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So you’ve been dumped, or maybe you dumped someone. You’re scrolling through social media, or maybe a well meaning friend mentions, that your ex has moved on. Cue the SPIRAL. “How Could They?!”Already?!!!” “Did our time together mean NOTHING?”

I’m giving you ten steps to keep yourself in check when your ex moves on before you including how to not let it derail you, keep your perspective, and quit the feeling that they “owe” you something.

First up however, we’re diving into a SCIENCE FACT:
GHB – the pharmacology of the date rape drug explained.

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Host: Alexis Fernandez       
Executive Producer & Editor:  Elise Cooper
Digital Producer:  Zoe Panaretos
DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Hi I’m Lewis Howes and in this episode of The School of Greatness, I'm joined by WWE Superstar Becky Lynch! Today, Becky reveals her journey from career uncertainty to becoming a wrestling legend. She gets real about the struggles and triumphs of her career, balancing motherhood with being a top athlete, and discusses her unique relationship with WWE Superstar Seth Rollins. 

Buy her book for yourself and a friend! Becky Lynch: The Man: Not Your Average Average Girl

In this episode you will learn

• how to build confidence during times of self-doubt and face challenges from a young age.
• about the journey of self-discovery and transitioning from trying to fit industry expectations to embracing your true self.
• when to begin valuing yourself beyond your appearance and the impact it can have on your life.
• about the challenges and strategies of returning to a passion or career after pursuing a different path.
• about identifying and embracing pivotal moments in your career that signal you are truly "making it" in your field.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1594

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More SOG episodes we think you’ll love:

Eckhart Tolle – https://link.chtbl.com/1463-pod

Rhonda Byrne – https://link.chtbl.com/1525-pod

John Maxwell – https://link.chtbl.com/1501-pod

Episode 6 of Being Better and I'm digging into heartbreak. I'm taking on some meaty questions like "What do you do when you mutually break up with someone and they instantly date their ex?", "How do you know when you should break up with someone" and "Should there be chemistry by the third date? I'm seeing someone who's a total catch on paper but there's zero flutter."

Breakups SUCK but hopefully these tips take the sting out a little bit. Happy listening!

LINKS:

• Listen to my episode about breakups and healing from heartbreak where I get into more of these questions https://bit.ly/dyfm-81-heartbreak .
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CREDITS

Host: Alexis Fernandez       
Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
Digital Producer: Zoe Panaretos
DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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In this episode, we explore how saying 'yes' to something means saying 'no' to something else. Ever chosen a Netflix binge over a morning workout?  We've all been there, and it's these decisions that shape our lives.

But here's the kicker: we often get bogged down thinking about the negatives. Starting a business? That can be scary! Adopting a healthier lifestyle? It's not always easy! But what about the amazing outcomes that can come from these choices?

This episode is all about shifting our focus. Let's start thinking about the incredible positives that come from chasing our dreams and making those tough choices. Yes, it's hard work. Yes, it's stepping out of our comfort zone. But the rewards? Totally worth it.

So, if you're ready to look at life's challenges in a new light and embrace the consequences of your actions (both good and bad), this episode is for you. Let's journey together towards building the life we've always wanted!

📺 Watch this Episode on Youtube 

If you like this episode… 

Make sure to share it with someone that needs to hear it and help us get the message out there so that together we can help make people’s lives better and make the world a better place. 

And BY THE WAY:

My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.

Within its pages, you'll discover powerful insights and practical steps that will revolutionize the way you approach your goals, personal motivation, and mental focus.

📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/book

Here are some useful links for you… 

If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:

Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/robdialjr/

TikTok: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@robdial?lang=en

Facebook: 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/themindsetmentee/

Or visit my Youtube page that is designed specifically for anyone desiring motivation, direction, and focus in life: 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHl3aFKS0bY0d8JwqNysaeA

How do you feel empowered when you’re single? Dating doesn’t have to be a total shit show and I want to teach you how. Whether you just want to have fun being single or want to find your person, this episode will teach you how to feel confident in knowing what you want, go out on dates without feeling anxious and even feel empowered to meet your person!

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• Join the DYFM Facebook Group https://bit.ly/dyfm-group .
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CREDITS

Host: Alexis Fernandez       
Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
Digital Producer: Zoe Panaretos
DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/

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In today's episode, we're diving into the world of confidence – and guess what? It's not something you're just born with; it's something you build!

Here's a sneak peek of what we'll explore together:

Action Stations: We're talking about how taking action is the cornerstone of building confidence. Whether it's a success or a learning curve (let's not call it a failure), every step counts!

Visualize Victory: I'll share some personal stories about how visualizing your goals can turn nervous jitters into rock-solid confidence.

Talk the Talk: Ever heard of affirmations? Well, it's all about how you talk to yourself. I'll guide you on how to shift your internal dialogue to a cheerleader instead of a critic.

Failing Forward: Embrace those oops moments! I'll explain why every stumble is actually a step forward in your confidence journey.

Comfort Zone? What's That?: We'll explore why stepping just a bit outside of what feels safe can be incredibly empowering and confidence-boosting.

Join me in this journey as we unlock the secrets to building unshakeable confidence. Remember, you've got what it takes; let's just uncover that together! 

📺 Watch this Episode on Youtube 

If you like this episode… 

Make sure to share it with someone that needs to hear it and help us get the message out there so that together we can help make people’s lives better and make the world a better place. 

And BY THE WAY:

My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.

Within its pages, you'll discover powerful insights and practical steps that will revolutionize the way you approach your goals, personal motivation, and mental focus.

📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/book

Here are some useful links for you… 

If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:

Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/robdialjr/

TikTok: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@robdial?lang=en

Facebook: 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/themindsetmentee/

Or visit my Youtube page that is designed specifically for anyone desiring motivation, direction, and focus in life: 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHl3aFKS0bY0d8JwqNysaeA

We’ve all been to parties where we meet people at the centre of the room, oozing charisma and confidence, and we think they must be born with it. But I’m beginning to discover that social confidence can be practice and learned - it’s not just something you have or you don’t. Today’s guest has a personal story that illustrates this really well. Aliénor Hunter is a professional public speaking coach with Ultraspeaking, a company that helps people speak confidently, spontaneously and conversationally in 30 days. But - she used to be too nervous to even phone the hairdressers or speak to cashiers at the grocery store. In this episode, we’re going to talk through Aliénor's journey, and give you some clear, effective, and actionable steps to improve your confidence and to feel less anxious in social situations, when you’re giving a work presentation or meeting someone for the first time. If we have the tools to manage our social anxiety we’ll also be better at putting ourselves out there and looking for opportunities that might change the course of our lives. We’re going to talk about public speaking, and even play a few of Ultraspeaking’s confidence building games, so you can see that there’s a path towards getting the most out of life through levelling up your mindset.

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Season 7 Episode 10
(00:00) Intro
(02:20) Aliénor's backstory
(04:13) The difference between social anxiety and shyness
(08:47) Is shyness bad?
(14:42) Aliénor's journey to becoming confident 
(24:27) Breaking down limiting beliefs
(32:54) The unrealistic expectations we put on ourselves
(36:41) The impact of ultraspeaking
(42:40) Change your perspective on speaking
(50:25) The importance of conviction
(59:09) How Aliénor became a speaking coach
(1:05:21) Habit One: Musicality
(1:06:56) Habit Two: One thing
(1:12:42) Habit Three: Recovery
(1:17:06) Habit Four: Silence
(1:20:24) Habit Five: Self-talk
(1:24:04) How to start a conversation
(1:29:53) Getting over the fear of judgement
(1:32:01) Boosting your self-esteem
(1:36:33) Finding joy in speaking
(1:40:55) Ultraspeaking games
(1:51:17) Final words of wisdom

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Like Ru Paul said - If you can't love yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else can I get an AMEN up in here?!

In this episode I’m refreshing my tips for boosting your self-worth to live the bad ass life you deserve.

BRAIN FACT:
RBD: REM sleep disordered: characterised by the absence of normal muscle atonia during REM sleep

EXTRA READING

• REM Behaviour Disorder explainer from Stanford Medicine: Health Care - https://shc.is/3u2wmSp .
• Read ‘RACGP - REM sleep behaviour disorder – more than just a parasomnia’ from RACGP https://bit.ly/remsleepdisorder .

LISTENER QUESTION:

My wife has asked for an open marriage, but I don’t feel the same way. WE have a child and I really don’t want to let this go. What do I do?

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CREDITS

Host: Alexis Fernandez          
Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
Digital Producer: Zoe Panaretos and Nick Barrett
DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Today we are taken on a journey of self-discovery and confidence-building. Through a series of expert insights and practical advice, you will learn effective strategies for boosting your self-confidence. Discover how to overcome self-doubt, harness your inner strength, and embrace your unique qualities. Gain the tools to project confidence in various aspects of your life, from personal relationships to professional endeavors. This episode is a powerful reminder that self-confidence is not only attainable but essential for reaching your full potential and achieving your goals. Tune in, and let your self-confidence soar to new heights.

Evy Poumpouras was a member of the most prestigious protection force in the world for over 12 years. She served on the secret service presidential protection division for President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama. She also protected presidents, George W. Bush, Bill Clinton, and George H. W. Bush.

Stephen A. Smith is the star of the #1 morning sports talk show First Take, a premiere analyst on ESPN and ABC’s NBA Countdown, the host of NBA in Stephen A’s World on ESPN2 and ESPN+, and the host and producer of the podcast K[no]w Mercy with Stephen A. Smith. Smith has more than 12 million followers across social media platforms, and his opinions on sports make daily headlines.

Inky Johnson is a husband, father, collegiate athlete, entrepreneur and author. Inky is also one of the most highly sought after speakers in the world. For over a decade, executives, professional sports teams, business owners and people all over have benefited from the raw energy of his thought provoking and inspirational presentations.

Susan David is a psychologist, originally from South Africa, that has been learning about emotions and people’s pursuit of happiness since she lost her father in high school. She has recently written a best selling book, Emotional Agility, about the importance of every emotion we go through. Susan also recently gave a TED Talk that was one of the most successful campaigns to date. It received over a million views within the first week.

In this episode you will learn

• The best way to build command, authority, and credibility.
• How to stop worrying about other people’s opinions and own the room.
• What betting on yourself should look & feel like. 
• How to make your hard work stand out. 
• Ways to navigate criticism while maintaining your confidence.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1521

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

Links to full episodes:

Evy Poumpouras: https://link.chtbl.com/1270-pod

Stephen A. Smith: https://link.chtbl.com/1380-pod

Inky Johnson: https://link.chtbl.com/1279-pod

Susan David: https://link.chtbl.com/1089-pod

Today, we're diving deep into a topic that's been highly requested: Confidence. 💪

In this video, we're breaking down the step-by-step process to mastering confidence. We'll explore practical tips, mindset shifts, and actionable strategies that you can start implementing today. Whether you're looking to boost your self-esteem in your personal life or want to exude more confidence in your professional life, this video is for you. 🚀

Remember, confidence isn't something you're born with - it's something you build. And with these steps, you'll be well on your way to becoming the most confident version of yourself. 💯

If you like this episode… 

Make sure to share it with someone that needs to hear it and help us get the message out there so that together we can help make people’s lives better and make the world a better place. 

And BY THE WAY:

My first book that I’ve ever written is now available for pre-order. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.

Within its pages, you'll discover powerful insights and practical steps that will revolutionize the way you approach your goals, personal motivation, and mental focus.

📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/book

Here are some useful links for you… 

If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:

Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/robdialjr/

TikTok: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@robdial?lang=en

Facebook: 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/themindsetmentee/

Or visit my Youtube page that is designed specifically for anyone desiring motivation, direction, and focus in life: 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHl3aFKS0bY0d8JwqNysaeA

The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com – 

Shaolin Master Shi Heng Yi emphasizes the importance of balancing physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. He shares practical techniques for cultivating mindfulness, managing stress, and staying focused in a world filled with distractions. His teachings encourage listeners to reconnect with their inner selves, fostering a sense of purpose and direction.

Ed Mylett explains that visualizing success and using affirmations can rewire the subconscious mind, making it more receptive to self-assurance and optimism. He provides practical tips for incorporating these techniques into daily routines.

Simon Sinek addresses the role of mindset in cultivating confidence. He encourages listeners to adopt a growth mindset, which entails viewing failures and setbacks as opportunities for learning and improvement. By reframing their perceptions of challenges, individuals can avoid being paralyzed by fear and instead use adversity to fuel their confidence-building journey.

Evy Poumpouras’s insights on body language and nonverbal communication as tools for exuding confidence. She provides practical tips on using posture, gestures, and eye contact to convey self-assuredness in various situations, whether it's during public speaking, job interviews, or everyday interactions.

In this episode you will learn,

• 4 mindset hacks to gain more confidence.
• How to take control of negative emotions.
• The benefits of breathwork in high stress situations to regain confidence and poise.
• How to visualize the future of your dreams and confidently pursue your greatness.
• The common traits of all confident and successful leaders.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1482

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

Shi Heng Yi’s full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/1428-pod

Ed Mylett’s full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/1274-pod

Simon Sinek’s full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/1478-pod

Evy Poumpouras’s full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/1270-pod

Jay Shetty is an award-winning host, storyteller, Internet personality, and viral content creator. Since launching his video channel in 2016, Jay’s viral wisdom videos have garnered over 7 billion views and gained over 35 million followers globally. He is one of the most viewed people on the internet internationally.

This episode was one that resonated the most with you guys in the past and I’m excited for the value it’s going to bring you. I hope you enjoy it!

In this episode you will learn,

• How to unlearn what we think we know about ourselves.
• Ways to fill your life with a deep sense of love
• The difference between the monkey and monk mind.
• How to have tough conversations with other people.

“If you’re constantly being influenced and moved by what other people think about you, it means there’s a deficiency in what you think about you.”

Ed Mylett is one of the premier business leaders, peak performance experts, and motivational speakers in the world. He has a passion for mentoring and coaching others on what it takes to become a champion in all areas of life. He has shared the stage and has very close personal relationships with other business legends such as Tony Robbins, John Maxwell, Phil Knight and many others.

Hear his insights on the key to building self-confidence in this 5 Minute Friday clip from our past interview.

Don't let anyone stop you from becoming your best self.

For this episode of The School of Greatness, I wanted to revisit the wisdom of some amazing women from our Summit of Greatness conference in 2017. These women are so empowering, and their words have stayed with me for these past few years.

Mel Robbins is the most booked female speaker on the planet with a 7 figure speaking business. She is the author of the international best seller The 5 Second Rule, and she now she has a daytime talk show called The Mel Robbins Show. In 2018, she gave a fantastic TEDx talk titled "How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over" that has over 22 million views.

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Her newest book is the New York Times bestseller The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity. Esther unpacks what infidelity really is, why even happy people can be unfaithful, and how couples can recover from such a traumatic experience.

Najwa Zebian is a Lebanese-Canadian activist, author, speaker and educator. She focuses on empowering people that have been abused and displaced. Najwa has become a trailblazing voice for women everywhere and has been highlighted by The New York Times and CBS News, among others. She has also creatively collaborated with Google, RBC, Kohl’s and Cirque du Soleil. She is host of the podcast Stories of the Soul which is all about inspiring people to heal from pain, suffering and abuse.

Maria Sharapova is a Tennis Champion, author, and entrepreneur. She won her first Grand Slam tournament at just 17 years old. She’s held major commercial endorsements with companies including Nike and Tiffany & Co. She founded Sugarpova, a premium candy line, which is packed with antioxidants and non-GMO ingredients that are worth indulging in. She also founded the Maria Sharapova Foundation which helps children around the world pursue their dreams through education and scholarships.

All of these women have unique wisdom that refine greatness in a truly inspiring way.

Join us in Episode 913 to learn how you too can share your story with confidence, overcome negativity and become the best version of yourself you can be.

• Maria, what is one piece of advice you would give to all budding entrepreneurs? (7:15)
• Maria, how do you handle criticism? (11:26)
• Najwa, how do you balance sharing your vulnerable, painful story with being hopeful? (20:50)
• Esther, how do I handle the outside pressure of being with a wonderful man who doesn’t look great on paper? (33:50)
• Mel, does inspiration build action and courage? (46:05)

• How to get a new perspective on something you have done for a long time (3:30)
• How Maria mentally switched from being just an athlete to being an entrepreneur (5:20)
• Inspiration to fire you up if you are at the bottom (14:35)
• How to overcome negative self-talk and negative voices from your family (24:22)
• How to honor your parents while having healthy boundaries with them (8:40)
• Why it’s so important for everyone to have an open conversation about sex (32:10)
• How to date and commit to a partner when there are so many options (37:40)
• How to re-establish a connection with your previous partner after a divorce (43:40)
• Why imposter syndrome can be a good thing (44:30)
• How to find your voice if you’ve experienced an abusive relationship (47:10)

If you enjoyed this episode, check out the video, show notes and more at http://www.lewishowes.com/913 and follow at instagram.com/lewishowes