Ep 87 Releasing Stored Sadness

Listen to Steve talk about the three stages of personal transition, and the transition a couple makes as they divorce. Steve talks about the importance of setting aspirations for each type of transition - personal and relationship.

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The way to a final divorce decree can follow several paths. The traditional, or socially branded, path is the path of litigation. Many have found litigation not the right fit and even have regrets with the outcome it produced. Alternative divorce methods, like mediation, pro-se (or kitchen table), and arbitration, are becoming more prevalent. In this episode, Steve compares the traditional and alternative paths, and shares both benefits and weaknesses of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods.

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You ask, “Why is this so friggin’ hard?” Is it? Arguing against the truth is hard. Resisting things that you wish were different is hard. Becoming aware of how you create self-imposed suffering is simple. In this episode, Steve talks about struggle and its purpose and brings to light the lessons inside the toxic dance within a couple.

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Setting a resolution to forgive may seem daunting. In this episode, Steve simplifies the process of forgiveness and explains how it can be a resolution capable of meeting.

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It’s easy to drift into the negative energy of divorce. Fear, doubt, worry, resentment, vengeance, and other trappings fuel the devil within. It’s these emotions that are very much in our control. Yet so many fail to properly manage them. In this episode, I share a poem titled “A Man’s Heart” which you can find in my book Spirit Poems.

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

The holidays are a time of gathering, joy, and peace. Those finding it hard to connect with these important parts may find that their chance for peace is being stolen. In this episode, I speak about how we allow self-imposed chaos, or suffering, to steal our chance for peace this instant. I share a poem is titled “Peace Instant” which you can find in my book Spirit Poems.

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In this episode, I share a true story about my hidden miracle as an example of how you might be hiding your own miracle cultivation. I also share the poem “Cultivate Miracles” from my book Spirit Poems.

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In the episode, I speak to the recent event where a family court judge tragically lost his life, and highlight the dire importance of revamping the way couples divorce.

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In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process. Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing. Today’s poem, “Rock Bottom,” speaks to building awareness around the archetype driving the way we live and how the divorce provides a lesson that breaks this futile belief system.

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