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    381. Change Your Mindset, Your Health, Your Life | Dr. Ellen Langer

    enAugust 31, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • The Power of Mindfulness and Art in Expanding AwarenessMindfulness encourages us to notice and embrace the ever-changing world around us, while art opens our eyes to the beauty and complexity that often goes unnoticed. Together, they cultivate a deeper connection with ourselves and the world.

      Mindfulness is about actively noticing and being present in the moment. Dr. Langer emphasizes that most people are mindless most of the time, not fully aware of their surroundings. Mindfulness can be achieved by either noticing new things about familiar objects or adopting a mindset of uncertainty and openness. This mindset allows us to recognize that everything is constantly changing and that our preconceived notions may not always be accurate. It is important to pay attention to what we take for granted and challenge our habitual frames of mind. Art can play a significant role in helping us see beyond our preconceptions and appreciate the depth and complexity of the world around us. By practicing mindfulness, we can develop a healthier mindset and a more connected body and soul.

    • The Power of Mindfulness and Fresh PerspectivesBeing mindful and questioning assumptions allows for personal growth, creativity, and a deeper understanding of the world. Cultivating mindfulness from an early age is vital for success.

      Being mindful and paying attention to what you pay attention to can have a transformative effect on our lives. Ellen Langer and Jordan Peterson discuss the importance of seeing things with fresh eyes and not assuming we already know everything. By novelizing our experiences and questioning our assumptions, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and a deeper understanding of the world around us. Whether it's through creating art, writing about past traumas, or envisioning our future, the act of being mindful allows us to break free from mindlessness and unconscious routines. It is essential to teach and cultivate mindfulness from an early age, empowering individuals to embrace uncertainty and harness its power for personal growth and success.

    • Embracing Change and Mindfulness for Personal Growth and CreativityEmbracing uncertainty and practicing mindfulness allows for personal growth, creativity, and the ability to contribute unique perspectives, by challenging ourselves and being present in the moment.

      Embracing uncertainty and being open to new perspectives is essential for personal growth and creativity. Ellen Langer emphasizes that everything is always changing, and not knowing can be a good thing because it opens up the possibility for new and exciting experiences. Jordan Peterson realizes the lack of vision-setting in the education system, which stems from a historical focus on conformity and obedience. They both agree that teaching mindlessness perpetuates the status quo and limits opportunities for individuals to contribute their unique perspectives. They discuss the importance of mindfulness, which is not about constant thinking but rather being present and engaged in the moment. By challenging ourselves and embracing change, we can foster positive emotions, exploration, and play, leading to personal growth and overcoming stress.

    • The Power of Mindfulness: Exploring the Present MomentPracticing mindfulness can enhance engagement, happiness, and overall well-being by allowing us to fully experience and appreciate the present moment, while also helping us avoid negative situations and reduce stress.

      Mindfulness is a powerful tool for engagement and happiness. Being mindful allows us to fully experience and appreciate the present moment, just like exploring a new place or going on a trip. The idea that there are circumstances where being mindless can be advantageous is challenged, as being mindful helps us avoid negative situations in the first place. Mindfulness is not exhausting but rather energizing, and it expands our realm of adaptive competence. It is associated with play, exploration, and a sense of meaning and depth. Fatigue is shown to be influenced by mindset, and stress is seen as a mindless state that can be alleviated through positive thinking and interpretation of events. Overall, becoming more mindful is beneficial in various aspects of our lives.

    • The Power of Mindset and goal-setting in Shaping Our ExperiencesBy choosing our interpretations and setting realistic goals, we can reduce stress, find fulfillment, and create positivity in any situation and occupation.

      Our mindset and perspective greatly impact our experiences and emotions. It's not the events themselves that determine how we feel, but rather the interpretations we attach to those events. By practicing mindfulness and being open to multiple interpretations, we can choose to see the positive or beneficial aspects even in seemingly negative situations. This reframing can help reduce stress and anxiety. Additionally, setting realistic and meaningful goals is important. While it's good to challenge ourselves, setting unattainable goals can lead to frustration and disappointment. Ultimately, our happiness and fulfillment come from feeling good about ourselves, our relationships, and making a positive impact, which can be achieved in any occupation.

    • Embracing opportunities and finding enjoyment in every task.Delaying gratification is not always necessary. By orienting our attention and finding ways to make tasks engaging, we can extract enjoyment and meaning from them.

      We should embrace opportunities that come our way and deviate from our plans when it aligns with our desires. Ellen Langer emphasizes that delaying gratification is not always necessary, as the world is constantly changing and our desires may also change. It is important to find enjoyment and meaning in every task, even the necessary ones. By orienting our attention and finding ways to make tasks engaging, we can extract enjoyment from them. Jordan Peterson adds that attention has been a subject of deep thought for thousands of years and shares a story from ancient Egyptian theology where they explored the concept of habit and the tendency for ordered systems to become malevolent over time.

    • The Power of Mindfulness and UnderstandingBy paying attention and being mindful of our own behaviors and values, we can better appreciate and accept others for who they are, leading to a more inclusive and respectful society.

      Paying careful attention, being mindful, can lead to self-discovery and a deeper understanding of why people behave the way they do. When we become aware of our own behaviors and values, we can better appreciate and accept others for who they are, even if they have different perspectives or behaviors that may seem challenging. Every behavior has a purpose and makes sense from the actor's perspective. This perspective encourages us to value diversity and recognize that everyone has unique strengths and contributions. By embracing this mindset, we can create a more inclusive and respectful society where everyone's abilities and perspectives are valued, fostering personal growth and better relationships.

    • Embracing Differences and Challenging Conformity for Holistic Growth.Recognizing and valuing individual differences while exploring alternative paths can lead to holistic improvement and growth, challenging the conventional standards and beliefs.

      Our individual differences should be recognized and valued. Ellen Langer emphasizes that trying to conform to one standardized way of doing things may not be beneficial for everyone. While it may be easier to follow the rules set by someone who shares our similarities, it is equally important to find our own unique approaches. Jordan Peterson raises a valid point about the contradiction between being open-minded and acknowledging the existence of varying perspectives while still striving for an ultimate standard of excellence. Langer admits that there may be contradictions and that we can live with them until we gain enough wisdom to reconcile them. In terms of health, Langer sheds light on the importance of questioning commonly held beliefs and recognizing that research findings are probabilities, not absolutes. This understanding empowers us to explore alternative paths and find new ways to meet our needs. Ultimately, the concept of mind and body unity challenges the conventional separation between our thoughts and physical well-being. By integrating the mind and body, we open up possibilities for holistic improvement and growth.

    • The Power of Mindset on Health and Well-beingOur thoughts and beliefs can influence our physical outcomes, highlighting the importance of having a positive mindset and belief in our ability to overcome challenges for better health and fulfillment in life.

      Our mindset can have a significant impact on our health and well-being. Ellen Langer shares two studies that demonstrate this phenomenon. In the first study, chambermaids who saw their work as exercise experienced weight loss, improved body measurements, and decreased blood pressure simply by changing their perception of their work. In the second study, the perceived time on a clock affected the time it took for wounds to heal and insulin levels in diabetics. These findings suggest that our thoughts and beliefs can influence our physical outcomes. Additionally, Langer shares personal anecdotes and stories of spontaneous remissions to highlight the power of the mind-body connection. By believing in our ability to overcome challenges, we can positively impact our own health and live more fulfilling lives.

    • The Power of Beliefs and Mindset in Aging and Well-beingBy challenging limitations, embracing a growth mindset, and refusing to let age define abilities, individuals can lead fulfilling lives and achieve more than they believe is possible.

      Our beliefs and mindset play a significant role in our aging process and overall well-being. Retirement, for example, can be a mixed blessing as it often leads to a narrow image of what life should be like, resulting in a rapid decline in physical and mental health. However, by challenging these limitations and adopting a more flexible and positive outlook, we can exceed expectations and lead fulfilling lives. This includes redefining our perceptions of age and refusing to let it define our abilities and limitations. The structure of reality is malleable, and our interpretation of it can shape our experiences. By embracing a growth mindset and rejecting self-imposed limitations, we can achieve far more than we believe is possible.

    • Prioritizing Quality over Quantity: Embracing a Positive Attitude Towards Life's Transitions.Focusing on maximizing the quality of our lives and embracing a positive attitude towards life's transitions is more important than obsessing over the length of our existence.

      Focusing on maximizing the quality of our lives is more important than obsessing over the length of our existence. Ellen Langer suggests that instead of adding more years to our life, we should be adding more life to our years. By being mindful and respectful towards each other, we can create a world where people look forward to the future rather than being afraid of it. The future is uncertain, and we cannot predict the changes that will occur, but by orienting ourselves towards maximizing the quality of our lives, the issue of how long that should extend will naturally resolve itself. Ultimately, it's about prioritizing our well-being and embracing a positive attitude towards life's transitions.

    • Decline in quality and challenges in academiaDespite challenges and a decline in quality, universities still support interesting work and have exceptional students.

      There has been a decline in the quality of the university enterprise over the years, according to Jordan Peterson. He observed a lack of professionalism and commitment to excellence at the University of Toronto. However, Ellen Langer points out that this may be a result of her own perspective as someone who has been in academia for a long time. She explains that the rules and regulations have increased, leading to more bureaucratic obstacles in research and intellectual activities. Additionally, she highlights that certain changes like restrictions on taking volunteers have made it more difficult to pursue research effectively. Despite these challenges, both Jordan Peterson and Ellen Langer agree that the university still supports interesting work and has exceptional students.

    • The Role of Stress in Health Issues and the Importance of a Positive MindsetStress and fear can have negative impacts on overall well-being, highlighting the need to address psychological well-being and maintain a positive mindset in managing and treating diseases like cancer.

      Stress, rather than genetics or nutrition, is a major contributor to health issues such as cancer. Ellen Langer emphasizes that the fear and stress associated with cancer in remission can have negative impacts on overall well-being. She highlights the importance of distinguishing between being in remission and being cured, as the psychological mindset and attitude play a crucial role in facing the illness. Langer also discusses the challenges faced when conducting research and the biases of review boards. Overall, this conversation sheds light on the need to address stress and fear as key factors in managing and treating diseases, emphasizing the importance of a positive mindset and psychological well-being in the healing process.

    • Balancing Boldness and Ethics in Scientific StudiesAddressing chronic stress levels and empowering individuals through a sense of control are important factors in the fight against chronic illnesses like cancer.

      There is a need for a balance between daring, creative scientific studies and ethical considerations. Jordan Peterson highlights that studies that are bold and innovative are often scuttled due to the lack of cost-benefit analysis by ethics committees. However, he also acknowledges that most scientists have a high regard for ethical conduct and the truth, as being dishonest hampers the discovery process. Moreover, the conversation touches upon the impact of stress on immune function and the potential relation to cancer recurrence, shedding light on the importance of addressing chronic stress levels. Lastly, Ellen Langer emphasizes the cultural perception of chronic illnesses like cancer, where the notion of "fighting" the disease may actually undermine the belief in one's ability to overcome it. The key takeaway is the need to challenge cultural beliefs, support those who have beaten illnesses, and empower individuals through a sense of control.

    • Cultivating Faith, Hope, and a Positive Mindset in the Face of AdversityHaving faith, hope, and a positive mindset can make a significant difference in how we face challenges, regardless of the circumstances we find ourselves in.

      Regardless of a terminal diagnosis or suffering, it is important to have faith and hope alive. The story of Job exemplifies this, as he maintained his faith and hope despite extreme suffering. Similarly, individuals facing a dread diagnosis should consider how they want to live their remaining time and focus on making each moment matter. By being mindful in the present moment, individuals stand a better chance of overcoming their challenges, such as beating cancer. The concept of the "borderline effect" further emphasizes the power of perspective and mindset in determining one's outcome. Overall, it is crucial to cultivate faith, hope, and a positive mindset as it can significantly impact the course of one's journey.

    • Taking one step at a time for mental well-beingBy breaking tasks into smaller steps and recognizing the cyclical nature of challenges, individuals can effectively manage their mental health and find hope for improvement.

      When facing challenges or mental health issues, it is important to narrow your focus and take things one step at a time. Jordan Peterson emphasizes the idea of occupying a timeframe that optimizes the challenge without overwhelming stress. This means breaking down tasks or goals into smaller, more manageable steps. Ellen Langer supports this perspective by highlighting the significance of attention to symptom variability. By tracking their moods or symptoms over time, individuals can realize that negative experiences are not permanent and can change. Both speakers agree that diagnoses should be seen as best guesses rather than absolute truths, offering hope and the possibility for improvement. Ultimately, taking incremental steps and realizing the cyclical nature of challenges can lead to real transformations.

    • Understanding the Power of Mindfulness in Improving HealthBy adopting a mindful attitude and tracking variations in our well-being, we can potentially influence our physiological responses, improve our chances of healing, and take control of our own health.

      Our perception of symptoms and our own health is not fixed. Everything in our bodies and minds fluctuates over time. By adopting a mindful attitude and paying attention to the moments when we feel better, we may be able to find solutions and improve our well-being. This approach has shown positive results in dealing with major diseases such as stroke, Parkinson's, multiple sclerosis, chronic pain, and even depression. We have the power to make things fit better for ourselves and take control of our own health. By tracking variations and finding what makes us feel better, we can potentially influence our physiological responses and increase our chances of healing and combating illness.

    • Collaborative Empiricism: Empowering Clients through Collaborative TherapyTherapists should avoid imposing solutions and instead promote collaboration and exploration, empowering clients to take ownership of their experiences and choices. This fosters a meta-learning mindset and emphasizes the therapist's role as a facilitator.

      In order to be effective in therapy, it is important for the therapist to avoid imposing solutions on the client. When a solution is imposed, it can create resistance and hinder the client's personal growth. Instead, therapists should encourage collaboration and the exploration of multiple understandings and perspectives. By allowing the client to lead the process, it promotes a sense of empowerment and ownership over their own experiences and choices. This approach, known as collaborative empiricism, not only helps find potential solutions to immediate challenges, but also fosters a meta-learning mindset focused on being attentive and open to new possibilities. It emphasizes the importance of the client's agency and the therapist's role as a facilitator rather than an authority figure.

    • The Importance of Personal Motivation and EngagementTrue change and positive outcomes in our lives can only be achieved when we ourselves decide to seek help, make positive changes, and actively engage in the process.

      The decision to seek help and make positive changes in our lives must come from within us. No matter how much someone else tries to guide us, it ultimately depends on our voluntary choice and focused attention. This is highlighted by Ellen Langer's example of how people value a service more when they pay a higher price for it. Paying for something creates a fair exchange and helps determine its value. Moreover, pricing psychological interventions also follows this principle. Making them free may seem compassionate, but it undermines the value and neutral interaction. Therefore, we should recognize that personal motivation and engagement play a crucial role in achieving positive outcomes.

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    Hey there, Alexa Z here! I am so excited and a little nervous because I have Sarah McLean, my meditation teacher, on the line. She is kind enough to take time out of her busy schedule to help me, help you demystify meditation, specifically the different types/brands of meditation.  

    I found Sarah after many years of meditating. I started meditating when I was 17 years old because I had terrible panic attacks. Meditation was a pill for me. I wish I could go back and start again; I would because now I know all the opportunities meditation has provided me, and I would have had a more consistent practice from the start. 

    Alexa: I want to welcome Sarah! Again, I am a little nervous and excited. This will be a fun back and forth conversation. I am also a bit jealous because I know you are in Santa Barbara, California, and the weather is a lot nicer than the rain, drizzle, and cold here in Annapolis, Maryland.  

    Sarah: Well, it is a bit like heaven on earth, sorry to make you jealous. Maybe we can practice Mudita, which is sympathetic joy, I hope you can feel happy for me, that I get to live in Santa Barbara after trying to convince my husband to move here for 17 years. It's great to be here, and Maryland is not too shabby. 

    Alexa: No, it isn't, and knowing that I can visit and take more classes at your new meditation center with you in Santa Barbara, makes me super happy. So let's, get right into it. Let's demystify meditation. The reason why this came to mind is that my students, clients, and even strangers come to me and say they have been studying meditation but have not started their practice. Typically, they say they are waiting for a particular time in there life to begin meditating or that they need to continue to learn about meditation before starting a practice. Sarah, what do you think about all of this. Why is it so confusing?

    Sarah: There are so many different types, categories of meditation 

    • Uses
    • Formal and informal
    • Religious, historical origin
    • Different names in other languages
    • Brand new/Brand names

    I'll share a little bit about my story and how I got into meditation. More importantly, how I realized I did not know anything about meditation.  

    Alexa: Oh, that's perfect!

    Sarah: When I was younger, I was in the military. I wanted to be a spy, but that didn't work out. I wanted to understand the mysteries of life. I did not become a spy; instead, I became a behavioral specialist; that's when I started to learn the mysteries of the mind. I worked with Soldiers who suffered from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorders (PTSD). Back then, we used medication versus meditation. Luckily for me, I was introduced to a body awareness practice. I was sitting outside of a psychiatric hospital, where, unfortunately, that's where many Soldiers who were really suffering would end up. Our whole platoon was sitting out on the lawn when one of the male nurses introduced me to a body scan. He had us all laydown, and he guided us from our head to our toes, allowing us to relax. It was only about 10 minutes. In the end, I realized that I worked with very stressed Soldiers, and I didn't even realize the amount of stress I was carrying. That moment planted a seed in me. After I got out of the Army, I looked into contemplative practices. I spent a lot of time exploring world traditions, looking for the secrets of life. I was on my mountain bike for about nine months and bicycled half-way around the world. I kept looking for the answers. I found it when I was sitting in my room in Georgetown, Washington, D.C. I was on the top of a three-story of a brownstone, learning to meditate using a silent mantra practice, through Transcendental Meditation (TM). Again, there was a contrast on how I felt before I learned, and after I silently repeated a mantra that I had no idea what it meant. It was another "ah-ha" moment.

    A few months after that, I moved to a TM community. I answered the phones and discussed mind, body, health. I was working with Deepak Chopra, who, at the time, no one was familiar with. People were looking for alternative practices and alternative healing. Many people would seek our help because of health reasons such as chemotherapy didn't work, diagnosed with Parkinson's, or depressed. I would ask all who called, "do you meditate?" They would answer with, yes, while I am watching TV, driving to work, or in the shower. I would have to convince them all to learn to meditate because meditation was required to be in the TM community. In 1990, meditation was not a "buzz word." No one talked about mindfulness. People would come to the community, and I would teach them about meditation. Unfortunately, at the time, I thought there was only one way to meditate. Though I had that great experience with the body scan, I was still "drinking the kool-aid" on the brand name of TM. So even when someone told me they were Upasana, insight, or mindfulness, or a different type of meditation, I wouldn't give it much credit.  

    Alexa: I have known you for a long time, and I have heard all your stories, but it is so fun to listen to it in order; it's starting to make so much sense to me. I have a lot of military people in this town, and a lot of military people listen to my podcast. I want everyone to take note that Sarah started her journey with meditation in the Army. How long ago was that?

    Sarah: It was 1980/1981. It was only done by a rouge male nurse, who felt the need to take us aside and try the body awareness practice. Meditation was not mandated to be a part of our training.  

    Alexa: It still isn't mandated, but it is interesting that you initially thought you would become a spy, you ended up learning about body scans. A lot of meditators feel that we can't be a meditator unless I do what Sarah does, go all those places, learn all those things. You taught me through your experiences that I can learn, and I don't have to live in an ashram for years. I am really grateful for that!

    Sarah: You are welcome!

    Alexa: Thank you for doing all the learning for all of us. 

    Sarah: I wasn't the mainstream kind of gal, I didn't want just to get married and have kids, get a job, and retire. My motivation in life was, can I find out the mysteries of this existence? What is it that animates all of creation? I know I am a little weird, but that was what was right for me.  

    I have to fast-forward after working and being in the TM organization for years. I won't go into the whole story, as you can google it. Deepak Chopra and I got kicked out of TM. Getting kicked out of an organization tells me one thing, that is that it is exclusive, not inclusive. How can you get kicked out of a meditation organization?! Well, some ways are to change your guru, changing your job, or changes that some tell you not to, but you do it anyway. I am in good company, so is Deepak Chopra. There is also Ravi Shankar, who does the Art of Living program. Many have been "kicked out" of TM. That was a warning for me, how can TM be a great organization? TM practice is a great practice.

    After I left the TM organization, I went to California with Deepak in 1992/1993. We opened up a health center. He came up with his practice, which was also a silent practice that is not TM. Deepak's practice is called Primordial Sound Meditation. I started to learn that there are a variety of practices available and they all work. You can stare at the sky, a fire, etc. to use as your object of meditation. 

    There are so many types of meditation. 

    • Zen Buddist Tradition
      • paying attention to your breath
      • counting your breath
      • asking yourself questions that stopped the mind
    • walking meditation
    • imagination meditation

    Scientists are researching meditation. I have been a research subject in a few studies. Scientists have a hard time differentiating the different types of meditation. Here are a few ways that I categorize mediation:

    • Focus awareness/concentration meditation
    • Open awareness meditation- Advanced practices
    • Guided meditation
    • Imagery meditation

    When I was in India, I learned more about meditation.  

    • Guru
    • Eat, pray, love
    • Chanting
    • Devotion

    After India, I moved into a Zen Buddist Monastery. I wanted to give up the whole notion of devotion and move into emptiness.  

    I want to share the basics of meditation. You went into meditation because you wanted to get rid of your anxiety. I went into meditation because I had a very stressful childhood, and I also suffered from panic attacks. I wanted to feel that life mattered, I mattered, and a deep sense of love.  

    There are three basic ingredients to any type of meditation. 

    [Sarah discusses in detail the below]

    • Your intention
    • Attention
    • What you are paying attention to:
    • something you hear
      • sound-based meditation
    • something you see
      • visual-based meditation
    • something you sense
      • feeling/emotion
      • moving
      • stillness

    Alexa: My listeners might still be a little unsure of where to start. When you talked about focused awareness and open awareness; I compare it to a camera, am I zooming in or am taking a wide-angled, panorama picture. I want to go back to the three things that you taught me, going back to desire, non-judgemental attitude, and focus. Sarah, I started feeling over-whelmed when I didn't have a focus. When I read your book, Soul-centered: Transform your life in 8 weeks with meditation, before knowing you, you helped me simplify meditation. Thank God, science now says we have a body, a mind, and an energy system, and neuroplasticity does exist. Sarah, I am sure you will agree with me, when science proved that neuroplasticity exists, that's when meditation became popular. Sarah, what are your thoughts?

    Sarah: Meditation is not difficult, but you do have to set yourself up to succeed. When I was writing that book, I tried to deconstruct meditation. First off, you have to recognize that many people will say that you have to clear your mind to meditate. The minute I close my eyes, my default neuro network comes in, I start a monologue with myself, and I can't clear my mind. Instead of clearing your mind, you should interrupt the constant activity of the mind by paying attention to a particular object. Yoga is about the union of subject, object. 

    • Subject: You, your consciousness
    • Object: could be:
    • Breath
    • Body movement
    • Behavior
    • Saint
    • Quality of a Saint

    When I was writing that book, it was a ten-week program. Then this study came out about neuroplasticity, neuro meaning nervous system and the brain, and plasticity meaning plastic or flexibility. In 2012, neuroplasticity studies were showing that with meditation, the thickening of the cortex can happen. Meaning you develop new neuro-pathways, new connections that help you to navigate the world more skillfully. Meditation also changes other parts of your brain. Your amygdala, the reactivity center of the brain, lessens its dominance, so you become much more responsive as the executive function of the neocortex start to become more dominant. This all results in the amygdala, "fight or flight" response becomes less apparent. You gain space between stimulus and response. This shows up in meditation as a state, and overtime shows up as traits in the brain.  

    Meditation is a practice. Find the one you like. I used to be very militant due to my time in the military, and I used to think there is only one way to meditate. So, find a practice you like and get in a routine. The best thing to do is to start meditating as soon as you get up in the morning.  

    There are many studies on the different practices of meditation and their benefits. 

    • mindfulness practice - keeps you more engaged
    • Loving-kindness, gratitude practices - cultivate emotions
    • transcending mental activity - direct experience of YOU

    Alexa: If I decided that all this information makes sense and I want to start meditation when I get up tomorrow morning, what should I do?

    Sarah: 

    Gather yourself, welcoming everything, and resisting nothing. 

    Start with 1-2 minutes of mindfulness.

    • Sit down
    • Close your eyes
    • Set yourself up 
      • Turn your phone off
      • Turn music off 
    • Sit up
    • Close your eye or gaze towards your hands/floor
    • Pay attention/observe environment and body
      • Be in the being and not in the doing

    Then, Body Scan

    Choose a focus

    • Start with breath awareness
    • Relaxation Response
    • Refocus

    It's the nature of your mind to think. Your job is to bring your mind back to your focus. 

    [Meditation Practice]

    It does not matter how many times you have to refocus, be kind to yourself, and let go of expectations.  

    Lastly, be sure to determine how long you are going to meditate. 

    Alexa: I would like to wrap up by saying, yes, there are many types of meditation, but don't worry about it and don't feel like you have to learn them all. What Sarah and I say, "just get up and start meditating." The best thing about research is that you are your own best individual subject. Pick a practice, stick with it, and enjoy it. I used the definition of meditation that comes straight from Sarah, "meditation is a practice, it's old, it's new, it's modern, it's ancient, it's all of those things, but it is a training."

    Links:

    Sarah McLean Bio

    Sarah McLean Books

    Alexa Z Meditates

     

     

     

    EP8: Yoga Nidra 101 - Is it Meditation and Why Should I Do It?

    EP8: Yoga Nidra 101 - Is it Meditation and Why Should I Do It?

    SUMMARY

    In this episode, Alexa talks about Yoga Nidra, a yogic practice that some call the sleep meditation or “the art of doing nothing.” It is an ancient technique that helps relieve stress and improve sleep.

     Alexa explains what to expect in a Yoga Nidra class. She explains how people benefit from this practice and how it is different from a seated meditation. She explains what Sankalpa is and talks about the importance of having intention.

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    HIGHLIGHTS

    2:16 A little history of Yoga Nidra

    4:50 What to expect in a Yoga Nidra class

    9:10 Who can benefit?

    13:28 Yoga Nidra and hypnosis

    15:54 What is Sankalpa?

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