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As her father prepares to reconcile with her abusive mother, our listener feels like she's at breaking point. Her father begs her to put their differences aside for a family wedding, but she can't put her mental health at risk again. For the sake of her father she asks whether a narcissist is capable of change, or is this yet another spin on their Merry-Go-Round relationship?

Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on.

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How do I know if I’m in a relationship with a narcissist?

Are certain personalities more drawn to narcissists?

Can I heal if I was raised by a narcissist?

How do I handle narcissists at work?

Why do I keep attracting narcissists into my life?

How can I keep a narcissist in my life… and not go crazy?

And, most of all:

What EXACTLY do I do to cope with narcissists?

You have been flooding my inbox with questions since Dr. Ramani Durvasula, the world’s leading expert on narcissism, spoke about it on the podcast.

You asked to bring her back and I’m listening: Dr. Ramani is here with answers to all of your questions.

This episode is for you if you…

• Have no idea what narcissism is
• Were raised by a narcissist
• Are married to a narcissist
• Think you might be dating a narcissist
• Work with/for a narcissist 
• Want to know the telltale red flags so you’re better prepared
• Are afraid you’re a narcissist

Today you get:

• Two important tools to help you start your own healing and create boundaries
• Key takeaways to help you move forward
• One solid truth that will ground you in your confidence 

You’ll also learn:

• What you can do today to begin your own healing
• How to stay in a relationship with a narcissist and maintain your sanity
• The signs to watch for to know if you’re with a narcissist
• What gaslighting looks like in real life
• The situations that make you more susceptible
• How to coach your friend who’s dating a narcissist
• If you’re more prone to attracting narcissists
• Why you ditch the “good ones” for the “bad ones”
• About “trauma bonds” 
• The signs of “love bombing”
• About the “Golden Goose” phenomenon in the workplace
• What yellow rocking and gray rocking are

Listen in on today’s conversation. You will not only be glad you did – you’ll also leave armed with the knowledge, tools, and resources you need to diffuse the impact of a narcissist, get your power back, and know that whatever it is that this person says or does – it’s not your fault.

Xo, Mel 

PS: Once you’re done with this one, if you haven’t had a chance to listen to Dr. Ramani’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast, absolutely spend some time listening to it:  “5 Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist & How To Protect Yourself”

Rebecca Fox is a therapist and narcissist expert and she joins Rob in this episode to talk all about narcissism and narcissist traits including what it is and how to spot it. She also talks about the role of narcissism in entrepreneurs, business and why we all have some traits of narcissism. 

Rebecca Reveals:

• Narcissist Patterns
• How to hurt a narcissist
• Whether Entrepreneurs need narcissistic traits to be successful
• How a narcissist is wired
• Why we all have some degree of narcissistic traits

Also featured…

• The causes behind narcissism
• What love-bombing is and the other stages and red flags of narcissism
• The differences between male and female narcissism and the different subtypes

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Our listener this week has her boundaries constantly eroded by her mother, her children are weaponised against her and she is constantly fighting for fairness. Katie and Helen reflect on the listener's attempts to hold her ground, and offer support and advice on how to set boundaries with what appears to be a narcissistic mother.

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Our listener this week was constantly put in the impossible position of having to choose between which parent to take sides with to keep her safe. We look at the behaviour then and now, and how being raised by these parents is jeopardising her emotional safety and relationships now. 

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This week Helen and Katie look at what happens when anger isn't given room to breathe, and when it's misplaced. We help the listener understand her unresolved anger and where it comes from, and how to heal it.

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This week it's all about the smoke and mirrors the narcissistic parent uses to control and dominate their children. We look at their self awareness and how they use the little they have to manipulate those around them. 

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Motivational Empathy, Love Bombing, The Trauma Bond , Stonewalling, Hoovering, and Triangulation. Episodes are released every other monday.

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This week Katie and Helen look at what happens when one person is giving everything, and the other person refuses to move in relationships. The repeating pattern of servitude to men set in childhood by a narcissistic father plays out in the listeners current relationship. 

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TW: This epidsode contains discussion of Sexual Assault and Suicide. Please look after yourself.

This week Katie and Helen look at how noticing one toxic relationship reveals many more around us, and discuss the impact of seeing these patterns and how to cope with the changes. 

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This week Katie and Helen answer a listener who is venturing into their first relationship after leaving a narcissistic family. They talk about sex, body autonomy, boundaries and finding love after being raised in a toxic family system. To support us, and for bonus content, please explore our patreon (click here)

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