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    How do you build resiliency (and why does it matter)?

    enSeptember 16, 2021

    About this Episode

    September is Suicide Prevention and Awareness Month.

    September 12 is World Suicide Prevention Day.

    In an effort to add to the conversation in helpful ways, we wanted to bring on an expert not only on suicide prevention but also what actually keeps us alive and thriving in the world? To only talk about suicide is half the story, we also have to address what makes us resilient? What keeps us alive and thriving?

     

    My good friend Mish Moore of Sources of Strength is on the podcast today to talk all about resiliency and the 8 components that help us built resiliency into our lives.

     

    Resources

    https://sourcesofstrength.org/

    https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

    https://www.stevefund.org/

    Cheering You On,

     
    The Team at Sunshine City Counseling and Eastern Shore Counseling
     
     
    Want to do individual counseling, couples counseling or child and teen therapy with one of the counselors at Sunshine City Counseling? Head over to the website and schedule your first free session.
     
    https://www.sunshinecitycounseling.com/new-clients
     
    Are you in Portland, Maine and needing a therapist? Check out our newest location and schedule your first free session! 
     
    https://www.easternshorecounseling.co/new-client
     
    We're ready when you are.
     
    IG: @thesunshinecity
     
    Email: info@sunshinecitycounseling.com

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