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    Michael Dell ON: Dreaming Bigger Than Your Goals & How to Play Nice But Win

    enNovember 15, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Making travel dreams a reality through planning and preparationEffective planning and preparation are essential for successful travels and prioritizing wellness, as shown by Michael Dell's business success and CVS Health's healthcare services.

      Planning and preparation are key to making unforgettable getaways a reality. Whether it's booking accommodations through booking.com or prioritizing wellness through herbs and healthcare services, having a solid plan in place can turn travel dreams into reality. Michael Dell, the CEO of Dell Technologies, echoes this sentiment as he shares his experiences of taking calculated risks and leading his company to success. His upcoming book, "Play Nice But Win," offers insights into his journey from founder to leader and the importance of adaptability and resilience in business and life. In the realm of wellness, CVS Health is making strides in offering comprehensive healthcare services and resources, making it easier for individuals to prioritize their health and wellbeing. So whether you're planning your next adventure or focusing on your overall health, remember that having a solid plan and the right resources can make all the difference.

    • Lessons from early jobs shape future successEarly jobs teach valuable lessons, shaping future accomplishments. A paintbrush or dishwasher can lead to tech industry involvement and financial investments.

      Our first jobs hold significant lessons that shape our future success. The speaker shared a story about a client who kept a paintbrush on his wall as a reminder of his humble beginnings as a fence painter. The speaker then shared his own experience as a 12-year-old dishwasher who went on to collect stamps, invest in stocks, and get involved in the tech industry. He emphasized how technology has transformed the economy and affected every business, just as it did for him when he was a teenager. Although dropping out of college can lead to success for some, it's not a recommendation for everyone. Instead, the lessons we learn from our early jobs and experiences are crucial in shaping our future achievements.

    • Considering the risks and rewards of dropping out to pursue innovationDon't let fear of failure hold you back, take calculated risks to reach your full potential.

      Dropping out of college to pursue an innovative and uncertain path may have led the speaker to a different life, potentially one that did not align with his parents' expectations. However, at the time, the speaker saw it as a low-risk decision due to the flexibility of taking a semester off and returning with no academic penalty. For those in a similar position today, the speaker advises considering the potential risks and rewards, and not being afraid to take on more risk in order to achieve greater potential. Many people fail to reach their full capabilities due to fear of failure and a desire for a perfect plan. It's important to remember that taking risks and reimagining the world is necessary for progress. The speaker acknowledges that it can be a difficult and emotional process, but ultimately, following one's dreams and passions can lead to fulfillment and success.

    • Calculated risks and learning from failuresSuccessful business leaders take calculated risks and learn from failures to grow and gain new capabilities

      Successful business leaders, like Michael, understand that calculated risks are essential for growth and learning from failures is crucial for success. Michael shared that he didn't view dropping out of college, taking the company private, or making large acquisitions as significant risks because he could see the opportunities. However, he acknowledged that there have been failures along the way, which led to new capabilities and learning experiences. The phrase "play nice but win" resonated with Michael as it reflects the importance of maintaining a positive attitude while being competitive. He didn't mention these words frequently, but they encapsulated his approach to business and life. Michael emphasized that taking risks, experimenting, and learning from failures are necessary components of success. Additionally, when entering new areas, there's no clear-cut playbook, so one must start and learn as they go. Overall, Michael's journey illustrates the importance of calculated risks, learning from failures, and maintaining a positive attitude in the face of challenges.

    • Winning ethically and responsiblyBelieve in long-term market efficiency, play fair, and prioritize affordable and stylish solutions for success and pride in actions.

      Winning ethically and responsibly is a philosophy that has stuck with the speaker since childhood. He believes that markets are long-term efficient and that playing fair and nice will ultimately lead to success and pride in one's actions. The speaker has avoided those who don't share this philosophy and instead advocates for affordable and stylish solutions, like IKEA's outdoor offerings, to make summer more enjoyable for everyone. Additionally, while gut feelings can sometimes lead to mistakes, there are supplements like Ritual's Synbiotic Plus that can support gut health and help make better decisions. Overall, the speaker emphasizes the importance of feeling good about what one does and the long-term consequences of one's actions.

    • Maintaining a healthy gut is crucial for overall well-beingCVS Health supports gut health through Synbiotic Plus and Ritual. Ethical standards and values are crucial for any business, and Shetty emphasizes the importance of choosing a path that aligns with personal values and goals.

      Maintaining a healthy gut is essential for overall well-being, and Synbiotic Plus and Ritual are tools to support this goal. CVS Health is also committed to providing comprehensive health services to its customers. Regarding the entrepreneur vs. employee debate, Shetty emphasizes that ethical standards and values are crucial for any business, and he never wavered from this approach even when faced with temptation. He suggests that those considering starting a business should be prepared for the challenges and not be swayed by short-term gains at the expense of long-term values. In essence, both paths have their merits, but it's essential to choose the one that aligns best with your personal values and goals.

    • Starting a business requires dedication, optimism, and naiveteBelief in potential and staying competitive are key drivers for business success, despite the risks and responsibilities involved.

      Starting a business requires immense dedication, optimism, and a certain level of naivete. The speaker, who started a successful company at a young age, worked relentlessly with long hours and no responsibilities. However, not all businesses succeed, and it's essential to consider the risks and responsibilities involved. The speaker's confidence and ambition came from his optimism and the belief that he could challenge industry giants like IBM. He saw opportunities where others saw a criminal enterprise due to the vast disparity between the price and value of their products. During Dell's fight to go private, the speaker was driven by a deep commitment, not just for the sake of fighting but for the future of the company. This determination came from his belief in the potential of the business and the importance of staying competitive.

    • Focus on building systems and a strong team for work-life balanceInstead of striving for an unrealistic work-life balance, focus on building systems, processes, and a strong team to minimize the need for excessive hours. Prioritize family life for long-term happiness, but be prepared for tough decisions and navigate them with open communication and prioritization.

      Achieving a successful work-life balance, especially when starting a business, is a myth. Instead, focus on building systems, processes, and a strong team to minimize the need for excessive hours. It's essential to assess the point of impact where you can make a meaningful contribution to your company and prioritize family life for long-term happiness. However, tough decisions may arise, and it's important to navigate these situations with open communication and prioritization. Ultimately, the key is to consciously plan your life to include both professional and personal success.

    • Setting boundaries for work-life balanceCreate work dinners at home for quality family time, prioritize personal time, and make the most of every season with affordable home essentials.

      Setting boundaries and creating a balance between work and personal life are crucial for success and maintaining a healthy family dynamic. The speaker shared her experience of setting up work dinners at home, which allowed her to spend quality time with her family while also conducting business. This not only saved time but also created a relaxed and productive environment. Furthermore, she emphasized the importance of having some "me time" and not overworking oneself. The summer season was also discussed as an opportunity to create an affordable and enjoyable escape at home, with the help of affordable outdoor furniture and essentials from IKEA. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of prioritizing personal time and creating a balance between work and family life, while also making the most of every season.

    • Exploring the Role of CVS Health in Personal Wellness and Inclusive WorkplacesCVS Health, through its subsidiaries, offers diverse services and eligibility, emphasizes employee growth, and fosters an inclusive environment. Herbs, like those from Nature's Way, can enhance personal wellness.

      CVS Health, through its various subsidiaries like Oak Street Health, CVS Specialty, Signify Health, and Aetna, offers a range of services and eligibility that can vary. Herbs, with their healing properties, hold a special place in personal wellness journeys, and Nature's Way, a sponsor of this conversation, is dedicated to bringing the power of plants to people through rigorously tested and sourced herbal supplements. As a leader, creating a great company and a great place to work involves having an inspiring mission, enabling employees to succeed and grow, and fostering an inclusive environment where diverse voices and ideas come together to make a difference in the world. Personal mementos, like the motherboard hand-wired by the first engineer at a company, can serve as reminders of the origins and values of an organization.

    • Lessons from Michael Dell's Life and CareerMichael Dell stresses the importance of taking prompt action, self-determination, and a strong work-life balance for success in life and business.

      Key takeaway from Michael Dell's interview is the importance of taking action and responsibility in both personal and professional life. The best advice he's received is to address problems promptly, and the worst advice is to delay tough decisions. Dell emphasizes the significance of morning planning and evening relaxation for productivity and well-being. His current purpose is to enable human potential through technology. If he could create one law, it would be for people to be grateful and take responsibility for their own lives. Overall, Dell's insights highlight the value of quick decision-making, self-determination, and a strong work-life balance.

    • CVS Health's Comprehensive Approach to Health and WellnessCVS Health partners with various organizations to offer a range of services, including in-person care, virtual consultations, in-home evaluations, mental health support, and online therapy, making healthier living more accessible and affordable for everyone.

      CVS Health is dedicated to making healthier living more accessible than ever before. This commitment is demonstrated through their partnerships with Oak Street Health, CVS Pharmacy, CVS Specialty, Signify Health, and Aetna. These collaborations offer a range of services, from in-person care and virtual consultations to in-home evaluations and mental health support. By combining the expertise of doctors, nurses, pharmacists, and mental health professionals, CVS Health aims to meet the diverse needs of individuals in their communities. Additionally, the company recognizes the importance of mental health and has partnered with BetterHelp to provide online therapy services, making mental health support more accessible and affordable for everyone. Overall, CVS Health's comprehensive approach to health and wellness is revolutionizing the way we access and receive care. To learn more, visit cvshealth.com/forward/healthierhappenstogether.

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    01:25:09 TIffany on Final Five

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    How to validate yourself

    How to prioritize personal growth

    How to handle fear of judgment

    How to transform relationships

    Together, let's continue to  question the preconceived notions about success and happiness and to take bold steps towards a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    00:00 Intro

    03:32 How Do You Define Confidence?

    06:54 Believe You’re Capable

    09:54 Admitting That You’re Unhappy

    16:13 The Frame of Reference

    19:36 Everything Is A Risk

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    34:41 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships

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    54:57 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise

    59:21 Growth Mindset With Your Partner

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    Matthew Hussey: 5 Reasons Why There is No Such Thing As The Right Person At The Wrong Time & How to Stop Missing Your Ex

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    What are healthy ways to deal with a breakup?

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    Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness. 

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom

    How to deepen connections through vulnerability

    How to navigate modern dating with confidence

    How to enhance relationships with effective communication

    How to enrich love life through self-awareness

    Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From?

    10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship?

    19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship?

    31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards

    39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness

    51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations

    01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings

    01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You?

    01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak

    01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?    

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