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    #281: Can I Get Through Spiritual Disappointment? With Dr. Alicia Britt Chole

    enJanuary 18, 2024

    About this Episode

    When spiritual disappointment casts a shadow on our lives, we can feel so uncertain, ungrounded, and like the light of faith has been overtaken by the dark night of the soul.

    But according to today’s guest, Dr. Alicia Britt Chole, the night is not your enemy.

    Because even though faith shines best in full sun, it grows depth in the dark. So the night is not just normal, it’s necessary, and it won’t last forever.

    Today, Alicia will teach you how to navigate the night and lean on God in the darkness, leaving you with a bright beacon of hope.

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