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Emotional Needs
Explore "Emotional Needs" with insightful episodes like "YAPClassic: Nir Eyal on How to Become Indistractable", "160. Are you ready to date again ft. The Real Talk Therapist", "“You’re Not Obsessed With Your Ex, Patsy; You’re an Addict.” Mel’s Advice, Listener Questions, and More!", "105. The stigma of being single" and "My Husband Doesn’t Understand Me" from podcasts like ""Young and Profiting with Hala Taha", "The Psychology of your 20s", "The Mel Robbins Podcast", "The Psychology of your 20s" and "The Dr. John Delony Show"" and more!
Episodes (24)
160. Are you ready to date again ft. The Real Talk Therapist
Getting into a new relationship can bring up a lot of past trauma from previous relationships, and cause a lot of self sabotage or anxiety, resulting in behaviours such as:
- Emotional unavailability
- Knit picking behaviour
- Starting unnecessary fights
- Stone walling
- Pushing people away
- Ignoring red flags
In this episode we answer the question "do you need to completely heal before entering into a new relationship?". We are joined by the incredible, Tasha Bailey, otherwise known as the Real Talk Therapist as we break down the way past relationship trauma can show up in our new relationships and how to heal whilst still accepting the love you deserve.
Follow Tasha here: @realtalk.therapist
Buy Tasha's book here: https://www.amazon.com/Real-Talk-Lessons-Therapy-Self-Love-ebook/dp/B0BGXKR5T2
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“You’re Not Obsessed With Your Ex, Patsy; You’re an Addict.” Mel’s Advice, Listener Questions, and More!
Welcome to another round of your questions and my advice. I have a stack of your crazy, raw, and unbelievably direct questions, so we are going to have an unfiltered conversation about sex, competitive parents, getting over your ex, and this light and easy question... Is there a God?
You are getting the coaching you need right now.
The questions you asked are juicy:
Why am I still obsessed with my ex? It’s been 7 years.
My partner refuses to have sex with me. What do I do now?
The parents of my kid’s friends are so competitive; how the hell do I get out of this rat race?
Is there a God?
Imposter syndrome is killing my career. What the hell do I do?
What are the 4 new habits I can’t stop? (Because they are THAT GOOD.)
Why do I feel so trapped in my life? What do I need to know to get out?
Why can’t I fix myself after years of personal development courses?
Get the tough love, “ah-ha” moments and laugh your ass off at some of the crazy stuff that goes down in this episode.
You asked… and I can’t wait for you to hear my answers.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
1:00: The 4 best tips I’ve learned in these first 100 podcasts.
4:25: How do you stop checking in on your ex’s social media?
7:50: 3 techniques to help you argue with your partner in a healthy way.
10:30: The “red light:green light” technique that’s worked for me and Chris.
14:15: What’s my astrological sign?
15:40: Here’s what I believe about faith and signs and a higher power.
22:30: What happens when we die? This is what I think.
24:20: How do you deal with difficult parents of your kids’ friends?
30:10: Husband is ready for sex months after his wife has a baby, but she’s not.
35:08: This is how I learned I was dyslexic.
35:35: Hard line advice on promoting your business without feeling egotistical.
37:30: Why all your personal development work doesn’t feel like it’s working.
41:50: Behind the scenes and blooper clips just for you.
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
105. The stigma of being single
Being single has never been more common, with more people being single than ever before in history. And yet, we still experience a great degree of social and internal stigma, and even shame, around our relationship status. From the comments of family or friends saying that "you'll find someone soon", to the movies where marriage and partnership is the happy ending, sometimes we feel the need to settle in order to be happy or live up to societies expectations. In today's episode we explore the psychology behind this - from gender schema theory, to the scarcity effect, media psychology, identity fusion, and the hidden benefits of our single years. We also discuss whether it's wrong to want a relationship and whether we need to be fully healed before dating again? The answer is, it's complicated. Listen now!
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My Husband Doesn’t Understand Me
45 - CHEATING - Em Rata showed us that *anyone* can get cheated on. How can you build a bullet proof relationship that will avoid infidelity?
(Rewind): How To Take Back Your Power When We Won't Commit
Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . .
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LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 15
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 14
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 13
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 12
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 11
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 10
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 9
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 8
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 7
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 6
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 5
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 4
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/
LPP – Emotional Needs – Part 3
Life Point is an inspirational show that airs at 8:45 am Monday – Thursday on 94.1 The Voice. Tom Dougherty of the Cloverdale Church of God seeks to share God’s truth and interview people who have experienced an encounter with the Lord.
Friday's program's are Life Point Plus with Pastor Gary Moore That deals with Communication in Marriage.
3755 S Cloverdale Rd / Boise ID 83709
(208) 362-1700 | info@cloverdalechurch.org
https://www.cloverdalechurch.org/