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Welcome back to The School of Greatness! We have a very special episode for you today. For the first time ever, we're in the studio with two incredible relationship experts, Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey, to explore the reasons you're still single and how to navigate the complexities of modern dating. Sadia is a psychologist and relationship coach who works with people around the world, and Matthew is a New York Times bestselling author renowned for his work in helping individuals build healthier relationships. Both are SOG fan favorites, so I'm thrilled to moderate this enlightening deep dive on relationships. Follow the show and stay tuned for part 2 and 3 of this round table discussion with Sadia and Matthew, now let’s dive in!

In this episode you will learn

• why you might be sabotaging your own relationships without even realizing it.
• the surprising truth about emotional availability in men and women today.
• the addictive emotions that keep you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.
• the red and green flags that can make or break your dating life.
• how social media and hookup culture are impacting your chances for lasting love.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1623

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More SOG episodes from Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey:

These Dating MYTHS Are DESTROYING Your Love Life (What A Healthy Partner REALLY Wants!) | Sadia Khan – https://link.chtbl.com/1533-pod

Matthew Hussey's Expert Tips for Attracting and Maintaining True Love – https://link.chtbl.com/1490-pod

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Today, I'm thrilled to bring you a special guest, the one and only Matthew Hussey!

In this conversation, Matthew and I explore the intricacies of long-term relationships. We peel back the layers on what it truly means to build a lasting connection, beyond the initial spark and honeymoon phase. From loyalty and teamwork to vulnerability and growth, we leave no stone unturned.

You'll hear us busting common myths about sustaining passion in relationships and discover the real keys to nurturing a love that stands the test of time. Matthew shares his invaluable insights, drawing from his wealth of experience as a relationship coach and bestselling author.

But it's not all serious talk! We sprinkle in plenty of humor and relatable anecdotes to keep things light and entertaining. After all, personal growth doesn't have to be all serious business—we believe in having fun along the way!

So whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode has something for you. Get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even have a few "aha" moments as we go into the heart of what it means to love and be loved.

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New York Times best-selling author and international life and dating coach megastar Matthew Hussey joins the podcast!

We're diving deep into his advice on dating, owning who you are, being comfortable with what you want, and his brand new book Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person and Live Happily (No Matter What). I DARE you to leave this episode not feeling like a changed bean!

LINKS

• Buy ‘Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)’ by Matthew Hussey at https://www.lovelifebook.com/ .
• Follow @thematthewhussey on Instagram https://rebrand.ly/matthewh-IG .
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Host: Alexis Fernandez       
Guest: Matthew Hussey .
Executive Producer & Editor:  Elise Cooper
Digital Producer:  Zoe Panaretos
DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Today, we're excited to chat with Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and renowned relationship coach. With over half a billion views on his YouTube channel and a top-rated podcast, Matthew's practical advice on love and confidence has impacted millions worldwide. In this conversation we’ll dive into the secrets of all successful relationships. In this episode Matthew shares his invaluable insights on the key elements that constitute successful relationships. He emphasizes the importance of giving up certain types of attention to attract what you truly need, the distinction between impressing and connecting, and the crucial role of authenticity in forming genuine connections.

Buy his new book for yourself and a friend – Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

In this episode you will learn

• How to distinguish between impressing and genuinely connecting with someone.
• The importance of authenticity in forming strong, lasting relationships.
• The crucial role of difficult conversations in shaping a relationship.
• The significance of self-compassion and how it can lead to compassion for others.
• Strategies for becoming the right person to attract the right partner in love.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1590

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

More SOG episodes on love, relationships and dating we think you’ll love:

Sadia Khan – https://link.chtbl.com/1491-pod

Michael Todd – https://link.chtbl.com/1508-pod

Esther Perel – https://link.chtbl.com/1546-pod

Welcome back to the School of Greatness. Today we welcome the inspiring Macken Murphy. Macken isn't just a behavior scientist; he's a master at decoding the little things we do and say that reveal a lot about our relationships and what we're really looking for in love and life. Whether you're single, dating, or just love understanding more about the people around you, Macken's insights are going to open your eyes to the complex world of human attraction. Now let the class begin!

In this episode you will learn

• The underlying reasons behind cheating and the differences in infidelity between genders.
• The concept of 'young male syndrome' and its effects on society.
• The signs that may indicate a partner is likely to cheat.
• The role of jealousy in relationships and whether it signifies love or toxicity.
• How to navigate a relationship with someone who has been a victim of infidelity.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1587

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

More SOG episodes on love, relationships and dating we think you’ll love:

Sadia Khan – https://link.chtbl.com/1491-pod

Michael Todd – https://link.chtbl.com/1508-pod

Esther Perel – https://link.chtbl.com/1546-pod

Today we welcome back a School of Greatness favorite, licensed clinical psychologist, Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Her latest book, "It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People," is a groundbreaking guide for anyone struggling to understand and recover from the effects of narcissistic relationships. It's available now, and I highly recommend you grab a copy to unlock insights into healthier, more fulfilling connections.

For those of you looking to dive deeper and embark on a transformative journey, Dr. Ramani has something special for you. Her healing program, "Taking Yourself Back: Healing from Narcissistic & Antagonistic Relationships," is designed to empower you with the tools and knowledge to reclaim your life. This program is a must for anyone ready to break free from the chains of toxic relationships and find their path to true self-healing.

In today's episode, we're going to explore the intricate dynamics of narcissism, uncover strategies for healing, and learn how to thrive in the face of adversity.

Buy her new book, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People (February 20th, 2024) 

Check out her healing program: Taking Yourself Back: Healing from Narcissistic & Antagonistic Relationships

In this episode you will learn

• To recognize red flags: Through introspection and education, you'll identify behaviors and traits common in narcissists, helping you steer clear of similar individuals in the future.
• To establish healthy boundaries: By understanding the dynamics of abusive relationships and the importance of boundaries, you'll develop the tools to safeguard your emotional and psychological well-being.
• To trust your intuition: Through self-reflection and practice, you'll strengthen your ability to trust your instincts, enabling you to make sound judgments and avoid falling into patterns of toxic relationships.
• To prioritize self-care: By prioritizing self-care and seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals, you'll cultivate resilience and gradually rebuild your sense of self-worth and confidence.
• To reclaim your power: Through therapy, self-reflection, and personal growth, you'll reclaim your sense of agency and autonomy, empowering yourself to create fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect and genuine connection.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1577

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More SOG episodes on RELATIONSHIPS we think you’ll love:

Esther Perel – https://link.chtbl.com/1546-pod

Sadia Khan - -https://link.chtbl.com/1533-pod

Michael Todd – 

https://link.chtbl.com/1508-pod

As you may have heard me share on the show, when it comes to romantic relationships I’ve had to learn some hard lessons and have had to do a lot of healing work on myself. I’m far from perfect, but I have been curious, committed and hungry to understand what makes certain relationships succeed. 

And now I have something I have never experienced before in any relationship. Peace and Harmony. 

So, whether you're in a relationship or on the journey to find that special someone, we've got a powerful episode for you today. We're discussing the "7 Keys To Lasting Love." This episode is for those who are willing to do the work, to take a hard look at your patterns, to define your own worthiness and to adopt a mindset of Greatness when it comes to your romantic relationships. 

In this episode you will learn

• The importance of effective communication in relationships, including mastering the art of listening, and how it serves as the foundation for lasting love.
• The transformative power of vulnerability, how it fosters intimacy and trust, and why it's crucial to show up and be seen in your relationships.
• The significance of showing respect and setting boundaries, how to communicate your needs clearly, and the role of boundaries in fostering healthy relationships.
• The value of showing appreciation and understanding your partner's love language, and how recognizing and fulfilling each other's emotional needs strengthens your bond.
• The importance of growth and adaptability in relationships, embracing change, and supporting each other's journeys towards becoming the best versions of yourselves.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1574

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More SOLO episodes from Lewis we think you’ll love:

The Dangers of the Good Life – https://link.chtbl.com/1466-pod

Crush Self-Doubt – https://link.chtbl.com/1459-pod

Lead with Love & Manifest Your Perfect Relationship – 

https://link.chtbl.com/1450-pod

Lewis Howes welcomes his good friend Jay Shetty back to discuss love, relationships, and the often tricky subject of money. They dive deep into the complexities of financial responsibilities in dating, unraveling the intricate ways we assess value in men and women, while dissecting societal expectations, gender roles, and the power dynamics that influence our views on relationships.

Lewis and Jay shed light on the essence of intentional living and the impact of our energy on attracting meaningful relationships. They offer invaluable insights into cultivating a peaceful and safe environment, building enduring connections, and creating a unified approach to financial conversations with your significant other. 

In this episode you will learn

• How societal norms and personal beliefs influence financial decisions in dating and relationships.
• The importance of open communication about finances to establish fairness and respect in relationships.
• Insights into navigating financial dynamics in a relationship, including the consideration of prenuptial agreements.
• The impact of traditional gender roles on financial expectations and the importance of challenging these norms for healthier relationships.
• Strategies for couples to approach financial discussions in a way that strengthens their relationship.

Buy Jay's book 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go for yourself and a friend!

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1571

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Previous episodes of Lewis & Jay’s Awkward Therapy sessions:

Can You Make Money & Still be Spiritual? – https://link.chtbl.com/1298-pod

5 Relationship Mistakes You Msut Avoid to Find Deep Connection – 

https://link.chtbl.com/1322-pod

Podcaster and content creator Sabrina Zohar has been doing the work! The host of Do The Work joins the pod to talk about setting boundaries, living with anxiety and anxious attachment, and taking ownership of your life.

Oh and also how to tell if someone is TOO attached to their parents to prevent awkward moments like them walking in on you having sex like it’s no big deal….

Sabrina’s podcast Do The Work is available on all podcast platforms.

LINKS:

• Listen to Do The Work with Sabrina Zohar https://spoti.fi/3S2OhAQ .
• Check out @do.the.work.podcast on Instagram https://bit.ly/dothework-ig .
• Follow @sabrina.zohar on Instagram https://bit.ly/sabrinazohar-ig .
• Join the DYFM Facebook Group https://bit.ly/dyfm-group .
• Follow @dyfmpodcast on IG 
• Follow @alexispredez on IG  
• Follow @listnrentertainment on IG 

CREDITS

Host: Alexis Fernandez       
Guest: Sabrina Zohar
Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
Digital Producer: Zoe Panaretos
DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Today we're excited to welcome a special guest who's no stranger to the spotlight of love and relationships — Nick Viall. An LA-based award-winning podcast host, best-selling author, entrepreneur, and a familiar face from ABC’s “The Bachelor,” Nick has carved a niche for himself as a contemporary voice in the world of dating advice. His podcast, The Viall Files, is a treasure trove of insights on relationships and pop culture, amassing over 100 million downloads.

In this episode you will learn

• How to distinguish between seeking validation and experiencing true love.
• Strategies for moving on gracefully from a relationship and overcoming heartbreak.
• Insights into the dynamics of social media's impact on love.
• The importance of self-love in attracting and maintaining healthy relationships.
• Future predictions for the dating world and advice for maintaining authenticity in relationships.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1565

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

More SOG episodes on relationships we think you’ll love:

Esther Perel – https://link.chtbl.com/1546-pod

Sadia Khan - -https://link.chtbl.com/1533-pod

Michael Todd – https://link.chtbl.com/1508-pod

Our guest today is Doctor of Psychology, Author, and Speaker Angela Ahola.

Dr. Ahola specializes in human behavior and the primary forces that drive human psychology. She is a sought-after keynote speaker, interviewee, and author of educational self-improvement books.

She has worked with everyone from corporate leaders to academics and police officers, and is the author of 100 Dates, Dina dolda drivkrafter ("Your Hidden Motives") and Konsten att göra intryck ("The Art of Making an Impression').

Today we speak about first impressions, power and influence, the art of meaningful communication, dating and relationships, the secrets of happiness, and the mysteries of love. 

Listen as we discuss: 

• One wild experiment to help you understand What DATING is 
• Be happy being single 
• How many matches does it take to get a date? 
• Keeping an open mind 
• The mathematics of dating 
• How to improve your dating profile? 
• What to look for in a man’s profile?
• Do dating apps work? 
• When to say “no” to a second date
• Chemistry and attraction 
• The 3 types of dates you will run into
• What the title of Angela’s book should mean for the listeners 

Connect with Angela Ahola on Instagram @angelaahola and learn more about her work at https://angelaahola.com/en/ 

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Joining us is the renowned relationship expert and author, Sadia Khan. With years of experience in the field, Sadia has been a guiding light for individuals seeking love, companionship, and personal growth. Today, we're delving into a topic that many of us can relate to – dating. Whether you're a novice or a seasoned dater, we've got you covered.

After graduating in psychology and completing masters in developmental psychology Sadia began teaching in inner London schools amongst children of deprived backgrounds. She then went on to teach privileged students in Dubai and noticed not only the economic but psychological advantage wealth provides children when their parents can access therapy. Sadia decided to complete her studies in psychotherapy and decided to post a few videos online mainly to make therapy accessible to those who may struggle to afford it and to make therapy more digestible to those who may not understand the concept. The videos blew up and changed her career path to online therapist, podcaster and content creator racking over 100 million views online.

In this episode you will learn

• Common traits of all poor communicators
• The #1 reason women feel unsafe in relationships
• Why people change their personality to fit their partners
• Who files for divorce more, men vs. women
• How to gain confidence and self esteem to attract the right partner

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1533

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

More SOG episodes on Radical Self Love & Acceptance:

Jason Derulo – https://link.chtbl.com/1460-pod

Karamo Brown – https://link.chtbl.com/1457-pod

Pokimane – https://link.chtbl.com/1443-pod

Today's guest is London-based psychologist Dr. Annie Zimmerman,  who goes by Your Pocket Therapist on Instagram where she has over 250,000 followers. As part of our miniseries on presenting a variety of perspectives on love and romance, I reached out to Annie because she avoids the gimmicks of presenting as an expert on dating while focusing strictly on the psychology side, which she does brilliantly. Annie drops gold nuggets of wisdom so effortlessly that you might miss them if you're not paying attention. If you're in a relationship already or trying to be, this episode will equip you with clarity on what to look for and what to stop looking for.

At points, this episode might seem like a broadcasting of my personal therapy session, so don't hold it against me as I may have forgotten a time or two that an audience would be listening.

Listen as we discuss:

• 3:30: Why do good girls date bad boys?
• 6:00: What draws us to needy and draining relationships?
• 10:00: How attachment styles are formed.
• 14:00: Is your childhood always to blame for your dysfunctional relationships?
• 18:30: Is a lack of childhood traumas the key to a perfect partner?
• 20:00: What should we look for in a perfect partner? (Consciously vs. Unconsciously)
• 23:30: My period of time in monk-mode and dating  platonically. 
• 26:00: The illusion of abundance in dating apps and the reality of scarcity mindset.
• 29:30: Is it a waste of time to date without an objective? 
• 31:00: Annie’s upcoming book, Your Pocket Therapist and redefining success in a relationship.
• 34:00: Is it wrong to feel desperate to find someone to have kids in your 30’s?
• 36:00 Is sustainable happiness possible in a relationship? Can love last forever?
• 41:00: The torturous push and pull between stability and adventure.
• 44:00: Alternate models of relationships such as polyamory.
• 48:00: Has couples therapy ever really worked, and how we can improve odds?
• 55:00: Incompatibility is a reality too.
• 57:00: What does it truly mean to love somebody?
• 59:30: Just because you love somebody doesn’t mean you should be with them.
• 1:01:00: How can you become unafraid to fall in love?
• 1:06:45: The economics of dating.
• 1:09:21: Being prepared to walk away is the ultimate superpower.

Connect with Annie Zimmerman on Instagram @your_pocket_therapist  and learn more about her work here.

You can pre-order Annie's upcoming book, Your Pocket Therapist, here: https://geni.us/YourPocketTherapist

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In this special episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis reacts to the internet-breaking news of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's new relationship. Drawing from the expertise of six of his favorite relationship experts, Lewis offers valuable insights and advice, including a discussion on the three red flags to be on the lookout for in relationships. This episode serves as a unique opportunity to explore the dynamics of high-profile relationships while gaining valuable wisdom from experts in the field, all in the context of the buzzworthy Swift and Kelce romance.

Sadia Khan discusses the importance of asking a fundamental question before dating and navigating relationship red flags. Michael Bungay Stanier offers insights on pre-marital considerations and how to address challenges in relationships, while Martha explores why women often choose troubled partners over healthier options. Sheleana Aiyana debates the need for complete personal healing before starting a new relationship. Mark Manson defines toxic relationships and the significance of trust and respect, prompting self-reflection. Dr. Caroline Leaf explores the attraction to broken partners and the desire to fix them in relationships.

In this episode you will learn,

• The biggest red flags to look for when starting a new relationship.
• The single most important question to ask someone before you start dating.
• Three critical questions to ask before getting married.
• The #1 reason so many people seek out toxic relationships.
• If it is possible to find lasting love while you’re still healing your personal emotional wounds.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1507

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

FULL EPISODES:

Sadia Khan – https://link.chtbl.com/1491-pod

Michael Bungay Stanier – https://link.chtbl.com/1477-pod

Martha Higareda – https://link.chtbl.com/1423-pod

Sheleana Aiyana – https://link.chtbl.com/1436-pod

Mark Manson – https://link.chtbl.com/1485-pod

Dr. Caroline Leaf – https://link.chtbl.com/1481-pod

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After graduating in psychology and completing masters in developmental psychology Sadia began teaching in inner London schools amongst children of deprived backgrounds. She then went on to teach privileged students in Dubai and noticed not only the economic but psychological advantage wealth provides children when their parents can access therapy. Sadia decided to complete her studies in psychotherapy and decided to post a few videos online mainly to make therapy accessible to those who may struggle to afford it and to make therapy more digestible to those who may not understand the concept. The videos blew up and changed her career path to online therapist, podcaster and content creator racking over 100 million views online.

In this episode you will learn,

• The #1 reason why men and women struggle to keep relationships and why narcissistic behaviors are so prevalent in dating today.
• Why women cheat more than men and the root cause of infidelity.
• The importance of self control when searching for a long term relationship.
• Practical advice to enhance your dating confidence, providing you with strategies to feel more self-assured on a first date.
• Strategies to handle commitment issues, enabling you to navigate this critical phase of relationships and lay the groundwork for a strong and enduring partnership.

Buy Sadia's book - https://amzn.to/3OVV2me

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1491

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

Want more relationship episodes like this one?

Sheleana Aiyana - https://link.chtbl.com/1436-pod

Lewis Howes solo episode on relationships - 

https://link.chtbl.com/1450-pod

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On today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I talk about the key to lasting relationships with an international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene: Matthew Hussey. Hussey emphasizes the importance of active listening, empathetic understanding, and clear expression of feelings. He highlights that genuine communication forms the foundation of strong partnerships and helps resolve conflicts constructively.

Matthew Hussey is a speaker, New York Times Bestselling author, columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine, and dating expert on ABC’s digital series What To Text Him Back.  His corporate clients include Hugo Boss, The Perfume Shop, Virgin Gyms, Procter & Gamble, Bare Escentuals, U.S. legal giant Weil Gotshal & Manges, and global management consultants Accenture. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online.

In this episode you will learn,

• About “activation energy” and how dating apps destroy it
• Why space is so important when navigating a dispute
• About the “castle” metaphor and why you need to build together
• Why the “trash cans” define your relationship more than the highlights
• The four stages of all relationships
• The first step you can do to get out of the weeds of singlehood

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1490

For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

Want more relationship episodes like this one?

Sheleana Aiyana - https://link.chtbl.com/1436-pod

Lewis Howes solo episode on relationships - https://link.chtbl.com/1450-pod

Navigating the world of modern dating and romance is hard. Back in our parents’ and grandparents’ days, it was common for people to meet through family or mutual friends. Nowadays, things are a little more complicated. We’re much less likely to meet our potential partners organically. It’s pretty rare for people to meet through sports clubs, events, or just by hanging out with people who live in your local area. The rise of dating apps and websites means that our first encounter with our potential partners is likely to be through a screen - which comes with a lot of complexities. On top of that, the rise of social media encourages us compare our relationship with the seemingly perfect couples on Instagram - which often creates unrealistic expectations. So, how do we navigate this new landscape and find those meaningful connections that we crave and that add value to our lives? In this episode of deep dive, I spoke to renowned dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew Hussey has helped millions of people find love and build strong relationships for over a decade. His YouTube channel has nearly 3 million subscribers and his book, ‘Get the Guy’, is a New York Times bestseller. In the episode you'll learn about:

00:00 Navigating the world of dating
03:19 The 4 stages of attraction
17:53 Mistakes we make when dating
28:23 Practical dating advice 
44:26 The secret to long-lasting desire

Enjoy!

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Today’s guest is Vanessa Van Edwards, who is the Lead Investigator at Science of People and is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion-dollar companies. She is renowned for teaching science-backed people skills to audiences around the world where her mission is to help introverts leverage their strengths, show high achievers how to activate their secret skills and teach awkward people to feel more confident. She’s written a new book called Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication.

In this episode you will learn,

• How to make a great impression at a big conference or networking event
• The best questions to ask when you meet someone and why
• How emotions are contagious
• Why “fake it til you make it” isn’t the best strategy
• What personality traits to be mindful of when dating 

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1448

Another great episode with Vanessa Van Edwards – 

https://link.chtbl.com/1231-guest

Now more than ever dating apps seem to be the sole focus of people’s attention as far as finding relationships are concerned. But mostly it’s because it feels like there’s no alternative. So how do you actually break through the two dimensional world of online dating (with it’s ghosting, red flags, icks and all) and start attracting real-life long lasting relationships? In this episode I sit down for a conversation with Matthew Hussey, one of the worlds leading dating experts and New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams. In the episode we start by discussing how Matthew found himself in the world of dating and relationships before uncovering his formulas for getting over the fear of approaching someone in-person, understanding the components of deep and lasting attraction and attracting true love that lasts well beyond the honeymoon phase. Enjoy!

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(00:00) Intro 
(01:39) Becoming a dating coach 
(05:51) Your breakthrough at the Tony Robbins event
(13:13) Getting into public speaking 
(19:59) Stealing like an artist, fears and taking risks 
(32:31) Rewriting myths about dating & the handkerchief metaphor 
(40:49) Modern day handkerchiefs 
(44:33) Two hit theory
(53:06) Stages of deep and lasting attraction 
(01:02:55) The importance of compatibility
(01:08:21) Is there a difference between dating advice for men and women?
(01:21:55) Your advantages can become your weaknesses 
(01:34:10) How much is attraction a choice? 
(01:44:21) Long term relationships & the honeymoon phase

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Logan Ury is a Behavioural Scientist turned dating coach who recently authored the bestselling book, How to Not Die Alone. Logan’s also the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. In our conversation we discuss all things relationships and dating including how to apply behavioural science insights to the world of dating, what makes the perfect date and how to be a better life partner.

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