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    HOW TO HAVE A MAJOR GLOWUP POST BREAKUP

    enJune 03, 2024

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    • Personal growthDifficult experiences can lead to personal growth and transformation, ultimately resulting in increased confidence, empowerment, and strength.

      Going through difficult experiences, such as a breakup, can be a catalyst for personal growth and transformation. It may feel painful and overwhelming at the time, but it can ultimately lead to increased confidence, empowerment, and strength. This process is like a phoenix rising from the ashes, where you come out on the other side as a more mature and unstoppable version of yourself. So, even if you're currently feeling lost or insecure, remember that this is likely the time right before a major glow up and stepping into your power. Embrace the pain as an opportunity for growth and trust that you'll come out stronger on the other side.

    • Personal growth from challenging experiencesChallenging experiences shape us into stronger individuals, help identify personal vision, and enable self-improvement through pain and motivation

      Personal growth often stems from challenging experiences. These difficult moments, although painful, shape us into stronger individuals and help us evolve. The "Dear Detached" masterclass serves as a catalyst for this transformation, enabling individuals to let go of toxic relationships and focus on their own self-improvement. To accelerate this process, it's essential to identify your personal vision of your higher self and work towards it. This visualization serves as the foundation for attracting a better reality and stepping into your power. Embracing pain and using it as motivation can lead to significant personal growth and a "glow-up."

    • Personal growth visionHaving a clear vision for our future self, including specific goals, is crucial for personal growth and transformation, even if it takes time and effort.

      Understanding your "why" and having a clear vision for your future self are crucial for personal growth and transformation. Sometimes, it takes hitting rock bottom or experiencing a painful event to motivate us to make positive changes. It's essential to focus on the reason behind these changes and keep reminding ourselves of it when we feel discouraged. Our higher self, the person we truly want to be, should be our guiding vision. We should imagine how we want to show up in the world and how we want others to perceive us. Being specific about our goals, both physical and emotional, can help us stay inspired and motivated on our journey towards self-improvement. Remember, it's not an overnight process, but having a clear vision will set us up for success.

    • Toxic RelationshipsSurrounding yourself with toxic people can hinder personal growth and happiness. Identify and let go of negative relationships, focus on positive ones, and incorporate physical activity for better mental health.

      Surrounding yourself with negative or toxic people can significantly hinder your personal growth and happiness. These individuals can drain your energy, make you feel unworthy, and even worsen mental health issues. It's crucial to identify and let go of those who do not serve your best interests and instead, focus on building relationships with people who make you feel good and support your growth. Remember, you deserve to be around individuals who bring positivity and joy into your life. As the speaker mentioned, "you're either gonna be dragged through the mud with someone for another two years or you're gonna take the scissors, chop it, chop the cord that's tying you to this person and move on." By cutting out the dead weight, you'll be able to ascend to a new level in your life and attract powerful and positive relationships. Additionally, incorporating physical activity into your daily routine can help combat feelings of depression and sadness.

    • Maintaining Mental HealthMovement and inspiration through exercise, reading, or mentors can improve mental health by clearing negative energy and keeping thoughts positive.

      Keeping your mind and body active is crucial for maintaining good mental health. Movement, whether it's through exercise, reading, or engaging in motivational content, can help clear negative energy and keep your thoughts positive. Additionally, having a mentor or role model to look up to can provide inspiration and motivation during challenging times. These small, consistent actions can make a significant impact on your overall well-being. So, whether it's going for a walk, reading a book, or finding a mentor, remember that taking care of your mind and body is essential for living a fulfilling and productive life.

    • Redefining IdentityTo live a fulfilling life, identify as a new, improved version of yourself, let go of past identities, and focus on nourishing body and mind.

      To live life to the fullest, it's essential to find inspiration and mentors, let go of past identities, and focus on nourishing your body and mind. By identifying as a new, improved version of yourself and believing in it wholeheartedly, you can overcome challenges and manifest your goals. Additionally, taking care of your physical health through healthy eating and daily movement can lead to a clearer mind and increased productivity. Remember, there's more to life than the small dramas and distractions, so keep your focus on your higher purpose and the person you aspire to be.

    • Self-care practicesPracticing self-care through sleep, exercise, affirmations, and releasing old memories can improve productivity, happiness, and overall well-being.

      Taking care of your physical and mental health is crucial for productivity, happiness, and overall well-being. The speaker shared several practical tips, including getting enough sleep, exercising, and practicing self-care rituals like using a scented heating pad and drinking sleepy tea. She also emphasized the importance of affirmations and letting go of old memories to move forward. The speaker's hack for those craving human affection during a breakup is to use a comforting heating pad and tea to create a calming and therapeutic sleep routine. Remember, taking care of yourself is an investment in your future self, and small self-care practices can make a big difference in your daily life.

    • Summer group invitationSpeaker invites listener to join a summer group, offering a discount code and expressing excitement and enthusiasm for the listener to be a part of it, emphasizing personal growth and self-care.

      The speaker is inviting the listener to join a group they are a part of, expressing excitement for the summer, and offering a discount code. They value the relationship they have with the listener and are available for any questions. The speaker's tone is positive, enthusiastic, and affectionate. It's clear that the group is important to the speaker and they believe it will be an amazing experience for the listener as well. The use of the discount code "self love" suggests a focus on personal growth and self-care within the group. Overall, the speaker is extending a warm invitation and expressing their eagerness for the listener to be a part of this community.

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