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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

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Immerse yourself in the BIGGEST self-love podcast and movement - your ultimate go-to for personal growth with a side of sass. We cover it all, from dating bootcamps to mental health moments, because self-love is the foundation of everything in your life – from your friendships to your own mental well-being and everything in between.I’m your host, Violet Benson, aka the Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker. But most importantly, I'm YOUR Russian big sister, dishing out that tough love you might not want to hear, but best believe you're gonna need!Get ready to feel empowered, liberated, and seen like never before! Change your life and subscribe to Almost Adulting! Your healing journey starts NOW. New episode drops every Thursday.

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I Thought I lost Everything in the LA Fires

I Thought I lost Everything in the LA Fires

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

In this raw and insane episode, I break down my wild two-week nightmare during the LA fires. From flames creeping toward my house and having to evacuate in chaos to my house getting broken into.Oh, and all those conspiracy theories? I’m spilling the truth—was it arson? Is State Farm really bailing on people? And why was LA so unprepared for this? Buckle up, because I’m sharing everything you didn’t know the LA fires and debunking/confirming the conspiracy theories everyone’s been talking about. Hit play to find out what really went down during the LA/Palisades fires. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

January 21, 2025

How to Manifest The One on NYE (Plus My 2024 Survival Guide/goodbye)

How to Manifest The One on NYE (Plus My 2024 Survival Guide/goodbye)

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

In this podcast episode, reflect on personal experiences including heartbreaks and funny fails, learn about becoming a born-again virgin and rediscovering self-worth, receive advice on determining if someone is truly 'the one', and a step-by-step guide to manifesting your dream partner in 2025. The next episode will return in January 2025.

December 29, 2024

Stop Procrastinating - 2 Min Rule

Stop Procrastinating - 2 Min Rule

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Explores the '2-Minute Rule' from James Clear's Atomic Habits, demonstrating its potential for transforming procrastinators into productive individuals by tackling tasks in manageable 2-minute increments.

December 20, 2024

My Husband Won’t Touch Me: 10 Years of No Sex

My Husband Won’t Touch Me: 10 Years of No Sex

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

The podcast discusses overcoming social anxiety, identifying unhealthy relationships, recovering from cheating, and managing a decade-long sexlessness, with callers sharing their personal struggles.

December 13, 2024

From Chaos to Closure: You Called?

From Chaos to Closure: You Called?

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

This week, we kick off with a hilarious throwback to my 12-year-old self being an absolute menace (prepare for secondhand embarrassment!). Then, we dive into YOUR CALLS. Your heartfelt, hilarious, and jaw-dropping voicemail questions and stories. From navigating loneliness after moving to a new country to dealing with relationship resentment from a ruined vacation, and even the ultimate tale of reclaiming your power after infidelity—it’s all here. Oh, and what happens when your best friend chooses a boyfriend over you?Grab your headphones—it’s about to get deep, raw, and empowering. Let’s unpack, laugh, and grow together. Got a story or question? Call in at (310) 439-8019 and let’s make your voice the star of the next episode!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

December 09, 2024

Are You Emotionally Intelligent? 10 Things Not to Do

Are You Emotionally Intelligent? 10 Things Not to Do

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violetta discusses being dumped unexpectedly, encountering a crush, and giving dating advice on her DMs. She also shares 10 things emotionally intelligent people avoid doing, focusing on managing emotions, fear, trust-building, and emotional resilience.

November 30, 2024

The Art of Not Giving a F*ck

The Art of Not Giving a F*ck

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

This podcast discusses insights from Mark Manson's book 'The Art of Not Giving a F*ck', including how our brains work, the Law of Avoidance, the importance of questioning repressed memories, and the quest for personal identity.

November 23, 2024

Are You Being Needy?

Are You Being Needy?

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Women may crave validation from men that they should give themselves; demeaning oneself to meet a man's standards lowers relationship value. Avoid being 'the nice girl' for own benefit.

November 19, 2024

Dating Nightmares: First Dates From Hell

Dating Nightmares: First Dates From Hell

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Episode recounts amusing dating fails including a disastrous elevator incident, married dates, and a near-cliff Tinder adventure. It also covers ex-girlfriend party ambushes, sleepover assumptions, and a 100-taco fiasco at Taco Bell. Advice given on handling being the other woman and men with female best friends.

November 12, 2024

That’s Not What Makes You a Mother with Whitney Port

That’s Not What Makes You a Mother with Whitney Port

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Discusses Whitney Port's emotional journey with infertility, managing anxiety, balancing personal and public life, redefining self-worth, and resilience in the face of loss, backed by insights into her surrogacy process and tools for handling anxiety.

October 31, 2024

How To Make Him Fall in Love

How To Make Him Fall in Love

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violetta shares dating wisdom on controlling relationships dynamics, giving tips from 'Why Men Love Bitches' and 'Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus,' focusing on using praise, boosting self-esteem, and making him feel needed for getting the 'princess treatment.'

October 31, 2024

HE’S NOT YOUR PERSON SIS - LISTEN TO THIS

HE’S NOT YOUR PERSON SIS - LISTEN TO THIS

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

In this episode, the speaker discusses insights and advice on identifying toxic relationships, recognizing genuine partners, saving time on unresponsive individuals, understanding the importance of energy within relationships, and achieving a successful relationship with more than love.

October 24, 2024

October Tarot Reading - Pick A Card

October Tarot Reading - Pick A Card

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

This podcast episode offers three tarot card readings for the month ahead, each tied to a different color (green, pink, red). Listeners are encouraged to choose the reading that speaks to them.

October 15, 2024

HITTING ROCK BOTTOM

HITTING ROCK BOTTOM

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

This episode shares personal insights from someone who hit rock bottom and offers advice on how to pull yourself out when feeling defeated, unheard, or unmotivated. Discussions include protecting your energy, recognising wrong people to confide in, rebuilding confidence, and three things to remember in hard times.

October 15, 2024

Decolonizing Trauma: Did You Choose Your Trauma? with Yemi Penn

Decolonizing Trauma: Did You Choose Your Trauma? with Yemi Penn

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

In this podcast, Yemi Penn shares insights about decolonizing trauma, rewriting narratives for post-trauma resilience, shifting mindsets for dealing with adversity, dismantling toxic patterns, and embracing discomfort to foster personal growth. She also discusses her book 'Did You Get the Memo?'.

October 03, 2024

ADHD Made Me Do It: My Worst Date Stories

ADHD Made Me Do It: My Worst Date Stories

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Person shares ADHD-related experiences, worst date stories, and a morning snow habit examination. Offers tarot card reading for listener's questions. Urges subscription/sharing.

September 26, 2024

The Lie: YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH

The Lie: YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Podcast uncovers and debunks three drivers of self-doubt (Imposter Syndrome, Social Comparison Theory, Negativity Bias) to help listeners overcome them with practical steps.

September 26, 2024

Stop Struggling: The Real Path to Business Success With Ret Taylor

Stop Struggling: The Real Path to Business Success With Ret Taylor

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violetta discusses her $95,000 dentist bill with Ret Taylor, co-founder of Ned Wellness. They delve into the hidden blacklist banks can use to undermine businesses, essential tips for new entrepreneurs, avoiding burnout, and the importance of standing out in a crowded market while supporting farmers.

September 12, 2024

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

This podcast covers the reasons men pull away in relationships and provides a 3-step playbook to get them back: surprise him, mirror his actions, and detach completely in 24 hours. It includes guides for girls who got dumped or are receiving cold shoulders.

September 12, 2024

Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - Bad B*tch University

Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - Bad B*tch University

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

This episode provides 5 confidence hacks to enhance dating experiences and self-worth in life, as part of a series designed to improve one's relationships and attract better partners.

September 02, 2024

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