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EP 110: Make-up artist guru and entrepreneur extraordinaire known for Bobby Brown Cosmetics and Jones Road Beauty, Bobbi Brown, shares her secrets for living your “best everyday midlife”. 

This week we are doing another quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from my past conversation with beauty entrepreneur and fellow midlifer, Bobbi Brown. This conversation is such a good reminder about midlife being “hard and good”, choosing your hard and being fearless along the way. Trust me, you won’t want to miss this episode, thank me later!

Enjoy this 11 minute minisode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more on health, wellness and parenting. Everyday Midlife - With Bobbi Brown

Some Highlights: 

• Overcoming limiting beliefs 

• Life is work 

• Relationships are also work!

• Being fearless and never saying “I can’t”

• If you don’t know how to do something ask for help

• Choosing your “hard” 

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EP 109: How did she fckn’ do that? How did she put the “cart before the horse”? How did he get over that life threatening challenge? Ever envious of the people who seem to be naturally more resilient, GRITTY? Wow, some people always appear to bounce back. What are their secrets? Can we develop grit? There is a concept called “practical optimism” that is taking the world by storm. It is based in research. Are you looking for midlife personal growth and transformation?! Me too! Bye bye FOMO? My guest today has the answers. 

What if instead of searching for your purpose and waiting for your passion to find you you cultivated your purpose through evidence based strategies? Are you ready to get “gritty” today? 

This episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an inspiring and informative conversation with the author of Practical Optimism: The Art, Science and Practice of Exceptional Well-Being, Dr. Sue Varma. She’s a psychiatric and cognitive behavioral therapist and worked with the survivors of families of 9/11. With two decades of experience in her private practice she is here today to tell us how we can cultivate the lives we really want in midlife using a mindset she coined, “practical optimism”. Today, we talk about developing grit and changing your habits for the midlife you actually fckn’ want. This episode is filled with all the midlife nuggets of motivation we are craving.

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EP 108: Midlife muffin top? Did I get your attention? Are you a midlife woman questioning the sudden appearance of the midlife muffin top? Are you curious as to what is going on inside your body during menopause? Do you find yourself feeling “ugh” about the redistribution of fat? Do you want to work with your body and find the healthiest treatments and solutions for you? Do you want to find answers not just in the weight number on the scale, but overall midlife metabolic health? Look no further midlifer, this episode is definitely for you! 

This week we are doing another quickie golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from my original conversation with triple board-certified physician and endocrinologist, Dr. Rocio Salas-Whalen. This 15 minute conversation is a lesson in understanding our midlife bodies, hormone changes and the mysterious visceral fat, AKA midlife muffin top. The more you know, the more you know! Menopause and hormonal changes aren’t a life sentence and we don’t need to just let changes happen to us ,while having no free will in the process. Let’s dig deep this week into visceral fat, estrogen, and the real reason behind why weight loss drugs work. 

Enjoy this 15 minute minisode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more detail on what’s going in our bodies during midlife and menopause Weight Loss Drugs and Metabolic Health In Midlife With Dr. Rocio Salas 

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EP 107: Ready to live the life you really want, not the life you got? What’s the life you really want? Are you bored? Itchy for the next thing in midlife? Me too! Have you taken an action step toward that change more than once? More than twice? Are you scared to take action because your inner B**ch is chattering and the “peanut gallery” is watching? Or, you think they are…Today’s episode is all about action, and my guest tells us how many times you really should go after something before you can say you failed. And rejection is 1000 times better than regret.

What if instead of “consuming the content from social media about what you want to be doing, you actually did it”? Are you ready to get into the “midlife arena” of living the life you want, not the life you got?

It’s “habits and hustle” time! 

This episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an inspiring and midlife filled conversation called Live the Life you Want! Why Not You? My guest, Jen Cohen is an entrepreneur, the host of the Habits and Hustle podcast and author of Bigger, Better, Bolder: Live The Life You Want - Not The Life You Get. She’s so motivational and speaks from her personal experience, which makes it even better. Today we are talking about living by your purpose, identifying what you want and attempting to get it,  and why it’s better to experience rejection rather than regret. You won’t want to miss this. 

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EP 106: Zero F**ks is the perfect way to describe my guest, Jennifer Fisher of @jenniferfisherjewelry and @jenniferfisherkitchen. In this 12 minute minisode, we talked about the “art of not giving a f**k”, muting the peanut gallery, embracing authenticity and the importance of your mindset in midlife. Jen’s story is so inspiring and she’s overcome some pretty serious medical obstacles that geared her towards accomplishing her goals and living her passions. Talk about a midlife hottie who practices what she preaches! Are you looking for some midlife inspo and “bad assery”? I am! Sick of waiting to take that first step? Worrying that others are judging you? Need a little “push” out of the midlife waiting room, then this episode is definitely for you.

I am doing a quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt for you from one of my highest downloaded episodes to date. This conversation was so motivating for me to revisit that I just had to share it with all of you. It’s rad!

Enjoy this 12 minute minisode, then dive into the full episode - there are 2 parts, so much good information. Thank me later! Zero F**ks In Midlife 

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EP 105: Inside chat with two midlife podcasters who get really open & honest about all of it, including the midlife VJ rebuild…keep reading to find out who the other midlife hottie is… I might have peaked your interest. Are you a midlife woman, possible empty nester, career-er,  or re-inventor looking for practical advice from fellow midlife women? Are you considering botox, hair dye, or even a little vaginal construction after giving birth? Do you find yourself gravitating towards ease and alignment in midlife? Ever feel overwhelmed by the 64 things on the “self care” to do list? Ready to “look inside” and age gracefully in your own way? 

Then this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a fun and vulnerable conversation called “How I Rebuilt My Midlife VJ & More”. My guest, Wendy Euler is a podcast host, writer, and style enthusiast, with a huge midlife following for her platform, Goodbye Crop Top! She’s the host of “Cropped: A Mid-life Minute”, a short form podcast based off her own midlife platform where she discusses aging, action steps and all things midlife. She’s the mother of three daughters and today we are talking about the “ughs and fabulosities” of midlife, feeling your best, empty nesting, and a life changing surgical procedure. You won’t want to miss this. 

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EP 104: Inflammation, inflammation, inflammation! This is the midlife story for so many of us women.  It’s uncomfortable, I’m probably bloated right now, my cortisol is high enough for four adults, and my other inflammation markers on my blood work are crazy! You too? and I’m here to remind you (and myself) how to decrease inflammation and increase overall health and quality of life. This episode with board certificated OB-GYN and menopause problem solver, Dr. Mary Claire Haver came out last year and it knocked it out of the park. I am doing a quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt for you. We talked about weight, hormones and inflammation during menopause and she gave us so many actionable golden nuggets based on her own private practice research, peer reviewed studies and the successes of her patients. Today I am covering everything she said about inflammation, because it’s just that good.

If you want to hear the facts behind intermittent fasting, what foods to eat to keep down inflammation and how all of this can lead to overall improvements in your cognitive and physical health, then this episode is definitely for you! 

Enjoy this 15 minute mini-sode, then dive into the full episode “Taming Weight Gain, Menopause, and Inflammation With Dr. Mary Claire Haver, The Galveston Diet”. 

Thank me later!

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EP 103: We are not cold plunging on Jan. 1! Are we? Not me, not yet! Ever noticed that so many “midlife things” feel “hard & good”. For example, marriage is hard… but also good…(for some). Same with parenting, like I have to worry about my kids and their health & schooling, complain about their messes and then hard because I cry over them leaving the nest.  I’m also so proud of their independence and receive so much fulfillment as a mom. And, don’t even get me started on having to lift what I call “the dumb, but necessary weights”, in midlife for brain and body health… hard! Ugh, I don’t want to lift weights. It’s hard. It can be annoying. But, then lifting is good because of the brain and body benefits. The forever long list of dualities of HARD & GOOD! 

In this solo episode, I talk about how I don’t really do New Year's resolutions. I am kinda just proud of myself and all those “midlifers” who take small steps and actions to “get through” some days and have fab other days. Part of midlife is the “ughs & fabulosities”...the good and hard. We are not all blazing to run through a million new intentions. Sometimes it’s just getting through that damn day. At the end of 2023, things felt good and hard for me. Listen to find out why. I bet you can relate. 

Just like you, I am re-approaching my own personal fulfillment, relevance and asking “what’s next for me.” I made a post about the good and hard aspects of midlife and you guys loved it, so I wanted to speak more about the duality that is life.

Take a listen! Let me know what you think! 

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EP 102: Midlife hotties, here we come 2024! Are you looking for the secrets to finding fulfillment and purpose in midlife? Wanting a mini refresh or reinvent? I know, me too! Ready to clear out the midlife habits that are holding you back and keeping you on the “midlife hamster wheel”...want some new things to think about and ideas for getting out of the midlife waiting room? Want to laugh while we discuss the realness of being a midlife woman? Wondering what creative outlets are available to you in midlife? Looking for a sign that this is time to finally think about what’s next for us? Then, get ready because this episode is for you! 

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new episode called “Cathy Heller’s Five Golden Nuggets of Midlife”. This episode was recorded live on a zoom full of people (a live podcast with a live audience) with none-other than the top tanking podcast host, business and spiritual coach and best selling author, Cathy Heller. We get into everything from midlife friendships and personal growth, to finding your purpose and being authentic. Cathy discusses the importance of surrounding yourself with energizing vibes and people, and  the value of creative outlets & self accountability in midlife. 

Please note that this episode was recorded before the October 7th massacre. Otherwise, as Jewish women, Cathy and I would have talked about the atrocities going on in the world as it relates to human suffering.

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EP 101: Did you wake up in midlife and feel like “omg, I have a muffin top, I can’t shed these pounds, I have brain fog and feel the ugh’s”, me too! Have you tried a million diets and programs? Me too! Want to get ahead of your 2024 “weight loss and feel better goals” but not sure how? Wondering if your daily routine helping you or hurting you? Want to learn 10 key steps that you can always come back to? Ready to really understand and hear how to bridge the gap between learning what you should be doing for food, nutrition, hydration and exercise and actually doing it? I am! Then this episode is for you!

Then this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an informative and open conversation called “Lose Midlife Weight and Brain Fog & Feel Good”. My guest Sarah Wragge, is the founder and chief nutritionist of the innovative brand “Sarah Wragge Wellness”. Her wellness program educates and promotes the connection between nutrition and wellbeing. Sarah is known for her transformative method that will change your approach to nutrition, achieve results and create lifelong behavior changes. We get into everything from expert advice, ordering brunch, and making teeny tiny changes in your daily routine to build sustainability. 

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EP 100: Ever think about what your “MORE” is in midlife? Do you feel like you are stuck in the metaphorical midlife waiting room? Ready to find out how to get out of the “midlife waiting room” and into the next fulfilling phase of your life? If you think you are in a midlife crisis, you’re in the right place… you sound ready to learn how to reframe that in a way that allows you to transform? Ready to find out exactly how you get off the ever-spinning midlife hamster wheel? 

Then this episode is definitely for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new episode that I pulled from my free workshop on day 2, “It’s Time To Talk Midlife”. As promised, I want to give you all access inside my free workshop. Today’s episode will cover everything we discussed in day 2! This episode will give you the opportunity to hear from real midlife women, just like you, working to take the next steps in midlife, just like you and me! We talk about your “more” in life, and how to find it. We also get deeper into the ways to achieve self-responsibility and reframing your mindsets in midlife. This is specific and evidenced based, shit you can do today!

Make sure to go back to day 1 and 3 if you haven’t listened to them already! 

Day 1 “The Kids are Leaving / Left The House… Now What?” 

Day 3 “How To Say FCK to Fear In Midlife”

Please note that this episode was recorded prior to the Hamas Massacre in Israel.

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EP 99: Do you know how important female friendship is? Do you have someone to talk about midlife retainers and Rogaine? Ready to laugh and find comfort in the TMI of it all? Want to hear a candid conversation where two female friends and podcasters are more vulnerable than our husbands would appreciate? Then this episode is definitely for you! 

Please note this was recorded prior to the Hamas Massacre in Israel. Being two Jewish women, we would have talked about Israel and the fight against Jewish anti semitism, fear and terror. And, of course the light Jews are creating in spite of all of this. 

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new episode that I pulled from my first ever IG live that I hosted with non-other than Cathy Heller, a top ranking  podcast host, business &  spiritual coach, and bestselling author. 

I decided to make this a mini-sode for everyone who missed it because it was just THAT good. I got so many messages talking about how relatable and fun this LIVE was for everyone. It is light hearted and will leave you laughing non-stop, with us. We talked about our husbands and their quirkiness, as if we don’t have our own, what it’s like to have daughters and what we aren’t ready for yet.  We also chat about why we need a good girlfriend or two in our lives. 

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EP 98: Midlife hotties, are you ready to find your voice and define (or re-define) your personal brand, goals, and interests? Looking for inspiration on how to break free from midlife social comparison and start that project you’ve been dreaming of? If you are ready to start your midlife reinvention and create your personal brand, then this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an honest conversation called “Your Midlife Personal Rebrand”. My guest Aliza Licht went from being the creator and voice of “DKNY PR Girl” on Twitter, a marketing and branding expert and now an author and podcaster. She's the host of the Leave Your Mark podcast and the author of LEAVE YOUR MARK: Land Your Dream Job. Kill It In Your Career. Rock Social Media. and ON BRAND: Shape Your Narrative. Share Your Vision. Shift Their Perception. We discuss the importance of your personal brand (even if you don’t have a “job” or a business), finding your voice, standing up for your message and limiting the effects of social comparison. 

Mentions:

• Eve Rodsky: Find Your Unicorn Space 
• Being A Jewish Activist Wasn’t On Brand For Me 
• Ross Martin: @rossmartin
• Dorie Clark:  @dorieclark

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EP 97: Since October 7th, when Hamas invaded Israel and murdered, raped and tortured 1,400 Israelis and took 200 hostages who have been in Gaza for over a month, we have been in shock, angry, tearful and dismayed (well, most of us). If you are Jewish or not, most of us are sitting at home wondering how this is really happening. The world feels like it is falling down. Some of us want to speak up, but fear for our lives. Others of us have been “standing up” in spite of fear. 

If you want to hear a candid conversation between two women and moms (one Jew and one non Jew) about the intricacies of “standing up” for what we think is right…if you want to hear how love can outweigh fear and hate & how in fact in can be the secret sauce…if you want to hear “mom to mom” personal truths, actions and fears regarding huge issues related to being a human during this crazy time in the world, then this is the episode for you!

We are just “moms and humans”. We are talking about what we see as facts (what is happening) and our feelings regarding those facts. We are not political, land, Israel or Palestine experts…and we don’t claim to be…

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an honest conversation called “Love Outweighs Hate - The Secret Sauce”. My guest Caroline D’Amore is a multi hyphen talent, actress, DJ and entrepreneur. She’s the founder and CEO of Pizza Girl, the organic no sugar tomato sauce that is taking the world by storm. It’s now in 2,000 stores. Today she joins us as a mother and a “stander-upper” for the Jewish people and Israel. And guess what? She’s not even Jewish. She’s used her social media platform to raise awareness and support for Israel and the Jews by posting about her personal dismay and devastation over the Hamas massacre in Israel, on October 7th. In this episode, we are speaking as mothers and activists for the Jewish community in the fight against Hamas and the rise of anti-semitism around the world. 

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EP 96: Are you realizing that your role as a mother is changing? Are you going from “manager mom” to “consultant mom”? Feel like you have extra time on your hands now that your kids are older and/or moving out of the “nest”? You aren’t sure what to do with it (bored and wanting ideas for a midlife refresh)? Want to hear how other woman in the same situation are feeling in this situation? Ready to scratch the midlife “itchies” that are coming up from kids heading to college, getting jobs and/or moving out of the house? Ready for your midlife to kick into full gear? I am! Then this episode is definitely for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new episode that I pulled from day 1 of my free workshop “It’s Time To Talk Midlife”. I shared “day 3” with you already and I couldn’t let you miss out on day 1 because it was just that good. I kept getting amazing feedback and a billion messages, so I decided to make each day a separate episode. The first day was all about becoming an empty nester, or even ½ empty nester like me. The kids are leaving/ left the house… My role as a mother is changing… now what?! I’m here to remind you that you are not alone in this. After this episode you will walk away with, “Oh shit, I never thought of that” moments, as well as 10 golden nuggets to leave you feeling positive and inspired as you conquer this time in your life. 

If you haven’t listened to “Day 3” yet, go back to episode 94 called “How To Say FCK to Fear In Midlife”!

Please note that this episode was recorded prior to the Hamas Massacre in Israel. Now we are sending love and light to the families of the mothers killed and to the moms who lost kids to horrific murders or kids who remain hostages in Israel. This is a different kind of empty nest. It’s unimaginable and real. 

Some Highlights: 

• Congratulations you raised a kid that can survive outside the home
• Am I a “consultant mom” now? What does that even mean?
• The college application process is so unpredictable 
• Reframing “empty nest”
• Time to do all the things you’ve ever wanted to do. Nothing is off limits, even sex in the kitchen
• Creating a space the kids want to come home to 
• Everyday is different, some days are we are in PJs until 3 PM
• It’s our midlife time to rewrite our stories

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EP 95: OMG! Do just hearing the words hormones and puberty make you cringe? I know, me too! And my kids are 17 and 19. How about taking a midlife woman with her own raging hormones and mix it with her teens’ hormones, that’s called full hormone stew. Do you want to hear all the latest research nuggets on puberty mixed with real life stories from two puberty experts who also happen to be midlife moms too? Want to hear about the “new puberty” ? Why does puberty with our kids feel different from the puberty we remember? And, how has social media changed puberty and our parenting? Have you heard about the term “midlife “second puberty”, perimenopause/menopause?

Do you ever feel like you said something to your teen that maybe you shouldn’t have? Me too! These two teen and puberty experts tell us how to do a “parenting do over”. We chat about empty nesting and keeping your connection with your kid while they are away at college. We don’t have to be real stalkers. LOL!  This episode is the perfect stew…cutting edge research nuggets on brain science & why it matters and real life stories and examples from the front lines of working with teens and parents. 

This is a don’t miss episode! 

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an open and educational conversion called  “Hormone Stew…Puberty & ‘Second Puberty’!” My guests Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett are the co-authors of This Is So Awkward, Modern Puberty Explained and co-hosts of The Puberty Podcast. Cara is a pediatrician, Harvard graduate. She is also a New York Times bestselling author of The Care and Keeping of You series, Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys and Decoding Boys. My second guest, Vanessa is a Wellesley College graduate,the founder of Dynamo Girl, a company focused on building kids self-esteem through sports, puberty, education and parent workshops and the co host of The Puberty Podcast. We are getting into everything from supporting your teens through modern puberty to the science behind what is going on for them emotionally during this time of their lives 

This is a chat that is expert and fun all at the same time, a deep dive & real conversation.

Some Highlights: 

• Old puberty vs. new puberty 
• Menopause is the “second puberty” 
• Sex hormones
• Secrets to good communication with teenagers
• Keeping kids safe by treating them their age 

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EP 94: Are you ready to say f*ck it to fear in midlife, once and for all? Ready to embrace being a beginner? Are you running the show or is your inner mean girl? Want to know real life midlife strategies to say f*ck to fear? Then this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new episode that I pulled from day 3 of my free workshop called “It’s Time To Talk Midlife”, which was live last week. This day was so good, I needed to share it as a podcast episode. It was all about f*ck fear, being scared and doing it anyway and how to really get into that mindset. I give you 5 special golden nuggets on how to overcome fear and embrace authenticity and action in midlife 

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EP 93: Are you curious about how to start something new in midlife? Do you find yourself attempting to google the 17 steps to start that new midlife hobby or figure out what’s next for you? Ready to accept that you have agency in your own life? Want to connect with other women who are ready to do the same? Need a little bit of help sorting through the mixed bag of solutions for midlife issues? What would it feel like to really say “bye-bye” to your comfort zone and embrace self-reinvention? Are you ready to say yes to yourself, your hobbies, and your passions? And, if you don’t have any (my husband has 89 hobbies and I am like “ugh”)...Then this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a mini-sode called “Bye-Bye Midlife Comfort Zone!”. I did my first ever Instagram live with Jessica Barac, from the IG Instagram account @whatthemenopause, that she has built into a place for women to feel seen, validated and celebrated in menopause and midlife. Jessica is a former athlete and registered nurse. We discussed everything from finding and re-inventing yourself in midlife to empty nesting, health, and of course my free workshop “Let’s Talk Midlife”. 

By the time this episode comes out the workshop will be over, but don’t worry because my online experience (some would call a course, “The Midlife Remix Table” is launching today! 8 weeks (two hours a week with me, on zoom). This is an intimate experience that is going to happen every single week with me and it's for women just like you and me seeking midlife connection and real evidenced based strategies on figuring out what’s next for us. 

Looking forward to connecting with you! Here are some ways to connect with me!

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EP 92: Are you a midlifer struggling to lose and/or maintain weight? The latest version of the “muffin top” is making you crazy. You are told to eat more protein, intermittent fast, move and you feel like you are doing many of the things and still “ugh”. You want a cupcake for dinner after a cluster fck of a day, me too! What if someone taught you how to actually listen to your body and its feelings? Do you listen to what your body is really asking for? Did you know that if you can define a really authentic “why” when it comes to weight loss and healthy midlife lifestyle, you could make some big changes? Looking for 6 easy midlife rules to transform what you think about food, your body, feel better and shed a few pounds, this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an informative conversation called “Food, Weight & Me In Midlife”. I am joined by nutritional therapist, registered dietitian and “fellow midlifer”, Kim Shapira. She has a masters in human metabolism and clinical nutrition and she has spent the last 25 years in the “food and weight trenches” with women like you and me. She knows what works and what doesn’t. We get into the reasons why the word “diet” feels unsafe and how to maintain a healthy, supportive midlife lifestyle. We all read so much “diet” material, yet Kim brings us a very different approach We dive into her new book, This Is What You're Really Hungry For: Six Simple Rules to Transform Your Relationship with Food to Become Your Healthiest Self.

Some Highlights:

• Diet vs. restrictive eating 
• Developing your “why”
• Emotional body vs. Physical body 
• Values are something you take with you everywhere
• Food is fuel!
• Kim’s 6 rules
• Feeling “safe” and how it impacts food choices
• How people pleasing might be affecting your health

Looking forward to connecting with you! Here are some ways to connect with me!

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EP 91: Are you an “empty nester” or getting close? I am what I call a "half empty nester” with my oldest kid who just went to college ten days ago. Are you redefining your role as a mom in midlife? I sure am! Have 1 or more kids in college or out of the house? Are you a midlife mom looking for more meaning, purpose and connection? Perhaps feeling slightly irrelevant and/or invisible? Me too! Then this episode is for you! If you are experiencing the empty nest process yourself (or preparing to in the next little while) then I might have everything you need to tackle this new step in your life.

You’ll learn: 

• About moving out of denial and into acceptance. Yes, you have a child that is old enough to graduate from high school and move out of the house
• No, that doesn’t mean you’re irrelevant. Listen to find out why 
• Expect the tears to come in the unexpected moments, you can’t plan for those emotions
• Partial acceptance is a step in the right direction 
• Navigating the stage of self pity
• How I feel like I am in a “Jell-o State” & the “Ugh Hotel”

Looking forward to connecting with you! Here are some ways to connect with me!

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