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    Ed Mylett ON: How to Break Down Your Goals Into Achievable Steps & Simple Ways to Create Positive Daily Habits

    enApril 10, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • Jay Shetty Recommends "The Power of One More" for Achieving Success and HappinessAlways push for one more step, habit or mindset change to achieve success and happiness. Have a clear vision for your life and remember that when you feel like you've exhausted all options, you haven't.

      Jay Shetty recommends reading "The Power of One More," a book by Ed Mylet that explores the mindset of always pushing for one more step, one more habit, or one more mindset change to achieve success and happiness. Shetty, who has lived this principle in his own life, believes it has changed his life and can change others'. He shares a Thomas Edison quote that embodies this mindset: "When you feel you've exhausted all options, remember this: you haven't." Shetty and Mylet stress the importance of having a clear vision for your life and constantly striving for more.

    • Perceiving Goals as Further Away Than They Are.Our perception of our goals can create patterns that keep them out of reach. But, opportunities can be just one conversation away. Believe in them and filter in people that can help.

      We often perceive our goals and aspirations to be further away than they actually are, and this perception can lead us to create patterns and behaviors that perpetually keep them out of reach. However, the truth is that we are often just one relationship, one meeting, one conversation, or one new tactic away from completely changing the trajectory of our lives. By adopting an expectation that these opportunities exist and believing that we are capable of seizing them, our minds begin to filter in the people, places, and things that can help us achieve our goals.

    • The Power of "One More" and Transforming Pain into Purpose.No matter how difficult life may seem, through love and determination, we can turn our struggles into strengths and help others who are experiencing similar challenges. Every small step towards growth is important.

      The power of "one more" and the ability to change are two valuable lessons that can be learned from Ed MyLett's personal experience. Love and determination can overcome obstacles and help people transform their lives. The things we are most ashamed of or embarrassed by can actually qualify and empower us to help others who are going through similar struggles. Pain can turn into purpose if we use it to serve and help others. By growing as a person, we can become better equipped to help those who used to be like us.

    • Unlocking Your Imagination and Vision for a Happier FutureFocus on creating something new and exciting for your future by staying present and having a vision. Surround yourself with supportive people who ask about your goals rather than reminisce about the past.

      Operate out of your imagination and vision, rather than being tied to the outcome. People often get stuck in their history and memory, and as a result, they limit themselves from imagining new possibilities. Instead of focusing on past successes or failures, focus on creating something new and exciting for your future. One way to tell if the people around you are supportive is if they ask about your vision and what you want to create, rather than always reminiscing about the past. By staying present and having a vision for the future, you can break free from limiting patterns of thought and belief and create a happier, more fulfilling life.

    • The Power of Focusing on a New Future and Living in the Present.Don't let nostalgia hold you back from creating a brilliant future. Appreciate the present and fight for every moment with the people you love.

      Focus on creating a new future instead of living in the past. Nostalgia can make us believe that the past was better than it actually was, and this can lead to a lack of creativity and productivity. Instead, we should strive to create a brilliant, imaginative, curious, and vibrant vision for our lives. The story of Kobe Bryant also highlights the importance of living in the present and finding love for something now. One day can be incredibly powerful, and we should cherish every moment and be willing to fight for it, even if it means enduring pain and suffering, to have one more day with the people we love.

    • Cherishing Moments and People in Our LivesMake the most of our time by focusing on creating a future, telling loved ones we care, and finding inner peace as a priority. Valuing those who matter and finding joy in every moment is crucial.

      Cherish every moment and every person in our lives because we never know when it could be our last day or their last day. We should spend our time being present and creating a future rather than dwelling on the past. We should tell those we love that we love them and make things right with those who matter to us. Time is valuable, and we should make the most out of every minute by finding bliss and productivity. Lastly, we should focus on finding inner peace as a priority.

    • How Meditation & Emotions Impact Our Lives | Ed Mylett's StorySet emotional standards aligned with goals, practice intentional and outcome-oriented emotions for a fulfilling life, embrace the power of "one more" for success.

      Ed Mylett, a motivational speaker and author, talks about how meditation has helped him find peace and clarity in his life. He emphasizes the importance of setting emotional standards that align with our goals and how our emotional home impacts our daily lives. By being intentional and outcome-oriented with our emotions, we can create a more fulfilling life. Ed also shares the story of how a challenging time in his business led him to embrace the power of "one more," which has been a driving force in his success.

    • Overcoming Adversity and Building Confidence with Ed MylettMake small promises to yourself and raise your standards to gain the confidence to persevere through difficult times, whether it's building a business or simply telling loved ones how you feel.

      Ed Mylett shares his personal struggle of losing everything and being ashamed of his situation. He was ready to give up on his dreams, but his father's advice to not quit for just one more day kept him going. Ed persevered, and 30 days later, he didn't feel like quitting anymore. He encourages people who may lack self-confidence due to their past to keep making promises to themselves and to raise their standards to gain the confidence they need to keep going. This mindset and way of life can be applied to all aspects of life, from building a business to telling loved ones that we care about them.

    • Developing Self-Confidence through Small Daily ActionsBy consistently stepping outside our comfort zone and aligning our actions with our values and goals, we can develop self-confidence and believe that we deserve success based on our actions, not just talent. Regular self-reflection is important to ensure we are moving in the right direction.

      Self-confidence is not something that always comes easy, but it can be developed by taking small actions every day that are outside of our comfort zone. By doing one more call, one more meeting, or reading one more book, we become convinced that we deserve success based on our actions, not necessarily our talent. However, it's important to ensure that these actions are aligned with our values and goals. Checking in with ourselves regularly and asking what matters to us can help us avoid taking one more step in the wrong direction. Ultimately, what we believe we deserve in life is what we'll receive.

    • Checking in on Your Dreams and PrioritiesTake time to periodically evaluate your ambitions and desires to ensure they match your current values and priorities. Life is a journey with different seasons, embrace each season and focus on what matters to you now.

      It's important to check in with yourself periodically to ensure that your dreams and ambitions are still aligned with your current priorities, values, and desires. Don't be stuck operating from a past playbook or pursuing a dream that's no longer truly yours. Recognize that life is a journey with different seasons, and it's up to you to live each season well. Remember that you were born to do something great with your life and keep checking in to make sure that your current pursuits align with your greatness. Focus on what matters to you now and lean into your current season.

    • The Impact of Small Acts of KindnessGreatness doesn't have to be big. Every individual has the potential to make a difference in someone's life through small acts of kindness. Success doesn't define greatness; it's the impact we have on others that truly matters.

      Greatness doesn't have to be big and that every person has the potential to do something awesome with their life. One kind act, like helping someone get sober, can be a great moment in someone's life. Being successful doesn't define greatness; it is the impact we have on others' lives that matters. It's essential to remind yourself that you matter and to ask yourself what you can do right now to make a difference. Don't be discouraged if you start small. The universe or God prepares you to step into the next room when you step in with faith.

    • Keep Swinging: The Power of ProgressLife can feel like hitting a pinata, blindfolded and without progress. But every effort is compound pounding progress. Don't give up on your dreams, because the power of one more hit can make all the difference.

      Life is like hitting a pinata. Sometimes we feel blindfolded and swinging without progress, but that doesn't mean we should quit. Just like hitting a pinata multiple times, every effort we make is compound pounding progress. We may not see physical evidence, but if we keep swinging eventually, the candy will come out. People often give up on their dreams right before the candy comes out. We need to stick around and keep hitting our life's pinata. The power of one more hit can make all the difference. So let's keep swinging, and eventually, we'll see the results of our efforts.

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    • 26:09 Real-Time Challenges
    • 27:44 Diaper is a Symbol of Poverty
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    • 39:05 Giving Back in an Unhelpful Way
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    • 53:50 Ambassadors and Partnerships
    • 57:32 The Power of Celebrity Moms
    • 01:02:29 Maui Wildfires
    • 01:05:09 How Can You Help
    • 01:10:29 How to Create a Culture of Giving
    • 01:16:11 Instill Giving Back in Children Early
    • 01:19:42 There’s a Lot More to Be Done
    • 01:23:07 Norah and Kelly on Final Five 

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    Dr. Rahul Jandial: What Your Nightmares Are Trying to Tell You & How to Know Which Dreams You Need to Pay Attention to

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    How to improve sleep quality for better dreams

     

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    What We Discuss:

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    • 03:05 Does Everyone Dream?
    • 05:01 Why Do We Dream?
    • 09:01 Dreams in a Scientific Perspective
    • 13:30 Making Sense of a Dream
    • 19:05 Sleep Entry
    • 23:20 Erotic Dreams
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    • 37:02 Recurrent Dreams
    • 38:36 Unwanted Recurrent Dream
    • 42:11 Thoughts, Emotions, and Activities in the Brain Level
    • 48:48 How Do You Explain Nightmares?
    • 54:01 Task On
    • 56:52 Sleep Exit
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    • 01:08:02 Mental Workspace in Uncertainty
    • 01:12:58 Flashbacks vs PTSD
    • 01:17:33 Lucid Dreaming
    • 01:23:33 Can You Practice Lucid Dreaming?
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    Melinda Gates: Why Your Perfectionism Has Been Draining You & 7 Reasons You Should Spend Time Alone in Silence Today

    Melinda Gates: Why Your Perfectionism Has Been Draining You & 7 Reasons You Should Spend Time Alone in Silence Today

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    Jay Shetty

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    • 01:12:45 Melinda on Final Five  

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    Why You are Wasting Your Time with Cardio & 6 Small Changes to Make For Weight Loss (The Secret Behind Kim Kardashian’s Workout) with Senada Greca

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    How to stay active every day

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    With Love and Gratitude,

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    • 09:29 Were You Always Fit?
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    • 18:20 What Most People Struggle With
    • 23:50 The Right Reward System to Being Fit
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    • 28:32 Genetics
    • 30:12 Low Body Fat Percentage
    • 31:13 Cardio
    • 34:05 Practicing for a Marathon
    • 35:17 Nutrition Plan
    • 38:04 Muscle Loss
    • 41:28 Anxiety and Depression
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    • 45:21 Working with Kim
    • 47:13 Are You Serious About Working?
    • 49:43 Managing Nutrition vs. Workout
    • 50:51 Workout without a Trainer
    • 52:26 The Power of the Mind
    • 55:45 Senada on Final Five

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    Rob Dial: How to Break the Cycle of Procrastination & 3 Ways to Change Your Repeated Thoughts

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    In this interview, you'll learn:

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    How to change negative thought patterns

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    Jay Shetty

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    • 01:04:41 Lesson Learned the Hard Way
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    Why Love Is Not Enough & 5 Things to Focus On More in Dating & Relationships

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    Jay discusses the significance of understanding and respecting each other's values, as well as recognizing and addressing patterns of behavior. Emotional maturity, which involves managing and expressing emotions healthily, is highlighted as a key component of a stable relationship. Support and partnership are deemed more critical than love alone.

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    How to communicate your value to your partner

    How to develop emotional maturity

    How to support your partner's emotional growth

    How to build trust in your relationship

    Remember, love is important, but building a relationship on trust, values, and emotional maturity is key.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    00:00 Intro

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    04:42 #1: Love Makes Us Forget the Importance of Values

    08:56 #2: Love Makes You Forget Patterns of Behaviour

    16:09 #3: Love Makes You Forget How They Treat You

    19:29 #4: Love Versus Support

    21:46 #5: You Forget the Importance of Trust

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    Jonathan Haidt: Why Social Media Has Caused a Collapse in Mental Health & #1 Way to Solve Your Anxiety

    Jonathan Haidt: Why Social Media Has Caused a Collapse in Mental Health & #1 Way to Solve Your Anxiety

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    Today, let's welcome Jonathan Haidt is a renowned social psychologist, professor at New York University’s Stern School of Business, and a widely published author. He is known for his research on morality, culture, and the psychology of happiness. Jonathan's influential books include "The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion" and "The Coddling of the American Mind." His latest work, "The Anxious Generation," examines the profound impact of social media on young people's mental health.

    Jonathan highlights the unprecedented global collapse of mental health among youth, describing it as more significant than the COVID-19 pandemic, with girls being particularly affected by anxiety and depression, and boys showing significant social development issues.

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    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to create a healthier digital environment for kids

    How to implement age-appropriate tech usage

    How to encourage outdoor play and physical activities

    How to talk to children about the risks of social media

    How to foster resilience and emotional strength in kids

    How to create a supportive community for parents

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    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    • 08:12 Social Media is for Adults to Network
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    • 19:12 How to Make Playtime More Effective?
    • 22:59 The Effects of Technology on Different Genders
    • 29:24 Going Through Puberty on Social Media
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    • 49:26 Verified Social Media Account
    • 56:58 Why Tap Into Our Spirituality
    • 01:03:56 What is Happening to Us?
    • 01:11:31 The Greatest Distraction of Human Value
    • 01:16:23 Jonathan on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

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    If You've Been Feeling Drained... Listen To This (9 Steps To Recover And Avoid Burnout)

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    Are you struggling to manage your stress levels?

    Today, Jay talks about exhaustion, burnout, and stress, highlighting their prevalence with statistics showing that a significant portion of young adults and women report feeling drained. He introduces a practical approach to tackle these challenges, encapsulated in the "triple A" formula—Accept, Action, Attention—which encourages acknowledging negative feelings, taking actionable steps to address them, and paying mindful attention to one's mental state

    Jay also introduces the concept of "reset periods," whether it's an hour, half-day, or full day, to allow for complete mental and physical rejuvenation. The importance of self-compassion is also emphasized, encouraging individuals to replace inner criticism with supportive self-talk, which can significantly improve overall well-being.

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    How to break negative thought cycle

    How to manage your energy levels

    How to use stress strategically

    How to practice self-compassion

    How to get out of stressful situation

    Don’t let exhaustion control your life—take action today and start feeling refreshed and empowered. Listen now and share with someone who needs a boost!

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:06 Do You Feel Drained?

    03:10 #1: Learn to Break Repetitive Thoughts

    06:27 #2: You Don’t Need to Be on Full Energy All the Time

    10:20 #3: Learn to Say NO

    14:05 #4: Be Strategic with Your Time

    17:02 #5: Have a Reset Day

    18:35 #6: Be Kind to Yourself

    19:59 #7: Allow Yourself to Vent and Let It Out

    21:24 #8: Get a Restful Sleep 

    23:00 #9: Wash Your Mind the Night Before

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