love and relationships

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them.  

Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the importance of making a positive difference in someone's life to recognizing the fine line between need and neediness, Violetta dishes out her signature blend of wisdom and wit. So get ready to uncover the keys to fostering meaningful connections and navigating the ups and downs of modern romance. 

If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! 

Today’s Sponsor:

• Thrive Market - Join in on the savings with Thrive Market today and get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift. Go to  https://thrivemarket.com//adulting 
• Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkout

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:34 How to motivate the opposite s*x
• 09:54 When a man is in love, he’s motivated more
• 11:27 When a man doesn’t feel he’s making a positive difference in someone’s life
• 15:22 Many women today want time off, a time for themselves
• 21:51 A woman needs to recognize her boundaries
• 22:55 Step 1 - Motivation
• 23:56 Step 2 - Taking Responsibility
• 24:45 Step 3 - Practice
• 26:03 As man experiences limits, he is motivated to do more
• 28:38 The difference between needing and neediness
• 31:16 A man appears most caring when he is afraid

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.

This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe.

This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions. 

If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!

Today’s Sponsors:

• Skims - Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. Visit www.skims.com/ 
• Express VPN - Stop missing out on great TV and get thousands of new shows with Express VPN - we got them to give you guys three extra months free when you use our special link www.expressvpn.com/ADULTING.

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?
• 07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage
• 09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple
• 11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust
• 14:55 When someone rejects you, leave
• 18:30 Jimmy’s red flags
• 24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions
• 26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner
• 28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring your inner child, embracing kindness, and aligning your heart and mind can lead to deeper connections and self-fulfillment. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey to finding love within yourself and beyond! 

If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!

Today’s Sponsors:

• Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to https://trulyhardseltzer.com/locations 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:54 16 reasons why you still don’t have the love that you want
• 14:25 The most meaningful relationships are the ones in which we are reflective back to ourselves
• 16:47 Every relationship you have is with yourself
• 19:38 Be your own person and do what you can on your own time  

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed relationships and heartbreaks, but today she is Violet thankful. Thankful that it’s all in the past and she has now welcomed September feeling better, stronger, and fiercer. Today, she shares four tips that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page - and today you’re gonna find out how!

WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:47 “I woke up this morning feeling blessed and thankful.”
• 06:40 There’s no timeline to how long you should take to heal
• 10:28 Ask yourself, “Is it working for me?”
• 14:18 It’s all in your head
• 17:07 Sit with rejection, get comfortable with it
• 19:31 Turn your resentment into your superpower

Today’s Sponsors:

• Express VPN - Stop missing out on great TV and get thousands of new shows with Express VPN - we got them to give you guys three extra months free when you use our special link www.expressvpn.com/ADULTING.
• Thrive Market - Join in on the savings with Thrive Market today and get 30% off your first order, plus FREE $60 gift! Go to www.thrivemarket.com/ADULTING. 
• IQBAR - Now, our special podcast listeners get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text ADULTING to 64000.

Get more content on:

• @almostadulting on Instagram
• @violetbenson on Instagram
• @daddyissues_ on Instagram
• YouTube

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It is the fourth and final installation of Benson Bootcamp, and we’re ending on a note to set you up perfectly for the month of love coming up!

This week on Almost Adulting, you and Violet are diving into your divine femininity. What does this mean you ask? The divine feminine is the feminine aspect of the divine power that connects and binds the earth together. It is something we all have within us, and something that if channeled correctly, can open us up to so many things we are unknowingly evading ourselves from. While both masculine and feminine energy are present and necessary in all people, tapping into one's feminine energy can help further receptivity, openness, and vulnerability. In this episode Violet will discuss the pros of unleashing the various types of femininity and how leaning into their presence can assist you throughout your life. By the way, this is not to be confused with old school gender roles, or doing things just to attract a partner, but rather tap into an intimate side that is already within you. Enjoy the journey, Besties.

Today’s Sponsors:

• Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to www.trulyhardseltzer.com/locations   
• IQBAR - Now, our special podcast listeners get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text ADULTING to 64000. 
• Skims - Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. Visit www.skims.com/
• Zocdoc: https://www.zocdoc.com/ADULTING

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 04:14 We all have masculine and feminine energy
• 07:48 What you want is not what you attract
• 13:55 Be in your feminine divine energy
• 18:44 Your dark, seductive feminine energy
• 22:05 Your light, innocent feminine energy
• 25:43 Trusting the process of dating
• 26:08 Set standards and stick by them
• 29:43 They always see your worth

Ad Timestamps:

• 12:41 - IQBAR/Truly
• 25:12 - Skims

Get more content on:

• @almostadulting on Instagram
• @violetbenson on Instagram
• @daddyissues_ on Instagram
• YouTube

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special?

In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties! 

If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!

Today’s Sponsors:

• CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.
• Nutrafol - Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTING
• EveryPlate - EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTING 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:51 What’s your hidden talent that no one knows about?
• 02:53 Did you go to college?
• 05:12 What piece of advice have you recently heard?
• 06:19 Why do you want to manifest a healthy relationship?
• 12:26 Is Matt Rife the one that got away?
• 13:38 What would be your star rating for Matt Rife?
• 17:16 I never see the red flags
• 19:15 What did you learn so far that you want in a partner?
• 22:07 What’s the most pivotal moment in your life that shaped you today?
• 23:58 What made 2022 a terribly low year?
• 26:30 A horrible breakup packed with deceit and lying
• 29:43 I was so miserable, I needed help
• 30:48 What is borderline personality disorder?
• 33:53 Did you feel a sense of relief when you were on medication?
• 35:42 How do you slowly get out of a dark place?
• 42:56 What do people assume when you have borderline personality disorder?
• 45:00 What advice do you have for those who aren’t taking medication?
• 49:30 Why do I struggle with therapy?
• 53:02 Growing up in family with two drug addict parents
• 56:34 I stayed with my grandparents and never got picked up
• 59:40 My mom helped me get through the toughest time
• 01:02:11 How do you deal with guilt?
• 01:04:12 Our parents are just like us when they were our age
• 01:06:53 Upcoming tour with Tana and Brooke  

Connect with Brooke on:

• https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeschofield1 
• https://twitter.com/broookeamber 
• https://www.youtube.com/@BrookeSchofield1 
• Cancelled with Tana Mongeau podcast

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

YOU CALL IT OCTOBER, I CALL IT CULT MONTH ON ALMOST ADULTING PODCAST!

This month focuses entirely on CULTS - where survivors of various cults will be sharing their stories and bringing awareness to the reality and prominence of these organizations. 

This week on Almost Adulting Violet speaks with Celeste, a former member of the Children of God (now called The Family International). Children of God was founded in Huntington Beach, California in 1968 by David Berg, and was eventually dubbed by BBC as ‘hell on earth’. Celeste brings the listener on an emotional journey, giving vivid details of what life was like as a person born into Children of God, and her upbringing within the confines of the cult without sparing any details. Celeste then explains how she escaped, post-cult living, and her one wish for the people responsible for their heinous crimes. 

TW: sexual abuse

COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPROV ON OCT. 24! BUY TICKETS HERE: https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/ 

Donations to the victim can be made here:

Cashapp: £Mooncel

Paypal: Celestemilon1990@gmail.com

Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 00:37 What is the Children of God?
• 02:37 The biggest misconceptions about the group
• 03:44 Joining the cult
• 08:13 How do children spend their day?
• 12:40 The system
• 13:33 Very limited access to healthcare
• 15:00 What’s flirty fishing?
• 19:48 No limit around age or status
• 22:24 Earliest memory of sexual abuse
• 25:13 Sexual sharing
• 28:35 Is it easy to leave the cult?
• 33:58 Adjusting to the normal world
• 35:59 Growing up after leaving the cult
• 42:17 How do you view religion now?
• 46:17 Forgiving your parents
• 47:52 Reviving the cult
• 50:39 Reconnecting with other cult children

Get more content on:

• @almostadulting on Instagram
• @violetbenson on Instagram
• @daddyissues_ on Instagram
• YouTube

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever!

Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!

Today’s Sponsor:

• Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/adulting 
• Podcast Merch - shopdaddyissues.com get 20% off at checkout!!!

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:53 Be the energy you want to attract
• 07:51 Signs from the universe
• 1205 Angel numbers and what they mean
• 19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream life

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.

But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

Today’s Sponsors:

• Lume - Control body odor anywhere with @lumedoedorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at https://lumedeodorant.com/ 
• Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit www.revolve.com/adulting to shop my favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.
• Ghia - Visit drinkghia.com and use the code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?
• 04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick
• 07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams
• 08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony
• 16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?
• 17:13 Fun fact about deers
• 18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window
• 19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?
• 22:40 I think I killed a lizard
• 26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person
• 31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat
• 34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake
• 34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4 

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING. 

In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.

It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to simple curiosity, that can lead people to make such complex and painful choices. If you've ever been curious about the intricacies of human relationships, the reasons people cheat, and how to spot the signs, this episode is your ultimate guide. 

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

Today’s Sponsor:

• Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order. 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:05 Signs he is cheating on you
• 11:36 Why do people cheat?
• 16:25 What happens when you cheat on someone?
• 22:54 Don’t blame the other woman
• 24:16 Why does the people who hurt us mean the most to us?

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat.  

But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption. 

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

Today’s Sponsor:

• Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTING
• Shopify - Shopify is your no-excuse business partner. Sell without code or design. Just bring your best ideas and Shopify will help you open up a shop. Visit https://www.shopify.com/ 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed
• 13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby
• 16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyer

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.

But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it!  

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!.

Today’s Sponsor:

Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:34 It’s just that type of week
• 02:55 Let me tell you about my week
• 05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months 
• 07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?
• 12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?
• 16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?
• 19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked
• 27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myself

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.   

Today’s Sponsor:

Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adulting

EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTING

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
• 02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
• 04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
• 06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
• 08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
• 10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
• 12:13 Best advice from your dad
• 15:25 Holding onto resentment
• 17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
• 20:26 When you feel invisible
• 24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
• 30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
• 32:37 Having a supportive partner
• 35:58 We all function in our own pace in life 
• 39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
• 41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
• 47:27 How do you connect better to others?
• 50:28 What's your definition of love? 
• 54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
• 56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
• 58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
• 01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
• 01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
• 01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out 

Connect with Radhi on:

• https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia 
• https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ 
• https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ .
• https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia 
• JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly (A Cookbook)

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!  

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

Today’s Sponsors:

Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at LumePodcast.com! 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:10 Uche is an energy vampire
• 03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now
• 04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated
• 06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship
• 07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage
• 08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding
• 14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional
• 16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”
• 18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia
• 22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together
• 24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor
• 26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie
• 30:55 No one respects people who bring people down

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee. 

Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you  need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.  

Today’s Sponsor:

• Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products free or up to a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to https://curology.com/adulting 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day
• 06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself
• 10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away
• 18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself
• 26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better life

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do. 

Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and self-perception.

Amidst it all, Lydia's unnervingly straight-faced comfort moment and her declaration that, "You are so much like me," add a sprinkle of intrigue to this entertaining exploration of youthful relationships. Buckle up for a podcast that's as quirky as it is relatable, as we navigate the fascinating world of 20-something love, one eccentric character at a time.

Today’s Sponsor:

• Rocket Money - Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and manage our money the easy way by going to https://www.rocketmoney.com/adulting 
• DoorDash - Get 50% off your first DoorDash order up to a $20 value when you use code ADULTING23, Visit https://www.doordash.com/ 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:07 How are these people in their 20s?
• 02:19 Jared - projecting his insecurities about his size
• 04:14 Chris - gives off golden retriever vibes but he thinks people he’s a playboy
• 06:11 Johnie - she feels she needs to chase people for love
• 11:58 JP and Taylor - the love of your life say, “I used to care about looks, but not anymore.”
• 13:38 Lydia is a walking red flag
• 18:43 Uche’s biggest deal breaker is dishonesty
• 19:47 Aaliyah lacks self awareness to take accountability for her cheating
• 22:45 Did Uche want Aaliyah to feel bad so he could drop the ball about Lydia?
• 23:54 When Lydia comforted Aaliyah with a straight face
• 26:14 Lydia: “You are so much like me.” 

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.

Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!

WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

Today’s Sponsor:

• Amika - Get 20% off of your order when you use www.loveamika.com/adulting. This discount is valid until November 1, 2023.
• Curology - For discounts visit, www.curology.com/adulting 
• Skims - Free shipping on orders over $75, visit www.skims.com

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:07 There’s a lot people don’t know about me
• 02:16 What’s your go-to during a bad day?
• 03:14 Describe me in one word
• 05:10 What’s something you wish people would ask you more often?
• 07:36 What’s the hardest thing about starting a business?
• 11:21 Sandwich flavors
• 14:16 All about Vanderpump Rules
• 18:42 Watching the show and absolutely have no idea what’s happening
• 19:53 Taken highly out of context
• 21:15 Lesson learned from reality TV
• 24:30 Did compatibility issues cause the divorce?
• 27:47 It’s done and final
• 28:27 When did you realize that the relationship was ending?
• 31:06 Start loving yourself
• 33:32 I just had to go through the pain
• 36:05 How did you get through the breakup?
• 39:10 Put yourself first
• 40:03 Possible to be friends with your ex?
• 41:21 Outpour of love and support from fans
• 42:57 To feel seen, heard, and supported
• 49:06 Rapid questions with Katie 

Connect with Katie on:

• https://www.instagram.com/musickillskate/ 
• https://www.tiktok.com/@katiexmaloney 

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harm

Ever wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.

Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.

From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.     

WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time
• 03:51 Do we look alike?
• 06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin 
• 09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be
• 11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came
• 13:23 Manifesting what you want in life
• 17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now
• 20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you
• 21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?
• 23:43 A thousand random thoughts
• 28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…
• 33:26 Constant criticism about your looks
• 38:24 Competition is an illusion
• 40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?
• 43:23 Public breakup is never easy
• 48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health
• 51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace
• 54:37 The human resilience in any situation
• 56:33 The effect of divorce on children
• 58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?
• 01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long
• 01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer  

Connect with Laura on:

• https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSfJoOxzmSr5ibdGcLN3Ysg 
• https://www.instagram.com/lauraclery 
• https://www.facebook.com/laura.clery/ 
• https://www.tiktok.com/@lauraclery 

Get more content on:

• https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
• https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues

Episode Sponsors:

Shop all my favorites at loveamika.com/adulting and get 20% off your order.

Produced by Dear Media

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.