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    • Exploring the Meaning of Nirvana with Meditation Teacher Joseph GoldsteinMeditation teacher Joseph Goldstein shares insights and practical tips for striving for happiness without overthinking it, and Dan Harris explores the concept of Nirvana in Buddhism.

      The concept of Nirvana, which is often associated with enlightenment or ultimate happiness in Buddhism, can be confusing due to its cultural co-optation and the reluctance of some teachers to discuss their personal experiences with it. In this episode of 10% Happier, Dan Harris explores the meaning of Nirvana with meditation teacher Joseph Goldstein, who shares his insights and practical tips for striving for happiness without trying too hard. The episode also features a live recording from a sold-out crowd at the Armory in Boston. Additionally, the podcast sponsors, Dell and Whole Foods Market, were highlighted, with Dell offering anniversary savings on tech and Whole Foods Market providing Easter brunch ideas and the convenience of door-to-door delivery through DoorDash.

    • Exploring Nibana in BuddhismBuddhism's ultimate goal, Nibana, is infrequently discussed in Western circles but is essential for deeper spiritual understanding.

      DoorDash can make your Easter holiday easier and more convenient by delivering groceries and other essentials right to your door. The use of the code 10% can get you 50% off on your next order. Nirvana or Nibana, the ultimate goal of Buddhist teachings, is not often discussed in Western meditation circles due to its exotic nature when Buddhism was first introduced in the West. However, it's a significant concept in Asian Buddhist cultures and is worth exploring. Joseph Goldstein, a renowned meditation teacher with over 50 years of experience, prefers using the term "nibana" to focus on its spiritual aspect and strip away popular cultural connotations. Despite its infrequent mention, nibana is an essential concept in Buddhism and is worth exploring for those on the path to deeper spiritual understanding.

    • Emphasizing ethics and morality in spiritual journeyFocus on aspiration rather than striving and unrealistic expectations for spiritual growth.

      While the pursuit of enlightenment or awakening can be an exciting and meaningful journey, it's important to approach it with the right foundation and mindset. The speaker shares his experience of how the emphasis on ethics and morality was overlooked in favor of the idea of enlightenment in the past. He warns against the dangers of striving and expectation, which can hinder progress on the path. Instead, he suggests focusing on aspiration, which sets a clear direction for our work, while letting go of the frustration that comes with unmet expectations. This balanced approach can help us make progress on our spiritual journey without getting caught up in the hindrances of striving and unrealistic expectations.

    • Maintain balance between present and futureTrust the process, focus on next step while keeping aspirations in mind, and find peace through dedicated practice

      On the spiritual path, it's essential to maintain a balance between focusing on the present moment and having a clear vision of the future. My teacher, Manindraji, taught me that time is not a factor, and we should trust the process while keeping our aspirations in mind. Using the metaphor of climbing a mountain, we need to focus on the next step while keeping an eye on the summit to inspire us to keep going. Nirvana, a spiritual goal, can be understood as the ultimate peace or silence achieved through dedicated practice, where the constant hum of life's distractions ceases, and we experience the stillness within.

    • Achieving inner peace and freedom from suffering through NirvanaNirvana is the ultimate goal of Buddhism, representing the cessation of negative emotions and the stillness of the mind. Through meditation and practice, one can experience brief moments of Nirvana and gradually progress towards full enlightenment, permanently uprooting deeply conditioned patterns of craving, aversion, and ignorance.

      Nirvana, or enlightenment in Buddhism, represents the ultimate goal of achieving inner peace and freedom from suffering. This peace comes from the cessation of negative emotions like greed, hatred, and delusion. The experience of Nirvana is not a one-time event but a gradual process that involves purifying the mind and uprooting these defilements. The Buddha described Nirvana as both the stillness of the mind and the absence of these mental impurities. Through meditation and practice, one can experience brief moments of Nirvana and gradually progress towards full enlightenment. The ultimate goal is to permanently uproot these deeply conditioned patterns of craving, aversion, and ignorance. The Buddhist teachings emphasize that this peace is the highest happiness and can bring relief and transformation to individuals and the world.

    • Discovering the inner self through meditationMeditation helps explore the mind, uncover insights, and leads to personal growth, peace, and enlightenment.

      Meditation offers a practical path for self-discovery and personal growth. During the speaker's first meditation session, they discovered the ability to look inward and observe their mind. This simple yet profound realization brought a sense of calm and clarity during a turbulent time in their life. Later, they experienced a deeper level of understanding during a meditation session, which led to the realization of the concept of "unborn" or non-self, aligning with Buddhist teachings of selflessness. Meditation provides a way to explore the mind and uncover insights about oneself, ultimately leading to a greater sense of peace and enlightenment.

    • Misinterpreting spiritual realizations as the end can lead to fear and anxietySpiritual growth is a continuous journey, not a destination. Avoid misinterpreting profound moments as the end, and maintain a proper context for understanding.

      Even after experiencing profound spiritual moments or realizations, there's still a lot of work to be done. The speaker shares his personal experience of feeling a false sense of completion after a transformative moment, only to fall into fear and anxiety later. He warns against misinterpreting genuine realizations as the end, and emphasizes the importance of maintaining a proper context for understanding spiritual growth. The speaker also touches upon the complexities of cult leaders, who may possess wisdom but can fall into the trap of thinking they're done and beyond reproach. Additionally, the speaker mentions the value of having a good context for understanding spiritual concepts, and shares his fascination with true crime stories. He recommends the audiobook "Age of Vice" for those interested in thrilling audio entertainment. Lastly, he talks about the benefits of being an Audible member and the high-quality essentials available on the Quince website.

    • Recognizing deeply conditioned habits during spiritual growthDespite initial selflessness realization, deeply rooted patterns like conceit take longer to overcome. The speaker's experience highlights the importance of continued practice and self-awareness.

      During the path to enlightenment, the belief in self and doubt about the teachings are among the first things to be uprooted. However, deeper-rooted patterns like desire, aversion, and conceit take longer to overcome. The speaker shared an experience of recognizing conceit as a deeply conditioned habit, even after the initial realization of selflessness. They emphasized that the pattern still exists but with a different relationship to it. The 10% Happier app is offering a discount for those interested in starting their own meditation practice and exploring these concepts further.

    • The self is an illusion and unbornUnderstanding self as an illusion and unborn can lead to a more easeful life by reducing self-judgments and assessments, and help us see the true nature of reality as a continuous flow of sensations and thoughts.

      The concept of self is an illusion or designation for the continuous flow of our mind-body process. It's important to understand that self is not a tangible entity but rather a convenient label. This realization can lead to a more easeful life by reducing self-judgments and assessments. Furthermore, the idea of unborn refers to the unconditioned state, which is beyond the cycle of causes and conditions constantly arising in our experience. Meditation helps us refine our perception of change and see the true nature of reality as a continuous flow of sensations and thoughts. So, in essence, we are not separate entities but rather part of the ever-changing process of the universe.

    • Experience momentary nirvana through meditationMeditate daily to experience moments of enlightenment, providing relief from suffering caused by attachment and aversion, leading to improved focus, clarity, and overall well-being.

      Nirvana, or the state of enlightenment, is not just a far-off goal but can be experienced in momentary glimpses. These moments, called momentary nirvana, occur when the mind is free from greed, hatred, and delusion, providing a sense of calm and clarity. This experience is compared to the cooling down of rice, symbolizing the relief from the suffering caused by attachment and aversion. The practice of meditation can lead to such moments, even for those at the beginning of their journey, as the mind becomes more focused and perceptive. This stage is called little stream entry, where one begins to see the true nature of the self as a process rather than a solid being. Regular people can experience these moments of enlightenment through daily meditation practices, and companies like GEDIFY offer solutions, such as their shoes with custom orthotics and shock-absorbing technology, to help alleviate physical pain and improve overall well-being, contributing to a more mindful and present state.

    • Leveraging Indeed for Hiring and Finding Moments of PeaceIndeed's vast user base and intelligent matching engine help streamline hiring. Mindfulness practices, such as observing the mind, can bring moments of peace and reduce daily stressors.

      When it comes to hiring, Indeed is a valuable tool to help you find quality candidates efficiently. With over 350 million monthly visitors and a matching engine that learns from your preferences, Indeed can help streamline the hiring process. Even for those not seeking enlightenment, the concept of momentary peace and mindfulness can be applied to daily life. By observing the mind's oscillations between agitation and calm, one can find moments of peace and better manage daily stressors. Additionally, seeking guidance from a teacher or mentor can be instrumental in personal growth and development. Munindjaji's advice to observe the mind without joining anything resonated with the speaker and set them on a path of self-discovery.

    • Observing mind and practicing meditation for personal growth and happinessThrough daily observation and meditation practice, one can increase happiness, develop loving kindness, and improve overall well-being without aiming for complete enlightenment.

      Understanding the mind and personal growth can be achieved through simple observation in daily life and dedicated meditation practice. These practices can lead to increased levels of happiness, from the ordinary pleasures of life to deeper concentrative and insightful experiences. The ultimate goal of complete liberation or enlightenment is not required to experience these benefits. As Munindra said, aiming for the highest will bring all the rest along the way. This includes developing loving kindness towards oneself and others as a meditation practice, which can bring happiness and help heal even in challenging times.

    • Universal teachings of love, kindness, and letting goFind the right language to apply these teachings, understand impermanence, let go of attachment, practice mindfulness, and experience benefits through poetry and art.

      The universal teachings of love, kindness, and letting go of suffering can be applied to any situation, even in the face of tragedy or difficulty. The key is finding the appropriate language and understanding the impermanence of all things. The realization that whatever arises will also pass away can help us let go of attachment and desire, leading to moments of freedom and selflessness. Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help us deepen our understanding of these teachings and experience their benefits in our daily lives. The poetry and art can also serve as powerful expressions of these insights.

    • Exploring the Nature of ConsciousnessThrough observing thoughts and desires as temporary phenomena, we can investigate the true nature of consciousness and find peace.

      Our awareness and consciousness are not bound to our thoughts and desires. Instead, we can observe them as temporary phenomena that arise and pass in the "empty sky" of our minds. By asking who or what is knowing these experiences, we can begin to investigate the nature of consciousness itself. This practice, borrowed from Joseph Campbell and other spiritual traditions, can lead us to a deeper understanding of the great mystery of consciousness and our connection to it. In essence, we are the masters of our own awareness, and by investigating its true nature, we can find peace and relief from the constant stream of desires and sensations.

    • Recognizing the unfindability of the knowing mindAwareness of mind's unfindability brings peace and tranquility, helping us live fully in the present moment

      During moments of stress or distraction, recognizing the unfindability of the knowing mind itself can help alleviate stress and bring peace. By becoming aware of this unfindability, we can extricate ourselves from our entanglement with the story of our lives and find calm. This realization was explored during a discussion on Nirvana, an experience that was initially met with reluctance but ultimately proved helpful and potentially inspiring for further conversations on the topic. The process of recognizing the unfindability of the mind is a powerful tool for finding inner peace and tranquility, allowing us to live more fully in the present moment.

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    Your Chance for a Do-Over| Bonus Meditation with Oren Jay Sofer

    Your Chance for a Do-Over| Bonus Meditation with Oren Jay Sofer

    In this practice you'll connect with your values and set an intention for how you want to show up today.


    About Oren Jay Sofer:


    Oren has practiced meditation in the early Buddhist tradition since 1997, beginning his studies in Bodh Gaya, India with Anagarika Munindra and Godwin Samararatne. He is a long-time student of Joseph Goldstein, Michele McDonald, and Ajahn Sucitto, and a graduate of the IMS - Spirit Rock Vipassana Teacher Training, and current member of the Spirit Rock Teachers Council.

    Oren is the author of Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication, a practical guidebook for having more effective, satisfying conversations. 


    To find this meditation in the Ten Percent Happier app, you can search for “A Fresh Start,” or click here:

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    Keeping Things in Perspective | Bonus Meditation with La Sarmiento

    Keeping Things in Perspective | Bonus Meditation with La Sarmiento

    Our busy lives rarely afford us time to reflect on what’s truly important. Remembering what matters most empowers us to engage meaningfully.


    About La Sarmiento:


    La Sarmiento is the the guiding teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington's BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ Sanghas and a mentor for the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program and for Cloud Sangha. They graduated from Spirit Rock Meditation Center's Community Dharma Leader Training Program in 2012. As an immigrant, non-binary, Filipinx-American, La is committed to expanding access to the Dharma. They live in Towson, MD with their life partner Wendy and rescue pups Annabel and Bader.


    To find this meditation in the Ten Percent Happier app, you can search for “Finding Purpose: What Matters Most?” 



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    Meditation Party: The “Sh*t Is Fertilizer” Edition | Sebene Selassie & Jeff Warren

    Meditation Party: The “Sh*t Is Fertilizer” Edition | Sebene Selassie & Jeff Warren

    Today’s episode is the first in an experimental new series called Meditation Party. 


    Dan takes listener calls with fellow meditators Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren and get candid about their practices and dealing with life


    Sebene Selassie is based in Brooklyn and describes herself as a “writer, teacher, and immigrant-weirdo.” She teaches meditation on the Ten Percent Happier app and is the author of a great book called, You Belong. Jeff Warren is based in Toronto and is also a writer and meditation teacher who co-wrote the book, Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics with Dan Harris. Jeff also hosts the Consciousness Explorers podcast.


    Call (508) 656-0540 to have your question answered during the Meditation Party!



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    Jerks at Work | Amy Gallo

    Jerks at Work | Amy Gallo

    This is the third installment in our Work Life series. In other episodes, we cover topics like imposter syndrome, whether mindfulness really works at work, and whether you should actually bring your whole self to the office.


    Today's episode is one that many of us struggle with: interpersonal conflict at work. Our guest is a true ninja on this topic. Amy Gallo is a workplace expert who writes and speaks about interpersonal dynamics, difficult conversations, feedback, gender, and effective communication.


    Gallo is a contributing editor at Harvard Business Review and the author of a new book, Getting Along, How to Work with Anyone, Even Difficult People. She's also written the The Harvard Business Review Guide to Dealing With Conflict, and she cohosts the Women at Work podcast.

      


    In this episode we talk about:


    • Why quality interactions at work are so important for our professional success and personal mental health
    • Why Gallo believes one size doesn’t fit all when it comes to dealing with difficult people in the workplace 
    • Why avoidance isn’t usually an option 
    • What the research tells us about work friendships
    • Why we have a tendency to dehumanize people who have more power than us
    • Why passive aggressive people can be the most difficult to deal with
    • The provocative question of whether we are part of the problem when work conflict crops up
    • And, a taxonomy of the eight different flavors of difficult coworkers, including the pessimist, the victim, the know-it-all, and the insecure boss — with tactics for managing each. 




    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/amy-gallo-576

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