Attraction

You're dating someone new and suddenly, they show up to a date wearing crocs, or wear goggles to the beach and you get the ick. You immediately lose all attraction to them, you feel the immediate need to end the relationship, why is that? In this episode we break down some of the surprising psychology behind the ick, including the links to our intuition, emotional unavailability, rejection sensitivity and more, but also why the ick isn't always a death sentence. We also discuss why we voluntarily give ourselves the ick towards the people we're interested in and how we can use it to detach from people who may not be good for us. All of that and more! Listen now. 

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NSYNC gör comeback och Andreas Carlsson tar oss tillbaka till 00-talet för att diskuterar boybands. Andreas avslöjar att han såg en ljus framtid för en femtonårig Justin Timberlake. Margret Atladottir berättar om att David Beckham ifrågasätter Victoria Beckhams samhällsklass i en ny dokumentär. David Druid undrar hur bra ledare lyssnarna är. Matilda Rånge rapporterar om en oroande arbetsmiljö i Miljöpartiet enligt fackliga representanter och att Naked Attraction gäckar amerikanska tv-tittare.

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Programledare: David Druid, Margret Atladottir

Babs Drougge och Matilda Rånge på P3 Nyheter förklarar morgonens stora nyheter, alltid tillsammans med programledarna för Morgonpasset i P3: Margret Atladottir och David Druid.

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Det verkar vara lite gnissel på Miljöpartiets kansli. Samtidigt som språkrörsvalet närmar sig har fackliga företrädare larmat om arbetsmiljön kring Märta Stenevi, enligt DN. Hon själv svarar att hon tar uppgifterna på stort allvar, men inte känner igen sig alls.

Sen pratar vi om Naked Attraction som snart får sin första amerikanska säsong, vilket gör vissa föräldrar i landet rasande.

Things get awkward when Kate calls out Cash for kissing her best friend,

Answering dating advice questions from fans,

And our first ever guest comes on!

In this episode, I interview Victoria Gallagher, a renowned hypnotherapist and best-selling author, about the law of attraction and manifesting positive change in one's life. Victoria shares her personal journey with the law of attraction and explains how her approach differs from mainstream ideas. She emphasizes the importance of starting with a clear intention and aligning oneself with it.  

We discuss how shifting subconscious thoughts and beliefs can help with overcoming anxiety and depression. We discuss how beliefs about one's worthiness and capabilities are often at the root of anxiety and depression. Victoria emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and letting go of the past in our healing process. You will learn how transforming your mindset has the power to change even your physiology and facilitate recovery from anxiety and depression.

Learn to work on your belief systems in order to start living the life you want! 

Victoria M. Gallagher is a worldwide leader in Hypnotherapy, a best-selling author, an international speaker, a life success coach, and a renowned authority on the Law of Attraction.  She has dedicated her life to empowering people all over the world to successfully live a life of liberty, aligned with their dreams through her effective meditative recordings and online courses. 

Through her podcast, The Power of Your Mind, she exudes her passion for inspiring listeners with influential guests in the areas of self-development, mindset, discipline & habits, entrepreneurship, wealth, and relationships.

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When you learn to transform your thinking on a subconscious level, lasting recovery from anxious thought patterns is possible for everyone. It is my goal to help others find the peace of mind and freedom that I have found. To help you on your journey, I have created a truly comprehensive 9-week video course that teaches you how to transform your life from the inside out. 

If you would like to learn more about overcoming anxiety through the power of your subconscious mind, I have created an online video course that will help you:

 - Discover the root cause/s behind your anxiety, overwhelm, and stress.
- Transform past pain and trauma.
- Find true confidence and self-acceptance.
- Finally break free from destructive thinking patterns and negative, looping thoughts. 
- Learn powerful, subconscious tools to create permanent, lasting change in your life. 
- Find the confidence you need to move your life forward.
- Create more meaningful connections and better relationships. 

Hundreds of people have found freedom through my course,  A Transformed Life. Click the link below for more information: 

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Tiffani Cappello CHt, NLP, CLC is a clinical hypnotherapist who has overcome years of depression, anxiety, and trauma. She discovered the power of hypnosis and NLP in her journey of personal development, transforming long-standing and deeply rooted subconscious patterns and shifting her mindset to become a confident, healthy, and happy person. She now uses hypnosis and NLP to help others achieve their own emotional well-being and lead a happier life. She is the creator and host of the "A Transformed Life" podcast, where she interviews successful people and shares their stories of transformation. Tiffani is also the creator of the life-changing course, A Transformed Life, that has helped hundreds of people move past hopelessness and find inner peace. 

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Today, I am going to share with you another snippet from my latest book, 8 Rules of Love. This time, we will talk about the definition of love. 

Rule #3: Define Love Before You Think It, Feel It, Or Say It - in this chapter we break down the different phases of love and dating, the pitfalls that often lead to breakups, and the steps we can take to be more present in the relationship and form deep connections with the other person.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.   

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:02 Rule #3: Define love before you think it, feel it, or say it 
• 09:39 The Four Phases of Love - We rarely elaborate when we tell other people we love them
• 14:03 Phase 1 - Attraction - In phase one, we feel a spark of intrigue, interest and attraction
• 20:14 The Three Date Rule - Three dates usually provide enough time to determine compatibility
• 31:35 Phase 2 - Dreams - We strive to dismantle false expectations and focus on realistic expectations
• 32:11 False Expectations - We often have a checklist of the qualities our partners should have
• 35:52 Rhythms and Routines - Instead of chasing the dream of what might be, spend time to get to know the other person
• 43:31 Phase 3 - Struggle and Growth - Confronting differences and disappointments and putting in the effort to resolve them
• 48:18 Phase 4 - Trust - The growth that you go through together builds into trust

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Lets talk about the ICK!

What is it, how to know if it is an alarm bell for a red flag or just something small you can move past.

I also go over a WHOLE bunch of 'Icks' send through to me by you beans. HILARIOUS.

Brain Fact: Why smells trigger such strong memories.

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Today I am going to teach you about the law of attraction and how to normalize the life you want before you actually have it.

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There are so many factors when it comes to deciding who we find attractive in a romantic sense, and frustratingly, quite a few of these factors can distort how we view this topic.

In this episode, I discuss how important it is to find someone attractive if we are in a long term relationship with them, how our ego and the opinion of other's can impact who we find attractive and try to pursue in the hopes of finding long term happiness and finally, what does settling really mean? Could shifting the way we view this term have a positive impact on the way we decide who to be in a relationship with and find a happiness we could have been sabotaging by setting standards that are not only hard to meet, but do not impact how successful a relationship will be?

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