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    81% of married couples say that trust is one of the most important factors in a successful marriage, yet so many struggle with it in their own relationship.

    It was no different for our podcast hosts early in their relationship when Nadine admittedly struggled with trusting her then boyfriend, Duane.

    Tune in to episode 15 of A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast to hear how Duane and Nadine overcame their trust issues to enjoy a healthy, thriving marriage today.

    Plus, they discuss how to build a foundation of trust in any relationship and the key things they recommend couples avoid if they want to maintain that trust.

     

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    To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at nadine@apurposedrivenmarriage.com.

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    Be sure and have your partner take the quiz as well!

     

    Get the resources mentioned on this episode!

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    Get a FREE copy of “31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication” here: https://resources.apurposedrivenmarriage.com/conversationstarters

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    Get the resources mentioned on this episode!

    Buy "The 5 Love Languages Book" by Gary Chapman

    Take The 5 Love Languages Quiz

    Follow us for more helpful tools and resources!

    A Purpose Driven Marriage Website

    Connect with us on Instagram @apurposedrivenmarriage

    Follow us on Facebook @apurposedrivenmarriage

    Get a FREE copy of “31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication” here: https://resources.apurposedrivenmarriage.com/conversationstarters

    To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at nadine@apurposedrivenmarriage.com.

     

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    It was no different for our podcast hosts early in their relationship when Nadine admittedly struggled with trusting her then boyfriend, Duane.

    Tune in to episode 15 of A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast to hear how Duane and Nadine overcame their trust issues to enjoy a healthy, thriving marriage today.

    Plus, they discuss how to build a foundation of trust in any relationship and the key things they recommend couples avoid if they want to maintain that trust.

     

    Follow us for more helpful tools and resources!

    A Purpose Driven Marriage Website

    Connect with us on Instagram @apurposedrivenmarriage

    Follow us on Facebook @apurposedrivenmarriage

    Get a FREE copy of “31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication” here: https://resources.apurposedrivenmarriage.com/conversationstarters

    To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at nadine@apurposedrivenmarriage.com.

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    To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at nadine@apurposedrivenmarriage.com.

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    Get a FREE copy of “31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication” here: https://resources.apurposedrivenmarriage.com/conversationstarters

    To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at nadine@apurposedrivenmarriage.com.

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    To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at nadine@apurposedrivenmarriage.com.