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You might already know this, but feeling loved doesn’t hinge on someone else loving you. Even if you grasp that external love can’t dictate your feelings, or recognize how societal conditioning shapes women’s views on love and dating, there may be hidden thoughts blocking you from accessing the emotions you crave. Tune in this week as I explore the distinction between loving and being loved, and which feels better. I’m sharing the fundamental socialization that has us assessing our relationships in unhelpful ways, and what happens when you switch your focus from being loved to loving.

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This week, we are joined by Richie Reseda of Question Culture to learn about how his time served in prison was a catalyst for dismantling the patriarchy behind bars.

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This week, Chidera Eggerue joins us to discuss deconstructing patriarchy, how men and women perpetuate patriarchy, and what it takes to change it.

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Does misandry hold the same weight as misogyny? Are men trying hard enough? Are women ever going to be free from patriarchy?

In this episode, The Slumflower discusses why anger is vital for liberation, how being too compassionate towards men is keeping us stuck, and why it matters to have outlets to release your rage.

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Discover the power of coaching and therapy through a feminist lens on this week's podcast episode. Tune in as we explore how understanding the impact of socialization on women's brains can transform coaching and therapy and hear from Advanced Certification in Feminist Coaching alumni Jen Fadden, Osaru Anyumba, Nicolassa Galvez, and Rachelle Siebke, as they talk about how ACFC has empowered them in their work and solidified their self-identity, the need to question established norms, how feminist coaching is also beneficial for men, and more.

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What happens when being a good girl doesn't work? What happens when you finally decide to know your worth and act on it? Is your joy worth the temporary sacrifice of familiarity and comfort? Or is it safer to settle into the subjugation and watch your life pass you by?

Chidera is the angel on your shoulder, here to remind you that it's not too late to redeem your power as a woman. She's also the shoulder demon that will 100% enable you to be that extra little bit more selfish. After all, men do it all the time right?

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This week on the podcast I’m joined by one of my Advanced Certification in Feminist Coaching students, Lindsay Poelman, and her husband, Danny, as we discuss what it’s like for men to recognize their own patriarchal socialization.

Tune in as we talk about how patriarchal conditioning is not a zero sum game, how patriarchy can be oppressive to people of all gender identities (not just women), and why the feeling of disempowerment in privileged white men can actually lead to positive change.

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People socialized as women are particularly susceptible to suffering from the burnout our entire country seems to be dealing with. That’s because they’re taught from an extremely young age that they have to take care of everyone else before they take care of themselves.

This week I’m joined by two of my Advanced Certification in Feminist Coaching students, Ali Ryan and Marissa McKool, as we look closely at how we define burnout and uncover the roles patriarchy and productivity play in it.

Tune in to learn how you can begin to heal your burnout by figuring out what your unconscious commitments are and by identifying thought patterns about your to-do list at home, and how changing your thoughts around rest (while it may feel terrible at first) can help you prevent future burnout.

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Whatever your personal belief system and religious background, if you are a human in the world, then it’s likely that you have been impacted by patriarchal religious ideologies.

On today’s podcast, you will meet a very special guest coach and graduate of my Advanced Certification in Feminist Coaching Certification program, Amy Logan. Amy calls herself the Ex-Mormon Coach and she helps people who are on the other side of Mormonism reconcile their new identity. Tune in to gain insight into Amy’s journey of questioning and eventually choosing to leave the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

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Are you hesitant to identify as a feminist? Conversely, do you struggle to understand why any woman WOULDN’T want to identify as a feminist? Cultural messaging around what feminism means is so pervasive that even proud feminists often have to shed cultural narratives that feminists are angry, humorless man-haters. When you look at the history of feminism through an intersectional lens, it becomes even clearer why some women - especially BIPOC women - may not identify with the movement.

In this episode, I am joined by four of my Advanced Certification in Feminist Coaching (ACFC) graduates to discuss their discomfort with the label prior to joining the certification, and how ACFC changed their relationship to feminism. Whether you strongly identify as a feminist, or you’re unsure about whether you want to be one and what that even means, this episode will help you understand your own blind spots around why other people may not relate to this movement as you do.

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Patriarchal beliefs are so ingrained in our society and social conditioning that they permeate how we view the world, others, and ourselves. In this episode, I am joined by global speaker, life coach, and author Andrea Owen to discuss a 4-step process to unlearning your internalized patriarchy so you can figure out what you REALLY want in life and make some noise in the world running toward it.

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Tune into today’s Listener Q&A episode for an exploration of some common areas in which the patriarchy f*cks with our brains. You will learn how to use coaching tools to deprogram patriarchal conditioning so you can: feel great about getting help with domestic tasks, stop feeling like you’re in competition with other women, stop shaming yourself for feeling proud of your accomplishments because you think you should be more “humble,” and more.

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I am over the moon to be talking with Francis ‘Poppy’ Northcutt in this week’s episode. Poppy will share her journey from the first ‘Computress’ during the Apollo 8 Mission to the first female engineer in NASA’s mission control (her team is responsible for getting the Apollo 13 home safely) and fighting for women’s rights as an attorney and full-time activist. She’s served on affirmative action committees, helped lead the charge in gender pay gaps, pregnancy leave, the women’s liberation movement and she has served as the President for NOW (the National Organization for Women).

In this episode, we talk about: 

• [3:30] Poppy’s life during World War II and the role her mother played
• [5:34] How she started working for the space program as a 'computress'
• [7:15] Being the first female working in Mission Control
• [10:00] Sex discrimination and why she became a women’s right activist
• [13:30] Discussing how women are still fighting for their rights and the equal rights amendment 
• [15:31] Extreme bills on women’s reproductive rights and the hypocrisy behind them
• [17:46] Poppy’s first big mission on Apollo 8 
• [19:31] Apollo 13 Mission and the anxiety around the movie
• [23:30] Her work on affirmative action committees in Houston
• [27:38] The start of Poppy’s law career
• [28:38] The President of the NOW state organization; fighting for reproductive rights injustice, equal rights amendment, racial justice
• [29:44] Pay gap and what we can do
• [31:16] The comparison to what is happening in Europe
• [33:15] The transgender movement, bathroom obsessions, and the role in sports
• [38:27] The discussion on the Patriarchy
• [39:10] Ending violence against women as a global issue, the stigma of shame, and violence against children
• [42:20] The importance of voting rights
• [48:42] The discussion on the defunding of the police
• [50:43] Polar vortex and its impact on energy prices
• [51:10] Poppy’s thoughts on Space X and alien life
• [53:24] Elon Musk and energy problems
• [54:30] Vaccinations and getting back to more personal interactions
• [55:43] The negative effects of the pandemic
• [57:00] Planning on working together in the future
• [58:03] Jennifer’s final thoughts on the interview

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Joining me this week is, Founder of School of Mastery, Harriette Jackson. She is a High Priestess of Light, a Gypsy Witch, a Life and Business Coach, and a Multi-Business Owner who was featured in Huffington Post. Harriette uses science, strategy, and spirituality to help people find their purpose, profit, and passion. Her clients have mastered success in all areas of their life by the tools, strategies, and teachings she gives them. We’ll dive into money consciousness, sex, and karma just to name a few but you’ll leave wanting more!

In this episode, I share: 

• [2:27] High Priestess of Light and Gypsy Witch
• [3:47] The Spark of Harriette’s Journey
• [6:52] Training Others to be a High Priestess
• [7:19] How Harriette Coaches
• [7:40] Different Types of Psychic’s
• [9:07] Clairalience and Clairvoyants
• [11:43] 3 Incarnation Intentions
• [15:00] Collective Consciousness
• [15:20] Patriarchal Construct
• [18:22] The Fall from Grace with Karmic Debt
• [18:46] The Law of Karma
• [20:35] 1 of 11 Karma’s
• [21:50] Balancing with Our Darma
• [23:29] The Light Work
• [24:18] Light Work and Shadow Work
• [25:33] Misuse of Karma
• [25:46] Money and the True Law of Abundance
• [27:11] The Channel Energies
• [28:49] Your External World is a Projection of Your Internal World
• [29:56] We Are Energy
• [30:25] Patriarchal Propaganda
• [32:16] Energetic Exchange
• [32:49] Money Conscious
• [34:19] Suicide Bridge
• [34:43] Loving to Learn
• [35:20] Harriette’s Husband’s Ancestors
• [37:19] Alchemizing Old Patterns
• [40:34] Mastering Your Energy
• [41:59] Stopping and Resting During Quarantine
• [42:26] Womb Alchemy
• [46:50] Full Moon Release
• [47:37] Sexual Manifestation
• [48:25] Sacral Chakra Stimulation
• [49:16] Vessels for Money
• [49:28] Perimenopause Stage
• [50:23] Womb Cave Day

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In this episode, Leslie Jamison, a writer and teacher, explores the potentially constructive force of female anger — and the shame that can get attached to it.

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