The Mel Robbins Podcast

In today’s episode, Mel shares the one question that will determine your next six months (and reveal who you really are). Then, you’ll learn how to go from thinking about what you want to taking action and making it happen.

The free companion workbook to this episode can be found at melrobbins.com/makeithappen.

Along with your workbook, Mel has created 2 video trainings to help you feel inspired, energized, and in control again.

Mel created this free program, Make It Happen, as a way to thank YOU for your support of this podcast and for making it one of the most popular podcasts in the world. 

The next 6 months of your life could be extraordinary, but it's not going to happen by accident. 

It will happen because you CHOOSE to make it happen. 

Do not let any more time go by wishing things were different. This is your opportunity to make it happen. Why wouldn’t you take it?

And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen

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This one study will change how you think about your entire life.

Today, you’re getting the definitive answer to this powerful question:

What makes a good life?

There is nothing more important than this conversation. Because by the time you are done listening, your life won’t be the same. 

In this episode, you’re getting the research, the secrets, and some very surprising takeaways from an 86-year-long study at Harvard. The Harvard Study of Adult Development began in 1938 and is the longest study that has ever been done on happiness, relationships, and the human experience. 

Joining Mel today is the director of that study, Dr. Robert Waldinger, MD. Dr. Waldinger is a medical doctor, professor at Harvard Medical School, and a zen priest. He is here to share all of the groundbreaking research and, more importantly, give you the answers to what you need to do starting today in order to live a good life.

You’ll learn the best life advice and lessons from 100-year-olds, the surprising question of whether you can predict if you’ll be healthy at age 80, the simple daily habit that leads to lasting happiness, and more—all backed by decades of research.

For more resources, including the link to Dr. Waldinger’s fantastic book, The Good Life, click here for the podcast episode page. 

This episode is a companion to Mel's brand new free training, Make It Happen. 

This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary.  It includes a 29 page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.

And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen

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In today’s episode, you’ll learn 3 surprising steps to help you unlock the unlimited power of your mind, grounded in exciting research.

You were meant to see this today.

There is a reason you need to listen.

You can feel inspired, energized, and in control again, if you know how to turn on your mind’s superpowers.

Your mind has unlimited potential, and there are larger possibilities available to you, but you haven’t been taught how to unlock them.

YET.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if you had a sense that life was conspiring to help you?

That there are signs that you are on the right path if you know how to look for them?

That things are working out for you? 

You deserve to live a life filled with meaning and purpose. Today you’ll learn 3 ways to make that happen.

This episode is a companion to Mel's brand new free training, Make It Happen. 

This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary.  It includes a 29 page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.

And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen

If you liked this episode, listen to this one next: This One Study Will Change How You Think About Your Entire Life

For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page. 

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Today you’re learning the best relationship advice no one ever tells you.

Because the BEST relationships start with better conversations.

Nobody teaches you that.

If you’ve ever been in a situation where family and friends don’t agree with you, or they don’t like the direction you’re taking your life, it’s frustrating.

Not knowing how to deal with that can damage relationships with people you love.

Today’s episode will teach you how to speak so that people listen, so you can keep the people in your life that you really care about. 

Today Lisa Bilyeu joins Mel on the podcast. Lisa is the co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and president of Impact Theory Studios. Her wildly successful career started with a childhood dream to make movies. But in a traditional Greek family that didn’t support her ambitions and wanted her to be a housewife, that dream caused a lot of friction.

Lisa had to build a framework for having difficult conversations and get the people she loved to understand her dreams and support her career. This framework made it easier to go after her dreams, while staying close to the people she loved.

Learn how YOU can use this framework so that people in your life want to listen when you speak. 

For more resources, including the link to Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, click here for the podcast episode page. 

And if you liked this episode, listen to this one next: Do This To Become More Confident: 5 Truths You Need to Hear

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In today’s episode, you’ll learn 3 simple yet profound science-backed strategies that will change your life, and you’ll feel the difference as soon as you start using them.

These tiny decisions will instantly boost your energy as soon as you wake up, so that you OWN your mornings and start your day feeling incredible.

They will make you healthier, improve your relationships, make you more productive, and strengthen your mindset in just a few minutes per day.

If you love the proven hacks featured in today’s episode, then the next one you’ll want to listen to is: 8 Small Habits That Will Change Your Life: The Best Expert Advice I’m Using This Year

For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.

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Today's episode is a MUST listen. You won't believe what the latest research is saying about menopause. And you're likely not getting what you need to know from your doctor. 

Did you know perimenopause can begin as early as your 30’s? Or that symptoms can include frozen shoulder, joint pain, ear ringing, migraines, and body odor?

Today, the #1 menopause doctor tells you everything she knows so you can stop guessing and KNOW how to stay healthy and feel amazing in your body.

Dr. Mary Claire Haver joins Mel on the podcast today. She is a board certified obstetrics and gynecology specialist, a certified menopause practitioner from the Menopause Society, and her latest book is The New Menopause. Her advice today will help you optimize your health, no matter what your age. 

You've got symptoms; today's episode has solutions, like:

3 types of foods that will stop your bloating.

2 supplements that will help you sleep better.

1 exercise that will help you lose weight and improve your bone density.

Bookmark this episode and share it with every single woman in your life, because it’s time to change the paradigm: you do not have to live with symptoms that can be resolved and you do not have to suffer.

For more resources, including links to Dr. Haver’s latest book, her free Menopause Empowerment Guide, and reader recommended physicians,  click here for the podcast episode page. 

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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn 4 pieces of advice that will help you act confident when you're stressed, be fearless under pressure, reach your potential, and unlock the magic in your life.

If you can’t stop procrastinating, are battling self-doubt, or you just need a reminder that you’re stronger than you think, then this is the episode for you.

And if you know someone who’s not living up to their potential because they keep procrastinating on the actions they need to take, send them this episode and let Mel give them the motivation they need. 

For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. 

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Today you’re getting a masterclass from one of the most renowned and respected experts on alcohol.

She’s here to give you the latest research and science of how alcohol impacts your body, brain, and mind. She’s going to give you facts, dispel myths, and help you be informed about the decisions you are making when it comes to your mental, physical, and emotional health when it comes to alcohol consumption.

Dr. Sarah Wakeman is Senior Medical Director of Substance Use Disorder at Mass General Brigham, home to nationally recognized hospitals and cutting-edge research. She's also an Associate Professor of Medicine at Harvard Medical School and the Program Director of Mass General Substance Use Addiction Services.

How much is TOO much alcohol?

Is some alcohol healthy?

What happens to your brain when you drink?

And how do you help someone you love who drinks too much?

Get the latest research so that you make the most informed decisions about the role alcohol plays in your life. 

For lots more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. 

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These 13 pieces of life advice will change your future.

Buckle up, because today Mel is not holding back. 

It’s true that your 20s can feel overwhelming, but you’re more powerful than you think. 

And this advice will unlock that power.

If you’re feeling behind in life, these 13 pieces of advice will move you to the front of the line, no matter how old you are. 

The truth is that no matter what decade of your life you are in, you can make it the best one – and this advice will help you do it.

For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. 

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In this episode, you’re going to learn the 5 rules of money.

Whether you want to build credit, pay off debt, increase your income, or have more money in the bank, this episode is a must-listen. 

It will surprise you. 

It will move you. 

And it will help you live a richer life. 

Tiffany Aliche is THE money expert. 

Known as The Budgetnista, she is a New York Times bestselling author who has helped 2 million people just like you save, manage, and pay off massive debt. 

This is not your usual “make-a-budget-and-stick-to-it” advice. Tiffany’s take on $$ will help you see your money in a completely different way so that you understand how to make more of it and save it with ease. 

After you listen, you’ll have THE 5 money skills you need to gain financial freedom.

For more resources, including links to Tiffany’s book, the links Mel mentions, and Tiffany’s social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.

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When you don't feel like doing anything, this one thing will turn it around.

If you struggle with stress and anxiety and can’t let go of the negative thoughts that keep you stuck, this episode will change your life.

Learn the #1 journal exercise that will pull you out of your rut. This simple exercise will transform your energy so that you become the person you’ve always wanted to be.

What you do TODAY will change your future.

For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.

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There is one thing you need to live a more peaceful and fulfilled life:

Having the right people around you.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn the surprising reasons why your friends aren’t more supportive and the sneaky ways people are disrespecting you.

In order to find more joy and less stress, you need positive relationships with people that actually cheer you on, that believe in your potential, and that make your life better. 

Today, you’ll learn exactly how to find those people, take your power back, and create more peace in your life. Joining Mel is Trent Shelton. Trent is a bestselling author who is beloved by his 15 million followers for his inspiration and insight, and today he’s sharing that profound wisdom with you.

For more resources, including links to Trent’s new book, Protect Your Peace, and his social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.

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You need to hear today’s episode. I have something profound to share with you, and it will change the way you think about success. 

Whether you want to make more money, get in the best shape of your life, find the one, launch an incredible business, or see your name on the cover of a book that you publish…

This is the coaching and the tools you need to take the next right step.

If you’re sick of standing still or talking yourself out of the changes you want to make and the goals you dream of achieving, this one’s for you.

And you need to hear it right now.

For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.

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This one-of-a-kind episode is a masterclass in how to believe in yourself, no matter what obstacles you face. 

There are 5 lies that you are telling yourself that are holding you back from greater success, purpose, and true fulfillment. 

Today, Mel is sitting down with one of the most successful self-made women, Jamie Kern Lima, who will share these lies and the truth you need to hear.

Jamie went from serving stacks of pancakes at Denny’s to creating a billion-dollar makeup company, IT Cosmetics. She is one of the most successful entrepreneurs of all time and was the first female CEO in L'Oreal's history.

Jamie’s life story shows you what is possible when you stop doubting your greatness, build unshakeable self-worth, and embrace who you are.

In this episode, she is giving you the exact playbook for the level up in your life you have been looking for. Once you listen, your self-doubt won’t stand a chance. 

Listen to Jamie’s first interview with Mel (and her full story!): How to Find Your Purpose: Stop Searching and Do This Instead

For more resources, including links to Jamie’s new book Worthy, her website, and her social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.

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Wouldn’t it be amazing to have tonight be the most relaxing, happy, or productive night you’ve had in ages?

It will be after you listen to today’s episode.

Mel shares the 4 easy steps you can take right after you finish listening that will make tonight one of the best nights of your life.

This episode is packed with tactical advice and the 4 science-backed components of the best nighttime routine.

Don’t make the mistake of waiting until the morning to make positive changes.

The 4 simple steps Mel unpacks today will teach you how to sleep better, give you back time, and even set you up for a better tomorrow.

For more resources, including the science and resources that Mel shares, click here for the podcast episode page.

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Today’s episode is a masterclass in narcissism. 

If you want to know how to protect yourself from a narcissist, you first have to know how to identify one. 

You’ll learn the top 10 personality traits to look for, how to handle a narcissist in your life (that you can’t avoid), the difference between ‘love bombing’ and infatuation, and a whole lot more.

Joining Mel today is Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and one of the world’s leading experts on narcissism.

Her mastery of all things narcissism has made her the #1 most requested guest on The Mel Robbins Podcast.

Dr. Ramani has been researching this topic for over 20 years and is here to give you the wisdom, practical advice, and well-researched tools and tricks to navigate what is one of the most unpredictable experiences: being in a relationship with a narcissist. 

According to Dr. Ramani, 1 in 5 people has narcissist traits, which means you know (and may love) someone who is a narcissist. After you listen, you’ll know what to do.

For more resources, including links to Dr. Ramani’s book, website, and social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.

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In this episode, you’ll learn what true love really is, along with 3 simple ways to start getting the love you want. 

Today, you’ll learn the art & science of giving and receiving love.

You’ll get simple tools for all kinds of love: romantic relationships, friendships, family relationships, mentorship, and even the smallest, simplest daily acts of love.

You’ll also learn:

• The most controversial thing ever said on The Mel Robbins Podcast.
• The truth about love. (and an entirely new way to think about it)
• How to instantly shift any relationship for the better.
• The #1 relationship study of all time: Mel breaks down the takeaways for you.
• 3 things you can do, immediately after listening, to boost your happiness and well-being.
• How the Law of Reciprocity creates a powerful ripple effect.
• This person made a huge difference in Mel’s life. (and will change yours, too)
• The secret to inspiring and motivating any person. (yourself included) 

For more resources, including links to all studies mentioned, and to go deeper into the themes in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.

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Do you want to learn the 4 essential strategies that will lead you to more success, happiness, and opportunity?

And today you are going to learn the tools that you can use, from one of the world’s best thinkers and most successful people, to make better decisions.

Steven Bartlett is an entrepreneur, speaker, investor, author, and host of Europe’s #1 podcast, The Diary Of A CEO. He has cracked the code on how to leverage your business online, rise above any obstacle, and excel in anything you set your mind to.

There is a reason he sits on the boards of many global brands – because he has one of the greatest entrepreneurial success stories of all time. Steven was a broke university dropout at age 18 when he built an industry-leading social media marketing company. At 28, he co-founded Flight Story, a marketing and communications company and a software platform, which was valued at $600M. He then went on to launch the #1 ranked The Diary Of A CEO podcast.

Today, he is sharing the 4 tactics he uses to make any decision for the best results. The tactics he shares are from his personal life as well as top-tier industry and thought leaders, entrepreneurs, entertainers, and athletes that he interviews on his wildly successful show.  

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

• How The 51% Rule will help you make better decisions.
• The difference between Type 1 and Type 2 decisions. (And why it matters)
• Why Steven says you are operating at 1% of your potential.
• 20% of relationship issues come from this one thing.
• How to determine what drives you. (And why it’s important to know)
• What to do when you feel trapped in your job or relationship.
• One of the most successful CEOs says THIS is how to launch any business.
• The ONE question to always ask before you go to others for answers.
• The #1 goal for entrepreneurs must always be this.

For more resources, including links to Steven’s podcast, book, and social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.

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Today’s episode is a wake up call. 

Before you waste another day of your life, you need to hear the six shocking statistics from a ten-year long study about what you’re doing with your time.

Because the hard reality is that time is passing you by.

And if that bothers you, this episode will get you doing something about it.

You’re probably spending too much time on things that are not important to you, and not enough time on what is.

It’s time to change that.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

• Surprising life changes that happen at ages 18, 21, 29, 40, and 70.
• 6 things you must pay attention to if you want to make the most of your life.
• The most important decision you’ll ever make. (It’s not what you think!)
• The ten-year research study that Mel couldn’t stop thinking about.
• The truth about your relationship with your family.
• The advice you need to help you find the right person for you.
• A short quiz to help you see what matters most in your life.
• The big takeaway that will change how you see your relationships.

To go deeper into the topics shared in today’s episode, including the study Mel shares, the graphs, and the resources mentioned, click here for the episode resource page.

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Ready for your next listen? If you liked this, you’ll love this episode: 2 Ways to Believe in Yourself & Achieve Cool Things

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What is the secret reason you might not be happy?

Did you know that there are common things that steal fulfillment and joy from your life?

Today, Mel is diving into the 3 research-backed habits that can make your life better. Because happiness is not only possible; it is an option for you.

This conversation is not only comforting and impactful; it is also packed with practical and proven tools that can be put to work in your life immediately.

Mel is thrilled to introduce you to the incredible Dr. Judith Joseph, MD.

Dr. Joseph is a renowned double-board-certified psychiatrist who trained at and is affiliated with Columbia University and New York University. Dr. Joseph is also a pioneering researcher and the founder and principal investigator of her research institute, Manhattan Behavioral Medicine, where she has conducted over 60 clinical research trials, and today she is sharing her innovative work with you.

This interview took a surprising turn. In this hour-long conversation, Mel goes deeper than ever, discussing her struggle with the lingering feeling of “blah” she’s had for the past couple of years. 

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

• Why you need to throw your idea of what happiness is out the window.
• The ONE thing you need to know if you want to achieve a happier life.
• What “anhedonia” is and what are the signs of struggling with it are. 
• Learn if you have anhedonia (and Mel’s shocking results to Dr. Joseph’s quiz).
• Dr. Joseph’s ONE recommendation for anyone who wants more daily enjoyment in life.
• How long it will take you to be happier with Dr. Joseph's techniques. 
• 3 simple steps to taking better care of yourself this year.
• The real reason the lack of joy is so common right now.
• Why you don’t remember as much anymore.
• The common mistakes you might be making that block joy.
• The connection between slowing down and increased meaning and happiness. 
• The ONE thing Dr. Joseph will NEVER do to keep joy and happiness in her life.

For more resources, including links to Dr. Joseph’s work, studies, and quizzes to find out if you have anhedonia, click here for the podcast episode page.

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