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    Explore "therapy" with insightful episodes like "Giving, Growing, and Glowing", "These Dating MYTHS Are DESTROYING Your Love Life (What A Healthy Partner REALLY Wants!) | Sadia Khan", "Taking on Someone Else's Emotions: How to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Relationships", "16. The Aspect Compass & Meeting Kids' Needs" and "11. Neurological Coregulation" from podcasts like ""all the rage", "The School of Greatness", "A Safe Place To Land", "Becoming Centered" and "Becoming Centered"" and more!

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    Giving, Growing, and Glowing

    Giving, Growing, and Glowing

    hi everyone, we are back after a must needed week off! today alexis and allie are here to chat about all the storng emotions and stressful events leading up to finals, winter break, and most of all the end of 2023. grab a sweet treat or midnight snack and enjoy the pod! love you all and go follow @atrwithallieandalexis on Tiktok and Instagram

    xox allie and alexis

    These Dating MYTHS Are DESTROYING Your Love Life (What A Healthy Partner REALLY Wants!) | Sadia Khan

    These Dating MYTHS Are DESTROYING Your Love Life (What A Healthy Partner REALLY Wants!) | Sadia Khan

    Joining us is the renowned relationship expert and author, Sadia Khan. With years of experience in the field, Sadia has been a guiding light for individuals seeking love, companionship, and personal growth. Today, we're delving into a topic that many of us can relate to – dating. Whether you're a novice or a seasoned dater, we've got you covered.

    After graduating in psychology and completing masters in developmental psychology Sadia began teaching in inner London schools amongst children of deprived backgrounds. She then went on to teach privileged students in Dubai and noticed not only the economic but psychological advantage wealth provides children when their parents can access therapy. Sadia decided to complete her studies in psychotherapy and decided to post a few videos online mainly to make therapy accessible to those who may struggle to afford it and to make therapy more digestible to those who may not understand the concept. The videos blew up and changed her career path to online therapist, podcaster and content creator racking over 100 million views online.

    In this episode you will learn

    • Common traits of all poor communicators
    • The #1 reason women feel unsafe in relationships
    • Why people change their personality to fit their partners
    • Who files for divorce more, men vs. women
    • How to gain confidence and self esteem to attract the right partner

    For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1533

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    Taking on Someone Else's Emotions: How to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

    Taking on Someone Else's Emotions: How to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

    In this episode of "A Safe Place to Land," Olivia tackles the topic of taking on someone else's emotions. She discusses the importance of not absorbing others' feelings and instead, reflecting back to them what you see and feel. Whether it's a significant other, friend, or child, Olivia emphasizes the need to create boundaries and allow others to experience and process their own emotions.

     

    Join her for insightful advice grounded in evidence-based practices and real-life applications.

     

    Please subscribe and pass it along if it's helpful 🙏🏽

    Cheering You On,

    The Team at Sunshine City Counseling 

    Want to do individual counseling, couples counseling, or life coaching with the team at Sunshine City Counseling? Schedule your first free session.

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    16. The Aspect Compass & Meeting Kids' Needs

    16. The Aspect Compass & Meeting Kids' Needs

    This podcast presents a powerful perspective for helping your child-clients become centered.  It’s based on understanding your kids’ needs through The Aspect Compass, a model representing four aspects of the psyche: The Artist (emotions), The Scout (cognitions), The Warrior (behaviors), and The Chief (executive skills). Each aspect has unique needs that, when addressed, can help children become centered and balanced:

    For the inner Artist:

    •         Getting sufficient attention.
    •         Experiencing a full range of feelings.
    •         Achieving emotional stability.
    •         Expressing feelings.
    •         Facing fears.
    •         Grieving.

    Attention and validation are essential for children's emotional well-being. Offering appropriate outlets for expressing emotions through words or art is encouraged. Support in facing fears and containing grief, while directing processing of grief to a therapist, are all important ways residentials staff support The Artist feeling centered. 

    For the inner Scout:

    •          Developing awareness.
    •          Observing skills.
    •          Acquiring knowledge.
    •          Navigating effectively.
    •          Reporting skills.

    Engaging in activities that focus on sensory perception and cognitive exploration helps children become cognitively centered.  Physically exploring and navigating an environment will help kids experience behaving like a scout.  Encouraging accurate reporting will develop their abilities to be an effective scout, and will help their inner Scout feel centered. 

    For the inner Warrior:

    •          Having a mission and plan.
    •          Feeling a sense of agency, achievement, and accomplishment.
    •          Sense that one’s behaviors are meaningful.
    •          Meeting basic physical and psychological safety needs.
    •          Maintaining physical health.
    •          Relaxation.

    Helping children establish goals, fostering a sense of agency, and recognizing their achievements are essential for their behavioral well-being. Ensuring physical safety, health, and relaxation are also key components of centering the inner Warrior.  Structured time for relaxing is an important part of helping the inner Warrior feel centered.

    For the inner Chief:

    •          Enhancing self-awareness.
    •          Maintaining integrity.
    •          Cultivating wisdom.
    •          Fostering a state of appreciation.
    •          Building a sense of tribe/community.
    •          Encouraging service to others.

    The Chief plays a crucial role in coordinating the other aspects and needs self-awareness, integrity, and wisdom. Developing a sense of appreciation, belonging to a community, and engaging in service to others are vital for the Chief to feel centered.

    This podcast emphasizes that understanding and addressing these needs can help residential staff design therapeutic programs and create environments that promote positive learning and growth for child clients, ultimately helping them become emotionally, cognitively, behaviorally, and physiologically centered while fostering a sense of community and belonging.

    11. Neurological Coregulation

    11. Neurological Coregulation

    This podcast discusses the importance of coregulation in residential treatment settings for children who are emotionally, cognitively, and behaviorally disorganized. Coregulation refers to the process where an adult's nervous system synchronizes with a child's, helping the child learn self-control and emotional regulation.

    Coregulation starts from infancy when a baby's nervous system is linked with the mother's. Over time, babies learn to independently regulate their bodily functions, but they still rely on coregulation for emotional stability, and for learning how to organize thoughts, and regulate behaviors.

    Human Beings use coregulation before they learn self-regulation. Self-regulation involves controlling the electrical and chemical activity within one's brain. It includes skills like reaction inhibition (thinking before acting) and stress tolerance (tolerating stressful situations).

    Residential staff play a crucial role in teaching executive skills like reaction inhibition and stress tolerance to children in their care. They achieve this by actively engaging with the children, whether through play, games, daily chores, and all the other scheduled activities.

    Some executive skills directly regulate behaviors, such as self-awareness and metacognition (thinking about one's own thoughts), while other executive skills organize thinking, such as planning and prioritizing. These skills are also developed through coregulation and practice.

    Various activities, such as playing games, watching movies, and relaxation exercises, are all opportunities for coregulation. Staff should actively participate in these activities with the children, creating shared experiences that foster emotional and neurological coregulation.

    Coregulation, coaching, and cheerleading by residential staff help children develop self-control, emotional stability, and cognitive executive skills. The goal is to gradually transition children from dependence on coregulation to independent self-regulation, ultimately preparing them to leave residential treatment with improved emotional and cognitive abilities.

    24. Turning pain into purpose with Teri Wellbrock

    24. Turning pain into purpose with Teri Wellbrock
    Teri Wellbrock, a survivor of trauma, shares her healing journey and the tools she has used to overcome her past. She emphasizes the importance of building a coping skills toolbox and trying different modalities to find what works best for each individual.

    Teri also discusses the impact of childhood trauma on our present-day experiences and the power of reprogramming the brain through therapies like EMDR. She highlights the role of mindfulness, gratitude, and positive affirmations in the healing process. Teri's work with therapy dogs has shown the transformative power of love and presence in helping others heal.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Childhood trauma can have a profound impact on our physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.

    • Building a coping skills toolbox with various healing modalities is essential for healing from trauma.

    • Healing is a continuous journey, and it is our responsibility to take care of ourselves and seek healing.

    • Mindfulness practice, gratitude, positive affirmations, and meditation are powerful tools for healing.

    • Being present in the moment and practicing self-compassion can help us navigate through difficult emotions and experiences.

    Quotes:
    • "The only way through the darkness into the light is through it." - Teri Wellbrock

    • "Pain is pain. Heartache is heartache. Trauma is trauma. You are worthy of healing." - Teri Wellbrock

    • "Just be love. Be there for someone who is hurting or struggling." - Teri Wellbrock


    Resources:

    MYF'S LINKS:

    Website: https://www.myfgalloway.com/podcast
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfgalloway/


    TERI'S LINKS:

    Website: https://teriwellbrock.com/

    Head to Teri's website to find:

    * blog pieces
    * subscribe option for her Hope for Healing Newsletter
    * Her therapy dog work and how to order Sammie, our therapy dog's, book "The Doodle with the Noodle"
    * Her Resource Library filled with inspirational resources, along with links to videos on meditations, EMDR, coping strategies, and a free e-book

    8. Physical Restraints

    8. Physical Restraints

    Physical Restraints are, in my opinion, the best option for safely dealing with violent behaviors among children and youth in residential treatment.

    Self-injurious behaviors need to be stopped before they lead to permanent, or at least significant, damage.  Assaultive behaviors need to be stopped before they lead to harm.

    Runaway behavior is a more nuanced judgement call.  Sometimes staff can continue to monitor a runaway child or youth.  However, allowing a troubled kid to be on their own in a wilderness, urban, or other environment can place them in serious danger.

    Property damage can sometimes be monitored without physically intervening.  However, in my experience, when kids are allowed to rage they tend to escalate to the point where they are creating a real safety risk to themselves and others.  There are also practical limits to how much damage a facility can financially endure. 

    There are alternatives to physical restraint, including mechanical restraint, chemical restraint, and seclusion.  However, each typically are preceded by a physical restraint.

    In addition, mechanical restraints tend to be very frightening for the child or youth, require a separate type of training for the staff, require constant monitoring, and the transition into the mechanical restraint frequently requires more directed force than a physical restraint.  They also lack any tactile feedback for staff to help determine when the level of restrictiveness on the restraint can be lessened. 

    Chemical restraints require specifically trained personnel, and most residential treatment programs are not licensed to use them. 

    Seclusion tends to result in either the client raging in the seclusion room to the point where a physical restraint may have to be re-established to prevent self-harm, or the client calming down which implies that they don’t really need seclusion.  In my experience seclusion can be an effective tool to ending a violent situation; however, in most cases I have not seen it provide enough advantages to outweigh the added risks and the dehumanizing treatment of the client. 

    Some physical restraint systems train staff in the use of pain compliance holds.  These can greatly shorten a physical restraint and may be a legitimate tool for programs that can’t bring enough staff into a restraint situation (such as wilderness therapy programs that are in isolated setting rather than operating as part of a multi-unit campus).  However, inflicting pain on children is morally repugnant and it may be that programs that can’t, when needed, devote four or five staff to a physical restraint simply can’t serve some clients. 

    Performing physical restraints subjects staff to “small t” trauma.  There are things staff can do to minimize the effects of that trauma on their nervous system, which will make the staff person more resilient to this stress. 

    Episode 7: Inner Child

    Episode 7: Inner Child

    On Episode 7, Lenise and Allie get personal to discuss the power of finding your inner child. They chat about how this practice can bring back some negative memories, but can also help you find your more playful side. Lenise and Allie hope their listeners will join them on this healing journey.

    DM us your thoughts! @leniseligon @allie-vandyke

    Cannabis and psychedelic regulation in Australia

    Cannabis and psychedelic regulation in Australia
    What are the rules governing cannabis and psychedelics in Australia? How have attitudes to these substances changed over time, and what does the Australian biotech industry need governments to do to unlock the myriad therapeutic benefits they promise? Emyria's Dr Michael Winlo answers these questions and more in this interview with Proactive's Susanna Nelson.

    EP 22: Therapeutic Benefits of Reading & Journaling with Bibliotherapist Bijal Shah

    EP 22: Therapeutic Benefits of Reading & Journaling with Bibliotherapist Bijal Shah

    This week I'm joined by Bijal Shah. Bijal is a bibliotherapist, counsellor, author and poet. We chat about how books and journaling can be used as an effective form of therapy. Bijal explains why it's important to figure out your personal values so you can live a happier life. If you're after some reading tips or life advice, give this episode a listen.

    More Information on Bijal:

    She is the founder of Book Therapy, which offers individual, couples and group bibliotherapy, literary curation and personalised reading services. She also provides online bibliotherapy training and has trained mental health professionals, librarians, teachers and readers on using bibliotherapy through Book Therapy’s online Bibliotherapy, Literature and Mental Health course. Bijal has conducted bibliotherapy workshops for The United Nations, various corporate organisations and libraries in the UK and US.  Bijal is also the co-host of the podcast, Raising A Reader & Storyteller, designed to help parents foster and develop a love of reading and storytelling in their children.

     

    Your Thoughts Will Heal or Hurt You w/ Marisa Peer EP 1427

    Your Thoughts Will Heal or Hurt You w/ Marisa Peer EP 1427

    https://lewishowes.com/mindset - Order a copy of my new book The Greatness Mindset today!

    Marisa Peer is the author of 'I Am Enough' and creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy®️(RTT). Marisa Peer is an English best-selling author, nutritionist, relationship therapist, hypnotherapist trainer, and motivational speaker. She is using hypnosis for anxiety, weight loss, addiction, and overcoming fear. 

    She has spent over 30 years working with people including royalty, rock stars, actors, professional and Olympic athletes, CEOs and media personalities and has developed her own style that is frequently referred to as "life-changing." 

    Other than 'I Am Enough', Marisa Peer is also the author of 'You Can Be Thin', 'Ultimate Confidence', 'Trying to Get Pregnant' and 'You Can Be Younger'. Her specialist subjects include: hypnosis, infertility (pregnancy), fears/ phobias, stage fright, low self-esteem, confidence/ self-esteem, weight loss, relationships, career, addictions and childhood problems.

    In this episode you will learn,

    • The definition of Rapid Transformational Therapy
    • How Marisa has treated infertility
    • The three things everyone has wrong with them
    • Why so many famous people are unhappy
    • Why the stories we tell ourselves matter

    For more information go to 

    www.lewishowes.com/1427

    Listen to another episode with Marisa Peer:

    https://link.chtbl.com/1228-pod

    Prevention Vs. Intervention: Gracie Parker

    Prevention Vs. Intervention: Gracie Parker
    10-year-old Gracie Parker "Gracie" is the youngest guest we have had on our podcast! Don't be fooled by this young woman's age! She is speaking out about kids losing loved ones and teen suicide. She hopes to reach all the way to capitol hill so others can hear her message! She has been to City Hall, talked to the school board, and is also planning a rally on April 30th in downtown Franklin N. Carolina from the courthouse to the town hall with the police chief, senators, the mayor, and the school board. She is even pushing to share her message on the Senate floor!  She is an author of a book titled "SHATTERED."  Give this podcast a listen, and maybe you will be as impressed as we are!   @only4lilli Â

    How We Heal: Moving Through Trauma With EMDR

    How We Heal: Moving Through Trauma With EMDR

    This Episode Is  🔥

     We know, we know. We get jazzed for every episode (its true) and this one is no exception. 

    Olivia Pelts, owner and therapist at Sunshine City Counseling in St. Petersburg, FL, sits down with Licensed Professional Counselor and EMDR Expert Briana Johnson of Blue Bristlecone Counseling. 

    This is part 1 where Olivia and Briana get into a bit of Briana's background in working with trauma, specifically, in the trans and queer community of Colorado. They also begin to unpack...

    • What is EMDR?
    • How does it work?
    • When is it helpful?

    Give it a listen and gain some knowledge !

    Cheering You On,

    The Team at Sunshine City Counseling and Eastern Shore Counseling

    Want to do individual counseling, couples counseling or child and teen therapy with one of the counselors at Sunshine City Counseling? Schedule your first free session.

    Are you in Portland, Maine and needing a therapist? Check out our newest location and schedule your first free session! 

    We're ready when you are.

    IG: @thesunshinecity

    Everything is VIBRATION... HOW TO Heal using SOUND + COLOR

    Everything is VIBRATION... HOW TO Heal using SOUND + COLOR
    Everything is VIBRATION... HOW TO Heal using SOUND + COLOR ❤️✨❤️

    As soon as you realize that everything you witness is merely the result of vibrating molecules, the sooner you can CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE

    YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR FEELINGS, COLORS, SOUNDS, WALLS, TREES, NATURE.... These are all nothing BUT THE RESULT OF A VIBRATION

    WE ARE GOING DEEP TODAY - JOIN IN ❤
    connect with me all places @katbrodycz

    564. Beyond the Run with Emily Saul, Marathon Mentality Q&A Part III

    564. Beyond the Run with Emily Saul, Marathon Mentality Q&A Part III

    "No one can define what success is for you but YOU. Even though the sport of running tries to tell us that the only things that matter are distance and time, that is simply not true. You decide what matters to you."

    Welcome to Part III (the last part!) of the Marathon Mentality series with Ali on the Run Show favorite Emily Saul! Emily is a licensed mental health counselor, sport psychology coach, and founder of E Saul Movement. She’s a former Division-1 collegiate rower, she’s a lifelong athlete, she’s a many-time marathoner, and she’s a TEDxBoston speaker.

    Today, we're talking race day. We made it! (You made it! You're doing great!) Emily is offering advice about tackling taper tantrums, getting in the right headspace for race day, and dealing with the potential post-marathon blues.

    SPONSOR: New Balance — Click here to learn more about how New Balance is supporting conversations around mental wellness in running. (And check out the SuperComp Trainer! I’m obsessed!)

    What you’ll get on this episode:

    • How do I deal with taper tantrums? (3:30)
    • How do I get over the mindset of being able to run further on race day than ever before? (7:25)
    • Best advice for getting pumped up for a marathon the week before the race (12:05)
    • How do I get over my fear of coming in last? (19:00)
    • How would you address mid-race fears of pushing too hard too early? (27:10)
    • How do you handle the personal pressure you put on yourself? (29:55)
    • What do you do mid-race when your mind starts making preemptive excuses for failing? (35:20)
    • How to battle the mental game during a race when your body wants to give up (39:00)
    • How to stay positive when the race isn’t going as expected (44:45)
    • During training, I feel confident and I crush my workouts. But when it comes to race day, doubt creeps in. Any advice? (49:55)
    • How to deal with the post-marathon blues (54:30)
    • Emily’s final pre-race pep talk for fall marathoners (1:01:10)

    For more, check out:

    Marathon Mentality Part II: When the Training Ramps Up

    Marathon Mentality Part I: Getting in the Right Headspace for Marathon Training

    Emily Saul on Episode 510 of the Ali on the Run Show

    Emily Saul on Episode 574 of the Ali on the Run Show

    Emily Saul on Episode 59 of the Ali on the Run Show

    Emily Saul’s TEDxBoston talk

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    17. Meghan breaks a lifelong addiction

    17. Meghan breaks a lifelong addiction

    After years of struggling with addiction, Meghan Opbroek realized she would never realize her life's dream of becoming a therapist unless she got sober. In this episode of "A Change Mindset," Meghan shares how a supportive friendship and the desire to fulfill her life's purpose helped her find recovery.

    This episode features "Girl in Calico" by Tow'rs.

    Follow us on Instagram at @achangemindset


    Learn more about Meghan:

    If you enjoyed this episode, then please either:

    Stop Judging Yourself: How CBT Can Help You Control Your Emotions and Reactions

    Stop Judging Yourself: How CBT Can Help You Control Your Emotions and Reactions

    Cara Reiff is one of our teen and young adult experts and we are stoked to have her on the podcast today!

    One of Cara's specializations is in working with the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Model. In this episode, we explore...

    • What are Self-Judgments?
    • The CBT triangle
    • Practical steps to begin replacing negative self-depricating thoughts

    Give it a peep.

    Cheering You On,

    The Team at Sunshine City Counseling and Eastern Shore Counseling

     

    Want to do individual counseling, couples counseling or child and teen therapy with one of the counselors at Sunshine City Counseling? Schedule your first free session.

    Are you in the Portland, Maine area and needing a therapist? Check out our newest location and schedule your first free session! 

    We're ready when you are.

    IG: @thesunshinecity

     

     

    Moving from ambivalence to an active choice with journalist Kathryn Stanczyszyn

    Moving from ambivalence to an active choice with journalist Kathryn Stanczyszyn
    Kathryn Stanczyszyn is a British journalist and radio presenter who has felt ambivalent and confused about parenthood for decades. Always hoping that one day she would wake up and feel differently, during the pandemic Kathryn decided to embark on an active process to choose whether to have kids or not. In this chat, she shares how it’s not always black and white, and why the process can be a painful one. From navigating ambivalence on your own and in a couple, challenging our conditioning around where we find purpose and looking to the future as a childfree woman, Kathryn is refreshingly open and honest about her own journey.

    If you’d like to learn more about Kathryn and her work do check her out on Twitter @stanchers.

    If you enjoyed this chat, please do subscribe and share it far and wide. We'd would love to hear what you think, so if you can post a review or contact us via Instagram @geetapendse or send us an email to the1in5podcast@gmail.com Thank you for listening.