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Let Your Rage Fuel You

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed relationships and heartbreaks, but today she is Violet thankful. Thankful that it’s all in the past and she has now welcomed September feeling better, stronger, and fiercer. Today, she shares four tips that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page - and today you’re gonna find out how!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:47 “I woke up this morning feeling blessed and thankful.”
06:40 There’s no timeline to how long you should take to heal
10:28 Ask yourself, “Is it working for me?”
14:18 It’s all in your head
17:07 Sit with rejection, get comfortable with it
19:31 Turn your resentment into your superpower

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Insecure Men & Childhood Trauma w/ Brooke Schofield

Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special?

In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:51 What’s your hidden talent that no one knows about?
02:53 Did you go to college?
05:12 What piece of advice have you recently heard?
06:19 Why do you want to manifest a healthy relationship?
12:26 Is Matt Rife the one that got away?
13:38 What would be your star rating for Matt Rife?
17:16 I never see the red flags
19:15 What did you learn so far that you want in a partner?
22:07 What’s the most pivotal moment in your life that shaped you today?
23:58 What made 2022 a terribly low year?
26:30 A horrible breakup packed with deceit and lying
29:43 I was so miserable, I needed help
30:48 What is borderline personality disorder?
33:53 Did you feel a sense of relief when you were on medication?
35:42 How do you slowly get out of a dark place?
42:56 What do people assume when you have borderline personality disorder?
45:00 What advice do you have for those who aren’t taking medication?
49:30 Why do I struggle with therapy?
53:02 Growing up in family with two drug addict parents
56:34 I stayed with my grandparents and never got picked up
59:40 My mom helped me get through the toughest time
01:02:11 How do you deal with guilt?
01:04:12 Our parents are just like us when they were our age
01:06:53 Upcoming tour with Tana and Brooke

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Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and recreate yourself for a better, more badass version of you! Tune in for the inspiration you didn't know you needed.

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00:00 Intro
01:41 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
02:37 Law #25: Recreate Yourself
15:25 You are allowed to start over if you feel like it
18:19 Recreating yourself at the lowest moments is usually the most pivotal moment

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WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.

Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:46 I booked my parents a trip to Israel
03:05 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom
05:38 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings
06:26 Reason 2: Some men need space
07:18 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship
08:12 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship
09:41 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him
13:53 Step #2: Do not chase him
15:01 Men and women do things differently
15:40 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband
18:20 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach
23:20 Step #3: Focus on yourself
33:17 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict

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Why We Love Difficult People

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allowing these people to stay in our lives is okay. But it’s okay Besties, we’re gonna get through it together, because we’ve ALL been there.

This week on Almost Adulting, Violet starts off with the reasons why we likely fall for the wrong person, armed with a huge ego and a wounded inner child he never knew existed within him. That guy who gives you mixed signals and then leaves you hanging when they have their fun. While difficult people can be frustrating and draining, they also have the ability to help us become better versions of ourselves. And this is possible when we start to love ourselves a little more, see our own value, understand what we truly desire in life. Bestie, it’s finally time to drop that toxic relationship, friendship, or whatever it is. Do it NOW - you will only thank yourself later.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:38 Why do we love difficult people?
05:07 When we feel the lack of spark
08:27 The reasons why we’re attracted to the wrong person
11:59 Guys with daddy issues
18:56 The second boyfriend: a toxic guy
25:39 I thought love had to be achieved
28:00 Daddy Issues
35:06 Start loving yourself

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How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.

In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping your self-view and envisioning the future you truly desire. To sprinkle some extra magic, they wrap things up with a tarot reading for 2024, using three enchanting crystals. Grab your manifesting notebook, soak in those good vibes, and make 2024 your year of financial independence!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:24 You are the creator of you reality
11:14 The “I am Simply Deciding” method
15:51 Inspired action versus aligned action
18:25 Affirmations to say for 7 days to get more money
19:25 More manifestation mantra
22:13 How do you make a Vision Board?
25:28 The 111 portal this January
29:41 How the Love Letter method works
34:06 2024 reading for Amethyst

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How To Change Your Life (This Year)

Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?

In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Violetta wraps it up with her personal mantra for manifesting the life you truly deserve. Let's make 2024 the year we transform for real!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:31 People want to change their lives but not themselves
08:15 8 subconscious behaviors that keep you from the life that you want
16:39 What do you need to know about yourself first?
23:53 The manifesting mantra for the life that you deserve

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MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever!

Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!

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00:00 Intro
04:53 Be the energy you want to attract
07:51 Signs from the universe
1205 Angel numbers and what they mean
19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream life

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In My Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel

Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional asshole, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation.

This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you think), and a crash course on surviving the turbulent waves of cancel culture. It's Almost Adulting meets The Bitch Bible – the perfect combo for a podcast episode that's bold, badass, and totally binge-worthy!

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00:00 Intro
00:41 Over indulgence of self esteem
03:01 When hate comments don’t affect you anymore
06:34 “I’m not an internet person.”
07:33 Why are pregnant women terrorists?
12:03 The Hitler joke
16:57 How did you become a podcaster?
21:51 The lucky girl syndrome
26:20 Low-key manifesting girly
26:54 The OG podcaster
29:09 Cancel culture
33:20 To be clear is to be kind
35:59 What is your journey?
38:42 The vocal fry
40:09 Are you a cool girl?
43:54 Dinner with model friends
47:22 My slutty pregnancy era
48:50 Makeup preference and fake freckles
52:58 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
55:21 Best advice received in your 30s
57:57 Compliments for each others
58:55 Most embarrassing life experience
01:02:17 Embarrassing experiences with boys
01:06:00 How did you meet your husband?
01:11:12 We need a Mommy Issues IG
01:12:05 One advice to inspire all Besties

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The Psychology of YOUR Dreams

Hey Besties! Dreamtime has never been this juicy! Violetta's diving deep into the dreamscapes you've sent her way, decoding the mysteries of your most bizarre dreams. Picture this – a dream where things get a bit too cozy with your own mom. Yep, you read that right! Violet spills the beans on what this dream is really trying to tell you. And then there's that persistent stranger, popping up like a recurring character in your dream saga. Violet's got not one, not two, but three possible meanings for you to unwrap! Get ready for a wild ride through the dream realm, where secrets are spilled, and meanings are revealed!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Afternoon naps are important
02:49 Our minds solve our unconscious thoughts through dreams
04:32 I dreamt about having s*x with my mom
16:64 Dreaming about being followed by random men in a coat
20:29 I went to Jennifer Lopez to confide about a wedding with a man I do not know
26:16 The baby bear turned into a hot girl and we started to make out

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Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.

First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship ripples. Violet's got the perfect blend of empathy, advice, and her signature humor to guide you through these tricky tales.

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00:00 Intro
01:56 How do I break up with him and separate our work and personal life?
04:12 “I was cheated on because I was too nice.”
17:25 My boyfriend like and watch too much porn and I feel disrespected

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How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey Kreppel

Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.

Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfolded between Kelsey and her now-hubby, Cody Ko? She spills all the deets on the challenges of dating to the wild ride of becoming a full-blown influencer, the inside scoop on handling haters, the delicate art of oversharing (or not) on the gram, and trust me, you won't want to miss the side splitting story of her epic proposal. This episode is a vibe – a mix of love, laughter, and the unfiltered reality of life in the influencer lane.

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00:00 Intro
00:38 Welcome Kelsey!
01:17 What’s something people don’t know you can do?
03:11 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
04:12 Moms always know when something is off about something
05:03 How did you meet your husband?
09:29 Taking notes of what people love
09:01 What people don’t know about Cody
10:37 What’s your favorite thing about your husband?
12:01 What’s his favorite thing about you?
14:44 What’s your sleeping habit?
15:21 What’s your most annoying trait?
17:03 Setting boundaries when sharing things online
21:04 How do you deal with online hate together?
23:38 Is it better not to respond to hate comments?
25:04 Sharing Cody with the world
30:09 If you can’t survive dating, you can’t survive marriage life
34:20 His proposal wasn’t a complete shock
38:29 Were you a bridezilla during the engagement?
42:51 What do you think about someone bringing a plus one at your wedding?
46:47 Trying to get pregnant and then getting pregnant
53:13 Don’t tell people about your baby’s future name
57:09 Where to find Kelsey

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I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with her good friend Manon Mathews. You know her – comedian, actress, social media maven, and soon-to-be mom! When you put two girlfriends with a penchant for humor together, what do you get? Pure comedic gold and a whole lot of real talk.

Manon spills the beans on everything, from those awkward moments of mispronouncing names to the origins of their middle names. And oh boy, we dive into the adventure of pregnancy – the lessons, the laughs, and the exciting future ahead. But it's not all giggles; Manon opens up about dealing with an ex who's basically a walking red flag, the rollercoaster of self-worth, and the importance of surrounding yourself with those who let you be your unapologetic self. Laughter, heartbreak, and life-altering decisions – this episode's got it all, and it's guaranteed to lift your spirits!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:02 Names easy to pronounce, middle name origin
03:59 One of us is pregnant
06:11 Favorite s*x position
06:40 S*x can help in child delivery
08:46 Who is Manon Mathews?
09:52 “I manifested this interview.”
14:26 How are you taking the pregnancy?
19:00 Lessons learned from becoming pregnant
21:30 What’s your zodiac?
23:17 Unexpected complications
25:21 Erewhon Shop
26:52 “He has accent? He must be my husband!”
37:29 He has been an attention-seeker all this time
43:13 Love bombing and red flags
51:43 There are good men out there
55:40 What’s motherhood for you?
59:00 Do you feel like a burden now?
01:05:59 Feeling like you don’t matter
01:10:00 Sometimes people just need to be heard
01:16:22 Being with friends you can be yourself
01:20:09 “Don’t just do something, sit there.” - pun intended

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10 Signs He's Cheating

Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING.

In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.

It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to simple curiosity, that can lead people to make such complex and painful choices. If you've ever been curious about the intricacies of human relationships, the reasons people cheat, and how to spot the signs, this episode is your ultimate guide.

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00:00 Intro
02:05 Signs he is cheating on you
11:36 Why do people cheat?
16:25 What happens when you cheat on someone?
22:54 Don’t blame the other woman
24:16 Why does the people who hurt us mean the most to us?

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Confession Corner: THIEF OF JOY

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat.

But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption.

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00:00 Intro
02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed
13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby
16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyer

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I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong."

Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life.

Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title
07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?
10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong
14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad
18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can
22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?
27:53 You have to make you love yourself
31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people
35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure
47:51 The benefits of active journaling
56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement
01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you
01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life

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The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
12:13 Best advice from your dad
15:25 Holding onto resentment
17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
20:26 When you feel invisible
24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
32:37 Having a supportive partner
35:58 We all function in our own pace in life
39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
47:27 How do you connect better to others?
50:28 What's your definition of love?
54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out

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LOVE IS BLIND REUNION

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:10 Uche is an energy vampire
03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now
04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated
06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship
07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage
08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding
14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional
16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”
18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia
22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together
24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor
26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie
30:55 No one respects people who bring people down

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Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.

So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?
03:34 Part of Key Glock music video
05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting
06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum
07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents
11:09 Zodiac signs
13:29 How did the influencer life started
15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else
19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl
22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating
24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions
31:41 Everyone is depressed
36:15 He gave me STI
41:51 It’s over, I’m done…
43:26 I always know what I want to do
45:43 Imposter syndrome
46:11 What it feels not to have social cues
49:46 Craziest job you had
54:54 Getting a lot of hate
58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash
01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about
01:09:20 I like your teeth!

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Benson Knows Best: SENDING MY PARENTS TO ISRAEL

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!

Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way.

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00:00 Intro
02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?
06:14 They say your hair keeps memories
07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?
10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip
13:32 You create your own reality
17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist
19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off?

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Let Your Rage Fuel You

Insecure Men & Childhood Trauma w/ Brooke Schofield

Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

Why We Love Difficult People

How to Manifest Becoming Rich w/ HotHighPriestess

How To Change Your Life (This Year)

MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras

In My Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel

The Psychology of YOUR Dreams

Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict

How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey Kreppel

I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews

10 Signs He's Cheating

Confession Corner: THIEF OF JOY

I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster

The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia

LOVE IS BLIND REUNION

Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants

Benson Knows Best: SENDING MY PARENTS TO ISRAEL