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Explore "love" with insightful episodes like "189. Abby for the 1st Time On Divorce & Her Unrequited Love", "Friendly Love", "2 Ways to Stop Anxious Thoughts & 3 Steps to Love Yourself and Build More Confidence (Special Episode)", "It’s Not Your Job To Make People Love You" and "Life Begins Once You Value Yourself" from podcasts like ""We Can Do Hard Things", "Everyday Positivity", "On Purpose with Jay Shetty", "The Mindset Mentor" and "Busy, Yet Pretty"" and more!
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Friendly Love
2 Ways to Stop Anxious Thoughts & 3 Steps to Love Yourself and Build More Confidence (Special Episode)
Today, I am going to share with you another snippet from my latest book, 8 Rules of Love. This time, we will talk about solitude. My focus is on the importance of solitude in our daily lives and how it can help us love ourselves better. Rule #1 - Let Yourself Be Alone outlines a three-stage process for transitioning from loneliness to solitude, starting with being present with yourself and moving towards developing confidence in areas of personal growth. It also emphasizes the importance of self-control and patience in the process of learning solitude and understanding our complexity, and embracing the idea that being alone can be transformational.
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.
Key Takeaways:
- 00:00 Intro
- 02:28 Solitude: Learning to Love Yourself
- 02:57 Rule #1: Let Yourself Be Alone - and learn to find solitude in your daily life.
- 09:41 Solo Audit - Finding out how you want to spend your time alone.
- 17:49 The Path From Loneliness to Solitude
- 18:44 Stage #1: Presence - The first step to making use of solitude is being present with yourself.
- 23:32 Stage #2: Discomfort - There are 3 different ways to get used to being alone.
- 27:55 Stage #3: Confidence - The 5 growth areas of life you can recheck and see whether you need to change or not.
- 30:22 For change to happen, start with identifying your biggest growth area.
- 33:09 Here’s how to develop a growth plan using the 3 C’s of transformation.
- 36:18 One Mind - This is how solitude allows us to understand our complexity.
- 42:57 Why self control and patience are the two key skills when learning solitude?
- 45:46 A Whole Self - It’s not always about looking out for our better half and this is why.
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It’s Not Your Job To Make People Love You
It’s Not Your Job To Make People Love You | The Mindset Mentor Podcast Be sure to subscribe to my Youtube channel for more - https://youtube.com/robdialjr?sub_con... Want more inspiration content to keep you going in the right direction? Follow me around the web: Instagram: @robdialjr Facebook: Rob Dial Twitter: @robdial
Life Begins Once You Value Yourself
Have you been lacking self respect for yourself? Finding yourself settling in situations with others? Or maybe settling with low expectations from yourself? In this episode, your host Jadyn Hailey speaks on the topic of Valuing yourself. As Jadyn always says, "High expections prevent low quality experiences." Learn how to properly value yourself, leading to making an impact on how your peers respect you, along with how you respectyourself. Tune into this episode with an iced matcha in almond milk and a whole lot of love for youself.
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JOURNAL: Love
What Makes Love Succeed or Fail? with John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman
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Research has revealed that by staying aware of how we interact with our partners and embracing specific patterns we are less likely to get divorced and more likely to be in a satisfying relationship many years from now. Today on The Doctor’s Farmacy, I’m excited to talk to two leading experts in the field of healthy relationships, Drs. Julie Schwartz Gottman and John Gottman, cofounders of the Gottman Institute.
Dr. John Gottman previously served as executive director of the Relationship Research Institute and is a professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Washington, where he founded the Love Lab. He is world-renowned for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction and has conducted forty years of groundbreaking research with thousands of couples. His work has earned him numerous major awards and he was named one of the top ten most influential therapists of the past quarter century. Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman is president of the Gottman Institute and cofounder of Affective Software, Inc. A highly respected clinical psychologist, she was named Washington State Psychologist of the Year and received the 2021 Psychotherapy Networker Lifetime Achievement Award.
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Here are more details from our interview (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):
- The top four relationship killers (5:18 / 3:20)
- The keys to a successful relationship (6:25 / 4:00)
- Love as a practice (27:09 / 22:50)
- What makes for a great sex life (31:25 / 27:08)
- How to have healthy conflict (35:11 / 30:52)
- Breaking out of reactivity and fight or flight (42:33 / 38:17)
- The biggest predictor of divorce (48:32 / 44:10)
- How contempt differs from criticism (50:57 / 46:42)
- The origins of contempt (53:13 / 48:55)
- Top relationship hacks (1:00:13 / 54:24)
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Kevin Hart ON: How to Conquer Your Fear of Failing & Processing the Obstacles of Forgiveness, Love, and Loss
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.
Today, I am talking to Kevin Hart. Kevin is an actor, comedian, author, investor, and CEO. Over the years he has become Hollywood’s box office powerhouse, opening ten films at number one at the box office with $4.23 billion revenue at the global box office. In 2020 Hart starred in “Die Hart,” the first production of its kind, created through his digital network, Laugh Out Loud, and Executive Produced through his production company, Hartbeat Productions. Kevin’s memoir, I Can’t Make This Up, debuted at number one on The New York Times Best Sellers List and remained on the Top 10 Nonfiction Hardcover Bestsellers List for ten weeks straight. Kevin’s digital network, the Laugh Out Loud Network, serves as a platform for emerging comedians and is home to two premium series which both feature Kevin – “What the Fit?” and “Cold as Balls.”
We get to see Kevin’s serious side as he talks about self love and team effort. He places emphasis on the importance of focusing our energy on finding a solution rather than wasting time on the problem, how team effort is the foundation to all forms of success, why we should always consider both sides of the story, the beauty of cheering for others success and celebrating it with them, and how self love and self appreciation must start with you and not come from someone else.
Truly, there is no shortcut to success. It is earned through hard work, clear purpose, surrounding yourself with the right people, and a multitude of self love.
What We Discuss:
- 00:00:00 Intro
- 00:03:19 Looking in the mirror and being okay with yourself
- 00:07:38 Having parents that opens opportunities for you
- 00:13:06 Don’t focus on the problem, focus on the solution
- 00:20:45 It’s hard to see the good if you’re only seeing the bad
- 00:25:20 The simplest things came from an idea
- 00:35:12 Team effort is the foundation of success
- 00:43:19 Celebrate each other’s success
- 00:58:24 Talk to yourself
- 01:06:47 Looking at things with both lenses
- 01:10:16 You gotta learn it
- 01:15:12 Would you wish pain and suffering for anyone?
- 01:20:50 Critical thinking
- 01:25:27 There is no handbook to fame
- 01:29:56 Kevin on Final Five
Episode Resources
- Monsters and How to Tame Them
- Kevin Hart | Website
- Kevin Hart | Instagram
- Kevin Hart | Twitter
- Kevin Hart | Facebook
- Kevin Hart | TikTok
- LOL! Network
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A Toolkit for Families: Practical Wisdom That Makes You Closer to the People You Love
I’ve got a very special invitation for you today.
Grab a spot on the couch next to me and my family here in Southern Vermont.
Join our family as our three kids discuss all the parenting mistakes Chris and I made – and the things we did that built trust and brought us all closer.
I’m really excited and proud to share this with you, even though there are moments where my kids absolutely school me.
They also share wisdom and insights that are so profound, you’ll hear Chris break down and cry.
This really isn’t a conversation about parenting at all. It’s about how you create a close and meaningful connection with anyone.
So whether you’re wondering how to get closer to your family or your friends, everything we discuss applies to all relationships.
This episode goes deep – we cover drinking, drugs, addiction, and what to do when teenagers stop talking to you or someone you love is dating someone that you don’t like.
And, since so many of you have written in asking about my approach to parenting after hearing our kids on various episodes of this podcast, I’m also sharing our parenting philosophy.
My family is getting real and raw in this discussion, and we’re inviting you to be a part. So join us. I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this episode, and one thing you might want to consider is listening to it with your family. I guarantee you, it will spark very interesting discussions.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
0:32: Why I recorded today’s episode
3:25: Meet the Robbins family
6:02: You keep asking: How are my kids so open with me?
7:30: A frank discussion on drinking
12:33: Why people don’t listen to you
14:10: What Chris and I think the whole point of parenting really is
18:27: Let’s talk about addiction, including groundbreaking new research from Mt. Sinai
25:15: Our #1 piece of advice that will keep people honest with you
30:55: What we mean when we say people in your life are “lie detectors”
33:07: Why showing your feelings to loved ones is so powerful
36:58: How to build connection with anyone
40:52: When you keep repeating patterns you wish you could break
44:44: Why you need to let kids be themselves
50:52: Why you shouldn’t let people bounce from uncomfortable situations
52:39: “I don’t like who my kid is dating” – advice that applies for any relationship
1:01:52: Our #1 piece of advice for you
For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
How I Fixed My Corrupted Love Software with Lauren Zander
This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth, InsideTracker, and Rupa Health.
Just like other parts of life, we can fall into patterns when it comes to how we love. For example, many people choose partners that reinforce the limiting beliefs that they have about themselves and their lives. I’ve discovered this about myself over the years and worked with a coach to rewrite my corrupted love software. Today, I’m excited to share a conversation with that person, Lauren Zander, who has been a strong force in my life for positive change.
Lauren Handel Zander is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an international corporate consulting and life coaching company. Her coaching methodology, The Handel Method®, is taught in over 35 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. Lauren is also the author of Maybe It’s You: Cut the Crap, Face Your Fears, Love Your Life, a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. She has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private and corporate clients.
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Here are more details from our interview (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):
- My personal journey to understand and improve my beliefs and patterns in love (6:53 / 2:00)
- Creating a pathway to deal with our corrupted love software (9:38 / 6:48)
- Learning from our past relationships and experiences (11:56 / 9:07)
- Loving yourself for better love relationships (17:09 / 14:42)
- The three voices inside us that drive our relationship choices (22:25 / 18:10)
- How Lauren’s personality has changed and led her to develop Inner.U Love (29:44 / 25:11)
- Asking yourself what you want from love today (38:05 / 33:45)
- How we manifest our inner dialogue (42:42 / 38:29)
- The value of telling the truth to yourself (46:49 / 42:33)
- Expanding through love (51:57 / 47:37)
Learn more about Lauren’s course, Inner.U Love, here.
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He’s Fighting for His Country — and His Right to Exist
A gay Ukrainian soldier on the battle against Russia and homophobia in Ukraine.
Love In War | Esther Perel
We’re sharing a very special episode from a frequent guest of the show, Esther Perel. In this episode, “Love in War with Esther Perel: Ukraine,” you’ll hear a couples session led by Esther, between a husband and wife whose family has been torn apart by the war in Ukraine. Through the lens of relationship, you experience both the horrors of war and the relatability of intimate relationships.
Esther Perel is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author of many books, including Mating In Captivity. She’s also the host of the podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work?.
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The Third Positiviteer
Mastering The Mystical: A Deep Dive On Spirituality
Weekend Release: William's Wedding
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Psychiatrist Explains the Science of Love
Help I’m Thinking with My Fanny
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