Sex

In this episode Maryliana dives into sexuality and intimacy.   She provides some thought provoking ideas to get you to think different about how sex drives us and our behaviors as well as how it drives our relationships.   We have choices, connections and everyone has a spirituality that is tied to sexuality.  Maybe not in the sense of religious conventional thinking but rather a higher level of energy, consciousness, and awareness about Sex.

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Maryliana has been teaching Breathwork for 20+yrs, sexual healing process, life awareness, and coaching people on how to live the life they want.  She is available for workshops, zoom sessions and in person sessions.  She has spent time in the jungles of Venezuela, she is from Venezuela and has presented on several continents.  

Wade is a life coach, a practitioner of aikido for over 25 years and pursues helping men find their center in life.  

In this episode I am joined by Findom Onxy Muse. She opens up about her path of becoming dominatrix and to the world of open sexuality. Starting off as a regular model and going into a monogamous relationship, to opening said relationship up to another woman, to going to her first play party. Eventually we learn how she got out from under the controlling wing of the person who taught her about being a dominatrix and making it on her own. She has a wild story to tell that you dont want to miss. 

This episode Daddy and I are discussing cucking! If you dont know, cucking is the act of "forcing" your partner (typically the man) to watch you have sex with someone else. The cuckhold is typically not allowed to partake or even touch. This is one of Daddys favorite play time activities even when he was the Dom in our relationship, as he would tell me to go play with someone else while he was away traveling. This too is a form of cucking, where the cuckhold is not at all precent but later gets a detailed description of the sexual act. Find out more about cucking and our stories playing out cuck scenes in this episode!

Relationships, at their core, are about relating – with other people, our surroundings, our past, our future. But the truth is, most of us kinda suck at it! Enter the spiral of emotional dysregulation… 

In this episode, Megan Bhatia gets right to the juicy center of relating and its role in safety, power dynamics, and agreements in our relationships. Some of what we cover:

• Recognizing & managing emotional dysregulation

• Head knowledge vs. embodied knowledge

• Jealousy in non-monogamy

• Creating safety in our relationships for "No"

• Navigating feelings of rejection

• The dom and sub within ourselves

• When one partner's trigger sets off another's & more

From monogamy to polyamory, kinky to vanilla, and even in our non-romantic relationships, understanding the nature of relating can change *everything!* 

Guest Bio – Megan Bhatia 

Megan Bhatia is the host of Amory podcast, where she and her two partners share vulnerably about their experience navigating polyamory. Viewing life through the lens of relating, Megan believes that there are endless ways to deepen our awareness when we see and understand the patterns of relating. She now works with people one-on-one and in groups to develop healthy, loving relationships starting with themselves. After traveling with her twins and two partners to over 14 countries in the last 5 years, she now happily calls Costa Rica her home.

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• The Nature Of Relating Costa Rica Retreat https://www.wetravel.com/trips/the-nature-of-relating-megan-bhatia-llc-costa-rica-43821186 

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• Book - Unbound: A Woman’s Guide To Power by Kasia Urbaniak  https://www.kasiaurbaniak.com/unbound-book  

• Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb

• Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron

• American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp

• American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex 

• Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com

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What have you believed to be normal in your marriage?

How does this "normal" sit with you?

There are so many misconceptions and societal expectations about marriage, and I want to explore these notions this week.

Too often, we find ourselves stuck in our marriages because things aren't going as "normal." We limit our individuality, hinder our personal growth, and feel pressured to show up in a way that doesn't align with who we are.

I want to challenge these conventions and empower you to embrace your true you within your most intimate relationship.

Whether you are single, in a committed relationship, or simply interested in understanding the intricacies of modern relationships, this episode is for you.

This week I'm continuing my rant as I help you explore what is normal in your marriage when it comes to:

• Sex
• Conflict
• Dependence/Independence/Interdependence
• Knowing each other
• How easy it is to have a good marriage
• Deciding if the best is yet to come
• Your ability to create happiness and joy with your spouse

If you've believed something to be normal within marriage and it doesn't feel exhilarating, I suggest you check out this week's AwakenYou in your Marriage episode. Episode 122: Shattering the Myth of "Normal" in Marriage will help you decide what you want to consider normal so you can stop residing in a lackluster relationship.

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Download my free Love Affirmations Mini-Course to help you to start thinking and feeling in a way that feels more like love.

More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/

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Were back and were kicking off with Cobra Cummander talking about pegging and anal play. We talk about the bliss that both men, women, and all in between can receive from anal. However, for men, especially straight men being the recipient of butt play can be a challenge to admit due to societies judgements. Yet, why would you turn away from something that brings you pleasure (without harm to others) just because others judge you? We talk about the best ways to start down the anal trail, the different ways to prep for the adventure, and why everyone should at least try the back door. Daddy and I also tell one of our more hilarious first time pegger stories. We're back and you dont want to miss this bum chat.