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Explore "judgment" with insightful episodes like "Self Belief Cookies", "The Surprising Science Behind Building Stronger Relationships", "Morning Walk Talk: Weekly Recap 4", "Mind Reading 2.0: The Double Standard" and "Everything is Cringe" from podcasts like ""Everyday Positivity", "The Art of Manliness", "The GaryVee Audio Experience", "Hidden Brain" and "HealthyGamerGG"" and more!
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The Surprising Science Behind Building Stronger Relationships
We've all heard by now just how important strong relationships are to our health and well-being. But a lot of the common advice and conventional wisdom out there about how to build stronger relationships doesn't end up taking us closer to that goal.
My guest today has spent years sorting through what really builds better friendships, reignites love, and helps people get closer to others, and he shares these research-backed insights in his new book: Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships Is (Mostly) Wrong. Eric shares what he's learned today on the show, beginning with why we're good at figuring out someone's personality from the moment we meet them, but bad at reading their thoughts and feelings, and how to get better at the latter by making other people more readable, as well as how to make a better first impression yourself. We then turn to what makes friendship a unique relationship that makes us uniquely happy, and the two "costly signals" that most develop friendship. We also get into why friends we feel ambivalent about are actually worse for us than outright enemies. We spend the last part of our conversation on how the modern age is both the worst and the best time for marriage, and how the key to ensuring that yours is one of the happiest in history is maintaining positive sentiment override.
Resources Related to the Podcast
- Eric's previous appearance on the show: #322 — Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong
- AoM Article & Podcast: Why Your First Impression Matters
- AoM Podcast: #567: Understanding the Wonderful, Frustrating Dynamic of Friendship
- How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
- AoM Podcast #772: How Long Does It Take to Make Friends?
- Arthur Aron's 36 Questions That Lead to Love
- The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work by Eli Finkel
- AoM Articles: Why the Secret of a Happy, Successful Marriage Is Treating It Like a Bank Account and The Best Ways to Fund Your Relationship Bank Account
- AoM Article & Podcast: How and Why to Hold a Weekly Marriage Meeting
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Morning Walk Talk: Weekly Recap 4
Enjoy this week’s recap of my morning walk talks; a collection of raw, random thoughts of the day. This week I talked about protecting your insecurities, not letting people talk you out of your dreams, lack of patience and so much more!
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--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/garyvee/messageMind Reading 2.0: The Double Standard
It’s easy to spot bias in other people, especially those with whom we disagree. But it’s not so easy to recognize our own biases. In the latest in our "Mind Reading 2.0" series, we revisit a favorite conversation with psychologist Emily Pronin. We'll look at one of the most bewildering aspects of how we read minds — in this case, our own.
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Everything is Cringe
NFL Week 17, Fastest 2 Minutes, Bengals Huge Win, Antonio Brown Quits & An Interview With The Guy That Picked AB Up From Met Life
Week 17 Fastest 2 minutes and recapping every game. (00:02:36 - 00:08:46) Vikings Packers (00:08:46 - 00:15:33) Bengals, Chiefs (00:15:33 - 00:27:30) Bucs, Jets + Bonus Interview (00:27:30 - 00:48:51) Eagles, WFT (00:48:51 - 00:55:43) Rams, Ravens (00:55:43 - 01:03:24) Raiders, Colts (01:03:24 - 01:11:38) Titans, Dolphins (01:11:38 - 01:20:54) Bills, Falcons (01:20:54 - 01:26:29) Patriots, Jaguars (01:26:29 - 01:31:31) Bears, Giants (01:31:31 - 01:41:19) Broncos, Chargers (01:41:19 - 01:44:23) 49ers, Texans (01:44:23 - 01:47:39) Saints ,Panthers (01:47:39 - 01:52:33) Seahawks, Lions (01:52:33 - 01:58:24) Cardinals, Cowboys (01:58:24 - 02:06:03) Plus Football Guy of the week and Who's back of the week. (02:06:03 - 02:34:29)
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How Can My Wife and I Learn To Fight Better?
JOURNAL: Your Voice
Who Are You To Judge?
Talking with @Trainwreckstv: Are Streamers Narcissists?
245: Out Of Body Journeys (Members Trailer)
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Compassion In Change
The Key to Kill Judgement
We all judge people in some way. The problem is that we don't realize how much that judgement is actually holding us back from our own desires in our lives. In this episode, I am going to teach you how to kill that judgement so that you can judge less, love more, and create the life you want.
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#51 - Coronavirus, Being on Shark Tank & At-Home Testing Kits with Julia Cheek
Forget What People Think of You
The Only Sustainable Thing is Lack of Judgement for Self and Others | #AskGaryVee Ep. 324 with Lilly Singh
What's up podcast listeners? On this episode the dynamic star and entertainer Lilly Singh stops by the NYC office! Think you're going to love this episode - we talk judgement; of self and others, creating vs being on the sidelines, and lots of tactics and ideas and insights that I hope you're able to learn from. If this episode resonates with you, please tweet @garyvee with your feedback!
TIMESTAMPS:
4:45 - Crush it!
8:30 - Product of a viral video
9:30 - First 1 million video
10:15 - Balance on extremes
14:00 - Disappear December
17:15 - Lilly’s childhood
20:15 - Yes to mango juice
21:15 - Okay is happy not making money :)
26:15 - Nikita and timing
27:40 - Jamie, question 1, overcoming burnout
30:15 - Judgement is not sustainable
33:00 - Practicing “no” and not judging yourself
46:00 - Final rant about judgement and not wasting your time
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/garyvee/messageUFYB 80: Judgment V. Curiosity
On today's episode, I break down why judgment is not serving you, especially as you embark on your thought work journey, and how practicing curiosity instead will open you to a much richer experience. The difference between judging your thoughts and having curiosity is a huge shift: curiosity doesn’t assume to know the answer. Curiosity doesn’t evaluate if something is good or bad. Curiosity doesn’t have an opinion. Curiosity pays attention.
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Ep. 104 - Saving Sex For Marriage Solves Lots of Problems
Abstinence before marriage is not just a religious idea. It is a strategy that could solve or greatly reduce many of our most serious societal problems. Advocating “safe sex” has not solved anything. Maybe it’s time to rethink some things.
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