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Feeling Ungrateful

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe.

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You're a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.

Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?
02:30 How did motherhood change you?
04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?
07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?
07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?
08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.”
12:18 Hopes for Season 11
13:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years
17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?
19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?
20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child
22:24 Friendship pact with Katie
24:37 What can people look forward to this season?
26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?
33:31 Postpartum OCD
39:39 EMDR Therapy
43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor
45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts
47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy
50:54 Thinking of death everyday

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You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.

Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy topics, like the Stanley cup's wild ride through a car fire and the sinful indulgence of beignets. Oh, and don't worry, Bestie, we’ll let you in on some secrets too—like debunking those silly misconceptions about their social media persona and sharing the biggest lessons learned last year.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
04:04 What are you currently working on?
05:48 The importance of staying hydrated all day
06:40 The Stanley cup that withstood a car fire
09:18 Unhealthy food choices
11:48 Have you had a beignet?
15:06 What’s something most people don’t know about you?
20:05 What’s the most common misconception about you?
25:26 How are you when someone gets on your bad side?
28:57 What are you currently working to improve?
35:24 What’s the hardest lesson you learned last year?
37:37 Does your mom have a very thick accent?
40:27 What past experience that still resonates with you today?
48:15 What’s the worst thing that can happen?
54:41 What’s something you don’t want to repeat this year?
01:00:53 My social media is like my house…

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4 Ways To Self Love

And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves.

And remember, never let a person show you twice that they don’t want you. If they want you in their life, they’ll treat you with kindness and love. If they want you to be part of their journey, they will want to spend their time with you and will always appreciate spending time with you. When they love you for who you are, you will never have to change. You will be loved just as you are, flaws and imperfections included.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:37 Dating the male version of me
06:55 Set boundaries for yourself
10:19 Be self-aware
17:04 Know who you are
23:49 Change your perspective
35:00 My love letter to you

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Let Your Rage Fuel You

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed relationships and heartbreaks, but today she is Violet thankful. Thankful that it’s all in the past and she has now welcomed September feeling better, stronger, and fiercer. Today, she shares four tips that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page - and today you’re gonna find out how!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:47 “I woke up this morning feeling blessed and thankful.”
06:40 There’s no timeline to how long you should take to heal
10:28 Ask yourself, “Is it working for me?”
14:18 It’s all in your head
17:07 Sit with rejection, get comfortable with it
19:31 Turn your resentment into your superpower

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Why Loneliness is Worse Than Cigarettes w/ Dr. Guy Winch

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Dr. Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts."

Discover how to handle rejection without becoming your own worst critic and get inspired by Guy's own journey through fourteen years of rejection. From trust issues to self-criticism, we got your back with some real talk on navigating those tough moments. Learn the art of nurturing a supportive inner voice, practicing healthy self-reflection, and building emotional resilience. Plus, explore the fascinating world of emotional hygiene and the tools you need for a more resilient emotional well-being.

Dr. Winch's Recovering from Rejection and Failure program, made in collaboration with Mindbloom, is available now! Make sure to check it and start turning setbacks into wins.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:52 What are the most common emotions we experience when going through rejection?
02:58 Why do we stop trusting ourselves after a rejection?
04:33 Don’t become self critical when you experience rejection
06:11 How do you personally handle rejection and failure?
07:40 Getting through fourteen years of rejection
09:12 Having enough encouragement to keep you going
10:49 How do you nurture a more supportive inner voice?
15:42 What is healthy self-reflection?
18:17 It’s about falling down, it’s about getting back up
21:17 What is emotional hygiene?
24:46 What happens when you don’t practice emotional hygiene?
26:44 The tools you need to build emotional resilience
28:56 Is self-compassion a game changer when it comes to dealing with failure?
31:22 How do emotional wounds show up physically?
34:37 Why do people get stuck in loneliness?
39:28 Mindbloom: ketamine therapy for anxiety and depression
45:05 Common misconceptions of psychedelics
47:37 What are people most curious about psychedelics?
49:16 Change your approach to emotional well-being
50:00 The duration of ketamine treatment
51:10 Is ketamine treatment right for you?
53:26 What we don’t understand about heartbreaks
56:17 Heartbreak is a grief process
01:00:00 If you’re not feeling great, it’s not the best time to go online
01:04:14 Real connection requires slight emotional vulnerability
01:05:57 How can you make yourself happier?
01:09:34 The difference between being alone and chronic loneliness
01:11:12 Our emotional health requires effort
01:15:08 Check-in with yourself periodically

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Exceptions To Let Go In Ur 20’s

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world.

This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being meant for extraordinary things to the revelation that faults can be forgivable and attributes exceptional, Violetta breaks down the barriers that hold us back. Learn why the right person doesn't always come at the right time and why postponing your happiness is a recipe for dissatisfaction. It's time to let go, embrace the now, and set goals that truly align with your happiness!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:40 Fifteen expectation to let go of to live a good life
02:14 #1: You are mean to be extraordinary
03:11 #2: Your faults are more forgivable and your attributes are more exceptional
03:54 #3: You can outsmart pain
04:15 #4: You must let go of the expectation that love is something other people give you
04:57 #5: Feeling something deeply means that it’s meant to be
06:01 #6: If you work on yourself enough then you will not struggle anymore
06:13 #7: The idea that you can control what people think of you
07:56 #8: Hard work guarantees success
08:23 #9: The idea that your thoughts will change themselves when your circumstances change
09:03 #10: The belief that other people are responsible for your feelings
10:00 #11: Emotional intelligence is infallible composure
10:44 #12: The idea that the right person will come at the right time
11:21 #13: The idea that you can postpone your happiness or save it up
11:59 #14: Anxiety and negative thinking are just pesky irritants that you have to learn to avoid
12:33 #15: Focusing slowly on your own needs will make you the happiest
13:20 Good goals to set to enjoy what you have than chase what you don’t have

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Narcissists & Boundaries

Hey Besties! Welcome to the second week of Benson Bootcamp, a boot camp specifically designed to help you become the best version of yourself, no matter how bad it hurts. It’s called BOOTCAMP for a reason, duh!

This week on Almost Adulting we’re having the difficult discussion about boundary setting. Though it may be hard, these realizations will not only be long-lasting, but also help you love yourself a little more. Violet tells an in depth story about her friend who possesses the fatal victim mentality flaw. Ya know, that kind of friend who never fails to make EVERYTHING about themselves, and when you finally cut them off your life becomes inexplicably better? Yeah, that type. But that’s what setting boundaries can do. It aids you in protecting your mental health, having inner peace, and taking control of your own emotions and thoughts even when you don’t have control over other people’s words and actions. Besties, if there’s one thing you take from this please let it be that you are NEVER selfish for setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself. You are your biggest advocate and supporter, now act like it!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:53 Let’s call my friend Nicole
15:51 The main issue is my lack of boundaries
19:41 Everyone gets tired of pretending
21:00 When you start setting boundaries for yourself
25:09 “We never really know why people do what they do.”
27:13 We can choose to not be a victim

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Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and recreate yourself for a better, more badass version of you! Tune in for the inspiration you didn't know you needed.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:41 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
02:37 Law #25: Recreate Yourself
15:25 You are allowed to start over if you feel like it
18:19 Recreating yourself at the lowest moments is usually the most pivotal moment

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WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.

Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:46 I booked my parents a trip to Israel
03:05 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom
05:38 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings
06:26 Reason 2: Some men need space
07:18 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship
08:12 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship
09:41 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him
13:53 Step #2: Do not chase him
15:01 Men and women do things differently
15:40 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband
18:20 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach
23:20 Step #3: Focus on yourself
33:17 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict

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How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.

In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping your self-view and envisioning the future you truly desire. To sprinkle some extra magic, they wrap things up with a tarot reading for 2024, using three enchanting crystals. Grab your manifesting notebook, soak in those good vibes, and make 2024 your year of financial independence!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:24 You are the creator of you reality
11:14 The “I am Simply Deciding” method
15:51 Inspired action versus aligned action
18:25 Affirmations to say for 7 days to get more money
19:25 More manifestation mantra
22:13 How do you make a Vision Board?
25:28 The 111 portal this January
29:41 How the Love Letter method works
34:06 2024 reading for Amethyst

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Cult Survivor: Children of God

YOU CALL IT OCTOBER, I CALL IT CULT MONTH ON ALMOST ADULTING PODCAST!

This month focuses entirely on CULTS - where survivors of various cults will be sharing their stories and bringing awareness to the reality and prominence of these organizations.

This week on Almost Adulting Violet speaks with Celeste, a former member of the Children of God (now called The Family International). Children of God was founded in Huntington Beach, California in 1968 by David Berg, and was eventually dubbed by BBC as ‘hell on earth’. Celeste brings the listener on an emotional journey, giving vivid details of what life was like as a person born into Children of God, and her upbringing within the confines of the cult without sparing any details. Celeste then explains how she escaped, post-cult living, and her one wish for the people responsible for their heinous crimes.

TW: sexual abuse

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:37 What is the Children of God?
02:37 The biggest misconceptions about the group
03:44 Joining the cult
08:13 How do children spend their day?
12:40 The system
13:33 Very limited access to healthcare
15:00 What’s flirty fishing?
19:48 No limit around age or status
22:24 Earliest memory of sexual abuse
25:13 Sexual sharing
28:35 Is it easy to leave the cult?
33:58 Adjusting to the normal world
35:59 Growing up after leaving the cult
42:17 How do you view religion now?
46:17 Forgiving your parents
47:52 Reviving the cult
50:39 Reconnecting with other cult children

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MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever!

Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!

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00:00 Intro
04:53 Be the energy you want to attract
07:51 Signs from the universe
1205 Angel numbers and what they mean
19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream life

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SICK OF THIS SH*T

Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.

But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?
04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick
07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams
08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony
16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?
17:13 Fun fact about deers
18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window
19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?
22:40 I think I killed a lizard
26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person
31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat
34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake
34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4

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Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles

Hey Besties! How delulu can one get in the name of true love? How far will you go to be with the man of your dreams? That’s what one brave girl did to get the attention of her man (well, maybe not yet, but nothing’s impossible, right?)

Today, Violetta sits down for another Benson Knows Best. And what better way to start this episode than to interpret a dream about dirty toilets? Yep, there are people out there who dream about toilets, dirty bathrooms, and breaking down when they can’t find a clean one. And if that is not shocking enough, Violetta ends the episode reading a message from a fan who is in search of her one true love - Harry Styles. A woman can do anything to get her man, and we’re cheering for this girl!

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00:00 Intro
01:08 Do you look for things to validate your negative mindset?
04:27 “I keep dreaming about finding a clean bathroom but always end up in dirty toilets.”
16:09 He acted like I’m the obsessive ex to his new girl
33:22 I had a crush on a guy from the street and it turns out he’s Harry Styles

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The Psychology of YOUR Dreams

Hey Besties! Dreamtime has never been this juicy! Violetta's diving deep into the dreamscapes you've sent her way, decoding the mysteries of your most bizarre dreams. Picture this – a dream where things get a bit too cozy with your own mom. Yep, you read that right! Violet spills the beans on what this dream is really trying to tell you. And then there's that persistent stranger, popping up like a recurring character in your dream saga. Violet's got not one, not two, but three possible meanings for you to unwrap! Get ready for a wild ride through the dream realm, where secrets are spilled, and meanings are revealed!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Afternoon naps are important
02:49 Our minds solve our unconscious thoughts through dreams
04:32 I dreamt about having s*x with my mom
16:64 Dreaming about being followed by random men in a coat
20:29 I went to Jennifer Lopez to confide about a wedding with a man I do not know
26:16 The baby bear turned into a hot girl and we started to make out

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My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans

Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.

Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign
04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday
07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library
13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends
20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed
21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands
23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all
26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday
30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I want

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Benson Knows Best: WOMEN’S S*XUAL FANTASIES

Besties, let's talk real for a sec. Has social media thrown a wrench in the dating game? We're bombarded with models and influencers flaunting their 'perfect' lives, making a regular relationship seem like a unicorn. Today, Violetta is back with the latest Benson Knows Best episode – and trust me, you're in for a ride! From a DM-sliding dilemma to a tangled love triangle, and even a happily married gal crushing on a gym buddy – we've got it all. Tune in for the tea, the laughs, and maybe a reality check or two!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:58 The guy I’m seeing follows a lot of models and influencers on IG
07:41 How to know if he’s pulling away to get your attention or he just doesn’t like you?
11:00 Are crushes or attraction to other men even when I’m married normal?
15:37 He would gaslight me into believing that I’m crazy

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Confession Corner: I LICKED HIS BUTTH*LE

Hey Besties! The juiciest, most jaw-dropping tales are about to unfold on the Almost Adulting podcast! In this episode, Violetta is sharing some of the wildest, most outrageous confessions she's ever come across.

From office escapades with a ahem unconventional boss to movie dates gone hilariously wrong, these stories will leave you gasping, cringing, and laughing all at once. It's a rollercoaster of dating debacles and unexpected encounters that will have you both shocked and entertained. If you're in need of some spicy tales to brighten your day, tune in to this sizzling episode where nothing is off-limits, and prepare to be thoroughly entertained!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:40 I hooked up with my creepy boss while he watches interracial p*rn
09:57 I went on a date with a guy who didn’t pay for my movie ticket
18:20 I met an ex-cult member who brings a bowling ball and I licked his butth*le
22:31 I slept with a guy who went to prison for k*lling five people

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I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong."

Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life.

Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title
07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?
10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong
14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad
18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can
22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?
27:53 You have to make you love yourself
31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people
35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure
47:51 The benefits of active journaling
56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement
01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you
01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life

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Exceptions To Let Go In Ur 20’s

Narcissists & Boundaries

Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

Cult Survivor: Children of God

MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

SICK OF THIS SH*T

Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles

The Psychology of YOUR Dreams

My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans

Benson Knows Best: WOMEN’S S*XUAL FANTASIES

Confession Corner: I LICKED HIS BUTTH*LE

I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster