and effort from both partners. Trust and the willingness to work on issues are crucial for a relationship to thrive. However, if these elements are ruptured, such as a loss of willingness or trust, it becomes challenging for the relationship to recover. It is important to understand that each individual brings their own dynamics and experiences from their family of origin into the relationship. Combining these different backgrounds can be difficult, especially when it comes to navigating conflict. It is crucial to have open conversations about how each partner responds to anger and disagreement, as families have different ways of addressing conflict. Finding a middle ground and practicing emotional agility can greatly benefit intimate relationships.

    • The Benefits of Early Couples TherapyStarting therapy early on can create a safe space for effective communication, exploration of family background, and emotional well-being, leading to a stronger and more peaceful relationship.

      Entering therapy as a couple, even when things are going well, can have numerous benefits. By starting therapy early on, before any major challenges arise, couples can create a safe space to effectively communicate and address potential issues. It allows them to explore their family of origin and understand how their upbringing has shaped their views on love and conflict resolution. Additionally, entering therapy from a place of love and wanting to make the relationship work fosters a deeper connection and strengthens emotional well-being. By processing emotions in a stable state, couples can learn emotional agility and navigate triggers with less difficulty. Ultimately, therapy can alleviate future challenges and lead to a more peaceful and fulfilling relationship.

    • The Role of Self-Love in Building Healthy RelationshipsPrioritizing self-care and inner healing is essential for maintaining balanced and fulfilling relationships, as it prevents us from relying on others to fill our emotional needs.

      Our ability to have healthy, thriving relationships is directly influenced by our level of self-love and acceptance. When we carry shame and self-loathing, it becomes much harder to maintain a loving connection with another person. Imagine two people coming to a table, each with their own cup. If both cups are full, they don't rely on each other to fill their cup and can extend love and compassion from a place of abundance. However, if one person's cup is empty, they may expect their partner to fill it, creating an imbalance in the relationship. It is crucial that we prioritize our own self-care and inner healing to avoid placing unrealistic expectations on others.

    • The Importance of Self-Love in Building Healthy RelationshipsSelf-love is crucial in fostering healthy relationships, as expecting your partner to fulfill all your needs can lead to dissatisfaction. To achieve genuine self-love, it is important to process and heal from unresolved shame and trauma.

      Self-love is essential in building healthy relationships. Expecting your partner to fulfill all your needs can lead to depletion and dissatisfaction in the long run. It is important to love and treat yourself with kindness and respect, just as you would a loved one. This means speaking kindly, being respectful of your time, and behaving in ways that align with your values. However, self-love can be challenging if you carry unresolved shame and trauma from the past. It is crucial to process and heal from these deep-rooted beliefs to achieve genuine self-love. While seeking professional help is a valuable option, you can also begin your self-love journey by nurturing important relationships, leaning on supportive people, and exploring resources available online.

    • Exploring Options for Mental and Emotional SupportResearch and explore various resources, including self-help books, videos, and professionals, to find the right fit for your mental and emotional well-being journey. Prioritize your well-being and don't hesitate to switch therapists if needed.

      There are various options available for people seeking support and guidance for their mental and emotional well-being. The internet provides a wealth of information, including self-help books, videos, and online content that can aid in personal growth and healing. Additionally, there are professionals, such as therapists and life coaches, who possess the expertise and training to assist individuals in overcoming challenges and improving their overall quality of life. It is essential to research and explore these resources to find the right fit for oneself. It is also important to remember that it is okay to switch therapists if the initial match does not provide a sense of safety or confidence. Ultimately, prioritizing one's own well-being and finding a supportive and understanding professional can make a significant difference in the journey towards better mental health.

    • Finding the Right Therapist and Embracing the Healing JourneyIt's important to find a therapist you connect with and feel safe and served by. Don't be discouraged if therapy hasn't worked before, as different therapists may work for different seasons of your life. Communication with your therapist is crucial for growth.

      Therapy can be an intimate and transformative experience, but it's important to find the right therapist for you. It's okay if the first therapist you try doesn't work out, as it's a personal and unique relationship. Look for someone who you can connect with, ask questions, and feel satisfied with their answers. Don't be discouraged if therapy hasn't worked in the past, as different therapists may work for different seasons of your life. Feeling safe and served by your therapist is crucial for growth and development. Therapy may be uncomfortable and even painful at times, but it's important to face it head-on and communicate with your therapist to facilitate the healing journey.

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    HAPPY NEW YEAR! Get ready for an incredibly personal and heartwarming episode of The School of Greatness Podcast, recorded LIVE at The Summit of Greatness 2023. In this special moment, Martha Higareda and Lewis Howes share the stage for the first time, and their candid conversation about love and relationships is one for the books. Stay tuned until the end, there’s an unforgettable surprise you won't want to miss!

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    In this episode you will learn

    • Why so many women face challenges in love and relationships, and how can they overcome them.
    • The complex feelings of wanting to leave a relationship but feeling stuck, and how to break away from an unhealthy relationship.
    • Martha "BALANCED" acronym for love and relationships, and how this has helped shape Martha & Lewis’s relationship.
    • Discover why choosing someone based on their potential may not be the best approach.
    • Differentiate between accepting someone for who they are and trying to change them. Learn how to build a healthy, conscious relationship based on acceptance and the fundamentals of a thriving partnership.

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    Lori Gottlieb: https://link.chtbl.com/1191-pod