Female Empowerment

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional. 

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Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.

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Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think.  Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romance. It's time to empower yourself and begin your journey to emotional freedom.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:07 How to let go of the things that’s killing you inside?
• 10:22 You can't convince someone to love you if they don’t
• 19:21 How do you fall out of love with the idea of someone?
• 24:13 Why do we keep choosing people who can’t love us back? 

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Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.

Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?
• 02:30 How did motherhood change you? 
• 04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?
• 07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?
• 07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?
• 08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.” 
• 12:18 Hopes for Season 11
• 13:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years
• 17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?
• 19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?
• 20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child
• 22:24 Friendship pact with Katie  
• 24:37 What can people look forward to this season?
• 26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?
• 33:31 Postpartum OCD
• 39:39 EMDR Therapy 
• 43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor
• 45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts
• 47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy
• 50:54 Thinking of death everyday

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Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.

Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy topics, like the Stanley cup's wild ride through a car fire and the sinful indulgence of beignets. Oh, and don't worry, Bestie, we’ll let you in on some secrets too—like debunking those silly misconceptions about their social media persona and sharing the biggest lessons learned last year. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:04 What are you currently working on?
• 05:48 The importance of staying hydrated all day
• 06:40 The Stanley cup that withstood a car fire
• 09:18 Unhealthy food choices
• 11:48 Have you had a beignet?
• 15:06 What’s something most people don’t know about you?
• 20:05 What’s the most common misconception about you?
• 25:26 How are you when someone gets on your bad side?
• 28:57 What are you currently working to improve?
• 35:24 What’s the hardest lesson you learned last year?
• 37:37 Does your mom have a very thick accent?
• 40:27 What past experience that still resonates with you today?
• 48:15 What’s the worst thing that can happen?
• 54:41 What’s something you don’t want to repeat this year?   
• 01:00:53 My social media is like my house…

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Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?
• 07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage
• 09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple
• 11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust
• 14:55 When someone rejects you, leave
• 18:30 Jimmy’s red flags
• 24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions
• 26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner
• 28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?

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Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.

What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving into topics like building self-trust, healing codependency, and navigating the emotional complexities of heartbreak. From learning to communicate our deepest emotions to embracing closure and letting go, each chapter of this episode offers profound insights and empowering strategies for navigating the highs and lows of love. If you’re looking for answers, this one's for you!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:43 Liberated Love  
• 06:36 You’ve forgotten yourself in the relationship
• 09:46 They took your worth with them when they left
• 13:36 How do you build a high level of self trust?
• 17:42 How do you heal codependency?
• 19:46 The great disconnect
• 28:04 Learning self-regulation through co-regulation
• 35:14 Creating a space for you and your partner’s pain
• 38:47 The analogy of the burning house
• 42:57 Closing ceremony for an ended relationship
• 51:19 Communicate how to feel 
• 56:16 Emotional triggers actually never go away
• 01:02:21 Does your partner get you?
• 01:04:27 The right person can’t come if you won’t let go of the wrong one
• 01:06:39 What does it mean when love is not enough?
• 01:10:52 Using the ides of love to bypass the pain
• 01:16:03 How do you get your ex back?

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Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring your inner child, embracing kindness, and aligning your heart and mind can lead to deeper connections and self-fulfillment. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey to finding love within yourself and beyond! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:54 16 reasons why you still don’t have the love that you want
• 14:25 The most meaningful relationships are the ones in which we are reflective back to ourselves
• 16:47 Every relationship you have is with yourself
• 19:38 Be your own person and do what you can on your own time  

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And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves. 

And remember, never let a person show you twice that they don’t want you. If they want you in their life, they’ll treat you with kindness and love. If they want you to be part of their journey, they will want to spend their time with you and will always appreciate spending time with you. When they love you for who you are, you will never have to change. You will be loved just as you are, flaws and imperfections included.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:37 Dating the male version of me
• 06:55 Set boundaries for yourself
• 10:19 Be self-aware
• 17:04 Know who you are
• 23:49 Change your perspective
• 35:00 My love letter to you

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They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed relationships and heartbreaks, but today she is Violet thankful. Thankful that it’s all in the past and she has now welcomed September feeling better, stronger, and fiercer. Today, she shares four tips that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page - and today you’re gonna find out how!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:47 “I woke up this morning feeling blessed and thankful.”
• 06:40 There’s no timeline to how long you should take to heal
• 10:28 Ask yourself, “Is it working for me?”
• 14:18 It’s all in your head
• 17:07 Sit with rejection, get comfortable with it
• 19:31 Turn your resentment into your superpower

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Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world. 

This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being meant for extraordinary things to the revelation that faults can be forgivable and attributes exceptional, Violetta breaks down the barriers that hold us back. Learn why the right person doesn't always come at the right time and why postponing your happiness is a recipe for dissatisfaction. It's time to let go, embrace the now, and set goals that truly align with your happiness! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:40 Fifteen expectation to let go of to live a good life
• 02:14 #1: You are mean to be extraordinary
• 03:11 #2: Your faults are more forgivable and your attributes are more exceptional 
• 03:54 #3: You can outsmart pain
• 04:15 #4: You must let go of the expectation that love is something other people give you
• 04:57 #5: Feeling something deeply means that it’s meant to be
• 06:01 #6: If you work on yourself enough then you will not struggle anymore
• 06:13 #7: The idea that you can control what people think of you
• 07:56 #8: Hard work guarantees success
• 08:23 #9: The idea that your thoughts will change themselves when your circumstances change
• 09:03 #10: The belief that other people are responsible for your feelings 
• 10:00 #11: Emotional intelligence is infallible composure
• 10:44 #12: The idea that the right person will come at the right time
• 11:21 #13: The idea that you can postpone your happiness or save it up
• 11:59 #14: Anxiety and negative thinking are just pesky irritants that you have to learn to avoid
• 12:33 #15: Focusing slowly on your own needs will make you the happiest
• 13:20 Good goals to set to enjoy what you have than chase what you don’t have

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Hey Besties! Welcome to the second week of Benson Bootcamp, a boot camp specifically designed to help you become the best version of yourself, no matter how bad it hurts. It’s called BOOTCAMP for a reason, duh!

This week on Almost Adulting we’re having the difficult discussion about boundary setting. Though it may be hard, these realizations will not only be long-lasting, but also help you love yourself a little more. Violet tells an in depth story about her friend who possesses the fatal victim mentality flaw. Ya know, that kind of friend who never fails to make EVERYTHING about themselves, and when you finally cut them off your life becomes inexplicably better? Yeah, that type. But that’s what setting boundaries can do. It aids you in protecting your mental health, having inner peace, and taking control of your own emotions and thoughts even when you don’t have control over other people’s words and actions. Besties, if there’s one thing you take from this please let it be that you are NEVER selfish for setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself. You are your biggest advocate and supporter, now act like it! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 00:53 Let’s call my friend Nicole
• 15:51 The main issue is my lack of boundaries
• 19:41 Everyone gets tired of pretending
• 21:00 When you start setting boundaries for yourself
• 25:09 “We never really know why people do what they do.”
• 27:13 We can choose to not be a victim

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Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?

In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Violetta wraps it up with her personal mantra for manifesting the life you truly deserve. Let's make 2024 the year we transform for real!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:31 People want to change their lives but not themselves
• 08:15 8 subconscious behaviors that keep you from the life that you want
• 16:39 What do you need to know about yourself first?
• 23:53 The manifesting mantra for the life that you deserve

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Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever!

Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!

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• 00:00 Intro
• 04:53 Be the energy you want to attract
• 07:51 Signs from the universe
• 1205 Angel numbers and what they mean
• 19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream life

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Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional asshole, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation.

This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you think), and a crash course on surviving the turbulent waves of cancel culture. It's Almost Adulting meets The Bitch Bible – the perfect combo for a podcast episode that's bold, badass, and totally binge-worthy! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:41 Over indulgence of self esteem
• 03:01 When hate comments don’t affect you anymore
• 06:34 “I’m not an internet person.”
• 07:33 Why are pregnant women terrorists?
• 12:03 The Hitler joke 
• 16:57 How did you become a podcaster?
• 21:51 The lucky girl syndrome
• 26:20 Low-key manifesting girly
• 26:54 The OG podcaster
• 29:09 Cancel culture
• 33:20 To be clear is to be kind
• 35:59 What is your journey?
• 38:42 The vocal fry
• 40:09 Are you a cool girl?
• 43:54 Dinner with model friends
• 47:22 My slutty pregnancy era
• 48:50 Makeup preference and fake freckles
• 52:58 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
• 55:21 Best advice received in your 30s
• 57:57 Compliments for each others
• 58:55 Most embarrassing life experience
• 01:02:17 Embarrassing experiences with boys
• 01:06:00 How did you meet your husband?
• 01:11:12 We need a Mommy Issues IG
• 01:12:05 One advice to inspire all Besties

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Hey Besties! How delulu can one get in the name of true love? How far will you go to be with the man of your dreams? That’s what one brave girl did to get the attention of her man (well, maybe not yet, but nothing’s impossible, right?)

Today, Violetta sits down for another Benson Knows Best. And what better way to start this episode than to interpret a dream about dirty toilets? Yep, there are people out there who dream about toilets, dirty bathrooms, and breaking down when they can’t find a clean one. And if that is not shocking enough, Violetta ends the episode reading a message from a fan who is in search of her one true love - Harry Styles. A woman can do anything to get her man, and we’re cheering for this girl! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:08 Do you look for things to validate your negative mindset?
• 04:27 “I keep dreaming about finding a clean bathroom but always end up in dirty toilets.”
• 16:09 He acted like I’m the obsessive ex to his new girl 
• 33:22 I had a crush on a guy from the street and it turns out he’s Harry Styles

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Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.

First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship ripples. Violet's got the perfect blend of empathy, advice, and her signature humor to guide you through these tricky tales.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:56 How do I break up with him and separate our work and personal life?
• 04:12 “I was cheated on because I was too nice.”
• 17:25 My boyfriend like and watch too much porn and I feel disrespected

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Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.

Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfolded between Kelsey and her now-hubby, Cody Ko? She spills all the deets on the challenges of dating to the wild ride of becoming a full-blown influencer, the inside scoop on handling haters, the delicate art of oversharing (or not) on the gram, and trust me, you won't want to miss the side splitting story of her epic proposal. This episode is a vibe – a mix of love, laughter, and the unfiltered reality of life in the influencer lane. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:38 Welcome Kelsey!
• 01:17 What’s something people don’t know you can do?
• 03:11 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
• 04:12 Moms always know when something is off about something
• 05:03 How did you meet your husband?
• 09:29 Taking notes of what people love
• 09:01 What people don’t know about Cody
• 10:37 What’s your favorite thing about your husband?
• 12:01 What’s his favorite thing about you?
• 14:44 What’s your sleeping habit?
• 15:21 What’s your most annoying trait?
• 17:03 Setting boundaries when sharing things online
• 21:04 How do you deal with online hate together?
• 23:38 Is it better not to respond to hate comments?
• 25:04 Sharing Cody with the world
• 30:09 If you can’t survive dating, you can’t survive marriage life
• 34:20 His proposal wasn’t a complete shock
• 38:29 Were you a bridezilla during the engagement?
• 42:51 What do you think about someone bringing a plus one at your wedding?
• 46:47 Trying to get pregnant and then getting pregnant
• 53:13 Don’t tell people about your baby’s future name
• 57:09 Where to find Kelsey 

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• https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZym84-cGUKAf1T2isIIXvw 
• https://www.tiktok.com/@kelsey_kreppel 
• Circle Time

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Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.

Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely!  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign 
• 04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday
• 07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library
• 13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends
• 20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed
• 21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands
• 23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all
• 26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday  
• 30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I want

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