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You know those tricky early dates?

You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies.

Then texting.

Then maybe a kiss.

Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great!

Now what?

If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . .

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Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special “where are they now” update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what’s happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. 

We bring on our first caller, the infamous “Debbie,” who had originally called in regarding a strange text from a romantic interest, but has since started to date women and found herself pursuing drama instead of good partners. When we left off with her, she had begun to date someone new and seemed to be displaying healthy dating habits, but has she fallen back into her old ways? Our second caller had called in after a third attempt at a father figure had failed. Her stepfather had caused an immense amount of financial stress on her family, so we find out where their relationship is at now. Our third caller’s father had destroyed their family by dating the woman he was interested in. We find out if his relationship with his father has mended at all, and where he is in his own dating journey. 

We also have some written updates - Our caller who was catching feelings for her prison pen pal, our caller who was trying to figure out if her guy friend is into her, and our caller who was debating tattling on her ex to his mom about his cheating in order to get him off her lease. 

To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers:  

Original Episode numbers for callers:

• Episode Number: 646 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 12, 630 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 11, 575 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 7, (First appeared on 545 Francesca Farago - Likable Villain Gone Bad)

• Episode Number: 617 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 10 (First appeared on 566 Ask Nick - My BFF Flirts With My Husband

• Episode Number: 604 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 9 (First appearance on 579 Ask Nick - My Dad Stole My Girlfriend)

Original Episode numbers for written updates:

• Episode Number: 624 Ask Nick - Falling For My Prison Penpal

• Episode Number: 663 Ask Nick - Should We Get Married for a Visa?

• Episode Number: 652 Going Deeper with Heather Dubrow Plus Rachel Leviss’ Auction and Sophie and Joe’s Agreement

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My bestie (and dating detective) Justin Anderson is back to break down Raya with me and dish on my first date with "Hot Man" from the app. We discuss men's dating profiles, why I feel like I'm a catfish, if I would have another kid, Justin's big dick theory, and my epiphany with what my issue has been when it comes to dating and men and what my game plan is moving forward.

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Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Bachelor Recap Edition! We’re back with journalist and friend of show, Elizabeth Wagmeister, to discuss the third episode of Zach’s season. We start out by covering the week’s Bachelor Tea, including some headlines about Nick and why The Bachelor isn’t concerned with keeping up with Love is Blind. We dive into this week’s episode and discuss Kaity’s one on one sleepover date (what actually happened, and did they sleep in that tent?), the Bachelor Bowl 5, and Aly’s skydiving adventure. Also, the cocktail-turned-pool party, several women self-eliminating, and the shocking final rose given out. Why is Zach the ideal Bachelor, who will turn into the villain now that Christina is gone, and what can we expect when travel begins next week? 

“Maybe ABC is putting the viewers’ money where their mouth is.” 

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Happy Memorial Day! While Matt Walsh grills up some delicious wagyu burgers from our friends at Good Ranchers, he will also be responding to some horrible TikTok dating advice.

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More people are now open to online dating where many have found a good partner and a lasting relationship. It seems that with the presence of these dating platforms, it’s easier to date people now.

Probably not. Dating remains a challenge not just for people in search of a partner but also for those who are already in a relationship. We often make a lot of mistakes, unconsciously and unintentionally, while we date which often lead to miscommunication and misunderstandings, or even breakups. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us about the common mistakes we make when dating and what we can do to avoid and rectify them so we can save our existing relationships.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:34 We all make mistakes while dating
• 05:41 Mistake #1: We talk for too long and we meet too late 
• 08:17 Mistake #2: We keep checking that one person who doesn’t message us back
• 11:15 Mistake #3: We give up too soon
• 15:01 Mistake #4: Being limited by our time
• 18:23 Mistake #5: We’re not present when we’re on a date with someone
• 20:49 Mistake #6: We let the negativity of online dating precipitate into all of our communication with others
• 22:43 Mistake #7: Not sharing your pain and priorities
• 24:06 Mistake #8: We try to use too many apps all at the same time

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I’m Matthew Hussey and – by popular demand – I’m so excited to be launching my new podcast, “LOVE Life.”  In this first episode, I’m going to tell you a little bit about how I became the world’s leading dating expert for women and what you can expect to get out of the show. (Here’s a hint—even though the show is called “LOVE Life,” you’re going to learn about much more than just dating…you’re going to get some proven, practical advice you can use right away to get the most out of every other area of your life.)  We’re also going to get into a topic that all women can relate to – “emotional baggage.” I’m going to show you a simple trick to reframe your thinking that will actually make you MORE attractive to men based on your past experiences.

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