belonging

The power of the GAA is best seen when the people who are its lifeblood support a cause. The sense of a community united for the greater good is what makes the GAA different and special. On Free State, Joe and Dion talk about how the GAA makes a difference and why it contrasts with the one-way street of fandom in the Premier League. Joe explains the importance of the 65 Roses Day, the Fundraising Day for Cystic Fibrosis Ireland, and the phenomenal work the charity is doing. Joe also explains why his views on Mickey Harte haven’t changed despite Derry’s success and why Jurgen Klopp wouldn’t be a great GAA man.

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The Late Late Show special on the GAA demonstrated what makes the association special. The people and the communities are where the real glory is found in the GAA, not in the fleeting fame of All-Irelands A UK academic currently studying the GAA spoke of how the association ‘blew his mind’. On Free State today, Joe talks to Dion about how it felt to be back in RTÉ for the Late Late, his Eoin McLove moment and the ties that bind GAA people in life, death and everything in between.

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Do you struggle with perfectionism? Do you always feel that you are not achieving enough? Or doing enough? Or being enough?

Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests.

Today’s clip is from episode 354 of the podcast with award-winning journalist and author of the bestselling book ‘The Status Game’, Will Storr.

Will argues that as humans, we’re programmed to compare ourselves to others – and to care about how we stack up.

In this clip, we discuss why perfectionism is becoming a modern epidemic and how we can start to overcome it.

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Do you want your relationships in 2024 to uplift you and the others around you?

Do you want your relationships to bring you energy and not drain you?

Then this episode is for you.

Today, Jay shares insights on building stronger connections. Discover the proactive steps to create bonds that will withstand the test of time, moving beyond surface-level ties. Uncover the five types of relationships you can invest in for genuine and enduring connections.

Jay explores the concept of belonging—the magic that happens when we become part of a community. From the joy of shared experiences to the comfort of knowing you're not alone. Your journey can take an introspective turn when you look deep into the vital relationship with ourselves—the key to true independence and the layers of self-discovery and the profound impact it has on our overall well-being.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to boost your existing relationships
• How to create new and better relationships
• How to be more in-tune with yourself
• How to upgrade your connections and community

Join Jay as he guides us through the transformative power of relationships built on selfless love and devotion.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:56 The 5 Types of Relationships We Need in Our Life
• 03:16 Type #1: Belonging - Being a Part of a Community
• 09:32 Type #2: Legacy - Feeling Connected to Something Bigger
• 14:11 Type #3: Independence - A Relationship with Ourselves
• 18:33 Type #4: Safety Relationships - The People that Bring Stability in Our Lives
• 23:39 Type 35: Service - Relationships Based on Surrender and Service

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Welcome to The Tim Ferriss Show, where it is my job to deconstruct world-class performers to tease out their routines, habits, et cetera that you can apply to your own life. 

This time around, we have a very special edition with two hit interviews from the podcast’s back catalog. It features two incredible guests: Jamie Foxx and Maria Popova. 

My goal is to introduce people to interviews they might have missed over the years and encourage them to enjoy household names but also sample lesser-known people I consider stars. You can think of this format as my personal, curated selection of the best of the last 10 years, or at least some of my favorites. 

Jamie Foxx (@iamjamiefoxx) is an Academy Award-winning actor, a Grammy Award-winning musician, and a standup and improv comedian. He is one of the most consummate performers and entertainers that I have ever met. This conversation was voted Podcast of the Year in 2015.

Maria Popova (@brainpicker) is the creator of The Marginalian (long ago named Brain Pickings), which is included in the Library of Congress’ permanent web archive of culturally valuable materials. The Marginalian is Maria’s one-woman labor of love—an inquiry into how to live and what it means to lead a good life. From Mark Twain to Oscar Wilde and everyone in between, Maria finds the hidden gems. She is prolific and consistent—The Marginalian was created on October 23, 2006, and it has been running strong for 17+ years. 

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My guest on this special rewind episode of The School of Greatness has carved out a very prominent place for herself in the world of emotional well-being.

Who is Dr. Brené Brown? Dr. Brené Brown studies shame.  

Often, when she’s on a plane and isn’t in the mood for talking, this one-liner will easily shut down an unwanted conversation (or even a wanted one). Typically, we don’t like to talk about shame or anything that can make us feel vulnerable. But Dr. Brown isn’t afraid to talk about shame, vulnerability, and loneliness, because sadly, it is at the heart of humanity today. These are feelings that we all feel at some point in our lives.

We don’t like to talk about vulnerability, mostly because it makes us feel “weak” or “powerless.” We feel like if we admit our fragility, we will be broken in two by the opinions of others and even ourselves. The reluctance to discuss shame has attached a stigma to a very common emotion that we all experience. We discuss that, and more on today’s episode.

In this episode you will learn,

• What belonging truly means.
• What makes people complex.
• What every parent needs to know about when their kids grow up.
• Why parents are so defensive about their parenting style.
• How to support men in being willing to discuss vulnerable topics.

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You spend years trying to learn tons of new stuff, but then look back and realize that just a few big ideas truly changed how you think and influenced most of what you believe.

Let me share a couple that had a big impact on me. 

In this episode, renowned researcher, bestselling author, and total badass Ritu Bhasin will help you step into your power.

Her work proves that a better life begins when you stop trying to fit in and start showing up as your authentic self.

Does this sound like you?

• You say yes to fit in.
• You stay silent and let others talk over you during meetings.
• You never ask for that raise you’ve earned.
• You let your partner and friends make all the decisions.
• You don’t have big goals because you’re afraid to fail.

Before you waste another day of your life pretending to be someone you're not, listen to this life-changing episode. 

You deserve better.

This episode will teach you how to make the rules and be who you want to be.

Ritu and I will teach you how to claim your confidence and live a bolder, badass life in 4 simple steps.

Game ON.

This is your time. Take it.

Xo, Mel

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• 05:27: Why Ritu wanted to make an entire video about how to pronounce her name.
• 09:08: What it means to stand in your power.
• 12:53: Are you masking your true identity?
• 18:32: Feeling comfortable with yourself vs. hiding who you really are…
• 22:24: The pressure to perform shows up in the body in these ways…
• 27:02: The #1 thing Ritu did to bring more belonging and authenticity into her life. 
• 29:24: 3 steps to conquer uncomfortable situations.
• 31:42: The mantra that Ritu repeats to herself to stay in control.
• 37:11: The only thing you can control are your actions. 
• 43:48: The most important version of your “self” looks like this..
• 47:32: How to make others feel like they belong, too, and why that matters.
• 49:52: You have 3 versions of your "self" - here’s what they are.
• 52:54: We are all adults stuck in a middle school brain.
• 58:38: The #1 takeaway I want you to get from this conversation.

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It’s fun to obsess over pop stars and racecar drivers — but is fandom making our politics even more toxic?  

Evangelicals make up about a quarter of the population in the United States and are part of the nation’s largest religious group. But lately the movement is in crisis.

The biggest issue is church attendance. Many churches closed at the beginning of the coronavirus pandemic and struggled to reopen while congregations thinned.

But a smaller audience isn’t the only problem: Pastors are quitting, or at least considering doing so.

Guest: Ruth Graham is a national correspondent covering religion, faith and values for The New York Times.

Background reading: 

• Across the country, theologically conservative white evangelical churches that were once comfortably united are at odds over many of the same issues dividing the Republican Party and other institutions.

For more information on today’s episode, visit nytimes.com/thedaily. Transcripts of each episode will be made available by the next workday. 

The desire to belong is a fundamental part of human nature. Geoffrey Cohen, PhD, of Stanford University, talks about how feeling like an outsider can harm us; why threats to belonging drive problems as varied as achievement gaps and political polarization; and how to boost people’s sense of belonging, especially among those most at risk of feeling like outsiders.


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The idea of loving people no matter what— no matter how obnoxious or unacceptable their behavior is can sound simultaneously treacly and downright impossible. 

But today's guest Father Gregory Boyle talks about the practicality of this idea by showing how the concept of loving no matter what can be used as a tool— not to condone bad behavior but to help see people as doing their best, no matter how unskillfully. 

Father Gregory Boyle is a Jesuit priest who founded a remarkable organization called Homeboy Industries, which is the largest gang intervention, rehabilitation, and reentry program in the world. He has a new book out called, The Whole Language: The Power of Extravagant Tenderness. 

In this episode we talk about:

• How Homeboy Industries began 34 years ago
• Boyle’s practices for working with stress 
• What he means when he says you have to put death in its place
• Motivating people through joy rather than admonition
• How to catch yourself when you’re about to demonize or be judgmental
• How to set boundaries
• How to dole out consequences without closing the doors to anybody
• And we talk about Father Boyle’s quite expansive and inclusive notion of God

Content warnings: There are mentions of sensitive topics including, sexual trauma, violence, drug abuse and domestic abuse. 

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Have you ever gotten into a heated argument about politics? Maybe you’ve said something you're not proud of during game night with friends, or booed the opposing team at a sporting event. Psychologist Mina Cikara studies what happens in these moments — when our mindset shifts from “you and me” to “us and them.” This week on the show, Mina shares the profound ways that becoming a part of a group shapes our thoughts, feelings and behaviors.

If you like this show, be sure to check out our other work, including our recent episode exploring whether there's any merit to the idea that "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger."

Also, check out our new podcast, My Unsung Hero! And if you'd like to support our work, you can do so at support.hiddenbrain.org. 

It’s natural to want to stay in our comfort zones, to hang out or work with people who think like we do, to feel like we belong. But if you feel called to be a change maker in this world, you may find that you’ll have your greatest impact by stepping out of your insular world and into one where people don’t believe the same things you do. You may also find that fear of rejection will kick in full force when you think about striking out on your own.

Listen to this podcast episode to learn the truth about seeking out belonging, how belonging can keep us stuck, and how to navigate the tension between belonging and making change.

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