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    Trigger warning: this episode contains sensitive content that may be distressing to some listeners. Topics discussed include childhood mental illness, personality disorders, child abuse, suicidal children, sexual assault, and miscarriage. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is struggling with any of these issues, please seek appropriate support from mental health professionals or helpline services.

    In today's powerful episode, we share an inspiring story of triumph over some of life's toughest challenges. Our guest opens up about their experiences, including being married to a narcissist and having a child with borderline personality disorder. Join us to discover how resilience can light the way to healing and empowerment, even in the face of life's most challenging circumstances. Tune in and be inspired by this powerful tale of strength and hope.

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