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    #689: The Brothers Who Live One Life — The Incredible Adventures of David and Daniil Liberman

    enAugust 24, 2023

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    • Overcoming Challenges and Nurturing Intellectual CuriosityThe challenging childhood of the Lieberman Brothers in Moscow shaped their love for data analysis, which now drives their success as entrepreneurs and investors in mobile app optimization.

      The Lieberman Brothers, David and Daniel, had a challenging childhood growing up in post-Soviet Union Moscow. Despite their family's financial struggles, their parents, both accomplished scientists, continued to pursue their groundbreaking work while raising six children. Their mother, in particular, managed to balance her scientific exploration with caregiving responsibilities through the help of their grandparents and occasional support from family friends. The brothers attribute their intellectual curiosity and analytical thinking to their parents' passion for their work and each other. This upbringing instilled in them a love for data analysis, which is evident in their current pursuits as entrepreneurs and investors focused on optimizing mobile apps.

    • Embracing a Mindset of Questioning and Evidence-Based ThinkingChallenging the status quo and seeking proof is crucial for problem-solving; resilience and determination are necessary in the face of opposition.

      Tim Ferris and the Lieberman brothers learned from their parents the importance of challenging the status quo and seeking proof and data to support claims. Growing up surrounded by piles of papers and punch cards filled with data, they realized the value of conducting experiments and repeated trials to gain a deeper understanding of how things work. This mindset of questioning and searching for evidence shaped their approach to problem-solving and thinking about the world. When the Lieberman brothers presented their idea for eradicating corruption in Russia by storing governmental expenses transparently on people's machines, they faced resistance from those in power. However, they remained resilient and determined, demonstrating the same resistance and willingness to challenge the prevailing norms that they learned from their parents.

    • Fighting Corruption and Building BusinessesDavid and Daniil Liberman encounter corruption in the Russian government, prompting them to focus on grassroots initiatives. They turn down a corrupt government project and decide to build businesses outside of Russia.

      David and Daniil Liberman realized the corruption and bribery within the Russian government. They were approached by someone who warned them to stop talking about ideas that challenge the interests of those in power. This prompted them to pivot their approach and focus on grassroots efforts to enact change. However, they were later invited by the government to work on a project involving a corrupt practice of selling seats in government positions to wealthy individuals. This disgusted them, and they decided to decline the offer and pursue building their own businesses instead. This experience planted the seed in their minds that they may need to build businesses outside of Russia in the future.

    • From Internet Access to Gaming: The Libermans' Resourceful Journey in RussiaDavid and Daniil Liberman overcame obstacles and utilized innovative methods to bring internet access to households in Russia, eventually shifting their focus to supercomputing and gaming.

      David and Daniil Liberman saw an opportunity to bring internet access to households in Russia. They pre-sold contracts and used consumer loans to buy equipment and fiber optic cable. They faced challenges, such as getting permission to connect cables and facing competition. Despite these obstacles, they persevered by sneaking onto roofs and connecting buildings using crossbows. Eventually, their company was acquired by a bigger player. They then shifted their focus to supercomputing and building games. Their interest in gaming stemmed from their love for online sandbox games like TI Online. This conversation emphasizes the Libermans' resourceful and determined approach to entering the internet and gaming industry in Russia.

    • From failure to success: The journey of Daniil and David Liberman in the animation industry.Adaptability and learning from failures are key factors in overcoming challenges and achieving success. Embracing setbacks can lead to growth and innovation.

      Daniil and David Liberman faced numerous challenges and setbacks in their journey, starting with their failed gaming studio and bankruptcy. However, they were able to learn valuable lessons and transfer their experience to their next venture, an animation studio. Despite the difficulties and limited resources, they were determined to find innovative ways to overcome obstacles and improve their processes. This demonstrates the importance of adaptability, resilience, and a willingness to learn from failures. Their ability to pivot and make the most of their knowledge and skills ultimately led to their success in the animation industry. It serves as a reminder that setbacks can be stepping stones to growth and innovation.

    • Overcoming Threats and Financial Struggles: A Story of Resourcefulness and Adaptability in EntrepreneurshipSuccess in entrepreneurship relies on being resourceful, adaptable, and leveraging unexpected connections to overcome challenges and turn obstacles into opportunities.

      David and Daniil faced extreme threats and financial struggles in their business venture. They were threatened with harm to themselves and their families if they didn't return money owed. In response, they knew they had to find a new project that could generate quick cash. Through their connections, they proposed creating a political satire show using computer graphics, which could be produced in just one week. They successfully parallelized and decentralized the production process, borrowing resources from IBM to create the show. However, despite the initial support, IBM eventually backed out due to the political nature of the show. This story highlights the importance of resourcefulness, adaptability, and the power of unexpected connections in entrepreneurship.

    • Overcoming fear to achieve goals and make a meaningful impactFearlessness is a powerful tool that enables individuals to navigate difficult situations, stay true to their ideas, and effectively fight corruption, reminding us of the importance of maintaining equanimity in pursuing our passions.

      Fear can be a hindrance in achieving one's goals and making a meaningful impact. The Liberman brothers demonstrated a lack of fear in the face of real risks and threats, which allowed them to navigate difficult situations and stay true to their ideas. Their fearlessness enabled them to negotiate prepayments, pay off debts, and focus on their mission of fighting corruption. Additionally, their lack of fear of death and refusal to show fear to those who threatened them helped them maintain control and protect their interests. This serves as a reminder that overcoming fear and maintaining equanimity can be powerful tools in pursuing one's passions and effecting positive change, even in challenging circumstances.

    • The Power of Strategic TransparencyBy strategically presenting themselves as fools, David and Daniil Liberman were able to navigate a dangerous situation and protect their ideas. This emphasizes the importance of adaptability and identifying opportunities.

      Strategic transparency can be a powerful tool in achieving success. David and Daniil Liberman shared how they used the strategy of portraying themselves as fools to protect their ideas and plans. By being completely transparent about their ideas and presenting themselves as idiots, they were able to navigate a dangerous political situation and protect their interests. This strategy worked because their adversaries underestimated them and dismissed them as crazy. Additionally, the conversation highlighted the advantages of moving to the United States, particularly California, where opportunities are abundant and non-compete contracts are not enforceable. The story emphasizes the importance of adaptability, identifying opportunities, and having the freedom to pursue one's goals.

    • Perseverance and adaptability in the pursuit of success.Networking, showcasing talent, packaging technology, understanding audience preferences, navigating the complexities of the industry, resilience, and flexibility are essential for success in business.

      Perseverance and adaptability are crucial in the pursuit of success. Despite facing challenges and setbacks, Daniil and David Liberman managed to build momentum by networking with influential individuals and showcasing their ability to produce animation quickly. They understood the importance of packaging their technology within a compelling show concept, demonstrating their resourcefulness and understanding of their audience's preferences. Additionally, they learned to navigate the complexities of the entertainment industry and the power dynamics involved. However, they also experienced misfortune when their show was canceled due to a financial crisis. This highlights the unpredictable nature of business and the need to remain resilient and flexible in the face of adversity.

    • Addressing Financial Challenges and Prioritizing Transparency in the Nonprofit SectorThe Liberman brothers recognized the need for transparency in the nonprofit sector and developed a banking platform for nonprofits. They discovered that the younger generation values immediate impact and transparency in their donations, highlighting the importance of adaptability and learning from failure.

      The Liberman brothers experienced significant financial challenges in Hollywood, which led them to realize the need for transparency in the nonprofit sector. They created a transparent banking platform for nonprofits but discovered that the older generation of donors did not prioritize knowing how their money was being spent. However, the younger generation, including themselves, prioritizes seeing immediate change and transparency in the impact of their donations. The brothers also learned the importance of being adaptable and letting go of ideas that are not working. They understand that failure can occur due to various factors, such as financial crises, and that it is essential to study decision-making processes, not just outcomes.

    • When to pivot and start something newIf your startup isn't growing at double the rate within 14 months, it's time to pivot. Learning from failures and trying different ideas is essential for success in the ever-changing landscape of technology-driven businesses.

      If your startup is not growing and showing double the growth over a period of 14 months, it is time to stop and start something new. Statistics show that only a small percentage of startups become successful unicorns, and if your trajectory doesn't show the potential to reach that level, it's best to move on. It's important to understand that success often comes after multiple failures, and many billion-dollar companies were created by people who failed multiple times before finding success. Timing and technology adoption are crucial factors that can determine the success or failure of a business. Therefore, it's essential to take multiple shots at success and try different ideas, balancing between forward-looking concepts and grounded projects.

    • The Unbreakable Bond of the Liberman BrothersThrough their shared experiences and beliefs, the Liberman brothers have learned the power of unity and collaboration, enabling them to achieve remarkable feats.

      The Liberman brothers have a unique and inseparable bond that has shaped their lives and perspectives. Growing up in a small room with three bunk beds, they learned how to rely on each other for support and protection. This experience strengthened their connection and taught them the importance of teamwork. As they got older, they developed a shared passion for social justice and the belief that technology could improve governance. By combining their strengths and knowledge, they realized they could accomplish more together and appear almost superhuman to the outside world. While their approach may be confusing to some, their unity has provided numerous advantages and allowed them to accomplish great things.

    • Harnessing unique strengths and teamwork for business successEmbracing and developing individual strengths while working together as a team can lead to faster and more effective communication, increased productivity, and the ability to handle challenges.

      Daniil and David Liberman have found success in their business by embracing their unique strengths and working as a team. They have developed a system of communication where they both receive all messages and respond together, allowing them to answer faster and be more effective. They have different intuitions - David absorbs data and provides answers seemingly out of nowhere, while Daniil excels in reading people and processing knowledge. They have learned to live with their unique qualities and have doubled down on developing them further. Despite being physically separated for the first time, they were able to handle it because they knew the other was working on something important.

    • Maintaining strong relationships: The importance of adapting and making adjustments.Daniil and David prioritize their partners' needs by having separate bedrooms, showcasing the importance of adapting for healthy relationships.

      Maintaining a strong relationship while living together can be challenging, especially when it comes to romantic partnerships. Daniil and David Liberman, who are brothers, shared a single bed in their previous home. However, they recently decided to have separate bedrooms to make it easier for potential romantic partners. They recognized that their unique bond can create limitations in terms of relationships, and by having separate spaces, they hope to address this issue. While they still value spending time together, they understand the importance of considering their partners' needs and perspectives as well. This conversation highlights the importance of adapting and making adjustments for the sake of healthy relationships.

    • The Power of Unexpected ConnectionsBeing open to unexpected opportunities and connections can lead to remarkable outcomes in our lives.

      Sometimes unexpected meetings and connections can have a significant impact on our lives. The Liberman brothers shared their story of meeting a Tibetan spiritual leader, Rinpoche, during a meditation retreat. This encounter led to an invitation to meet the Dalai Lama and potentially collaborate on their ideas about living without physical borders. However, due to a storm, their one-on-one meeting with the Dalai Lama did not happen. Despite this, they received an email from Jerry Murdoch, the founder of Insight Partners, who was dining with the Dalai Lama and another monk. This connection eventually led to a close friendship and further opportunities. This story highlights the importance of being open to unexpected opportunities and connections, as they can lead to remarkable outcomes.

    • The Impact of Slow Android Performance on Snapchat's User DeclineData-driven decision-making and prompt resolution of user experience issues are crucial for maintaining success in a company.

      Snapchat's decline in users was not solely due to competition, as widely believed. Instead, the major reason for the decline was the slow performance of the Android version of the app after an update. Many Android users experienced loading times of up to 40 seconds before the feed with stories would load, causing frustration and abandonment of the app. David and Daniil Liberman, despite not specifically being responsible for this issue, spotted the problem through data analysis. They brought their insights to Evan and the engineering team, highlighting the need for faster app performance. This shows the importance of data-driven decision-making and the value of addressing user experience issues promptly to maintain a successful company.

    • Improving the Android User Experience within the Snapchat EcosystemBy recognizing the limitations of closed app stores and leveraging their product's better performance on Android, the developers were able to enhance user experience, find solutions to challenges, and contribute to Snapchat's growth in slower Android device markets.

      The developers, Daniil and David Liberman, recognized the limitations of closed ecosystem app stores and sought to improve the experience for Android users. They noticed that their product, three D avatars, worked faster on Android compared to iOS, making it quite unique. Through their experience, they learned about the limitations and looked into user behavior to better position their product within the Snapchat ecosystem. They faced challenges in obtaining immediate results due to performance degradation, but they found ways to extract data by looking at previous bugs and accidental mistakes. Despite the moral dilemma of intentionally making the user experience worse, they saw it as an opportunity to fix problems and prove their engineering skills. Their efforts contributed to the growth of Snapchat's audience, particularly in countries where Android devices are slower.

    • Balancing intuition and data analysis for goal setting and achievement.Use compound growth strategy for quantifiable goals, but don't push yourself too hard. Slow and steady progress leads to long-term success.

      Setting and achieving goals can be approached using both intuition and data analysis. When it comes to quantifiable goals, such as increasing followers or financial success, a strategy of compound growth can be effective. The idea is to evaluate your current situation and then double your results every year. This approach allows for steady and sustainable progress towards your goals. However, it's important not to try to run too fast and push yourself beyond your limits, as this can result in setbacks or even breaking things. Instead, a slow and steady approach to growth ensures long-term success in both business and personal endeavors.

    • Consistency and realistic goals: the keys to successStarting small and gradually improving, while maintaining trust and reliability, is the path to achieving success in any area of life.

      Achieving success, whether in physical activity or in business, requires consistency and realistic goals. It's important to start from a achievable level and gradually improve, rather than aiming for massive progress too quickly, which can lead to damage or failure. The story highlights the example of an Olympic team that became champions by improving their KPIs by just 1% each week. This principle can be applied to any area of life, whether it's writing books, making money, or pursuing big goals. Additionally, the importance of trust and reliability is emphasized, especially when working with family or long-term partners. Going through challenges together can strengthen relationships and build trust in each other's abilities.

    • Adversity: Uncovering Hidden Strengths and Unique Approaches to Problem-SolvingChallenges and adversity can reveal untapped strengths and innovative problem-solving methods, leading to personal and professional growth.

      Adversity reveals character. Tim Ferriss mentions that adversity builds character, but he suggests that it may just as likely reveal character. Daniil and David Liberman discuss how their parents faced challenges that ultimately shaped their perspectives and led to significant discoveries. Their father's transition from physics to biology allowed him to approach scientific research from a unique perspective, resulting in groundbreaking discoveries about how the eye works. Their parents' interdisciplinary thinking and combination of different fields led to success in their work. The key lesson here is that challenges and adversity can uncover hidden strengths and unique approaches to problem-solving, ultimately leading to personal and professional growth.

    • Unraveling the Quantum Nature of Biology for Psychology and TechnologyUnderstanding the quantum processes in biological cells can lead to advancements in both our understanding of consciousness and the development of accessible quantum computers, as well as uncover unexpected applications in different industries. Collaboration and holistic education are vital for maximizing this potential.

      Understanding the quantum nature of our biology can have profound implications for both our psychology and technological advancements. By studying the quantum processes happening inside our cells, we can gain insights into how our consciousness works and how to build more efficient quantum computers. Unlike current quantum computers that require complex environments and low temperatures, the biological quantum processes occur at room temperature, offering possibilities for creating quantum computers that are accessible and portable. Furthermore, exploring the properties of nanotubes found in cells can lead to unexpected discoveries with applications in various industries, but to fully unlock this potential, interdisciplinary collaboration and a holistic approach to education is crucial.

    • Learning to Code as a Simple Translation ProcessLearning coding is about translating problems and solutions into code, and it requires a different way of thinking. Start with fun resources and understand the fundamentals to apply them to any programming language.

      Learning coding doesn't have to be intimidating or overwhelming. Daniil Liberman and David Liberman emphasize the importance of approaching coding as a translation process, where you first describe a problem or solution in your own language and then translate it into code. They believe that the only thing you need to learn is a slightly different way of thinking and describing the world. By understanding the fundamental concepts and principles of coding, you can apply them to any programming language. They also highlight the importance of starting with fun and engaging resources, just like learning a foreign language through reading before writing. So, if you're interested in exploring coding, start with approachable resources and embrace the idea that coding is a language you can learn and master.

    • The Importance of Understanding Technical Language for Effective Collaboration and Task ManagementComprehending technical aspects allows for accurate instructions and efficient coordination, preventing missed opportunities and misunderstandings. Observing different perspectives sparks exciting ideas, while pension funds hold significant assets and influence on political decisions and regulations.

      Understanding the language of engineers is crucial for effective collaboration and task management. Whether you're an engineer, a product person, a product manager, or a marketing person, comprehending the technical aspects of a project allows you to give accurate instructions and coordinate with engineers more efficiently. Failing to do so can result in missed opportunities and misunderstandings, leading to different outcomes than intended. Additionally, this conversation highlights the importance of observing the world around us and gaining different perspectives to spark exciting and motivating ideas. The story also reveals the significant role that pension funds play in the financial market, showcasing their immense assets and influence on political decisions and regulations.

    • Shift in Education and Pension FundingDecreased government subsidies for education and pension fund issues have led to rising student debt, underfunded police departments, and potential future financial burdens for younger generations.

      There has been a significant shift in the funding of education and pension funds in the United States. In the past, government subsidies covered a large portion of college tuition, allowing students to work summer jobs and avoid accumulating excessive student debt. However, in the late 1980s and early 1990s, due to financial troubles with public pension funds, government subsidies to education decreased, resulting in rising student debt. Additionally, the guaranteed return rates for public pension funds created a massive gap between assets and liabilities, totaling about $5 trillion. This funding imbalance has not only affected education but also impacts the underfunding of police departments. As a result, younger generations are experiencing lower levels of wealth accumulation and will likely face greater financial burdens in the future.

    • The Impact of Declining Entrepreneurship on Economic Opportunities and the Solution of Converting Individual Income into SecuritiesTo address the decline in new businesses and limited job opportunities, individuals can attract equity investors and accelerate their growth potential by converting their income into securities. Additionally, investments in education can boost individual income and overall economic growth.

      The decline in new businesses created by young people is a reflection of the failing social agreement and regulations. This shift in entrepreneurship has resulted in negative consequences such as slower economies and limited job opportunities. The regulations and preferences set by previous generations have created a preference for equity over income, leading to capital gains being taxed less. To address this issue, the proposal is to convert individual income into securities, allowing individuals to attract equity investors and accelerate their growth potential. By creating a model and setting a price for personal income, individuals can form companies and eliminate bias, while investors can benefit from improved future prospects. Additionally, investments in education should be considered to increase individual income and overall economic growth.

    • Investing in Individual Income: Revolutionizing Investments and Creating OpportunitiesInvesting in individuals' future income can incentivize wider adoption, revolutionize investments, create opportunities for funding ventures, and benefit pension funds and investors by diversifying portfolios and generating greater returns.

      Individual income as equity has the potential to incentivize wider adoption and data sharing, as well as revolutionize investments in various professions. By investing in individuals' future income, such as YouTubers or college athletes, a larger market for investment can be created, resulting in faster economic growth. This approach can provide opportunities for individuals to secure funding for their ventures, like building studios or hiring employees. Furthermore, it can benefit pension funds and investors by diversifying their portfolios and generating greater returns. The success of investing in individual income showcases the possibility for regulations to change and for more professions to benefit from this innovative investment strategy.

    • Investing in athletes and the power law distributionInvesting in athletes can lead to significant financial support and opportunities, but understanding the terms and conditions is crucial. Embracing the power law distribution can enable individuals to make a positive impact on society and provide access to resources for others.

      Investing in athletes can provide significant financial support and opportunities, as seen in the case discussed. While one athlete challenged the agreement in court, he ultimately realized that the money received actually benefited him greatly. It is important to note that the managers and agents involved may have concerns about such agreements, but ultimately, it can work out well for all parties involved. The complexity of these cases emphasizes the importance of understanding the terms and conditions before signing. Furthermore, the conversation highlights the power law distribution that exists in various industries, including technology, art, and podcasts. By utilizing this power law, investing in a wider range of individuals can enable them to obtain higher education, start businesses, and create a positive impact on society. Additionally, when choosing investments, both financial potential and the potential to be a good ambassador for the model are considered, as finding great examples can shape the future and provide access to resources for others.

    • Embracing Failure and Investing in PotentialFailure is a stepping stone towards success. Investors should support founders and their future endeavors, encouraging them to learn from mistakes. Founders should not be afraid to pivot or start over, while also prioritizing self-care and exploring new opportunities.

      Failure is not the end, but rather a necessary step towards success. It is important for investors to believe in the potential of a startup and the resilience of its founders, even in the face of failure. Investing in people means supporting their future endeavors and encouraging them to learn from their mistakes. Founders should not be afraid to pivot or start over if their current project is not working. Taking care of oneself and maintaining happiness and efficiency in the long term is crucial for achieving success. It is also evident that success does not always come from a background of constant struggle; relieving pressures and having the freedom to explore new avenues can lead to bigger successes down the line.

    • Universal Free Education: Unlocking Society's PotentialProviding free education for all can create a fairer society and promote economic growth and success for everyone, eliminating unnecessary burdens like student debt.

      Providing free education for everyone, regardless of their background, can lead to unexpected and significant outcomes for society. While the initial investment may be expensive, it can create a more equitable and prosperous world. On the other hand, the stories of successful entrepreneurs often overlook the advantages they had from coming from upper-middle-class families and not experiencing real poverty or student debt. The struggle to achieve more is a universal human experience, but it doesn't necessarily require unnecessary artificial struggles, such as burdensome student loans. Instead, removing certain artificial struggles can lead to a higher level of economic growth and success for all.

    • Harnessing innovation and technology for economic growthEmbrace advancements in various sectors, leverage the power of limited liability companies, and collaborate with like-minded individuals for a prosperous future.

      Innovation and technological advancements have the potential to greatly uplift the economy. The discussion revolves around the concept of abundance and how it can be realized through advancements in various sectors like electricity, power, roads, cars, education, and more. The conversation also touches upon the significance of limited liability companies and the evolution of the market. The request made to the audience is twofold: first, to provide links to relevant topics in biology and biophysics, and second, to identify individuals they believe would be successful and worthy of investment. The audience is encouraged to communicate through a form or Instagram for further discussions and sharing of ideas.

    • Educating Older Generations for Sustainable InvestmentsInforming older individuals about the power of their financial decisions can lead to a shift towards sustainable investing, benefiting both individuals and society.

      There is a need to educate older generations and investors about the impact of their financial decisions. Many pension funds, which are largely owned by older individuals, invest in companies that may be causing harm to the environment. It is important to inform them that they have the power to choose where their money goes and to encourage them to invest in sustainable and socially responsible companies. This education can lead to a shift in the market and create a better future for everyone. While there may be challenges in implementing this change, it is crucial to have discussions and find solutions that make it easier for pensioners to make conscious investment choices. By redirecting capital towards more positive and dynamic sources of value, we can benefit both individuals and society as a whole.

    • Investing in Sustainability: A Path to Financial Success and a Cleaner SocietyAligning financial investments with sustainability can not only make a positive impact but also potentially lead to financial gains. Explore the options provided by Libermans dot co and Humanism for more information on investing and making a positive impact.

      Aligning your financial investments with your values and the future of a sustainable society can lead to financial success. David took the initiative to shift his 401(k) investments towards more sustainable companies, while Daniil kept his investments as they were. Despite earning a higher salary and having a 30% higher gross, David's financial gains were actually lower than Daniil's. This highlights the importance of investing in companies that prioritize sustainability and contribute to a cleaner society. By believing in the shift towards sustainability and investing accordingly, individuals can not only make a positive impact but also potentially benefit financially. It is possible to do what is right morally without self-destructive consequences, and investing in future generations can be highly rewarding. Consider exploring the options provided by Libermans dot co and Humanism to learn more about aligning investments and making a positive impact.

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    [17:13] On making millions before becoming a movie star.

    [19:48] Playing good bricklayer/bad bricklayer with Franco Columbu.

    [24:41] How Twins came together.

    [29:14] Meditation as one of many answers.

    [35:47] Enter Ann-Miura Ko.

    [36:14] Ann's childhood shyness.

    [38:14] The Japanese phrase Ann used as a hostile kid in Michigan.

    [40:20] How Ann overcame introversion.

    [43:13] Ann's first solo stage speech.

    [44:22] Why Ann continued with speech and debate.

    [45:17] Ann's love for competition.

    [46:54] Ann's extreme efforts for pizza.

    [48:57] The catalyst for Ann's debate improvement.

    [53:01] Debate competition format.

    [56:56] Ann's recommended resources for improving debate skills.

    [59:56] Observations on modern debate in politics and family.

    [1:02:01] The most important lesson from Ann's debating years.

    [1:04:50] Differences between debate and negotiation.

    [1:06:53] Ann's father's journey to America and favorite phrase.

    [1:10:29] Ann's world-class effort in menial job tasks.

    [1:13:15] How a Yale tour led to shadowing a CEO.

    [1:18:36] Ann's first job experience.

    [1:20:20] Ann's favorite office supplies.

    [1:21:32] Ann's cherished personal artifacts.

    [1:23:06] Ann's experience teaching Mayfield Fellows at Stanford.

    [1:24:42] A reading list and plans for Ann's Stanford startup class.

    [1:28:05] Spotting artificial inflation in startup valuations.

    [1:31:29] Why Ann changed her career path from medicine.

    [1:34:45] What Ann knew about herself that her parents and test scores didn't.

    [1:38:55] Ann's entry into venture capital and startup investing.

    [1:39:29] An encounter with Steve Jobs.

    [1:40:40] A job offer based on shared interests.

    [1:44:40] Ann's experience at CRV during 9/11.

    [1:47:55] The most expensive words in investing.

    [1:48:16] First principles thinking and common leadership decisions.

    [1:50:52] Winning strategy vs. strategy not to lose.

    [1:51:59] Manifestations of hedging as a defensive strategy.

    [1:53:46] The importance of focusing on your own race.

    [1:55:47] A need for aggressiveness to win.

    [1:56:38] How Ann met Mike Maples, Jr.

    [1:59:26] Ann's PhD plans and shift to working with Mike.

    [2:02:12] Ann's reaction to Mike's unusual proposition.

    [2:06:40] Ann's hectic first year at Floodgate.

    [2:08:41] Ann's real first name.

    [2:09:21] Ann's struggles and coping mechanisms.

    [2:14:56] Ann's superpowers.

    [2:18:44] Thunder lizards and Ann's pursuit of them.

    [2:20:20] Ann's view on AI and machine learning's impact.

    [2:23:11] Philosophy exercises and real-world applications.

    [2:24:50] Aligning collective and self-interests in problem-solving.

    [2:27:08] Books Ann has gifted or reread most.

    [2:29:09] A recent, game-changing purchase under $100.

    [2:30:28] Ann's billboard.

    [2:31:19] The meaning of Ann's Japanese name characters.

    [2:32:19] Ann's online presence and Floodgate's name origin.

    [2:34:58] Parting thoughts.

    *

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    #753: Derek Sivers and Kevin Kelly

    #753: Derek Sivers and Kevin Kelly

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode "Derek Sivers on Developing Confidence, Finding Happiness, and Saying No to Millions" and "Interview of Kevin Kelly, Co-Founder of WIRED, Polymath, Most Interesting Man In The World?"

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    [05:47] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [06:50] Enter Derek Sivers.

    [07:20] From pig show busker to circus ringleader.

    [10:42] Derek's framework for developing confidence.

    [13:05] "The standard pace is for chumps."

    [18:51] Relaxing for the same result.

    [24:01] The origins of "HELL YEAH! or no."

    [26:25] "Busy" implies a life out of control.

    [28:03] What inspired the automation of CD Baby?

    [33:22] Derek's billboard.

    [34:32] Good advice at any age: "Don't be a donkey."

    [40:24] Enter Kevin Kelly.

    [41:02] Kevin's biggest regret.

    [43:13] Finding contentment in minimalism and "voluntary simplicity" without starving to death.

    [50:33] Kevin's epiphany when he embraced writing as a late bloomer.

    [56:40] Why Kevin promised himself he would never resort to teaching English while traveling abroad.

    [59:07] Finding purpose through resilience and the creator's dilemma.

    [1:06:50] Why the appeal of being a billionaire is overrated.

    [1:11:05] Middle-aged optimization.

    [1:15:28] Realizations following a "six months until death" challenge.

    [1:20:08] Kevin's Kickstarter-funded project linking angels and robots.

    [1:22:41] Why a self-proclaimed ex-hippie waited until his 50th birthday to try LSD for the first time.

    [1:28:43] Why a population implosion is probable in the next 100 years.

    [1:36:05] The greatest gift you can give to your child.

    [1:38:21] The criteria for Amish technology assimilation.

    [1:45:03] What technology-free sabbaticals can do for you.

    [1:48:53] Long Now Foundation's vision of a better civilization.

    [1:53:33] The graphic novel teaching young people how to become indispensable.

    [1:54:52] An antidote to misguided "follow your passion" advice.

    [1:56:44] Kevin's favorite fiction book.

    [1:59:15] The resource Kevin compiled for documentary lovers.

    [2:02:47] A name Kevin considers synonymous with "success" (and why success is overrated).

    [2:05:46] What Kevin would change about himself.

    [2:07:59] Daily rituals.

    [2:10:44] How Kevin accumulated enough books to fill a two-story library.

    [2:15:19] How Adam Savage from MythBusters transformed Kevin's method of organization.

    [2:17:14] The project everyone should undertake at least once in life.

    [2:19:30] Does discovery equal invention?

    [2:20:12] Kevin's advice to his younger self.

    [2:23:16] Parting thoughts.

    *

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    #752: Terry Crews and Richard Koch

    #752: Terry Crews and Richard Koch

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #287 "Terry Crews — How to Have, Do, and Be All You Want" and episode #466 "Richard Koch on Mastering the 80/20 Principle, Achieving Unreasonable Success, and the Art of Gambling"

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    [04:48] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [05:52] Enter Terry Crews.

    [06:17] Terry's art background and growing up in Flint, Michigan.

    [15:35] A favorite failure.

    [22:40] Two ways of confronting an abusive father.

    [30:41] Terry reflects on his favorite Ralph Waldo Emerson quote.

    [34:20] How Terry coped with imposter syndrome on his first movie set — with Arnold Schwarzenegger.

    [39:17] Enter Richard Koch.

    [39:40] Richard's non-story story about wines, spirits, and chat shows.

    [41:16] Exception to my "no book quotes" policy for Richard.

    [42:10] Secrets revealed in Oxford's Bodleian Libraries.

    [47:32] Richard's peculiar talent and its discovery.

    [50:17] Richard's investing success despite weak numeracy: the star principle.

    [59:48] Richard's $1.5 million investment decision.

    [1:03:41] Business "segmentation" in The Star Principle.

    [1:06:40] Principles governing Richard's portfolio.

    [1:09:07] Richard's firing from BCG and meeting Bill Bain.

    [1:19:03] The growth share matrix (Boston box) explained.

    [1:22:50] What Bain and Company appreciated about Richard.

    [1:36:07] Results of early partner-like behavior at Bain.

    [1:40:00] Key takeaways from Perspectives on Strategy and other recommended books.

    [1:44:06] Richard's preference for principles over knowledge and The 80/20 Principle's origin.

    [1:57:58] Richard's happiness and time/energy allocation.

    [2:01:16] Comparing journaling styles.

    [2:07:24] Adventurers vs. controllers: who has more fun?

    [2:10:36] Inspiration for Unreasonable Success and How to Achieve It.

    [2:17:50] Richard's definition of success and nine landmarks of unreasonably successful people.

    [2:20:56] Landmark one: self-belief.

    [2:23:40] Landmark two: Olympian expectations.

    [2:24:34] Landmark three: transforming experiences.

    [2:32:52] Landmark four: one breakthrough achievement.

    [2:35:36] Landmark five: make your own trail.

    [2:35:50] Landmark six: find and drive your personal vehicle.

    [2:45:24] Landmark seven: thrive on setbacks.

    [2:47:54] Landmark eight: acquire unique intuition.

    [2:48:15] Landmark nine: distort reality.

    [2:48:56] How landmarks reinforce each other.

    [2:51:24] Nelson Mandela's unique intuition during imprisonment.

    [2:58:31] Richard's annual question instead of new year's resolutions.

    [3:01:44] Parting thoughts.

    *

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    #751: Elizabeth Gilbert and Jack Kornfield

    #751: Elizabeth Gilbert and Jack Kornfield

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #430 "Elizabeth Gilbert’s Creative Path: Saying No, Trusting Your Intuition, Index Cards, Integrity Checks, Grief, Awe, and Much More" and episode #300 "Jack Kornfield — Finding Freedom, Love, and Joy in the Present"

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    Timestamps:

    [05:36] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [06:38] Enter Elizabeth Gilbert.

    [07:04] Liz shares who Rayya Elias was and how she's remembered her in story at The Moth.

    [14:53] What kind of stories and storytellers make Liz break out in applause?

    [21:05] What has Liz learned from Martha Beck?

    [23:49] Staying true to one's inner compass and saying "No" without remorse.

    [27:03] The simple "No" via Byron Katie.

    [33:07] The wisdom of the body.

    [36:56] Enter Jack Kornfield.

    [37:24] Jack's connection with hang gliding and paragliding.

    [40:06] Jack's childhood, abusive father, and role as family peacemaker.

    [45:12] "If you're going to be angry, do it right."

    [47:48] Jack's transition from pre-med to Asian studies at Dartmouth.

    [49:28] From hippie to Buddhist monk.

    [50:57] Psychedelics' influence on Jack's spiritual path and current stance.

    [59:53] Meeting Stanislav Grof.

    [1:03:32] Finding and studying under Ajahn Chah.

    [1:05:59] Rookie monk training in Thailand and enduring suffering.

    [1:13:49] Long silence periods and out-of-body experiences.

    [1:16:37] Mystical experiences aren't always pleasant.

    [1:19:15] Tim's experience at Spirit Rock.

    [1:20:10] Challenges during training in Thailand and Burma.

    [1:24:47] "Hatred never ceases by hatred, but by love alone is healed..."

    [1:29:55] Advice for deep inner work with real-life responsibilities.

    [1:42:04] Compassion vs. empathy.

    [1:46:19] Technology's role in developing compassion.

    [1:47:26] Lovingkindness meditation for Westerners.

    [1:56:04] Attending the first White House Buddhist Leadership Conference.

    [1:57:59] The mission of CASEL.

    [1:59:18] Introducing mindfulness practice and love as a superpower.

    [2:10:11] Returning to self-discovery after derailment.

    [2:15:57] Apparent derailment as necessary communication.

    [2:19:17] Self-talk for managing inappropriate anger.

    [2:37:21] Returning to the US to study clinical psychology.

    [2:42:50] Using forgiveness to help veterans and at-risk youth.

    [2:45:30] Why community support beats community apathy.

    [2:49:23] Lack of significant initiation rituals in modern society.

    [2:53:10] Recommended book for newcomers to Jack's work.

    [2:57:48] Jack's billboard.

    [2:59:02] Parting thoughts.

    *

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    #750: Neil Gaiman and Debbie Millman

    #750: Neil Gaiman and Debbie Millman

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #366 "Neil Gaiman — The Interview I've Waited 20 Years to Do" and episode #214 "How to Design a Life — Debbie Millman."

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    Timestamps:

    [05:11] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [06:14] Enter Neil Gaiman.

    [06:44] What Ian Fleming taught Neil about writing — even when he doesn't want to.

    [09:56] Neil's biggest rule for writing.

    [12:41] Neil's process for writing first drafts.

    [14:30] What Neil aims to accomplish with his second drafts.

    [14:40] Something Neil noticed when he first started writing and editing with the use of computers.

    [17:27] Notebooks Neil prefers for writing first drafts.

    [21:56] Fountain pens Neil has known and loved.

    [22:57] How Neil's default writing time has changed over the years.

    [24:56] The value of the Groundhog Day routine.

    [26:24] Today's methods may not be tomorrow's.

    [27:53] Lessons learned from Terry Pratchett.

    [29:22] Parting thoughts and gratitude.

    [31:21] Enter Debbie Millman.

    [31:45] How Debbie describes her diverse background to new acquaintances.

    [33:38] A childhood drawing predicting Debbie's future.

    [37:54] Debbie's unintentional path to becoming a designer.

    [45:41] Overcoming initial rejection.

    [50:04] Debbie's advice to her college self after that first major rejection.

    [54:25] Empathy vs. feeling slighted by those who reject us.

    [59:28] Manhattan's influence on Debbie's pursuit of happiness and career.

    [1:06:42] Debbie's abuse history and its impact on her self-sufficiency and charitable work.

    [1:12:41] Coping with abuse aftermath and feelings of isolation.

    [1:18:40] Debbie's experience being called a "corporate clown" and "she-devil."

    [1:37:00] From lowest point to godmother: a transformative journey.

    [1:37:38] The world-changing potential of brochures.

    [1:43:14] The Design Matters podcast: origins and evolution over 12 years.

    [1:46:46] Milton Glaser's impact on design and Debbie's life.

    [1:52:16] The "10-Year Plan for a Remarkable Life" exercise.

    [1:57:51] The nature of hard decisions.

    [2:07:07] Recommended Design Matters episodes for design novices.

    [2:07:55] Parting thoughts.

    *

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    #749: Michael Lewis and Martine Rothblatt

    #749: Michael Lewis and Martine Rothblatt

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #427 "Michael Lewis — Inside the Mind of the Iconic Writer" and episode #487 "Dr. Martine Rothblatt — A Masterclass on Asking Better Questions and Peering Into the Future."

    Please enjoy!

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    Timestamps:

    [04:13] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [05:16] Enter Michael Lewis.

    [05:54] Why Michael quit his well-paid job to become a full-time author.

    [12:58] Liar’s Poker is a cautionary tale, not a how-to book.

    [15:16] On ambition and the metrics of success.

    [18:31] Maximizing self-satisfaction, optimizing the writing process, and learning to sing.

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    [29:51] Michael's billboard.

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    [56:17] Martine's interest in satellite communication systems.

    [1:00:33] Promoting scientific literacy and curiosity.

    [1:05:20] Questioning authority and Martine's transgender journey.

    [1:10:28] Martine's non-binary gender identity.

    [1:12:34] Key decisions in Martine's transition.

    [1:13:28] The need for genetic information protection laws.

    [1:16:00] South American population and organ transplant research.

    [1:21:42] Vagus nerve manipulation for various therapies.

    [1:31:25] Martine's Alzheimer's cognitive enabler patent.

    [1:38:17] The Rothblatt family's "love nights" tradition.

    [1:43:54] The possibility of machines experiencing love.

    [1:49:20] Ethical considerations for future technology.

    [1:52:44] Current practices future generations might view as barbaric.

    [1:57:42] United Therapeutics' zero-carbon-footprint headquarters.

    [2:00:32] Refurbishing unusable lungs to save lives.

    [2:04:45] United Therapeutics' focus on long-term COVID-19 effects.

    [2:07:26] Martine's billboard.

    [2:08:27] Advice for finding positivity in life.

    [2:11:48] Parting thoughts.

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    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #55 "Pavel Tsatsouline on the Science of Strength and the Art of Physical Performance" and episode #158 "The Secrets of Gymnastic Strength Training."

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    [06:34] Pavel's background as a world-class trainer.

    [07:07] Considerations while customizing a training regimen.

    [09:40] Strength-building principles over equipment.

    [10:36] When in doubt, train your grip and your core.

    [12:57] How to grease the groove.

    [16:08] How not to strengthen the "core."

    [18:53] Approaching training as a practice.

    [21:16] Prioritizing strength — the "mother quality of all physical qualities."

    [23:57] The most counter-productive myths about strength training.

    [27:14] Pavel's hypothesis for the science behind hypertrophy.

    [28:01] Deadlifts, kettlebells, and the most common mistakes with both.

    [29:31] People who exemplify success to Pavel.

    [30:09] Calmness is contagious.

    [32:31] Enter Christopher Sommer.

    [33:23] Defining Gymnastics Strength Training™ (GST).

    [37:08] Types of strength that most non-gymnasts will not have.

    [41:10] Biggest mistakes made by those who self-teach handstands.

    [46:10] Top exercises for identifying weaknesses in strength and mobility.

    [56:47] The problem with focusing on muscular fatigue when training.

    [1:05:03] What is a pike pulse and why does it matter?

    [1:07:45] On kipping pull-ups.

    [1:11:16] Identifying solutions to pain.

    [1:18:38] The Jefferson curl.

    [1:23:06] Why weighted mobility work needs to be approached with a different level of intensity than conditioning work.

    [1:28:09] If someone is 35 years old, a former athlete, and has never done gymnastics, what's a good exercise and what should be avoided?

    [1:33:31] 3-5 joint mobility exercises for getting strong.

    [1:38:52] Preferred way to work on shoulder extension.

    [1:44:40] A good goal for those seeking to improve mobility.

    [1:46:15] Yoga handstands vs. gymnastics handstands (aesthetics vs. gold medals).

    [1:54:20] Coaches who have impressed Coach Sommer the most.

    [1:55:49] The story of Dmitry Bilozerchev and Alexander Alexandrov.

    [2:00:36] Differentiating immature athletes from mature athletes.

    [2:03:43] Training for success.

    [2:08:43] Describing the systematic approach to GST.

    [2:16:58] Exercises to avoid for the first six months of GST.

    [2:18:27] Breaking down the muscle-up.

    [2:23:59] Understanding the purpose of using various grips.

    [2:31:28] How Coach Sommer mentally preps athletes for a big competition.

    [2:41:13] Questions Coach Sommer would ask a gymnastic coach before sending children off to train with them.

    [2:45:36] Questions Coach Sommer would ask a gymnastic coach who trains adults.

    [2:47:44] Balancing stretching and training time.

    [2:52:52] People who exemplify success to Coach Sommer.

    [2:58:16] Most gifted books.

    [3:01:04] Morning rituals.

    [3:05:02] Coach Sommer's billboard.

    [3:10:12] An ask for the audience and parting thoughts.

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    #747: Seth Godin and Dr. Sue Johnson

    #747: Seth Godin and Dr. Sue Johnson

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #138 "How Seth Godin Manages His Life — Rules, Principles, and Obsessions" and episode #529 "Iconic Therapist Dr. Sue Johnson — How to Improve Sex and Crack the Code of Love."

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    Timestamps:

    [07:36] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [08:39] Enter Seth Godin.

    [09:05] Seth's rules for speaking engagements and why he developed them.

    [13:53] Navigating life's big transitions.

    [15:54] Why Seth publishes a daily blog.

    [16:54] Writing process and overcoming blocks.

    [21:01] Top businesss decisions.

    [22:45] Discerning between good and bad ideas.

    [24:27] Are you cut out to be an entrepreneur or a freelancer?

    [30:10] Opportunies Seth is glad he declined.

    [31:56] Money is a story. How does Seth tell it?

    [34:56] Seth on education.

    [38:11] Suggested practices for overwhelmed parents.

    [41:03] Enter Dr. Sue Johnson.

    [41:39] Peer-reviewed clinical research supporting Sue's work.

    [44:47] EFT's success rate and clinical definition of success in studies with distressed couples.

    [48:47] Scales used to assess marital satisfaction and bond in research.

    [54:55] Definition of a hold me tight conversation.

    [56:15] Examples of hold me tight conversations.

    [1:05:52] How a hold me tight conversation might work for someone who tends to isolate or feels isolated.

    [1:14:35] Prevalence of isolation and the stigma around "dependency."

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    [1:28:09] Micro-interventions from Rogerian models of therapy (evocative questions).

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    [1:43:32] Upping the ante in a hold me tight conversation and its unintended effects.

    [1:45:26] Sue's approach to helping someone work through anger.

    [1:48:53] Sue's fascination with Winston Churchill and recommended reading.

    [1:54:24] Common arguments between tango couples.

    [2:07:35] Advice for couples who are in love but lack sexual spark.

    [2:17:02] Advice for couples where the woman has a higher sex drive than the man.

    [2:22:35] Development and content of Sue's Hold Me Tight Online program.

    [2:27:08] Parting thoughts.

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    #746: Jerry Seinfeld and Maria Popova

    #746: Jerry Seinfeld and Maria Popova

    This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #485 "Jerry Seinfeld — A Comedy Legend’s Systems, Routines, and Methods for Success" and episode #39 "Maria Popova on Writing, Workflow, and Workarounds."

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    [05:16] Notes about this supercombo format.

    [06:19] Enter Jerry Seinfeld.

    [06:46] Jerry’s writing process for survival in the comedy ecosystem.

    [15:43] Lessons Jerry would teach in a writing class and how they relate to his fitness methods.

    [15:43] Soliciting creative feedback while preserving pride over doing the work.

    [20:33] Routines essential to Jerry’s well-being and their frequency and duration.

    [24:50] How nurturing creativity is like parenting, and Jerry’s belief about pain and knowledge.

    [26:17] Additional ways Jerry mitigates depressive episodes.

    [27:27] A resilience-building failure.

    [32:05] The importance of playing the game well.

    [33:42] “Survival is the new success.”

    [36:12] Jerry’s billboard.

    [39:06] Enter Maria Popova.

    [39:30] Are you correctly pronouncing names you’ve only read but never heard?

    [41:13] What does Maria do?

    [41:50] What is Brain Pickings (now The Marginalian)?

    [42:31] What percentage of New York Times best sellers are a result of Maria’s coverage?

    [47:55] The common denominator that guides Maria’s reading list.

    [49:16] The importance of writing for an audience of one.

    [52:07] Contending with the temptation to create BuzzFeed-like content.

    [59:44] The daily discipline required for Maria’s well-being.

    [1:07:10] Maria’s note-taking system.

    [1:12:53] Seneca and the time-tested challenge of presence vs. productivity.

    [1:16:08] Start-up opportunity? Build a note-taking tool for heavy readers/highlighters.

    [1:22:52] About the team behind [The Marginalian].

    [1:24:28] Collaborative proofreading and copyediting.

    [1:27:21] Self-reliance pathology and how to overcome it.

    [1:29:56] Finding a professional personal assistant and learning to delegate.

    [1:34:36] Maria’s weightlifting regimen and favorite bodyweight-only exercise.

    [1:37:22] Designing content infrastructure to be evergreen.

    [1:39:28] Cutting out the commentary contrarians.

    [1:46:13] Scheduling social media.

    [1:48:25] Coping with email — and sometimes snail mail.

    [1:50:31] How to cultivate a personal inner circle and pre-screen book review requests.

    [1:54:54] What donation model works best for site revenue?

    [2:01:22] Recommended reading from [The Marginalian] and parting thoughts.

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    #558: Ann Miura-Ko — The Path from Shyness to World-Class Debater and Investor (Repost)

    #558: Ann Miura-Ko — The Path from Shyness to World-Class Debater and Investor (Repost)

    Ann Miura-Ko — The Path from Shyness to World-Class Debater and Investor | Brought to you by 80,000 Hours free career advice for high impact and doing good in the world, Athletic Greens all-in-one nutritional supplementand GiveWell.org charity research and effective giving.

    “The main difference was that I was willing to outwork and outdo every competitor who walked in through that door.” — Ann Miura-Ko

    Ann Miura-Ko (@annimaniac) has been called “the most powerful woman in startups” by Forbes and is a lecturer in entrepreneurship at Stanford. The child of a rocket scientist at NASA, Ann is a Palo Alto native and has been steeped in technology startups from when she was a teenager. Prior to co-founding Floodgate, she worked at Charles River Ventures and McKinsey and Company. Some of Ann’s investments include Lyft, Ayasdi, Xamarin, Refinery29, JoyRun, TaskRabbit, and Modcloth.

    Due to the success of her investments, she was on the 2017 Midas List of top 100 venture capitalists. Ann is known for her debate skills (she placed first in the National Tournament of Champions and second in the State of California in high school) and was part of a five-person team at Yale that competed in the Robocup Competition in Paris, France. She has a BSEE from Yale and a PhD from Stanford in math modeling of computer security. She lives with her husband, three kids, and one spoiled dog. Her interests are piano, robots, and gastronomy.

    Please enjoy!

    This episode originally aired in 2018. You can find the show notes here: https://tim.blog/2018/08/02/ann-miura-ko/

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    #571: Boyd Varty — The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life

    #571: Boyd Varty — The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life

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    Boyd Varty (@boydvarty) is the author of two books, The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life and his memoir, Cathedral of the Wild. He has been featured in The New York Times, on NBC, and in other media and has taught his philosophy of “tracking your life” to individuals and companies around the world.

    Boyd is a wildlife and literacy activist who has spent the last ten years refining the art of using wilderness as a place for deep introspection and personal transformation. He grew up in South Africa on Londolozi Game Reserve, a former hunting ground that was transformed into a nature preserve by Boyd’s father and uncle—both visionaries of the restoration movement. Under his family’s stewardship, the Reserve became renowned not only as a sanctuary for animals but as a place where once-ravaged land was able to flourish again and where the human spirit could be restored. When Nelson Mandela was released after 27 years of imprisonment, he went to Londolozi to recover.

    Boyd has a degree in psychology from the University of South Africa. He is a TED speaker and the host of the Track Your Life podcast.

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    Setting the scene. [05:44]

    How the Londolozi Game Reserve came to be, and what happened during Boyd’s childhood that instilled him with a “get on with it” attitude. [08:02]

    Why did Boyd’s father and uncle insist on keeping the property that would become the Londolozi Game Reserve when, at the time, it was considered useless, overgrazed wasteland? [10:18]

    Boyd shares what it was like growing up as a regular passenger/survivor of The White Knuckle Charter Company. [12:25]

    How a man named Ken Tinley and the native Shangaan trackers helped a trio of teenagers transform their expanse of scrub-encroached land into a thriving safari business. [21:03]

    On the ancient lineage of the Shangaan trackers, and how the local wildlife came to trust the human caretakers of Londolozi. [27:05]

    Renias Mhlongo is supreme among world-class trackers — and sometimes the importance of the work outweighs the will of his clients. [32:21]

    Which animals are hardest to track at Londolozi — even if you happen to be Richard Siwela? [37:53]

    Because nature can be unpredictable, how do people protect themselves in Londolozi? [41:03]

    “I don’t know where we’re going, but I know exactly how to get there.” —Renias Mhlongo [42:56]

    How the tracking process has changed for Boyd over the years — from confident child to young adult traumatized by a home invasion and crocodile attack to competent grown-up thanks to people like Dr. Martha Beck and Solly Mhlongo. [45:00]

    What is Ubuntu? [1:02:50]

    Boyd talks about that time he lived 40 days and 40 nights up a tree — the questions he was trying to answer for himself by doing so, the primal fear he experienced while waiting out a storm, the pros and cons of extreme solitude, and if he’d do it again. [1:05:15]

    Stories about bees, the birds who help humans rob them, and the power of the hive algorithm. [1:17:45]

    The dos and don’ts of interacting with lions in the wild. [1:29:42]

    On the eerie conversation of death, modern confirmation of ancient myths, and the inexplicable movements of beasts and men. [1:34:16]

    How did Boyd’s own path toward healing after trauma differ from the way his mother and sister recovered from a trauma they experienced? [1:39:57]

    What is ceremony work, and how can it help someone deal with trauma? [1:43:32]

    What Boyd means when he says “an authentic life infused with meaning is a kind of activism.” [1:46:40]

    How Boyd and I have both been affected by the Work of Byron Katie. [1:52:03]

    Boyd’s first medicine encounter in an Arizona sweat lodge, and what he took away from the experience. [1:56:31]

    Feelings. Nothing more than feelings. [2:02:49]

    Kudus and nightjars and leopards in the fire (oh, my)! What a close encounter with a beautiful predator taught Boyd about Ubuntu. [2:04:14]

    Examining the therapeutic value of spending time with animals. [2:13:05]

    Laurens van der Post poetically described the sound of a lion’s roar. And, in a packed presentation hall at a major Silicon Valley company, Boyd did not. [2:17:57]

    An invitation to visit Londolozi and other parting thoughts. [2:22:10]

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    #463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)

    #463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)

    Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost) | Brought to you by ButcherBox and Laird Superfood.

    Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel (@EstherPerelOfficial) is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Esther is an acclaimed TED speaker and the host of the hit podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work?.

    In this episode, Esther and I explore:

    • How to find (and convince) mentors who can change your life.
    • What she’s learned from Holocaust survivors.
    • Polyamory and close cousins.
    • Is there such a thing as too much honesty in relationships?
    • Can we want what we already have?
    • Why do happy people cheat?
    • And much, much more.


    This episode originally aired in 2017. You can find the show notes here: https://tim.blog/2017/05/21/esther-perel/

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    My favorite two products are their Turmeric Superfood Creamer and Unsweetened Superfood Creamer. I put one of them in practically everything. Both can really optimize your daily coffee or tea ritual, and a $10 bag will last you a long time. For a limited time, Laird Superfood is offering you guys 20% off your order when you use code TIM at checkout. Check out lairdsuperfood.com/tim to see my favorite products and learn more.

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