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    Explore "jay shetty" with insightful episodes like "BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL", "Why He Doesn't Want You", "Feeling Ungrateful", "You're a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)" and "You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford" from podcasts like ""Almost Adulting with Violet Benson", "Almost Adulting with Violet Benson", "Almost Adulting with Violet Benson", "Almost Adulting with Violet Benson" and "Almost Adulting with Violet Benson"" and more!

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    BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL

    BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL

    Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.


    Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional. 


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    Why He Doesn't Want You

    Why He Doesn't Want You

    Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.


    Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.


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    Feeling Ungrateful

    Feeling Ungrateful

    Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.


    Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe.


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    You're a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

    You're a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

    Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.

    Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery. 

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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?
    • 02:30 How did motherhood change you? 
    • 04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?
    • 07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?
    • 07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?
    • 08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.” 
    • 12:18 Hopes for Season 11
    • 13:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years
    • 17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?
    • 19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?
    • 20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child
    • 22:24 Friendship pact with Katie  
    • 24:37 What can people look forward to this season?
    • 26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?
    • 33:31 Postpartum OCD
    • 39:39 EMDR Therapy 
    • 43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor
    • 45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts
    • 47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy
    • 50:54 Thinking of death everyday


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    You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford

    You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford

    Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.

    Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy topics, like the Stanley cup's wild ride through a car fire and the sinful indulgence of beignets. Oh, and don't worry, Bestie, we’ll let you in on some secrets too—like debunking those silly misconceptions about their social media persona and sharing the biggest lessons learned last year. 

    If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 04:04 What are you currently working on?
    • 05:48 The importance of staying hydrated all day
    • 06:40 The Stanley cup that withstood a car fire
    • 09:18 Unhealthy food choices
    • 11:48 Have you had a beignet?
    • 15:06 What’s something most people don’t know about you?
    • 20:05 What’s the most common misconception about you?
    • 25:26 How are you when someone gets on your bad side?
    • 28:57 What are you currently working to improve?
    • 35:24 What’s the hardest lesson you learned last year?
    • 37:37 Does your mom have a very thick accent?
    • 40:27 What past experience that still resonates with you today?
    • 48:15 What’s the worst thing that can happen?
    • 54:41 What’s something you don’t want to repeat this year?   
    • 01:00:53 My social media is like my house…


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    Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer

    Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer

    Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions. 


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?
    • 07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage
    • 09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple
    • 11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust
    • 14:55 When someone rejects you, leave
    • 18:30 Jimmy’s red flags
    • 24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions
    • 26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner
    • 28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?


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    Narcissists & Boundaries

    Narcissists & Boundaries

    Hey Besties! Welcome to the second week of Benson Bootcamp, a boot camp specifically designed to help you become the best version of yourself, no matter how bad it hurts. It’s called BOOTCAMP for a reason, duh!

    This week on Almost Adulting we’re having the difficult discussion about boundary setting. Though it may be hard, these realizations will not only be long-lasting, but also help you love yourself a little more. Violet tells an in depth story about her friend who possesses the fatal victim mentality flaw. Ya know, that kind of friend who never fails to make EVERYTHING about themselves, and when you finally cut them off your life becomes inexplicably better? Yeah, that type. But that’s what setting boundaries can do. It aids you in protecting your mental health, having inner peace, and taking control of your own emotions and thoughts even when you don’t have control over other people’s words and actions. Besties, if there’s one thing you take from this please let it be that you are NEVER selfish for setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself. You are your biggest advocate and supporter, now act like it! 


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Introduction
    • 00:53 Let’s call my friend Nicole
    • 15:51 The main issue is my lack of boundaries
    • 19:41 Everyone gets tired of pretending
    • 21:00 When you start setting boundaries for yourself
    • 25:09 “We never really know why people do what they do.”
    • 27:13 We can choose to not be a victim


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    TAP INTO YOUR DIVINE FEMININE

    TAP INTO YOUR DIVINE FEMININE

    Hey Besties! It is the fourth and final installation of Benson Bootcamp, and we’re ending on a note to set you up perfectly for the month of love coming up!

    This week on Almost Adulting, you and Violet are diving into your divine femininity. What does this mean you ask? The divine feminine is the feminine aspect of the divine power that connects and binds the earth together. It is something we all have within us, and something that if channeled correctly, can open us up to so many things we are unknowingly evading ourselves from. While both masculine and feminine energy are present and necessary in all people, tapping into one's feminine energy can help further receptivity, openness, and vulnerability. In this episode Violet will discuss the pros of unleashing the various types of femininity and how leaning into their presence can assist you throughout your life. By the way, this is not to be confused with old school gender roles, or doing things just to attract a partner, but rather tap into an intimate side that is already within you. Enjoy the journey, Besties.


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Introduction
    • 04:14 We all have masculine and feminine energy
    • 07:48 What you want is not what you attract
    • 13:55 Be in your feminine divine energy
    • 18:44 Your dark, seductive feminine energy
    • 22:05 Your light, innocent feminine energy
    • 25:43 Trusting the process of dating
    • 26:08 Set standards and stick by them
    • 29:43 They always see your worth


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    Insecure Men & Childhood Trauma w/ Brooke Schofield

    Insecure Men & Childhood Trauma w/ Brooke Schofield

    Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special?

    In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties! 

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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 00:51 What’s your hidden talent that no one knows about?
    • 02:53 Did you go to college?
    • 05:12 What piece of advice have you recently heard?
    • 06:19 Why do you want to manifest a healthy relationship?
    • 12:26 Is Matt Rife the one that got away?
    • 13:38 What would be your star rating for Matt Rife?
    • 17:16 I never see the red flags
    • 19:15 What did you learn so far that you want in a partner?
    • 22:07 What’s the most pivotal moment in your life that shaped you today?
    • 23:58 What made 2022 a terribly low year?
    • 26:30 A horrible breakup packed with deceit and lying
    • 29:43 I was so miserable, I needed help
    • 30:48 What is borderline personality disorder?
    • 33:53 Did you feel a sense of relief when you were on medication?
    • 35:42 How do you slowly get out of a dark place?
    • 42:56 What do people assume when you have borderline personality disorder?
    • 45:00 What advice do you have for those who aren’t taking medication?
    • 49:30 Why do I struggle with therapy?
    • 53:02 Growing up in family with two drug addict parents
    • 56:34 I stayed with my grandparents and never got picked up
    • 59:40 My mom helped me get through the toughest time
    • 01:02:11 How do you deal with guilt?
    • 01:04:12 Our parents are just like us when they were our age
    • 01:06:53 Upcoming tour with Tana and Brooke  


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    Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

    Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

    Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and recreate yourself for a better, more badass version of you! Tune in for the inspiration you didn't know you needed.

    If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:41 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
    • 02:37 Law #25: Recreate Yourself
    • 15:25 You are allowed to start over if you feel like it
    • 18:19 Recreating yourself at the lowest moments is usually the most pivotal moment


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    How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

    How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

    Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.

    In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping your self-view and envisioning the future you truly desire. To sprinkle some extra magic, they wrap things up with a tarot reading for 2024, using three enchanting crystals. Grab your manifesting notebook, soak in those good vibes, and make 2024 your year of financial independence!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 03:24 You are the creator of you reality
    • 11:14 The “I am Simply Deciding” method
    • 15:51 Inspired action versus aligned action
    • 18:25 Affirmations to say for 7 days to get more money 
    • 19:25 More manifestation mantra
    • 22:13 How do you make a Vision Board?
    • 25:28 The 111 portal this January
    • 29:41 How the Love Letter method works
    • 34:06 2024 reading for Amethyst  


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    How To Change Your Life (This Year)

    How To Change Your Life (This Year)

    Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?

    In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Violetta wraps it up with her personal mantra for manifesting the life you truly deserve. Let's make 2024 the year we transform for real!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 02:31 People want to change their lives but not themselves
    • 08:15 8 subconscious behaviors that keep you from the life that you want
    • 16:39 What do you need to know about yourself first?
    • 23:53 The manifesting mantra for the life that you deserve


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    MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

    MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

    Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever!

    Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 04:53 Be the energy you want to attract
    • 07:51 Signs from the universe
    • 1205 Angel numbers and what they mean
    • 19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream life


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    SICK OF THIS SH*T

    SICK OF THIS SH*T

    Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.

    But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?
    • 04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick
    • 07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams
    • 08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony
    • 16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?
    • 17:13 Fun fact about deers
    • 18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window
    • 19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?
    • 22:40 I think I killed a lizard
    • 26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person
    • 31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat
    • 34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake
    • 34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4 


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    Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson

    Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson

    Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with BelliWelli founder Katie Wilson. Katie shares how her love for chocolate cookies and not being able to eat them during her pregnancy led to the creation of her very first product. When she shared it with her community, she realized there were so many girls with gut issues, even hot girls have gut issues.

    Let's listen to Violetta and Katie go through the ups and downs of being a woman entrepreneur with gut issues dealing with growing a business, overcoming a health crisis, and becoming a rapidly growing brand.

    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 02:38 Did you personally have gut issues?
    • 04:06 Signs that you have gut issues
    • 06:37 Suffering from gut issues throughout pregnancy
    • 09:53 How one chocolate chip cookie changed everything
    • 11:18 Getting funding from angel investors
    • 13:59 First packaging, deck presentation 
    • 17:20 Finding more investors
    • 20:55 The greatest piece of advice 
    • 22:14 Things happened while preparing for the product launch
    • 28:11 Everyone hated Stevia in the BelliWelli bars
    • 33:17 How did you approach the product?
    • 38:51 Building a company next to bunch of friends
    • 39:48 Hot girls have IBS campaign
    • 42:49 Secret sauce to successful billboards
    • 50:25 Inspiring stories from customers
    • 53:46 Talk about why something isn’t working rather than what’s working
    • 57:40 What is keeping the business successful?
    • 01:00:04 We love feedback! 
    • 01:01:47 BelliWelli is at Target 


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    Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles

    Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles

    Hey Besties! How delulu can one get in the name of true love? How far will you go to be with the man of your dreams? That’s what one brave girl did to get the attention of her man (well, maybe not yet, but nothing’s impossible, right?)

    Today, Violetta sits down for another Benson Knows Best. And what better way to start this episode than to interpret a dream about dirty toilets? Yep, there are people out there who dream about toilets, dirty bathrooms, and breaking down when they can’t find a clean one. And if that is not shocking enough, Violetta ends the episode reading a message from a fan who is in search of her one true love - Harry Styles. A woman can do anything to get her man, and we’re cheering for this girl! 


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:08 Do you look for things to validate your negative mindset?
    • 04:27 “I keep dreaming about finding a clean bathroom but always end up in dirty toilets.”
    • 16:09 He acted like I’m the obsessive ex to his new girl 
    • 33:22 I had a crush on a guy from the street and it turns out he’s Harry Styles


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    Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

    Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

    Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.

    First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship ripples. Violet's got the perfect blend of empathy, advice, and her signature humor to guide you through these tricky tales.


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:56 How do I break up with him and separate our work and personal life?
    • 04:12 “I was cheated on because I was too nice.”
    • 17:25 My boyfriend like and watch too much porn and I feel disrespected


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    My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans

    My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans

    Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.

    Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely!  


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign 
    • 04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday
    • 07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library
    • 13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends
    • 20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed
    • 21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands
    • 23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all
    • 26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday  
    • 30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I want


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    KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

    KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

    Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns. 

    And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure –  it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises. 

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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date
    • 05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy
    • 10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x
    • 17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his mother


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    I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews

    I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews

    Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with her good friend Manon Mathews. You know her – comedian, actress, social media maven, and soon-to-be mom! When you put two girlfriends with a penchant for humor together, what do you get? Pure comedic gold and a whole lot of real talk.

    Manon spills the beans on everything, from those awkward moments of mispronouncing names to the origins of their middle names. And oh boy, we dive into the adventure of pregnancy – the lessons, the laughs, and the exciting future ahead. But it's not all giggles; Manon opens up about dealing with an ex who's basically a walking red flag, the rollercoaster of self-worth, and the importance of surrounding yourself with those who let you be your unapologetic self. Laughter, heartbreak, and life-altering decisions – this episode's got it all, and it's guaranteed to lift your spirits! 


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:02 Names easy to pronounce, middle name origin
    • 03:59 One of us is pregnant
    • 06:11 Favorite s*x position
    • 06:40 S*x can help in child delivery
    • 08:46 Who is Manon Mathews?
    • 09:52 “I manifested this interview.”
    • 14:26 How are you taking the pregnancy?
    • 19:00 Lessons learned from becoming pregnant
    • 21:30 What’s your zodiac?
    • 23:17 Unexpected complications
    • 25:21 Erewhon Shop   
    • 26:52 “He has accent? He must be my husband!”
    • 37:29 He has been an attention-seeker all this time
    • 43:13 Love bombing and red flags
    • 51:43 There are good men out there
    • 55:40 What’s motherhood for you?
    • 59:00 Do you feel like a burden now?
    • 01:05:59 Feeling like you don’t matter
    • 01:10:00 Sometimes people just need to be heard
    • 01:16:22 Being with friends you can be yourself
    • 01:20:09 “Don’t just do something, sit there.” - pun intended


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