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What Motivates Men to Commit

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them.

Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the importance of making a positive difference in someone's life to recognizing the fine line between need and neediness, Violetta dishes out her signature blend of wisdom and wit. So get ready to uncover the keys to fostering meaningful connections and navigating the ups and downs of modern romance.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:34 How to motivate the opposite s*x
09:54 When a man is in love, he’s motivated more
11:27 When a man doesn’t feel he’s making a positive difference in someone’s life
15:22 Many women today want time off, a time for themselves
21:51 A woman needs to recognize her boundaries
22:55 Step 1 - Motivation
23:56 Step 2 - Taking Responsibility
24:45 Step 3 - Practice
26:03 As man experiences limits, he is motivated to do more
28:38 The difference between needing and neediness
31:16 A man appears most caring when he is afraid

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Why He Doesn't Want You

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.

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Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romance. It's time to empower yourself and begin your journey to emotional freedom.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
05:07 How to let go of the things that’s killing you inside?
10:22 You can't convince someone to love you if they don’t
19:21 How do you fall out of love with the idea of someone?
24:13 Why do we keep choosing people who can’t love us back?

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Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?
07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage
09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple
11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust
14:55 When someone rejects you, leave
18:30 Jimmy’s red flags
24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions
26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner
28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?

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Love is Not Enough w/ Mark Groves

Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.

What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving into topics like building self-trust, healing codependency, and navigating the emotional complexities of heartbreak. From learning to communicate our deepest emotions to embracing closure and letting go, each chapter of this episode offers profound insights and empowering strategies for navigating the highs and lows of love. If you’re looking for answers, this one's for you!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:43 Liberated Love
06:36 You’ve forgotten yourself in the relationship
09:46 They took your worth with them when they left
13:36 How do you build a high level of self trust?
17:42 How do you heal codependency?
19:46 The great disconnect
28:04 Learning self-regulation through co-regulation
35:14 Creating a space for you and your partner’s pain
38:47 The analogy of the burning house
42:57 Closing ceremony for an ended relationship
51:19 Communicate how to feel
56:16 Emotional triggers actually never go away
01:02:21 Does your partner get you?
01:04:27 The right person can’t come if you won’t let go of the wrong one
01:06:39 What does it mean when love is not enough?
01:10:52 Using the ides of love to bypass the pain
01:16:03 How do you get your ex back?

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Why Loneliness is Worse Than Cigarettes w/ Dr. Guy Winch

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Dr. Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts."

Discover how to handle rejection without becoming your own worst critic and get inspired by Guy's own journey through fourteen years of rejection. From trust issues to self-criticism, we got your back with some real talk on navigating those tough moments. Learn the art of nurturing a supportive inner voice, practicing healthy self-reflection, and building emotional resilience. Plus, explore the fascinating world of emotional hygiene and the tools you need for a more resilient emotional well-being.

Dr. Winch's Recovering from Rejection and Failure program, made in collaboration with Mindbloom, is available now! Make sure to check it and start turning setbacks into wins.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:52 What are the most common emotions we experience when going through rejection?
02:58 Why do we stop trusting ourselves after a rejection?
04:33 Don’t become self critical when you experience rejection
06:11 How do you personally handle rejection and failure?
07:40 Getting through fourteen years of rejection
09:12 Having enough encouragement to keep you going
10:49 How do you nurture a more supportive inner voice?
15:42 What is healthy self-reflection?
18:17 It’s about falling down, it’s about getting back up
21:17 What is emotional hygiene?
24:46 What happens when you don’t practice emotional hygiene?
26:44 The tools you need to build emotional resilience
28:56 Is self-compassion a game changer when it comes to dealing with failure?
31:22 How do emotional wounds show up physically?
34:37 Why do people get stuck in loneliness?
39:28 Mindbloom: ketamine therapy for anxiety and depression
45:05 Common misconceptions of psychedelics
47:37 What are people most curious about psychedelics?
49:16 Change your approach to emotional well-being
50:00 The duration of ketamine treatment
51:10 Is ketamine treatment right for you?
53:26 What we don’t understand about heartbreaks
56:17 Heartbreak is a grief process
01:00:00 If you’re not feeling great, it’s not the best time to go online
01:04:14 Real connection requires slight emotional vulnerability
01:05:57 How can you make yourself happier?
01:09:34 The difference between being alone and chronic loneliness
01:11:12 Our emotional health requires effort
01:15:08 Check-in with yourself periodically

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Exceptions To Let Go In Ur 20’s

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world.

This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being meant for extraordinary things to the revelation that faults can be forgivable and attributes exceptional, Violetta breaks down the barriers that hold us back. Learn why the right person doesn't always come at the right time and why postponing your happiness is a recipe for dissatisfaction. It's time to let go, embrace the now, and set goals that truly align with your happiness!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:40 Fifteen expectation to let go of to live a good life
02:14 #1: You are mean to be extraordinary
03:11 #2: Your faults are more forgivable and your attributes are more exceptional
03:54 #3: You can outsmart pain
04:15 #4: You must let go of the expectation that love is something other people give you
04:57 #5: Feeling something deeply means that it’s meant to be
06:01 #6: If you work on yourself enough then you will not struggle anymore
06:13 #7: The idea that you can control what people think of you
07:56 #8: Hard work guarantees success
08:23 #9: The idea that your thoughts will change themselves when your circumstances change
09:03 #10: The belief that other people are responsible for your feelings
10:00 #11: Emotional intelligence is infallible composure
10:44 #12: The idea that the right person will come at the right time
11:21 #13: The idea that you can postpone your happiness or save it up
11:59 #14: Anxiety and negative thinking are just pesky irritants that you have to learn to avoid
12:33 #15: Focusing slowly on your own needs will make you the happiest
13:20 Good goals to set to enjoy what you have than chase what you don’t have

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Insecure Men & Childhood Trauma w/ Brooke Schofield

Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special?

In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:51 What’s your hidden talent that no one knows about?
02:53 Did you go to college?
05:12 What piece of advice have you recently heard?
06:19 Why do you want to manifest a healthy relationship?
12:26 Is Matt Rife the one that got away?
13:38 What would be your star rating for Matt Rife?
17:16 I never see the red flags
19:15 What did you learn so far that you want in a partner?
22:07 What’s the most pivotal moment in your life that shaped you today?
23:58 What made 2022 a terribly low year?
26:30 A horrible breakup packed with deceit and lying
29:43 I was so miserable, I needed help
30:48 What is borderline personality disorder?
33:53 Did you feel a sense of relief when you were on medication?
35:42 How do you slowly get out of a dark place?
42:56 What do people assume when you have borderline personality disorder?
45:00 What advice do you have for those who aren’t taking medication?
49:30 Why do I struggle with therapy?
53:02 Growing up in family with two drug addict parents
56:34 I stayed with my grandparents and never got picked up
59:40 My mom helped me get through the toughest time
01:02:11 How do you deal with guilt?
01:04:12 Our parents are just like us when they were our age
01:06:53 Upcoming tour with Tana and Brooke

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Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and recreate yourself for a better, more badass version of you! Tune in for the inspiration you didn't know you needed.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:41 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
02:37 Law #25: Recreate Yourself
15:25 You are allowed to start over if you feel like it
18:19 Recreating yourself at the lowest moments is usually the most pivotal moment

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How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.

In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping your self-view and envisioning the future you truly desire. To sprinkle some extra magic, they wrap things up with a tarot reading for 2024, using three enchanting crystals. Grab your manifesting notebook, soak in those good vibes, and make 2024 your year of financial independence!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:24 You are the creator of you reality
11:14 The “I am Simply Deciding” method
15:51 Inspired action versus aligned action
18:25 Affirmations to say for 7 days to get more money
19:25 More manifestation mantra
22:13 How do you make a Vision Board?
25:28 The 111 portal this January
29:41 How the Love Letter method works
34:06 2024 reading for Amethyst

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How To Change Your Life (This Year)

Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?

In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Violetta wraps it up with her personal mantra for manifesting the life you truly deserve. Let's make 2024 the year we transform for real!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:31 People want to change their lives but not themselves
08:15 8 subconscious behaviors that keep you from the life that you want
16:39 What do you need to know about yourself first?
23:53 The manifesting mantra for the life that you deserve

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In My Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel

Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional asshole, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation.

This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you think), and a crash course on surviving the turbulent waves of cancel culture. It's Almost Adulting meets The Bitch Bible – the perfect combo for a podcast episode that's bold, badass, and totally binge-worthy!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:41 Over indulgence of self esteem
03:01 When hate comments don’t affect you anymore
06:34 “I’m not an internet person.”
07:33 Why are pregnant women terrorists?
12:03 The Hitler joke
16:57 How did you become a podcaster?
21:51 The lucky girl syndrome
26:20 Low-key manifesting girly
26:54 The OG podcaster
29:09 Cancel culture
33:20 To be clear is to be kind
35:59 What is your journey?
38:42 The vocal fry
40:09 Are you a cool girl?
43:54 Dinner with model friends
47:22 My slutty pregnancy era
48:50 Makeup preference and fake freckles
52:58 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
55:21 Best advice received in your 30s
57:57 Compliments for each others
58:55 Most embarrassing life experience
01:02:17 Embarrassing experiences with boys
01:06:00 How did you meet your husband?
01:11:12 We need a Mommy Issues IG
01:12:05 One advice to inspire all Besties

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SICK OF THIS SH*T

Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.

But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?
04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick
07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams
08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony
16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?
17:13 Fun fact about deers
18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window
19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?
22:40 I think I killed a lizard
26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person
31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat
34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake
34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4

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Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with BelliWelli founder Katie Wilson. Katie shares how her love for chocolate cookies and not being able to eat them during her pregnancy led to the creation of her very first product. When she shared it with her community, she realized there were so many girls with gut issues, even hot girls have gut issues.

Let's listen to Violetta and Katie go through the ups and downs of being a woman entrepreneur with gut issues dealing with growing a business, overcoming a health crisis, and becoming a rapidly growing brand.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:38 Did you personally have gut issues?
04:06 Signs that you have gut issues
06:37 Suffering from gut issues throughout pregnancy
09:53 How one chocolate chip cookie changed everything
11:18 Getting funding from angel investors
13:59 First packaging, deck presentation
17:20 Finding more investors
20:55 The greatest piece of advice
22:14 Things happened while preparing for the product launch
28:11 Everyone hated Stevia in the BelliWelli bars
33:17 How did you approach the product?
38:51 Building a company next to bunch of friends
39:48 Hot girls have IBS campaign
42:49 Secret sauce to successful billboards
50:25 Inspiring stories from customers
53:46 Talk about why something isn’t working rather than what’s working
57:40 What is keeping the business successful?
01:00:04 We love feedback!
01:01:47 BelliWelli is at Target

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Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.

First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship ripples. Violet's got the perfect blend of empathy, advice, and her signature humor to guide you through these tricky tales.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:56 How do I break up with him and separate our work and personal life?
04:12 “I was cheated on because I was too nice.”
17:25 My boyfriend like and watch too much porn and I feel disrespected

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The Psychology Behind Dreams

Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.

Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown on what your subconscious might be trying to tell you. And for those late-night rendezvous with an ex who broke your heart, she's got the insights on that too! It's dream analysis, Almost Adulting style – fun, enlightening, and, of course, a little bit cheeky. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets of your slumber!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:38 Falling out with my BFF
03:42 I dreamt about the end of the world
10:02 What does your dream mean?
13:09 Dreams about knives
14:50 Other dreams and their meanings
16:40 Dreams of being in a fight
18:15 Different dreams about an ex lover

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KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns.

And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure – it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date
05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy
10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x
17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his mother

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MIND BLOWING Facts About Dreams

Hey Besties! Although Halloween is over, we are not done yet with the spooky feels. Today, we will talk about dreams - the good ones, scary ones, and even the weirdest story while having a dream.

Violetta shares how men and women experience and interpret dreams differently, facts about dreams that you have not heard of yet, and why one shouldn’t take anything from the dream world especially when it's handed over by a dead person. There are even fascinating inventions made from recalling past dreams. Together, let’s find out which type of dream you have had recently.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:51 I saw my grandma in my dream
06:31 Dreams have more meaning than you think
07:05 Men and women dream differently
08:34 Random facts about dream
11:54 First time I met my grandma in my dream
15:11 Mind blowing facts about dreams
17:16 More random facts about dreams
20:14 Cool inventions derived from dreams
20:54 Dreams that predict the future
23:41 People known to sleepwalk

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Confession Corner: I LICKED HIS BUTTH*LE

Hey Besties! The juiciest, most jaw-dropping tales are about to unfold on the Almost Adulting podcast! In this episode, Violetta is sharing some of the wildest, most outrageous confessions she's ever come across.

From office escapades with a ahem unconventional boss to movie dates gone hilariously wrong, these stories will leave you gasping, cringing, and laughing all at once. It's a rollercoaster of dating debacles and unexpected encounters that will have you both shocked and entertained. If you're in need of some spicy tales to brighten your day, tune in to this sizzling episode where nothing is off-limits, and prepare to be thoroughly entertained!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:40 I hooked up with my creepy boss while he watches interracial p*rn
09:57 I went on a date with a guy who didn’t pay for my movie ticket
18:20 I met an ex-cult member who brings a bowling ball and I licked his butth*le
22:31 I slept with a guy who went to prison for k*lling five people

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I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong."

Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life.

Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title
07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?
10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong
14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad
18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can
22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?
27:53 You have to make you love yourself
31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people
35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure
47:51 The benefits of active journaling
56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement
01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you
01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life

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