Desire

As we dive into the topic of Desire and Vision today in the summit, I want to take a moment to encourage you to trust yourself to take the next right step on your journey. So often there's this idea that we "should" know exactly where we're headed, but what if instead we followed our own personal north star and trusted ourselves and our intuition to take one step forward after another - allowing for both commitment to our goals and the unfolding of the magic of life.

In today's episode I'm taking a more personal approach and sharing my own journey of connecting to my inner guidance, listening to little nudges from the universe, and trusting myself to take just one step at a time - and it's my hope that in sharing these stories you too choose to trust yourself and approach growth and goal-getting from the perspective of curiosity and kindness towards yourself too!

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Today, I am going to share with you another snippet from my latest book, 8 Rules of Love. This time, we will talk about the definition of love. 

Rule #3: Define Love Before You Think It, Feel It, Or Say It - in this chapter we break down the different phases of love and dating, the pitfalls that often lead to breakups, and the steps we can take to be more present in the relationship and form deep connections with the other person.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.   

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:02 Rule #3: Define love before you think it, feel it, or say it 
• 09:39 The Four Phases of Love - We rarely elaborate when we tell other people we love them
• 14:03 Phase 1 - Attraction - In phase one, we feel a spark of intrigue, interest and attraction
• 20:14 The Three Date Rule - Three dates usually provide enough time to determine compatibility
• 31:35 Phase 2 - Dreams - We strive to dismantle false expectations and focus on realistic expectations
• 32:11 False Expectations - We often have a checklist of the qualities our partners should have
• 35:52 Rhythms and Routines - Instead of chasing the dream of what might be, spend time to get to know the other person
• 43:31 Phase 3 - Struggle and Growth - Confronting differences and disappointments and putting in the effort to resolve them
• 48:18 Phase 4 - Trust - The growth that you go through together builds into trust

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Joe Dispenza is an international speaker, researcher, author, and educator who is passionate about the findings from the fields of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions. He uses that knowledge to help people heal themselves of illness, chronic conditions, and even terminal diseases so they can enjoy a more fulfilled and happy life as well as evolve their consciousness.

Joe is the New York Times bestselling author of You Are the Placebo: Making Your Mind Matter, which explores our ability to heal without drugs or surgery, but rather by thought alone. His most recent book, Becoming Supernatural, talks about how we can intentionally change our brain chemistry to initiate profoundly mystical, transcendental experiences and develop a more healthy body, mind, and spiritual life.

Joe didn’t always work in the field of neuroscience. He started out as a chiropractor, earning his doctor of chiropractic degree from Life University in Atlanta, GA. He had a successful chiropractic practice, but one day he had a dangerous accident. In 1986, while cycling in a triathlon, Joe was hit by a truck. He broke six vertebrae in his spine, and his doctors told him he would never walk again.

Joe asked four different surgeons what he should do, and all four of them prescribed a complicated surgery. The surgery would relieve some of his pain but nearly guarantee he would never walk again. But that wasn’t good enough. He refused to have the surgery and instead began to imagine himself totally healed. He visualized each vertebrae healing and reconstructed his spine in his mind. In just ten and a half weeks, Joe was back on his feet, and in twelve weeks, he was training again and back at work at his chiropractic clinic. He fully healed himself with just his mind.

In this episode you will learn:

• How to stop being held back by your past.
• Why gratitude is crucial for changing your thoughts.
• About the scientific evidence backing up Dr. Joe’s work.
• How to use quantum physics to accomplish your dreams.
• Joe’s prediction for the future.
• The reason people’s dreams don’t happen.
• Plus much more…

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Break Free Of The Addiction To Negative Thoughts And Emotions: EP 1309

Transform Your Mind To Manifest & Attract Financial Abundance: EP 1288

Transform Your Mind For Lasting Love & Magnetic Relationships (Part 1): EP 1054

What if you could imagine the future without the fear of disappointment? God placed an innate desire to dream in each of us, but we’re afraid of being refined in the process. Stir your hunger for a future only God could bring with this message from Bill Johnson.

Because loved people love people. And we need a community that reinforces that and reminds us. And we need it all the time.

Because we forget how loved we are. We so quickly go back to thinking we need to take in order to feel, and so we settle for sex over love. Or lust over intimacy. Or we feel unsafe and afraid, so we keep hiding in our shame in the dark, and we settle for isolation over vulnerability and community. We forget.

You are God’s beloved! So much so that He sent His Son to rescue us. He offers us forgiveness for when we fail. You are the object of His desire and affection and provision. And if that’s true! Then we are truly free to love others!

Sermon Notes: https://www.bible.com/events/48967019

22.10.16

Lately I've been feeling more tired and my desire for certain things have been, well....lacking.

When we have big dreams, a lot of desire needs to be created to achieve them. But what if we can't seem to muster up that needed desire? Then what?

Desire isn't always something that comes easy. It can take an active effort to cultivate it. Listen for tips and tricks to get you moving towards your brilliant future-self again.

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What are you willing to do for what you want? For everything that you want, you have to pay the price. There aren't free lunches! Whether you look in terms of money, time, energy, emotions, hard work, or any kind of experience it requires some investment on your part.

Tune in to the episode "Price to Pay" as Chetna is here to tell you that nothing comes for free!

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