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    Jay & Radhi Answer Questions About Productivity Hacks, Using Your Energy Effectively, and How to Have Positive Self-Talk

    Calm offers mindfulness content, CVS Health provides comprehensive healthcare services, BetterHelp offers online therapy, and Booking.com caters to travelers' preferences, all enhancing daily life and personal growth.

    enMarch 08, 2024

    About this Episode

    This episode is brought to you by BMW, and the most requested guest is back again - Jay's wife, Radhi Devlukia! Jay and Radhi swap lives for a day in the all electric BMW ix. In this episode, Jay and Radhi take a road trip to the grocery store, where she challenges Jay to complete a grocery store run, where he is tasked to find the right ingredients for their favorite recipe, without her help.

    There’s never a dull moment when Jay and Radhi are together - from their on-the-road Q&A, to their grocery store outing (especially when Jay still couldn’t tell the difference between coriander and parsley) - they continue to provide laughs, insights, and meaningful wisdom. 

    Tag along on this ride and join the challenges of modern day dating and find out who’s the most stubborn one between the two.

    What We Discuss:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 00:18 Jay’s Stuffed Pepper Recipe in Radhi’s Cookbook
    • 02:03 If We Are in Carpool Karaoke 
    • 02:44 Difference Between Drivers in LA and London
    • 03:42 What Does it Mean to Be A Backseat Driver in Life?
    • 05:35 The Three People You Will Go on a Drive With
    • 08:43 Who Usually Leave the Car Lights On?
    • 09:52 Who’s Most Likely to Get Car Sick?
    • 10:29 Would You Need Maps to Navigate Between Places?
    • 11:02 Why Doesn’t Radhi Reply to Messages Right Away?
    • 12:57 First Line to Say When You Meet in a Party
    • 14:11 What’s Your Screen Time?
    • 15:10 Do You Have an Ick About Me?
    • 16:33 It’s Time to Buy Groceries!
    • 22:35 How Does It Feel When Someone Cook For You?
    • 23:56 How Do You Manage to Stay Productive Everyday?
    • 28:03 What Kind of a Party Person Are You?
    • 31:05 Living Conditions in Refugee Camps in the Old Days
    • 31:59 Leaving an Impact in the Community Your Serve
    • 37:02 Spending Time with Family in an Indian Wedding

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    🔑 Key Takeaways

    • CVS Health supports overall health and wellness through in-person and virtual services, and personal experiences like travel and cooking can bring joy and new adventures
    • LA drivers can be more impatient and chaotic, while London drivers can be more courteous and forgiving. Both types of individuals contribute uniquely in life.
    • Road trips with loved ones can foster meaningful conversations and create cherished memories, bringing joy and connection, even when traveling with those we didn't know well or have lost. Engage in games like carpool karaoke or word association to facilitate conversation and cherish the time spent together.
    • Effective communication involves acknowledging and respecting individual differences in communication styles and reliance on technology. Jay and his partner discuss their contrasting preferences and the importance of adapting to each other's needs.
    • Incorporating adaptogenic herbs like ashwagandha and traveling for personal growth can help manage stress and improve mood in modern dating, while companies like CVS Health and brands like Nature's Way offer support for overall wellbeing.
    • Travel, trying new drinks, or making loved ones' recipes can lead to personal growth and joy
    • Self-motivation and positive self-talk can help overcome feelings of exhaustion and maintain productivity. Acknowledging and addressing the root cause of tiredness is essential for maintaining energy.
    • Planning downtime during busy periods, pushing through exhaustion, prioritizing tasks, recognizing personality traits, staying open to new experiences, and learning about global issues beyond media.
    • Despite disparities, there's gratitude for new opportunities. Celebrate humanity and serve others.
    • Investing time in getting to know loved ones through journals, interviews, or special events can lead to cherished experiences and stronger relationships.
    • Expressing emotions and deepening connections with loved ones is essential and valuable, even if it doesn't happen frequently.
    • Calm offers mindfulness content, CVS Health provides comprehensive healthcare services, BetterHelp offers online therapy, and Booking.com caters to travelers' preferences, all enhancing daily life and personal growth.

    📝 Podcast Summary

    Exploring Health and Wellness with CVS Health and Personal Experiences

    CVS Health is committed to providing comprehensive health and wellness services, both in-person and virtually, through partnerships with Oak Street Health, Signify Health, and ATNA. Meanwhile, the speaker shares her personal wellness journey and the role of herbs, specifically slippery elm bark and ginger root, in maintaining digestive health. Additionally, she emphasizes the convenience of booking accommodations through Booking.com for travel planning. In the upcoming segment, the hosts will switch roles, with the speaker going grocery shopping and cooking a Mexican rice dish for the first time. The takeaway is that CVS Health offers various services to support overall health and wellness, and personal experiences, like travel and cooking, can bring joy and new adventures.

    Differences between LA and London Driving Styles

    Driving experiences and preferences can greatly differ between cities like LA and London. While LA drivers may be more impatient and chaotic, London drivers can be more courteous and forgiving. Additionally, people have unique perspectives on being a backseat driver, with some preferring to take control and others offering criticism and advice. In life, both types of individuals are essential as they contribute differently to various situations. If given the chance for a road trip with three people, the speaker would choose their grandma, niece, and nephew for the company.

    Creating joyful moments with loved ones through conversations and shared experiences

    Having meaningful conversations and creating shared experiences with loved ones, whether living or not, can bring joy and connection. The speaker fondly recalls road trips with family members and imagines having such trips with those they didn't get to know. They suggest playing games like carpool karaoke or word association to facilitate conversation. The speaker also reflects on their own habits, like leaving items in the car, and shares how these trips have helped them appreciate the importance of preparation. Ultimately, the speaker values the time spent in the car with loved ones and the stories and memories that are created.

    Understanding and respecting communication styles and preferences

    Communication styles and reliance on technology differ between individuals. Jay and his partner discuss their experiences with carsickness, the use of peppermint to alleviate symptoms, and their reliance on maps and technology for navigation. Jay's partner expresses concern about Jay's late text replies, leading to a conversation about the pressure to respond quickly and the freedom to communicate at one's own pace. They also share their preferred methods of communication, with Jay being more of a caller and his partner being a message reader. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and respecting each other's communication styles and preferences. Additionally, they reflect on the impact of technology on their ability to navigate and absorb their surroundings, and the importance of finding a balance between relying on technology and being present in the moment.

    Managing stress and improving wellness in modern dating

    In today's digital dating scene, it's essential to be interesting at every interaction, from online profiles to real-life encounters. The constant need to be engaging can lead to high screen time and constant communication. However, finding ways to manage stress and improve wellness, such as through herbs and travel, can help navigate this challenging landscape. For instance, ashwagandha, an adaptogenic herb, can help reduce stress and improve mood. Traveling also broadens perspectives and allows for personal growth. Companies like CVS Health offer various healthcare services, including virtual and in-person care, to support overall wellbeing. And brands like Nature's Way provide high-quality herbal supplements to enhance wellness routines. By focusing on self-care and staying engaged, individuals can navigate the complexities of modern dating and improve their overall wellbeing.

    Embracing new experiences for personal growth

    Travel and trying new experiences, whether it's a new location or a new recipe, can help us evolve and grow as individuals. Booking.com can help facilitate these adventures by suggesting accommodations tailored to our unique travel styles. Moreover, the creation and consumption of Juni sparkling tea, made with adaptogens and neutropics, can provide a gentle energy boost and help combat stress, making it an excellent addition to our daily routines. Cooking a loved one's recipe, even with the same ingredients and measurements, can result in a unique and delicious experience due to the personal touch and love put into it. So, whether it's booking a trip, trying a new drink, or making a loved one's recipe, embracing new experiences can lead to personal growth and joy.

    The importance of self-motivation and positive self-talk for maintaining productivity

    Productivity and maintaining energy throughout the day are challenges for many people, including those who are highly organized and efficient. The speaker in this conversation emphasizes the importance of self-motivation and positive self-talk in overcoming feelings of exhaustion and maintaining productivity. She also highlights the significance of appreciating and being grateful for the work that one does as a source of motivation. The speaker suggests that acknowledging and addressing the root cause of tiredness, whether it be through rest or other means, is essential for maintaining energy and productivity. Overall, the conversation underscores the importance of resilience and self-motivation in overcoming energy dips and staying productive.

    Balancing rest and work for productivity and well-being

    Balancing rest and work is essential for productivity and well-being. The speaker acknowledges the importance of planning downtime during busy periods and the need to push through despite feelings of exhaustion. They also discuss the importance of training oneself to prioritize tasks over momentary feelings. Additionally, the speaker reflects on their personality traits and recognizes their tendency to socialize and engage with others, even during intense events. They also express the importance of being open to new experiences and learning about global issues beyond what is presented in the media.

    Living in Our Own Bubbles vs. Reality of Refugees' Lives

    Despite our access to information about the world, we often live in our own bubbles unaware of the realities faced by people in other parts of the world. The experiences of refugees, such as my parents, can be vastly different from our own, and many spend years in camps without basic facilities. However, even in adversity, there is gratitude for the opportunity to start anew. Meanwhile, it's inspiring to celebrate individuals like Clarence and Jackie Avon, who have made a significant impact on their communities and left lasting legacies. Stevie Wonder's performance was a poignant reminder of the power of art and music to evoke emotion and bring people together. Overall, these events underscored the importance of serving others, celebrating humanity, and being grateful for the opportunities we have.

    Exploring family memories through questions and stories

    Taking the time to ask questions and learn the stories behind the memories shared with our parents and loved ones can add depth and meaning to those memories. Whether through journals, interviews, or special events, creating opportunities to celebrate and understand the people we care about can lead to cherished experiences and stronger relationships. The podcast guest's story of using a journal to delve deeper into her family's history and the emotional impact of attending her sister's wedding are powerful reminders of the importance of investing time in getting to know the people we love.

    The bond between siblings: deep and emotional

    The bond between siblings can be deeply emotional and meaningful. During a heartfelt speech at a wedding, a speaker was moved to tears as they realized the extent of their sister's love and their own love for her. The distance and infrequent communication between them caused the emotions to build up and be expressed in a profound way during the wedding celebration. The sister's role in helping plan the wedding and her unwavering forgiveness and acceptance of the speaker added to the emotional connection. The experience reminded us that expressing emotions and deepening connections with loved ones is essential and valuable, even if it doesn't happen frequently. The wedding planning process and the sister's love served as a reminder of the importance of vulnerability and mindfulness in our daily lives.

    Explore resources for mental and physical well-being

    There are various resources available to help individuals improve their mental and physical well-being. Calm is a platform offering mindfulness content and expert guidance to help build positive habits and manage negative thoughts. CVS Health is transforming healthcare with in-person and virtual services, including mental health support. BetterHelp provides online therapy, making mental health support accessible and convenient. Lastly, Booking.com caters to travelers' preferences, offering a wide range of accommodations and an easy booking process. These resources can significantly enhance daily life and provide tools for personal growth. Calm, with its diverse range of content from renowned experts and meditation teachers, aims to make mindfulness enjoyable and effortless. CVS Health offers comprehensive healthcare services, including mental health support, to cater to individuals' needs. BetterHelp provides online therapy, making mental health support accessible and affordable. Booking.com offers a wide range of accommodations, making travel planning and booking a breeze. Listeners of On Purpose can take advantage of a 40% discount on Calm Premium by visiting calm.com/jay. CVS Health's Healthier Happens Together initiative can be explored at cbshealth.com/healthierhappens together. BetterHelp can be accessed at betterhelp.com. Booking.com is always ready to help plan unforgettable getaways at booking.com/year.

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    00:00 Intro

    03:43 What’s the First Creative Thing You Put Together?

    06:15 I Never Cared About Failure

    10:33 Developing Amnesia to Failure

    14:22 How Did You Meet Your Mentor?

    18:10 “The Boy I Mentored” 

    23:42 How Do You Show Up After a Rejection?

    26:51 Love Can Be Felt Through Music

    29:56 What Do You Do When You Wake Up?   

    32:02 Why Do You Struggle with Meditation?

    33:28 Why I Went to Therapy

    38:25 The Pressure of Perfectionism

    44:49 Do You Love to Cook?

    47:20 Do You Eat Healthy?

    48:47 Finding Comfort in Food

    54:42 What’s Your Sleep Pattern?

    56:40 Friendships Built Over the Years

    59:19 Multigenerational Friendships

    01:03:44 Better Relationship After Divorce

    01:05:52 Benny on Final Five   

    01:15:57 What’s Your Vice?

    01:17:53 Do You Take Supplements?

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    Why Your Self Worth is Keeping You Stuck & How to Stop Sabotaging Your Personal Growth With Jamie Kern Lima

    Why Your Self Worth is Keeping You Stuck & How to Stop Sabotaging Your Personal Growth With Jamie Kern Lima

    How does low self-worth stop you from moving forward?

    How can you stop self-sabotage and grow personally?

    Today, let’s welcome Jamie Kern Lima. Jamie is a New York Times bestselling author, founder of IT Cosmetics, a company she started in her living room and sold to L'Oreal in a billion-dollar deal, becoming the first female CEO of a brand in its 100+ year history. She's also an active philanthropist who has funded leadership training in more than 100 prisons and shelters across the US, and has donated over $40 million in product and funds to help women face the effects of cancer with confidence. 

    Jamie and Jay ponder on the meaning of self-worth, distinguishing it from mere confidence and challenging the misguided belief that our value is tied to our physical appearance. We get to hear the detrimental effects of self-doubt and present empowering strategies to transform your relationship with rejection, offering a new perspective that fosters resilience and self-compassion. 

    And then the conversation dives deep into personal beliefs, urging us to identify and discard unhelpful misconceptions, while giving emphasis on why authenticity is crucial and its role in conjunction with other factors in achieving success. 

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to build self-worth

    How to distinguish confidence from self-worth

    How to handle rejection

    How to overcome self-doubt

    How to remain authentic

    Together, let's learn how to distinguish your worth from external validation, turn rejection into a stepping stone, and live authentically.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    03:17 Do You Feel Worthy Today?

    10:04 Confusing Confidence with Self Worth

    17:37 Your Weight Impacts Your Worth is a Lie 

    24:03 What Has Self Doubt Cost You?

    31:25 How to Change Your Relationship with Rejection

    37:02 The 4-Part R to Reframe Rejection

    44:00 You Need This Today

    48:13 Which Lie Are You Trying to Unlearn? 

    56:32 Authenticity Alone Doesn’t Guarantee Success

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