Negotiation tactics for everyday life
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Explore "BATNA" with insightful episodes like "Negotiation tactics for everyday life", "#721: Master Negotiator William Ury — Proven Strategies and Amazing Stories from Warren Buffett, Nelson Mandela, Kim Jong Un, Hugo Chávez, and More", "77. Técnicas y estrategias de negociación para psicólogos", "Is there a hidden job market? Decoding the job search process with Mac Prichard" and "Steering Your Career: Harnessing LinkedIn to Carve Your Thought Leadership Path and Strengthen Your Negotiation Leverage" from podcasts like ""Life Kit", "The Tim Ferriss Show", "Emprendimiento en Psicología", "Salary Negotiations Made Simple" and "Salary Negotiations Made Simple"" and more!
William Ury, cofounder of Harvard’s Program on Negotiation, is one of the world’s best-known experts on negotiation. He is coauthor of Getting to Yes, the all-time best selling negotiation book in the world, the author of one of my favorite books on negotiation (Getting Past No: Negotiating in Difficult Situations), and author of the new book: Possible: How We Survive (and Thrive) in an Age of Conflict.
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Timestamps:
[06:53] Connecting with Roger Fisher.
[10:08] Devising Seminars.
[12:31] Negotiating the Camp David Accords.
[18:23] Writing the other side's victory speech.
[21:17] Writing Kim Jong-un's victory speech.
[26:20] Pondering possibilities in the modern Middle East.
[29:26] Lessons from iconic possibilist Nelson Mandela.
[32:17] Going to the balcony.
[36:11] Mitigating the risk of emotional spiraling with Hugo Chávez.
[40:50] The power of silence.
[44:09] Respect and saving face.
[51:08] Best alternative to a negotiated agreement (BATNA).
[1:02:49] The trust menu.
[1:06:29] The positive no.
[1:12:14] Closing on a positive note.
[1:14:56] What prompted William to write Possible?
[1:19:38] Negotiating as a creative endeavor.
[1:22:48] Sabbatical considerations.
[1:23:56] Exercise and self-care routines.
[1:29:27] Uncovering interests, not just positions.
[1:35:18] Hopes for the impact of Possible.
[1:37:25] Parting thoughts.
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Negociación para psicólogos; técnicas y estrategias. Parte II.
Psicólogo, colega, la esencia de tu trabajo radica en entender, conectar y comunicarte con personas, ¿verdad? Entonces, ¿por qué no utilizar esas mismas habilidades al negociar y así obtener resultados más atractivos en tu proyecto de emprendimiento?
Si el último episodio te dejó intrigado (o intrigada) sobre el poder de la negociación en nuestra profesión, te alegrará saber que apenas hemos comenzado a raspar la superficie. Hoy seguimos explorando las tácticas y estrategias de negociación en psicología que todo profesional debe conocer.
¿Has reflexionado sobre el impacto de una pausa en una conversación o la gestión de emociones durante una negociación? ¿O quizá te has preguntado cómo usar el BATNA (Mejor Alternativa de un Acuerdo Negociado) para garantizar que siempre obtengas el mejor trato posible? En este episodio, desentrañaremos estos aspectos y muchos más.
Entender estas técnicas no solo potenciará tu habilidad para gestionar la práctica de tu negocio en psicología, sino que también te brindará ventajas en interacciones cotidianas, ya sea en psicología clínica, laboral, deportiva o cualquier otra especialidad.
Colega, te invito a sumergirte en este segundo episodio de nuestra serie sobre negociación. Nuestro objetivo es otorgarte una caja de herramientas completa para negociar con confianza y eficacia en cualquier escenario relacionado con el ejercicio de la psicología.
En este episodio de "Emprendimiento en Psicología", te voy a mostrar cómo potenciar tu habilidad negociadora, integrando el poder del BATNA (Mejor Alternativa de un Acuerdo Negociado, por sus siglas en inglés) y otras tácticas y estrategias fundamentales. Porque, después de todo, ¿quién mejor que un psicólogo - una psicóloga - para entender las complejidades humanas detrás de una negociación efectiva?
Ya sea que te enfoques en Salud Mental - como la psicología clínica o psicoterapia - o te dediques a la psicología deportiva, del desarrollo, laboral (u organizacional), social, educativa, experimental, forense… las técnicas y estrategias de negociación para psicólogos que aprenderás en este episodio te ayudarán en un sinfín de situaciones dentro de tu negocio en psicología.
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Are you ready to have more influence when you assert your ideas, concerns, and requests? Discover the power of negotiation as an essential tool for effective assertive communication. We’ll delve into real-life experiences and practical strategies that will transform your understanding of speaking your mind. Negotiation helps you express your desires clearly and effectively, while maintaining respect for others. In this episode, you'll discover 10 negotiation tactics that make you more assertive, including:
✔️The power of BATNA (Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement) - How it can fuel your confidence when you speak up.
✔️How identifying shared interests can lay a foundation for mutually beneficial solutions.
✔️The concept of 'anchoring' and how it can effectively influence outcomes when you speak up.
✔️How principled negotiation keeps the focus on the problem and not the people.
✔️The mutual gain approach: The art of finding solutions that benefit both parties.
✔️How using 'I' statements can make you assertive without sounding offensive.
✔️The advantage of exploring options - There's more than one way to reach an agreement.
✔️The art of framing - How to present your ideas in a way that highlights its benefits.
✔️The power of silence - A tactical pause can have a profound impact.
✔️The 'Yes Ladder' strategy - Start small and build momentum to navigate the conversation.
✔️BONUS: Reality Testing - How to assess the fairness of an offer with just one question.
Join us as we decode the art of negotiation and pave the way to a more assertive you.
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Ask and You Shall Receive: How to Make Requests that Unlock Success and Propel Your Life Forward: https://speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com/ask-and-you-shall-receive-how-to-make-requests-that-unlock-success-and-propel-your-life-forward
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13 Bad Reasons Why You Don’t Ask For What You Want: https://speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com/13-bad-reasons-why-you-dont-ask-for-what-you-want
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Urvertrauen ist besser als BATNA - Das Konzept von BATNA, oder "Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement", empfiehlt, dass Verhandlungspartner eine Alternative im Hinterkopf haben sollten, falls die Verhandlungen scheitern. Es gibt jedoch viele Vorteile neben einer sachlichen Alternative auch das innere Wissen zu haben, dass es immer eine bessere Alternative gibt. Wer genügend Urvertrauen hat, hat eine verallgemeinerte beste Alternative, die BATNA und die Sachebene mit einschließt. Deshalb ist Urvertrauen die beste Alternative zu BATNA.
Klar definierte Ziele und Bedürfnisse und eine realistische Einschätzung der Alternativen helfen dabei, die beste Lösung zu finden.
Falls Du nach der Podcast-Folge mehr zu diesem Thema erfahren möchtest, kannst Du gerne den dazugehörigen Blog-Artikel Dir anschauen. Dort haben wir noch einmal alle wichtigen Punkte aufgeführt:
Urvertrauen ist die beste Alternative zu BATNA
Hast Du Interesse an Coaching oder einer Mediation und möchtest einen Termin vereinbaren? Dann melde dich gerne bei uns:
Urvertrauen ist besser als BATNA - Das Konzept von BATNA, oder "Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement", empfiehlt, dass Verhandlungspartner eine Alternative im Hinterkopf haben sollten, falls die Verhandlungen scheitern. Es gibt jedoch viele Vorteile neben einer sachlichen Alternative auch das innere Wissen zu haben, dass es immer eine bessere Alternative gibt. Wer genügend Urvertrauen hat, hat eine verallgemeinerte beste Alternative, die BATNA und die Sachebene mit einschließt. Deshalb ist Urvertrauen die beste Alternative zu BATNA.
Klar definierte Ziele und Bedürfnisse und eine realistische Einschätzung der Alternativen helfen dabei, die beste Lösung zu finden.
Falls Du nach der Podcast-Folge mehr zu diesem Thema erfahren möchtest, kannst Du gerne den dazugehörigen Blog-Artikel Dir anschauen. Dort haben wir noch einmal alle wichtigen Punkte aufgeführt:
Urvertrauen ist die beste Alternative zu BATNA
Hast Du Interesse an Coaching oder einer Mediation und möchtest einen Termin vereinbaren? Dann melde dich gerne bei uns:
Amy and Jeff continue the discussion around how to improve your negotiating skills and maybe even become a 'Negotiation Ninja' (Jeff coined that one). The dishwasher battle makes another appearance as well. Thanks for listening!
Should you make the first offer? From buying a house or car, to the back and forth at a cell phone kiosk, negotiation is a part of daily life and having strategies to tap into can help increase your chances of success. In addition to other sources, Jeff and Amy chat about really interesting tips from former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss. Thanks for listening!
There are those dirty techniques that are very old school and can be very intimidating. These dark mind tricks are being used against you. These tricks are still being taught today especially in the world of negotiation. I want to talk about these dirty tricks so you can be prepared against when they happen to you – not for you to use them.
10 Hard Bargaining Negotiation Skills
You have to understand the game of negotiation. The challenge is many of you don’t want to play the game. Think about this…. If your prospect has come to play the game and you don't play the game, you're going to lose the game. Why? Because they were expecting to play the game. What does this mean? If you are looking to purchase a home and the listing price was perfect. You are thinking to yourself– that’s a fair price. So you offer the asking price for the house knowing it is a win-win for both of you.
An hour later you're getting a phone call as they back out of the deal because you created questions in their mind. They start to think, wait a minute, that was way too easy. We were supposed to negotiate. What do they know that I don’t know? Did the market change? What happened? You did not play the game. So, if they're wanting to play the game, you've had to play the game.
Different players seem to play the game with different rules. Some play dirty in the negotiation game. Some have more experience, some are new, and some want to win the game at any cost. Want to know how people cheat? Listen to this week’s podcast on “Hard Negotiation Techniques – Those Dirty Tricks” to find out how the negotiation game is played.
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