north star

Today, we're diving deep into the fascinating world of decision-making because, let's face it, we make choices left and right every single day. Some are as big as deciding to tie the knot or have kiddos, while others are as small as picking out the right T-shirt color!

So, what's the secret sauce to making the best choices for your life? Well, I've got some fantastic tips to share with you:

1️⃣ First things first, let's talk about finding your "North Star." It's like setting your life's GPS to what truly matters to you. What do you want your life to look like, and what's your ultimate purpose? Let's align your decisions with that guiding star!

2️⃣ You've got skills and talents, right? So do I! But it's essential to choose paths that align with your North Star, not just the ones that bring in the big bucks. Trust me; fulfillment is the name of the game.

3️⃣ Speaking of fulfillment, ever noticed how some choices just feel right deep down in your gut? Well, there's actual science behind it! Your gut feeling, or intuition, is a powerful decision-making tool linked to your enteric nervous system. It's your second brain, and it's worth paying attention to!

4️⃣ To make even better choices, try the "10-10-10 rule." Ask yourself how you'll feel about a decision in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years. It's like peering into the future to see if your choice stands the test of time!
 

5️⃣ Lastly, remember to pause and reflect. Give your brain some time to shift from emotional reactions to logical reasoning. This simple step can save you from impulsive decisions you might regret later.

I get it; we're often drawn to logical thinking, but sometimes our feelings and intuition are our secret superpowers. When you blend gut instincts with critical thinking, magic happens! 🌟

So, join me on this incredible journey of self-discovery and better decision-making. Hit that subscribe button, leave a comment, and let's embark on a mind-blowing adventure together!

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Welcome to an exciting new masterclass on designing the life of your dreams.

First, you’ll learn the process for identifying your own North Star, why this is important at the beginning of creating your new life, and how to use your North Star to guide you in the process of designing your life.

Next, you’ll dive deep into the 3-part framework: Emulate, Assimilate, and Innovate.

This framework is the backbone of the University of Southern California’s world-renowned Popular Music major taught at their Thornton School of Music.

It’s the creative process artists use to create songs, movies, and video games. The framework has helped launch Grammy-winning artists and touring musicians for the past decade.

I just learned about it a week ago and was so blown away that I had to share it with you.

When an artist creates a song, they begin with a blank piece of paper.

When you design your life, you are an artist with a blank canvas.

Today, you’re invited to tap into the artist within and learn how to find your North Star and use the creative process to bring your vision for your future to life.

Xo Mel 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• 3:00: Hear me describe the woman who recently became MY North Star.
• 6:40: Choosing this kind of person you want to choose as your North Star is best.
• 8:00: Shout out to Chris Sampson from the Thornton School of Music for these pillars.
• 10:15: If you skip Step One in this process, you’re making your life much harder.
• 14:15: Here’s how Jennifer Aniston made her way into our conversation. 
• 18:10: We start unpacking what Step One of the process looks like, first with music.
• 21:00: Think of the space in between where you are and want to be as special. 
• 22:15: Try using “want” instead of “need” when it comes to goals and see what happens.
• 25:20: This is what I did when I first started to dig myself out, but it took me much longer.
• 28:00: Here’s why this person is my North Star and why he puts a fire in my belly.
• 31:15: Let’s define the first two steps in this important process and how they’re different.
• 34:00: How do you know when you’re done and you’ve become your own North Star?
• 41:45: Kendall’s biggest takeaway from working through this process. 
• 42:45: The way I sign out on all my podcasts was inspired by this woman.

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