Podcast summary and Notes on "Jewish"

Hey Besties! Dreamtime has never been this juicy! Violetta's diving deep into the dreamscapes you've sent her way, decoding the mysteries of your most bizarre dreams. Picture this – a dream where things get a bit too cozy with your own mom. Yep, you read that right! Violet spills the beans on what this dream is really trying to tell you. And then there's that persistent stranger, popping up like a recurring character in your dream saga. Violet's got not one, not two, but three possible meanings for you to unwrap! Get ready for a wild ride through the dream realm, where secrets are spilled, and meanings are revealed!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Afternoon naps are important
02:49 Our minds solve our unconscious thoughts through dreams
04:32 I dreamt about having s*x with my mom
16:64 Dreaming about being followed by random men in a coat
20:29 I went to Jennifer Lopez to confide about a wedding with a man I do not know
26:16 The baby bear turned into a hot girl and we started to make out

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The Psychology Behind Dreams

Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.

Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown on what your subconscious might be trying to tell you. And for those late-night rendezvous with an ex who broke your heart, she's got the insights on that too! It's dream analysis, Almost Adulting style – fun, enlightening, and, of course, a little bit cheeky. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets of your slumber!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:38 Falling out with my BFF
03:42 I dreamt about the end of the world
10:02 What does your dream mean?
13:09 Dreams about knives
14:50 Other dreams and their meanings
16:40 Dreams of being in a fight
18:15 Different dreams about an ex lover

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The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
12:13 Best advice from your dad
15:25 Holding onto resentment
17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
20:26 When you feel invisible
24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
32:37 Having a supportive partner
35:58 We all function in our own pace in life
39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
47:27 How do you connect better to others?
50:28 What's your definition of love?
54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out

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Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.

So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?
03:34 Part of Key Glock music video
05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting
06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum
07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents
11:09 Zodiac signs
13:29 How did the influencer life started
15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else
19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl
22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating
24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions
31:41 Everyone is depressed
36:15 He gave me STI
41:51 It’s over, I’m done…
43:26 I always know what I want to do
45:43 Imposter syndrome
46:11 What it feels not to have social cues
49:46 Craziest job you had
54:54 Getting a lot of hate
58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash
01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about
01:09:20 I like your teeth!

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Love Is Blind S5 - GASLIGHTER UCHE

Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it!

Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?

Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:50 Four steps to love yourself
03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?
05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?
12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy
17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level
18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?
24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S5
31:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…
34:41 Still following random girls on IG

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CHOOSE YOURSELF

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee.

Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day
06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself
10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away
18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself
26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better life

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I’m a Tough B*tch w/ Katie Maloney

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.

Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:07 There’s a lot people don’t know about me
02:16 What’s your go-to during a bad day?
03:14 Describe me in one word
05:10 What’s something you wish people would ask you more often?
07:36 What’s the hardest thing about starting a business?
11:21 Sandwich flavors
14:16 All about Vanderpump Rules
18:42 Watching the show and absolutely have no idea what’s happening
19:53 Taken highly out of context
21:15 Lesson learned from reality TV
24:30 Did compatibility issues cause the divorce?
27:47 It’s done and final
28:27 When did you realize that the relationship was ending?
31:06 Start loving yourself
33:32 I just had to go through the pain
36:05 How did you get through the breakup?
39:10 Put yourself first
40:03 Possible to be friends with your ex?
41:21 Outpour of love and support from fans
42:57 To feel seen, heard, and supported
49:06 Rapid questions with Katie

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Benson Knows Best: SELLING OC

Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:30 The 5 honest questions to ask yourself
04:30 Have you watched Crash Landing on You?
08:03 When you hear these three things on the first date, RUN!
10:32 Selling The OC - Tyler
14:03 Selling The OC - Jarvis and Rose
16:40 Selling The OC - Polly
17:10 Selling The OC - Alex Hall
19:40 Selling The OC - Brandy
22:59 Selling The OC - Austin and Tyler
25:16 The lack of empathy for others
26:14 Someone really hates Jarvis because…
27:13 It was an escort party

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Body Shaming & Setting Boundaries w/ Sasha Pieterse

Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways.

Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha Pieterse - American actress, singer, and model who gained significant recognition for her role as Alison DiLaurentis on the popular TV series "Pretty Little Liars."

The duo dive into an intimate conversation that's all about embracing authenticity, overcoming challenges, and finding strength within ourselves. They offer a rare glimpse into the dynamics of fame and authenticity, the art of gracefully handling criticism, and insights into building trust and finding strength amidst motherhood. Let's celebrate vulnerability, growth, and the power of communication.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Most people don’t know about you
04:53 Fulfilling moments in the industry
06:35 When roles rub off on you in real life
11:09 Do you miss Pretty Little Liars?
13:16 Starting young in the industry
15:58 Advice for your younger self?
16:44 How do you handle criticism
19:52 Diagnosed with PCOS
26:59 Every woman had different needs
30:48 Have people around you can trust
31:57 Physically and mentally stronger as a mother
36:13 You can’t be another person
39:57 Your purpose should be what you love doing
44:00 Remember people as a whole, not just the positives
47:37 Talking is important even when it’s not fun

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