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Explore "sadness" with insightful episodes like "283. How Glennon Transforms Sadness into Power", "How the World Makes Us Depressed", "What is Sadness Good For? | Susan Cain", "Embracing Sadness in the Pursuit of Happiness" and "Learning From Jealousy" from podcasts like ""We Can Do Hard Things", "HealthyGamerGG", "Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris", "The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos" and "Trauma Rewired"" and more!
Episodes (5)
How the World Makes Us Depressed
What is Sadness Good For? | Susan Cain
Many of us may have a reflexive reaction when we notice we’re feeling down: we want it to go away. Maybe we think something is wrong with us and we automatically self medicate in any number of ways. But how do we square this with the fact that many of us may also really like sad movies and music? And making things even more complex, how do we compute the fact that the universe is constantly handing us opportunities to feel awe, gratitude, and joy, often at the exact same moment that sadness arises?
What’s going on with this complex and conflicted relationship we have with a perfectly normal human emotion?
Our guest today Susan Cain has written a whole book about this called Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole. In this book, she explores how the capacity to tune in to the inherent joy and sadness of the human situation can be a superpower for connection.
In this episode we talk about:
- Whether bittersweetness is a skill you can hone
- The relationship between bittersweetness and the Buddhist concept of impermanence
- Why we feel embarrassed about discussing sorrow and longing
- How sadness can be transmuted into creativity, and how that creativity can lead us out of sadness
- And how America, a country founded on so much heartache, turned into, in her words, “a culture of normative smiles”
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Embracing Sadness in the Pursuit of Happiness
We react to sadness in a variety of unhelpful ways. We try to suppress it. We experience guilt over it and apologise to the people around us for feeling it. We assume it means we've failed. We even fear it.
But sadness will touch us all - and to be happier and more resilient we need to accept the emotion and work with it to make our lives better. Journalist Helen Russell (author of How to be Sad: Everything I've Learned About Getting Happier by Being Sad Better.) joins Dr Laurie Santos to explain why our view of sadness needs to be rehabilitated.
You can purchase her book, How To Be Sad at - https://www.harpercollins.com/products/how-to-be-sad-helen-russell?variant=33051661762594 - and follow her @MsHelenRussell on social media platforms.
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Learning From Jealousy
In this week’s episode, Dr. Joli Hamilton has joined us to talk about the important role of romantic jealousy, and most importantly how we can navigate through it when it comes to our relationships and our health. As a research psychologist, relationship coach, best-selling author, and professor in human sexuality, Dr. Joli has become an expert on shining light on this often neglected emotion. Join us today as we discuss and discover how to see jealousy for what it truly is: an opportunity for introspection and revelation.
In this episode, I share:
- How to manage this complex emotion that is rooted in fear, anger, shame, and sadness and turn it into a valuable teacher
- What romantic jealousy can help us learn about ourselves
- How Joli’s life blew up at thirty-three and her key takeaways
- Using honesty to keep jealousy from having its way
- How to use the tools you already have to deal with the untangled web of emotions that surface when you unwrap jealousy
- The essential purpose of jealousy. Why you shouldn’t cure it or kill it.
- The impact of the imaginable realm
- Manifestations of jealousy and the consequences of ignoring it
- Conscious conversations and feeling secure in your love bond
- Steps to working through jealousy and combating its dark side
- Perfect safety in relationship to yourself and the murky territory of control
- Boundaries and how they need to start with you
- Dealing with the potential of something else entering into your relationship
- Finding safety and wellness within yourself
- Jealousy can show up anywhere and pop up where you least expect it
- Thinking of jealousy as an indicator, identifying how it shows up, and creating a jealousy self-care plan
- Using compersion to move into a place of joy and ease
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