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    Explore "emotionalabuse" with insightful episodes like "109. Interview with Harriet Shearsmith - The Book!", "107. Why Can't I Communicate With My Husband?", "104. Can I make it on my own?", "91. Am I Being Stonewalled?" and "88. How Do I Stop Triggering My Husband?" from podcasts like ""In Sight - Exposing Narcissism", "In Sight - Exposing Narcissism", "In Sight - Exposing Narcissism", "In Sight - Exposing Narcissism" and "In Sight - Exposing Narcissism"" and more!

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    109. Interview with Harriet Shearsmith - The Book!

    109. Interview with Harriet Shearsmith - The Book!

    You’re Not the Problem gives you the tools to recognise and heal from narcissistic and emotional abuse - out now: UK, US (affiliate links)

    This week we chat with previous guest Harriet Shearsmith, author and host of Unfollowing Mum. After Harriet's exclusive early access to 'You're Not the Problem', we hear how the book has impacted her, what she's learned from it and how things have been since we last caught up!

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on.

    Find Harriet on Instagram.

    We talk theories and strategies in our exclusive Patreon show, The Freudian Slip. Unlock instant access to over 50 episodes today on our Patreon page, including identifying your family roles, the cycle of abuse, empathy and how to spot a good apology.

    In Sight is sponsored by Pinch of Nom! Buy their amazing cookbook ‘Enjoy’ here!

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    107. Why Can't I Communicate With My Husband?

    107. Why Can't I Communicate With My Husband?

    You’re Not the Problem gives you the tools to recognise and heal from narcissistic and emotional abuse - out now: UK, US (affiliate links)

    This week our listener explains that no matter the situation or her part in it, she always feels like the problem. She describes her husband as a good man with a warm heart, but struggles to communicate with him in a way that helps him understand her needs. She asks, is it simply different love languages, or something else? 

    Content warning: mention of suicide attempt

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on.

    We talk theories and strategies in our exclusive Patreon show, The Freudian Slip. Unlock instant access to over 50 episodes today on our Patreon page, including identifying your family roles, the cycle of abuse, empathy and how to spot a good apology.

    In Sight is sponsored by Pinch of Nom! Buy their amazing cookbook ‘Enjoy’ here!

    Submit your own letter, find free resources and sign up for our weekly newsletter at www.InSightPodcast.com

    104. Can I make it on my own?

    104. Can I make it on my own?

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    This week our listener is questioning whether her husband is emotionally abusive, or are the wounds of her childhood blurring the lines? After years of control and debilitating illness, our listener asks if she should leave - and can she make it on her own if she does?

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on.

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    91. Am I Being Stonewalled?

    91. Am I Being Stonewalled?

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    For our bonus show The Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon

    This week our listener describes a relationship with her mother where she's completely invisible. After numerous slights, and outrageous behaviour around her father's death, she hasn't seen her mother for 8 months and doesn't know how to move forward.

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on. 

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    This episode is edited by Sam Atkinson you can contact him here. 

    88. How Do I Stop Triggering My Husband?

    88. How Do I Stop Triggering My Husband?

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    After years of working on herself through therapy and learning healthy communication, our listener notices a disconnect in her marriage and finds herself walking on eggshells. Is she really triggering her husband, or is there something deeper going on?

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on. 

    In Sight is sponsored by Pinch of Nom! Buy their amazing new cookbook Enjoy here now!

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    For news, tips and tricks, sign up to the newsletter here :)

    We now have Instagram! Click here to follow, and send messages to be read on the show.

    And to submit your own question, please email insightpodcastuk@gmail.com

    This episode is edited by Sam Atkinson you can contact him here. 

    E643 Ask Nick - Should I Leave My Husband For My First Love?

    E643 Ask Nick - Should I Leave My Husband For My First Love?

    Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss everyone’s favorite part of a wedding–the vows. We also read a submission from someone who has questions about casual dating etiquette. She has been seeing someone for five months, who’s recently started to send her “I miss you” texts. She’s unsure whether she should communicate her dating expectations, or whether that’d be too presumptuous. We then get to our callers. 

    Our first caller’s boyfriend is nice to everyone, but her. She’s unhappy in her relationship and how he treats her, but they share children together so she wants to know if the relationship is salvageable at all. Our second caller’s boyfriend recently broke up with her because he said he wasn’t attracted to her, but wants to make things work again. He’s offered to go to couples therapy with her, but she’s not confident if her ego can get past his words. Our final caller is trying to decide between her husband and her first love. She’s unhappy in her marriage, but has kept communication open with her first love, and isn’t sure if she wants to work on her marriage, or leave him to rekindle a past romance. 

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    74. Will Their Death Release Me?

    74. Will Their Death Release Me?

    For our bonus show The Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon

    This week our listener asks whether she won't be free of her parents until they die. Struggling with that feeling, and worried it makes her seem that she wants them to die, she asks for help understanding the relationships, and what sort of person she could be for feeling this way. 

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on. 

    Listen to Helen on Woman's Hour here.

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    We now have Instagram! Click here to follow, and send messages to be read on the show.

    And to submit your own question, please email insightpodcastuk@gmail.com

    This episode is edited by Sam Atkinson you can contact him here.

    72. Does She Only Love Me For My Money

    104 - HOMETRUTH - Using ‘boundaries’ to ‘control you’ is not healthy partnership or love. Exploring the Jonah Hill situation

    104 - HOMETRUTH - Using ‘boundaries’ to ‘control you’ is not healthy partnership or love. Exploring the Jonah Hill situation
    PSA: someone's issues and insecurities are not healthy boundaries. Join Louise Rumball on this HOMETRUTH issue where she unpacks the recent Jonah Hill situation and asks ‘when are healthy boundaries unhealthy?She chats through:  Was Jonah Hill using therapy speak & ‘healthy’ boundaries to control his girlfriend? How controlling behavior can be masked under positive speak How silent superiority is a big danger; and The importance of understanding how abuse starts small. Louise then invites clinical psychologist, Dr Tari Mack to provide professional advice on the situation and what we know.  Tune in for a fascinating episode. ----- ⭐ Want more Home Truths, Voice Notes from Lu and bonus content? Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM for weekly bonus episodes, a full back catalogue of episodes, access to our Community Area 'The House,' and our exclusive 'Ask A Therapist' room with guaranteed therapist responses. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! ⭐ ----- Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM now at: https://openhouse.supercast.com/Connect with Louise on Instagram: @iamlouiserumballFollow Louise (The Therapy Girl) on TikTok: @thetherapygirl__Connect with OPENHOUSE: @theopenhousepodcastConnect with Dr. Tari Mack on Instagram: @drtarimack Music Sources ⠀ Vibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud ⠀ Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-7YDBIGCXsY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    'It's very very sketchy and we don't know who it is'

    'It's very very sketchy and we don't know who it is'
    BE WARNED: It's LuAnna, and this podcast contains honest, upfront opinions, rants, bants and general explicit content. But you know you love it.

    In this week's LuAnna: The Podcast: Anna's using the 'Mummy club' with the kids, Lu's been frolicking in the South of France....again, Anna makes a tit out of herself in a cab, perioding at work, a tricky end of a relationship and titties flapping around in the school swimming pool.

    Plus, there's a presenter at the BBC in hot water over indecent pictures, Imo's hinting at leaving Luanna to work as a dog nanny for £100k and a kiddie rant.

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    202. Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern

    202. Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern
    What is gaslighting REALLY and what isn’t?  Plus, how to know if you’re in a relationship with a gaslighter, the three types of gaslighters, and how to break free from a gaslighter and reclaim yourself.  About Dr. Stern:  Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.  TW: @RobinSStern IG: @dr.robinstern To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    58. The Freudian Slip - Triangulation

    55. Should I be over it by now?

    55. Should I be over it by now?

    TW: Covert Sexual Abuse/Shaming of sexuality

    This week our listener is trying to answer the same question so many of us ask....should I just get over it? Are they right? Kicked out at 19 for being with a same sex partner, our listener describes a childhood full of contol and shaming. 

    Now as an adult when she tries to put in boundaries around contact, her mother flies off the handle and rages at our listener for trying to do so.

    Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on. 

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    This episode is edited by Sam Atkinson you can contact him here.

    80 - LOVEBOMBING - Lovebombing or really in love?

    80 - LOVEBOMBING - Lovebombing or really in love?
    Lovebombing is a deeply misunderstood behaviour pattern. It's not just coming on 'too fast, too soon', lovebombing actually goes  a lot deeper. In today's episode, Louise & Dr. Tari Mack discuss:  The psychology of lovebombing;  The motives behind lovebombing; The difference between speed & pressure; The difference between lovebombing & emotional immaturity;  The dark side of lovebombing & the abuse that can come next; Louise's experiences and more. Other recommended OPENHOUSE episodes to supplement this episode:  #12 - codependency - what Hailey and Justin Bieber teach us about... couple goals & codependency ft. Dr Tari Mack #13 - I don't judge Justin or Hailey, I've been on both sides of a toxic relationship  #67 -  Hard work partner or toxic relationship?  ft. Dr Tari Mack #24 - How to leave your toxic relationship ft. Maddy Anholt THE FOUR STAGES OF LOVEBOMBING - linked here––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––⭐ Want 4 - 6 bonus therapy episodes a month for just $3? ⭐ Get access to The House & OPENHOUSE's weekly premium content (click here)> or https://openhouse.supercast.com/  ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  Connect with Louise on social: @iamlouiserumballConnect with OPENHOUSE: @openhouselifeConnect with Dr Tari Mack: @drtarimackSign up to join the OPENHOUSE mailing list to receive first access to all workshops, courses and live events: www.thisisopenhouse.com ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    176. How to Find Good Love After Bad with Lily Collins

    176. How to Find Good Love After Bad with Lily Collins
    Today we’re talking about how to build healthy relationships — with ourselves and others — after enduring toxic relationships with both. 1. Signs of emotional toxicity in romantic relationships – and what finally made Lily get out of her unhealthy relationship. 2. How to begin reprogramming your brain after leaving a toxic relationship in order to trust yourself and other people again. 3. The process that caused Lily to become the smallest, quietest version of herself – and how she recovered into her biggest, brightest self. 4. What healthy conflict looks and feels like – and Lily’s new script for communicating when her old triggers arise. CW: eating disorders, emotionally toxic relationships About Lily:  Lily Collins is a Golden Globe nominated actress, author of the international bestselling book “Unfiltered: No Shame, No Regrets Just Me”, and a philanthropist. Collins can currently be seen in the Netflix series “Emily in Paris,” for which she received her second Golden Globe nomination.Lily launched Case Study Films alongside her husband Charlie McDowell. Lily's philanthropic endeavors extend to participating in various “We Day” events and the GO Campaign. Born in West Sussex, England Collins moved to the United States at age six and currently resides in Los Angeles. TW: @lilycollins IG: @lilyjcollins To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Episode 19: My Other Sister

    Episode 19: My Other Sister
    A girl named Jadyn vividly remembers dying in a past life before she was born. Not only that, the sister that she remembers dying with has come around several times to help Jadyn in her new life. To see photos related to this episode, click here Subscribe to Otherworld on Patreon for exclusive content and bonus interviews Check out our Merch Follow us on: Instagram, TikTok, Twitter To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    94: Bad Daddies..

    94: Bad Daddies..
    Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-hosts Justin and Dad Jerry! These stories all have to do with a dad who just doesn't seem to get it. These guys are setting the bar so so low. What are your thoughts on these stories?

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    My Mom Is Trying To Guilt Me Over Our Holiday Plans!

    My Mom Is Trying To Guilt Me Over Our Holiday Plans!
    On today’s show, we hear about: - A woman wondering if she needs stricter boundaries with her mom over the holidays. - What Seasonal Affective Disorder really is and what you can do about it. - A man struggling to understand why his wife left him and what he can learn from it. Lyrics of the Day: "California Dreamin'" - The Mamas And The Papas Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show.  Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp DreamCloud Churchill Mortgage Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards Redefining Anxiety Quick Read John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

    33. Are They Both Narcissists