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    Love Life with Matthew Hussey

    Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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    (Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family

    (Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family

    “How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?”

    Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon.

    In today’s episode, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if someone shares your goals and timeline, figure out exactly what you want (and come up with a plan for each possibility), and approach these conversations in a natural and confident way.



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    (Rewind): If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly. . .

    (Rewind): If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly. . .

    Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast?

    You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked.

     Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation with you and your friends.

    You find yourself constantly wanting to text him. You sit at home wondering what he’s up to. You’re tempted to rush things forward.

    Wait. Stop. Relax.

    There’s nothing wrong with being a romantic, but you have to be so careful here to make the right decisions going forward.

    If you find your heart always investing in a guy when your head tells you to calm down, here’s the secret to taking back your power...

     

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    251: "I Can’t Get Over My Ex...Please Help Me Move On!”

    251: "I Can’t Get Over My Ex...Please Help Me Move On!”
    When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your instagram posts, respond to your stories, or you see glimpses of their life with a new partner and it triggers you...

    In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to deal with triggers that derail your progress and what to do when you're trying to move on for good and want to TRULY get over your ex. 

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    (Matt Monday): Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS

    (Matt Monday): Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS
    Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet). 
     
    Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s episode, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating.

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    (Rewind): Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People

    (Rewind): Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People

    Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you?

    Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?

    It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.

    In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. 

    At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...

    Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...

     

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    250: “How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?”

    250: “How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?”
    When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation? 

    In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry is valued over compatibility). This episode will give you tools and mindsets to navigate the early days of dating with confidence!

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    (Matt Monday): How to Heal From a Narcissistic Relationship

    (Matt Monday): How to Heal From a Narcissistic Relationship
    In today’s new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self. 
     
    No matter what your story is, you don’t have to carry this baggage forever. After listening to Cara’s story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently.

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    (Rewind): Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations In Relationships. Do THIS…

    (Rewind): Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations In Relationships. Do THIS…
    Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship.

    We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves.

    So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.

    But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on.
    If this is you, this episode is for you.

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    (Matt Monday): Long Distance Relationship? AVOID This Mistake

    (Matt Monday): Long Distance Relationship? AVOID This Mistake
    Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping they’ll finally notice you and see your value. 
     
    This great question is one of 7 I answer in today’s new episode, based on the comments you left me last week. I also dig into topics like:
     
    • What’s the best way to start a long-distance relationship?
    • What’s your dating advice for people over 40?
    • Why did they change their mind about being ready for a relationship?
     
    Don’t miss these, and once you’re done, be sure to send an email to podcast@matthewhussey.com with a question you’d like me to answer next time!

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    (Rewind): Do You Feel You’re Giving Too Much in Relationships?

    (Rewind): Do You Feel You’re Giving Too Much in Relationships?

    What do you do when you’re a giving person but you feel like your kindness gets taken advantage of in relationships? Maybe you feel like you’re always the one trying and then your resentment builds up until one day you explode in anger. 

    In this video, I show you why we get trapped in the curse of people pleasing, how to set appropriate boundaries, and how to ask for what you need from someone you’re dating. 

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    248: Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained)

    248: Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained)
    The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship?

    Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating. 

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    (Matt Monday): Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends

    (Matt Monday): Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends
    "How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?"

    This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to:
    •  "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?"
    •  "When Did You Last Cry?"
    •  "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?"
    •  "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?"
    ... and much more.

    It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be sure to leave me a comment with any questions you might have for part 2!
     
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    (Rewind): 7 Surprising Signs They Like You...

    (Rewind): 7 Surprising Signs They Like You...
    If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode…

    How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet? 

    Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.

    You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.

    In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvious signs someone REALLY likes you...

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    247: Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You

    247: Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You
    Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again?

    In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people. 

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    (Matt Monday): 7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible

    (Matt Monday): 7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible

    Is love enough to keep a relationship going?

    You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup.

    In today’s episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last.

    These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . .

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    (Rewind): How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection

    (Rewind): How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection
    Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date… 

    Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most ...

    Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.

    Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide
    The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this week's episode, you'll learn how to make that happen.

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    246: Q&A Episode! Answering YOUR Dating Questions

    246: Q&A Episode! Answering YOUR Dating Questions
    We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up texts and more! 

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    (Matt Monday): They Say They're Not Ready for a Relationship...

    (Matt Monday): They Say They're Not Ready for a Relationship...
    When we’re stuck in a situationship with someone who doesn’t know what they want, it’s incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and hear the words “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” it feels like we’re suddenly back to square one! 
     
    If you’re tired of not knowing where you stand, you’ve come to the right place. In this episode, I share 5 signs that can reveal if someone is ready for a relationship, plus a key question you can ask yourself and use anytime you feel stuck or confused.
     
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