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    Why Most People Die With Regret

    en-usMay 22, 2023

    About this Episode

    In today’s episode of The Mindset Mentor Podcast we’re going to talk about something really fun… dying with regret.

    What the hell? I know… But there’s a purpose here, trust me.

    It’s important to understand this concept of dying with regret, so that YOU won’t have to.

    You don’t have to be one of those people that lay on their deathbed thinking of all the regrets they have for things they wish they’d said, or done differently… no. Not you.

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    🔑 Key Takeaways

    • To avoid experiencing the number one deathbed regret, prioritize authenticity over conformity by understanding yourself better and creating the life you truly want. Rob Dial's tips and tricks can help.
    • It's important to be true to yourself and not mold yourself to fit society's expectations. Don't lose sight of who you are in the pursuit of acceptance. Embrace your uniqueness and live authentically.
    • Accept and love yourself, including aspects that may need to change, for a more fulfilling life without the constant need for approval. Embrace your uniqueness as it is what makes you special and valuable.
    • It's never too late to pursue what truly makes you happy. Don't let fear and societal pressures hold you back from living a fulfilling life authentic to you.
    • The Importance of Self-Discovery and Pursuing our Passions  Knowing ourselves and our desires is crucial for living a fulfilling life. We must have the courage to leave our comfort zones and take action towards our goals to live a purposeful life.
    • Courage and love are crucial in chasing your dreams. Even in times of fear and uncertainty, these traits will help you stay committed and realize the life you desire.
    • Pursuing your purpose, regardless of profitability, can lead to a fulfilling and impactful life. Courageously commit to your dreams, and ask yourself what you would do if money wasn't a factor to find true fulfillment.
    • Don't let fear or others' expectations hold you back from discovering and pursuing what truly makes you happy. Embrace the time you have to make your life fulfilling and meaningful for yourself.

    📝 Podcast Summary

    Living Authentically: Avoiding the Number One Deathbed Regret

    Living a life true to yourself rather than conforming to societal expectations is the number one regret of those on their deathbeds. Our need for acceptance often leads us to develop a persona and cater to others' expectations. To avoid this regret, it's important to understand ourselves better and stop holding ourselves back from creating the life we truly want. Rob Dial provides tips and tricks to help listeners do just that. By prioritizing our authenticity over conformity, we can live a life free of regret and full of fulfillment.

    The Dangers of Losing Yourself in Society's Expectations

    As humans, we often build ourselves into who we think people want us to be. This starts at a young age when we are told how we're supposed to act, what we're supposed to do, and how we're supposed to be. However, this can cause us to lose ourselves and develop a personality based on societal expectations. The spiritual journey of being a human involves losing oneself fully to realize this is not who we want to be. The need for acceptance can make us invisible and cause us to wake up one day wondering whose life we're living. We need to remember that we were not born to be the same as everyone else and strive to be our authentic selves instead of seeking acceptance at all costs.

    The Power of Not Changing Who You Are for Approval

    We often seek external validation and approval from others, but it's important to ask ourselves if we are changing who we are to fit into their expectations. Rick Rubin's attitude of not changing himself to be liked by others is a powerful mindset to adopt. By accepting and loving ourselves, including aspects that we may need to change, we can live a more fulfilling life without the constant need for approval. As humans evolved in tribes where survival depended on social conformity, we no longer require this level of conformity in modern society. It's okay to be different, as our uniqueness is what makes us special and valuable.

    Don't Sacrifice Your Happiness for Your Career

    Investing time in a career that doesn't make you happy is not worth sacrificing the rest of your life for. Many people feel trapped and unable to pursue their passions because they have invested a lot of time in their current path. However, it's important to remember that you still have a significant amount of time left in your life to live a fulfilling life. It's never too late to start over and pursue what truly makes you happy. Often, we feel pressure to conform to others' expectations and prioritize acceptance over discovering our true selves. Don't let fear and societal pressures hold you back from living a life that is authentic to you.

    The Importance of Self-Discovery and Pursuing our Passions

    Knowing who we truly are and what we want from life is essential for self-discovery and living a fulfilling life. Many of us think we know ourselves and what we want, but often, we are living a life based on what we think others want from us. It takes courage to leave the safety of our comfort zones and pursue our passions, but it is essential for living a life true to ourselves. Even if we know what we want, it's not enough if we don't take action towards it. Self-discovery requires asking ourselves the tough questions and taking action towards our goals, even if it's scary or uncertain. By staying true to ourselves and pursuing our passions, we can live a life of purpose and fulfillment.

    The Importance of Courage and Love in Pursuing Your Dreams

    When we face fear and uncertainty in pursuing our passions and dreams, we may feel like giving up and settling for a simpler life. However, sometimes we receive unexpected reminders of the importance of courage and love to keep pushing forward. For Rob Dial, it was a letter from his father, who encouraged him to live his life with courage, love, and laughter. This reminder helped Rob stay committed to his passions and live the life he truly wanted, despite the obstacles. Ultimately, we must remember that courage and love are essential to living a fulfilling life.

    Following Your Purpose: The Impact of Pursuing Your Dreams

    Find your purpose and follow it, even if it's not immediately profitable. Constantly search for what makes you come alive and take action towards it, because if you don't, your purpose will eventually destroy you. Having the courage to pursue your dreams and commit to them, even to the point of getting a tattoo as a reminder, can lead to a fulfilling and impactful life. It's important to ask yourself what you would do if money wasn't a factor and work towards making that a reality. Knowing your true purpose may not come easily, but the search for it is necessary for personal growth and satisfaction.

    Live a life true to yourself

    Don't let fear or external expectations hold you back from living a life that is true to yourself. Take the time to discover who you truly are and what you truly want, and then make that your focus. It's never too late to start living the life you want, and the regrets of not doing so at the end of your life are the most common. Remember that you have a lot of time left in your life to make it meaningful and fulfilling. Don't waste it trying to please others or living up to their expectations. Live for yourself and your own happiness.

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