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In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of the right kind of zeal. We chat about how we may be feeling tired and tempted to relax our Lenten penances and discuss the importance of taking time to reflect on why we felt called to take on a specific sacrifice and then recommitting ourselves with zeal to carry it out. We also talk about the joys of living in covenant with the Lord, the heartache we should experience when our hearts wander, and the beauty of giving ourselves totally to Him out of love.  

Heather’s One Thing - Happy 80th birthday to her dad!

Heather’s Other One Thing - Episode 5 of Fr. Dave’s series called: My father’s Father. Watch on Wildgoose TV here or Faith and Reason here.

Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Heather Khym’s Lenten Playlist

Michelle’s One Thing - The song Closing Distance by Seven Hills Worship (acoustic version here)

Journal Questions:

• What do you need to fill your tank for the long spiritual roadtrip of Lent?
• What spiritual rest stops do I need to take to continue to go the distance with the Lord?
• How am I letting my emotions drive the bus?
• Do I treat my covenant with the Lord with the same respect as I show the covenants of marriage or religious life?

Discussion Questions:

• How do you need the Lord to love you this week?
• Have you been feeling empty, angsty, or frustrated this Lent? How is the Lord inviting you into deeper freedom through this experience?
• How can you suffer and fast with more joy?

Quotes to Ponder:

“The ancient name for Lent is “the season of the battle”, agonia, which was the Greek word for the final testing of the athlete or the warrior, and has become the term for the Agony in the Garden.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 143)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“His disciples recalled the words of Scripture, Zeal for your house will consume me.” (John 2:17)

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In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of being in conversation with Jesus. We reflect on the importance of reserving space for dialogue with God, surrendering to Him our own plans and desires, and allowing Him to love us in our poverty. The process of dying to self is always accompanied with the hope in the promise of resurrection and new life that Jesus offers.  

Heather’s One Thing - In thanksgiving for Deacon Bob and Fr Dave Pivonka letting her use their studio to record this episode and for being asked to be a guest on their podcast called They That Hope.

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen by David Brooks

Michelle’s One Thing - Her household sisters at Francisan University

Journal Questions:

• Am I in conversation with God or in a monologue with myself?
• How can I create more space for dialogue with God?
• What Isaacs (idols) do I have?
• How do I self-sabotage in order to confirm my deepest fears?

Discussion Questions:

• What does it look like for you to be a new creation in Christ?
• Have you ever felt like God contradicts Himself? How did He resolve that apparent contradiction?
• What littleness in your life do you tend to hide and run away from? How can you be more open with the Lord in your littleness?
• What holds me back from entering into prayer honestly or making a confession regularly?

Quotes to Ponder:

“Then, a word about the Tabor Gospel. I was newly impressed by the fact that Moses and Elijah were in conversation with Jesus. Let us be occupied always in being in conversation with Jesus. We know the deepest conversations are the wordless ones. We love that simple and profound word of Pope Saint John Paul II, “Let Jesus be the one to whom you talk the most.””

(Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 76)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“Here am I, Lord!” (Genesis 22:1)

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In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of true self-denial. We reflect on the importance of recognizing our need for God’s love and allowing ourselves to be transformed by His grace. We also share personal experiences and insights on repentance, amendment, and trusting in God’s plan especially when the desires of our heart are not being fulfilled. We end by discussing the joys that can come from Lent when approached with a tender, sensitive, and alert heart. 

Heather’s One Thing - Lenten Playlist

Heather’s Other One Thing - The talk Joy, Hope, and the Way Around by Monsignor Shea

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Pints with Aquinas episode on Transhumanism and Emerging Technologies w/ Fr. Michael Baggot (Watch on YouTube here)

Michelle’s One Thing - The book A Grand Slam for God: A Journey from Baseball Star to Catholic Priest by Fr. Burke Masters

Journal Questions:

• Have I ever approached Lent with a sense of wonder?
• How have I approached Lent with self hatred in the past?
• What parts of myself are the stranger I need to welcome home and allow the Father to love?
• How can I be more open to God as the Divine Interruptor?

Discussion Questions:

• Where are you hungry? Where are others in your life hungry?
• Who in your life is the stranger you need to welcome?
• Do you believe something wonderful can happen this Lent?
• Where have you become resigned and hard of heart instead of tender and sensitive?
  

Quotes to Ponder: 

We are called to a glorious festival of love—to be spiritually dizzied with the fact that this is how much God has loved us. Surely we shall all look at the crucifix with a new vision, a deepened understanding that he really.

(Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 37)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“After John had been arrested, Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the gospel of God: “This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the Gospel.”” (Mark 1:14-15)

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In this week's episode, we begin our seven week Lenten study of the book “A Time of Renewal” by Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. In this episode we cover the introduction and the sections on the first four days of Lent. We discuss how Lent is an opportunity for us to grow in intimacy with God and how viewing fasting as a time of renewal, not suffering, can help us encounter a deeper transformation. We also reflect on our ability to help others grow in holiness, why Lent is the Springtime of the liturgical year, and how we can allow ourselves to bloom this Lenten season. 

Heather’s One Thing - Aspire to Live a Quiet Life by Francis Chan

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - the women at the Trini-tea fundraiser (pictures here)

Michelle’s One Thing - ABBA by Johnathan Helser and the people of Louisiana

Journal Questions:

• Take inventory of your heart: where are you? Where do I need to reflower?
• What areas of my life does the Lord want to prune?
• Am I approaching this Lent like “just another Lent”? How can I accept this Lent as a unique season and invitation from the Lord?
• What practices put me back in the gaze of the Father? How can I incorporate them into my Lenten plan?

Discussion Questions:

• Which fruits in my life are good fruits? Which fruits are bad fruits?
• How can you be more conscious of your responsibility for one another’s holiness?
• Whose growth in holiness is God inviting you to be conscious of? Who can you offer your Lenten prayers and fasts up for?
• How close are you to the Lord today?

Quotes to Ponder:

“I hope we will not allow ourselves to think of it as “just another Lent”. There is a very deep sense in which there is not another Lent and then another and another after that. This Lent is unlike any other. It is this acceptable time. We do not know if there will be another Lent for us, but we do know God has brought us to this acceptable time, to this prolonged day of salvation.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 19)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“Is not this the fast that I chose: to loose the bonds of wickedness and to undo the thongs of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free and break every yoke?” (Isaiah 58:6)

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In this week's episode, we welcome Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR as our guest to dive deep into what it means to be in relationship with God as Father. Together we chat about how our earthly fathers both positively and negatively impact our relationship with God the Father and how to begin to receive the love of God the Father. We also share how our relationship with God the Father has changed through the loss of earthly fathers. Check out Fr. Dave’s new (free!) video series entitled My father’s Father (or watch here on Wildgoose). 

Heather’s One Thing - Upcoming pilgrimages with Franciscan to France and Alaska 

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The the beauty of the Pensacola beach

Michelle’s One Thing - Watching NFL Playoffs with Sister Miriam 

Fr. Dave’s One Thing - The book A Little Liar by Mitch Albom 

 Other Resources Mentioned: 

• My father’s Father Trailer Link
• My father’s Father on Wildgoose
• My father’s Father on Faith and Reason
• S3 E18: The Holy Spirit with Fr. Dave Pivonka
• S5 E22: The Holy Spirit with Fr. Dave Pivonka
• The Father’s Love Spotify Playlist

Journal Questions:

• What does (or did) my father’s relationship with our Heavenly Father look like?
• In what ways can I grow in honoring and being honest about my father?
• Other than my earthly father, who in my life revealed the heart of our Heavenly Father to me?
• For those whose fathers have passed away: how has my relationship with God the Father changed since my father passed away?

Discussion Questions:

• How has your relationship with your earthly father shaped your relationship with your Heavenly Father?
• In your current state of life, when do you feel most connected to your identity as a child?
• What thoughts, emotions, and associations arise when you think of your primary identity as a child?
• How can you grow in and more deeply receive your daughterhood from the Father?
  

Quotes to Ponder:

“The whole of the Christian life is like a great pilgrimage to the house of the Father, whose unconditional love for every human creature, and in particular for the 'prodigal son,' we discover anew each day.” (JPII Tertio Millennio Adveniente)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1)

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In this week's episode, we discuss the relationship between solitude and community and how no matter if we are introverted or extroverted, we need both in order to live rightly ordered lives. We reflect on how solitude and community has changed throughout the different seasons of our lives and the importance of being open to these changes so we can receive the blessings God desires to give us. When we let our cups be filled by God through authentic solitude, we are able to grow, and therefore build deeper and more intimate relationships within our community. 

Heather’s One Thing - The book Humans of Heaven from the January Jane Shop

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book Hinds' Feet on High Places: An Engaging Visual Journey (Visual Journey Series) by Hannah Hurnard

Michelle’s One Thing - Spending time with Sister Miriam at the O’Grady’s Beach House 

Journal Questions:

• What obstacles do you encounter to being in communion with Christ when you enter into silence?
• How am I tempted to perceive solitude as isolation?
• How am I tempted to perceive being with people as community?
• When I think about solitude and community and which one I currently need more of, how can I create space in my life to tend to that need?
• What needs do I need to voice to someone in my life?
  

Discussion Questions:

• Which comes more naturally to you: solitude or community?
• Throughout your life, which communities have brought you closer to Christ and allowed you to become more fully human?
• In your current season of life, have you sensed a stronger need for solitude or community?
• What daily, weekly, or monthly rhythms do you have to cultivate community and solitude?
  

Quotes to Ponder:

“Let him who cannot be alone beware of community... Let him who is not in community beware of being alone... Each by itself has profound perils and pitfalls. One who wants fellowship without solitude plunges into the void of words and feelings, and the one who seeks solitude without fellowship perishes in the abyss of vanity, self-infatuation and despair.”  (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Faith in Community)

“True silence is a garden enclosed, where alone the soul can meet its God.” (Catherine Doherty)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“And after he had dismissed the crowds, he went up the mountain by himself to pray.” (Matthew 14:23 )

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• Both of Fr. Mike's In a Year podcasts in one place
• Transcripts for every podcast episode
• The full texts of the Bible and Catechism
• Nearly 1,000 questions that Bible In a Year listeners have had over the years with their answers!
• Episode summaries, bonus content, and reflection questions
• Daily readings with video reflections from your favorite Catholic creators!

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In this week's episode, we reflect on the role both joy and sorrow simultaneously play in our lives. We chat about how pressing into grief allows us to more fully experience joy, and how when we try to numb ourselves to the sorrow we also numb ourselves to the experience of joy. We also talk about the importance of naming disappointments, intentionally maturing in our faith, and what we have personally learned while grieving the loss of a parent. When we learn to suffer well and meet God in the midst of our sufferings, we can reach a deep joy we never thought possible. 

Heather’s One Thing - Attending and speaking at SEEK ‘24.  Watch the impact session here.

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Therapist’s Conference with the JPII Healing Center

Michelle’s One Thing - Nick Sabn Retiring From College Football 

Journal Questions:

• What paradoxes am I called to live in right now?
• How can I bring the Lord into my disappointments?
• Am I more prone to pushing my emotions aside or letting my emotions rule my life (emotional gluttony)?
• In seasons of grief, who are the people who have been my midwives and accompanied me through those seasons?

Discussion Questions:

• What disappointments have you experienced this past year? Is it hard for you to be honest with God about those disappointments?
• What is God redeeming and restoring in your life?
• In a current disappointment or heartbreak you are feeling, what gratitude are you experiencing alongside it?
• What gifts of daily bread is the Lord providing for you in this season?

Quote to Ponder:

“Our life is a short time in expectation, a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment. There is a quality of sadness that pervades all the moments of our lives. It seems that there is no such thing as a clear-cut pure joy, but that even in the most happy moments of our existence we sense a tinge of sadness. In every satisfaction, there is an awareness of limitations. In every success, there is the fear of jealousy. Behind every smile, there is a tear. In every embrace, there is loneliness. In every friendship, distance. And in all forms of light, there is the knowledge of surrounding darkness . . . But this intimate experience in which every bit of life is touched by a bit of death can point us beyond the limits of our existence. It can do so by making us look forward in expectation to the day when our hearts will be filled with perfect joy, a joy that no one shall take away from us.” (Henri J.M. Nouwen, Making All Things New: An Invitation to the Spiritual Life)

Scripture for Lectio: 

He turns my mourning into dancing. You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have taken off my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, so that my soul may praise you and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever. (Psalm 30:11-12)

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This episode continues our annual tradition of sharing our Word of the Year! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2024 mean to us and chat about how our words from last year have impacted our lives. At the beginning of the episode, we also share an announcement about this year’s Lenten book study. We are excited to be back and look forward to seeing what this season will bring. 

Heather’s One Thing - Her husband Jake’s upcoming course on our God-given Identity. Register here!

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Trini-Tea tea party, a ladies tea party in Front Royal, VA on January 27, 2024 to benefit the SOLT Sisters’ Motherhouse Campaign. You are invited! Register for the event here.

Michelle’s One Thing - Her 2023 reading recommendation list!

Announcement:

We are excited to announce that our Lenten book study will be: A Time of Renewal: Daily Reflections for the Lenten Season by Mother Mary Francis, P.C.C. Visit our website for more information!

Journal Questions:

• If you had a word for 2023, what did God teach you through that word?
• Take some time to reflect and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal your word of the year. You could start with a scripture or just silence. After prayer and reflection, what is your word of the year?
• How does your 2024 word of the year build upon previous words of the year or seasons?
• Who can you discuss your word with and remind them of their word throughout 2024?

Discussion Questions:

• What themes has God been using as an opportunity to encounter Him?
• Are there specific scriptures, saints, or quotes that will serve as a guide or reminder of your word during the year?
• What is one change you can make in the coming year to be more open to the will of God?
• How can you place tangible reminders of your word in your daily life?

Quote to Ponder:

"For last year's words belong to last year's language and next year's words await another voice." (T.S. Eliott)

Scripture for Lectio: 

"Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, and do not take your holy spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing spirit." (Psalm 51:10-12) 

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Merry Christmas, friends! In this episode, we conclude our four part Advent series on the book The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part four and discuss the sections on Our Lady Seeking, Our Seeking, The Way, and The Assumption. We reflect on the beautiful reality that when Mary looks at us, she sees her Son and how we are also called to not only become aware of Christ’s presence within ourselves but also to seek His presence within those around us. In order to do this, we need to first prepare our hearts to fully accept Christ and we chat about the different ways we can become more receptive to His love. Thank you for journeying with us this Advent season. We look forward to seeing you on January 15th for the start of Season 14!

Heather’s One Thing - The moment when no one else is awake and getting to sit with a cup of coffee and enjoy the Christmas tree lights

Heather’s Other One Thing - The movie The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse (watch the trailer here)

Heather’s Other Other One Thing - The Rescue Project especially Fr. John Ricardo’s videos on the Kerygma

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Nourishing White Bean and Lemon Soup

Michelle’s One Thing - Charlie Brown Christmas Special

Journal Questions:

• How can I bring light into the darkness this Christmas season?
• How can I make a gift of myself this Christmas season?
• What painful memories or grief has surfaced for me this Christmas and Advent season? Where is God in those memories and grief?
• What is the most unsuspecting place where Christ wants to reveal Himself to me?

Discussion Questions:

• How were you present to the present moment this Advent?
• How were you not present to the present moment this Advent?
• In what ways are you tempted to block the Holy Spirit throughout the Advent and Christmas seasons?
• How has our Blessed Mother encountered you throughout this book study?
• What is the Holy Spirit prompting you to do this season to more freely receive the Holy Spirit?

Quote to Ponder:

“It was another Advent, a withdrawing and folding upon the Life within her life; but a withdrawing that did not separate her from other people but only brought her closer to them; for she had found her Christ in them all.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 66)

Scripture for Lectio: 

"I will arise now and go about the city through the streets and squares. I will seek the one I love. So I sought him but did not find him."  (Song of Songs 3:2)

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In this episode, we continue with part three of our four part Advent series on the book “The Reed of God” by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part three and discuss the sections on the Lost Child, Idols, and the Last Confession. We chat about how when we lose sight of Jesus, we are called to imitate Mary and seek until He is found. By persevering on this journey and staying strong in the face of distraction or complacency, we cultivate a deeper union with Him. God Himself is calling us to take this journey because out of love, He desires to give Himself to us. We also talk about the various idols in our lives, how these idols block us from growing in communion with God, and how our own woundedness can distort our perception of God. 

We encourage you to go at your own pace so that the Lord can fill your heart with what you need to hear this Advent season. 

Heather’s One Thing - First snowfall of the season and making an eggnog latte!

Heather’s Other One Thing - Grateful for parents living next door and family dinners

Sister Miriam’s Half One Thing - The Women’s College Volleyball Division I National Tournament

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Heather’s Advent Playlist

Michelle’s One Thing - Her son’s Catholic Youth Sports League won first place

Michelle’s Other One Thing - Leanne Bowen’s Instagram Post on Mother’s Intercessors

Journal Questions:

• How do I react when I am not experiencing consolation or hearing from God?
• How have I observed an invitation to deeper freedom in my relationship with God this Advent?
• How do I seek to control God?
• Where in my life do I believe that God doesn’t love me or care for me?

Discussion Questions:

• How do you seek out Christ when you sense that He is lost or hidden?
• What “imaginary Christs” have you created in your life?
• How are you tempted to worship the false “convenient god”?
• How are you being inspired to seek Christ out after listening to this episode?

Quote to Ponder:

“It is this: How is it that the lives of so many people who profess to be Christian are utterly inconsistent with Christianity?” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 93).

Scripture for Lectio: 

“Where has your beloved gone, most beautiful of women? Which way did your beloved turn, that we may look for him with you?” (Song of Songs 6:1) 

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In this episode, we continue with part two of our four part Advent series on the book The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part two and discuss the sections on Et Homo Factus Est, the Fugue, Wooden Bambino, and Et Verbum Caro Factum Est. We chat about our desire as women to protect our children, but how this desire can easily morph into control, manipulation, or possession. We reflect on how Our Lady exemplifies perfect surrender and trust as she continually releases her Son back to God as a gift freely given to her by God. We also discuss the role of suffering and brokenness in transformation and the beauty of silence in the rhythm of life. 

We encourage you to go at your own pace so that the Lord can fill your heart with what you need to hear this Advent season. 

Heather’s One Thing - Butter Tart Recipe 

Heather’s Other One Thing - Stovetop Potpourri Recipe

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The simple joys of Advent

Michelle’s One Thing - Support for the heartbreaking loss of the Auburn vs. Alabama college football game

Michelle’s Other One Thing - Chevrolet Christmas Commercial 

Journal Questions:

• How do I try to possess or manipulate others to protect them from disappointment or pain?
• Do I see my humanity as a gift or as a burden?
• In the final days before Christmas, when can I create moments of silence to meet Jesus?
• Where do I need a mother?
• Where am I afraid to be mothered?

Discussion Questions:

• How do you allow your fears of vulnerability, dependence, and a lack of control rule your life and your decisions?
• What parts of your humanity do you find God inviting you more deeply into during this Advent season?
• What Fruits of the Spirit do you need to grow in (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control)?
• How can you allow Mary to mother you to more fully experience these fruits and bring them to fruition?

Quotes to Ponder:

“Only Christ-bearers can restore the world to life and give humanity back the vitality of love.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 72).

“Our Lady gave humanity to God as she gave the water to Christ at Cana, to be changed into wine.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 83).

Scripture for Lectio: 

“All things were made by him; and without him was made nothing that was made. In him was life, and the life was the light of men. And the light shineth in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.” (John 1:3–5)

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In this episode, we begin our four part Advent series on the book The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part one and discuss the sections on Emptiness, Fiat, Advent, and Pastoral. We reflect on the gift of virginity, how our own life experiences can alter how we view this gift, and how Our Lady perfectly models the truth about the fruitfulness of giving our full selves in love. We also chat about the beauty of accepting our littleness and how only through the act of emptying ourselves can God truly give us what He desires. 

We encourage you to go at your own pace so that the Lord can fill your heart with what you need to hear this Advent season. 

Heather’s One Thing - Advent Worship playlist and the song Hungry by UPPERROOM

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Christmas Peaceful Piano playlist

Michelle’s One Thing - The painting A Mother and Child looking at the Virgin and Child by Reginald Bottomley and steps to practice Visio Divina with the image.

Journal Questions:

• How do I allow myself to be filled by the Bridegroom?
• How do I view chastity – as a sour apple, or as the first fruits?
• What is distracting me this Advent season?
• What image depicted by Caryll Houselander is resonating with me most (the reed, the chalice, and the nest)?

Discussion Questions:

• How can I empty myself to more fully receive the Bridegroom?
• What is the Holy Spirit inviting you to say “yes” to?
• What is the Holy Spirit inviting you to say “no” to?
• How is the Lord continually purifying and refining you?
• How am I tempted to say “I’m just a…”?

Quotes to Ponder:

“Advent is the season of the secret, the secret of the growth of Christ, of Divine Love growing in silence.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God (p. 38). Copycat. Kindle Edition.)

“It is always a love story, a culmination of love between the Spirit of Light and the Bride of the Spirit.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God (p. 19). Copycat. Kindle Edition.)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“Be it done to me according to thy word.” (Luke 1:38)

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In this episode, for the first time ever, we answer questions submitted by our listeners! We answer questions like: How have we healed in our identity as mother, daughter, sister, and bride? How to handle the pressure of people relying on you for spiritual improvement? How to cultivate a life that reflects beauty? How to heal from childhood sexual trauma? How has our faith evolved over the different seasons in our lives? The difference between being too nice and choosing mercy? And more! 

Heather’s One Thing - Her daughter’s art and the beauty of Catholic artists building each other up and rejoicing in the talent of others. 

Heather’s Other One thing - Tammy Peterson’s Rosary Testimony 

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Sausage, Potato, and Kale Soup

Michelle’s One Thing - All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr and the new Netflix series based on the book

Other Resources Mentioned: 

• Be Healed and Be Restored by Dr. Bob Schuchts
• The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender
• Restore the Glory Podcast
• The Forgiving Life by Dr. Robert Enright
• Forgiveness Meditation from Sr. Miriam
• Seeking Healing Through Forgiveness SEEK 2019 with Sr. Miriam and Fr. John Burns
• The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope by Curt Thompson
• Anatomy of a Soul by Curt Thompson
• The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
• Way of the Heart Podcast
• Wild at Heart Podcast

Journal Questions:

• What area of your identity (daughter, sister, mother, bride) has the Lord done the most healing in your life?
• Who do I feel unable to forgive?
• Who can I make myself more available to as a friend?

Discussion Questions:

• How can you intentionally bring beauty into your everyday life?
• How does God want to meet you with prayer that aligns with the rhythms of your current season?
• What boundaries do you sense a need to implement?

In this episode, we discuss the second half of the Varanasi Letter written by St. Teresa of Calcutta to her MC Community. We reflect on how Jesus is calling us to encounter Him daily and what we can do to open our hearts to deeper communion. We also chat about how our Blessed Mother is a perfect example of how to comfort the Sacred Heart of Jesus in love and how to remain open and vulnerable even with a heart pierced with sorrow. 

Heather’s One Thing - Panel with Divine Renovation and Alpha Catholic

(Click here to listen to the discussion on Tuesday November 21st)

Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  Warm and Hearty Meatloaf Recipe 

Michelle’s One Thing - Holy Water Spritzer from West Coast Catholic 

Michelle’s Other One Thing - I Thirst,  40 days with Mother Teresa by Joseph Langford, MC 

Journal Questions:

• What is the Lord’s theme for me in this season?
• What is the Lord’s theme for me throughout my life?
• Where has your heart been pierced?
• Do I see myself as a gift?

Discussion Questions:

• How would you depict your heart?
• Where are you blocking the joy of Christ from your life?
• How have you allowed your heart to be hardened?
• How is the Lord inviting you to respond to His Thirst?

Quotes to Ponder:

Our Lady will help all of us in this, since she was the first person to hear Jesus’s cry, “I Thirst” with St. John, and I am sure Mary Magdalene. Because she was there on Calvary, she knows how real, how deep His longing for you and for the poor. Do we know? Do we feel as She? Ask her to teach you Before it was Our Lady pleading with Mother, now it is Mother in her name pleading with you — “Listen to Jesus’s thirst.” (Varanasi Letter, St. Teresa of Calcutta) 

Scripture for Lectio: 

"But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart." (Luke 2:19)

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In this episode, we discuss the first half of the Varanasi Letter written by St. Teresa of Calcutta to her MC Community. We talk about how Jesus thirsts for our souls and what we can do to care for His Heart. We reflect on what it means to let Jesus gaze upon our souls and receive Him in the areas we have been wounded and experience pain. It can be challenging to allow Jesus to see these broken places in our lives, but through this communion and vulnerability, He can reveal the truth about our belovedness. Jesus is a real living person with whom we can build an intimate relationship and we end the episode by sharing ways we can grow closer to Our Lord. 

Heather’s One Thing - Her playlist called Battle Cry (particularly the song Sound Mind)

Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  On Love: Selected Writings of Pope Benedict XVI

Michelle’s One Thing - The Legatus Enclave Retreat and their visit to the National Shrine of Our Lady of Champion

Journal Questions:

• Am I more concerned with Jesus’ Hands than His Heart?
• Have I seen with the eyes of my soul how Jesus looks upon me with love?
• When have I heard the loving words Jesus speaks to me?
• Where do I fail to trust the Lord?

Discussion Questions:

• Have you allowed Jesus to look at you with love today?
• What does it mean for you to let Jesus see you in the painful and shameful places of your heart?
• What limitations do I experience that prevent me from entering into communion with God?
• Were you able to pray with a photo of you from childhood / from the past? How did you experience Jesus’ gaze in that prayer?

Quote to Ponder:

“I worry some of you still have not really met Jesus — one to one — you and Jesus alone. We may spend time in chapel —but have you seen with the eyes of your soul how He looks at you with love? Do you really know the living Jesus — not from books but from being with Him in your heart? Have you heard the loving words He speaks to you?” (Varanasi Letter, St. Teresa of Calcutta)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“I thirst.”  (John 19:28)

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of cultivating silence and solitude in a world full of distractions. Our Lord speaks to us in the still small voice of our hearts and we talk about how the goal of silence is ultimately communion with God. We also chat about the difference between solitude versus isolation, reasons why we may be afraid of silence, and provide practical ways to cultivate silence in our daily lives. Jesus is the rest our souls yearn for and it is in the quiet where we meet Him most deeply.

Heather’s One Thing - International Justice Mission -  IJM’s mission is to protect people in poverty from violence by rescuing victims, bringing criminals to justice, restoring survivors to safety and strength, and helping local law enforcement build a safe future that lasts.

Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  The Greatest Philosopher Who Ever Lived by Dr. Peter Kreeft

Michelle’s One Thing - Poco a Poco Podcast

Announcement:

We are so excited to announce our Advent book study will be:

 The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander

You can find it on Amazon, Ave Maria Press, and Kindle (for just $1.99!). Your local Catholic bookstore may also carry the book!

Click here to subscribe to the study on our website and be the first to receive updates!

Journal Questions:

• What are the sources of interior and exterior noise in my life?
• What forms of silence is God inviting me to?
• Have I ever been wounded by silence? Have I ever been healed by silence?
• Do I approach silence with fear or trust?

Discussion Questions:

• What is real solitude?
• What scares you most about silence?
• Who in your life practices silence excellently? What can you learn from her/him?
• What needs do you need to meet before you can enter into silence (childcare, rest, food, movement)?

Quote to Ponder:

“Without solitude, it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.... We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.” (Henri Nouwen) 

Scripture for Lectio: 

He said, “Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.” Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was splitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence. When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. (1 KIings 19:11-13)

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In this episode, we conclude our two part series on Pope Francis’ recent Apostolic Exhortation about St. Thérèse of Lisieux entitled “C’est la Confiance: On Confidence in the Merciful Love of God”. We discuss how we are all called to a bridal relationship with Jesus and how our desire to love and be loved is a call to Heaven. We also chat about our vocation to love and the importance of growing in this discipline of love even when it is not reciprocated. 

Heather’s One Thing - The song Hell or High Water by Amanda Cook 

Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  The Way of Trust and Love by Fr. Jacques Philippe

Michelle’s One Thing - Story of a Soul - study edition 

Michelle’s Other One Thing - The song Thank God I Do by Lauren Daigle

Other Resources Mentioned: 

Reading Recommendations about St. Therese:

• The Way of Trust and Love - by Fr. Jacques Philippe
• The Story of a Soul - by St. Therese
• I Believe in Love: A Personal Retreat Based on the Teaching of St. Therese of Lisieux - by Jean D'Elbee
• 33 days to Merciful Love - Fr. Micheal Gaitley
• Shirts of Flame - A year with St. Therese of Lisieux - by Heather King

Announcement:

We are so excited to announce our Advent book study will be:

 The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander

You can find it on Amazon, Ave Maria Press, and Kindle (for just $1.99!). Your local Catholic bookstore may also carry the book!

Click here to subscribe to the study on our website and be the first to receive updates!

Journal Questions:

• What parts in me long to be right rather than loving?
• What hinders me from loving?
• What grudges and resentments am I holding today?
• How am I tempted to criticize instead of taking action in love and kindness?

Discussion Questions:

• In what ways do you notice a desire for romance and pursuit in your life? How does this speak to how God reveals Himself to us?
• How are you called to choose love in your daily life?
• How are you bringing love and light into the church?
• Where do I notice division in my heart? How can I invite God in for unity and healing?

Quote to Ponder:

“I think that the Heart of my Spouse is mine alone, just as mine is his alone, and I speak to him then in the solitude of this delightful heart to heart, while waiting to contemplate him one day face to face.” (St. Therese)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“My beloved is mine, and I am his; he browses among the lilies.” (Song of Songs 2:16)

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In this episode, we begin a two part series on Pope Francis’ recent Apostolic Exhortation about St. Therese of Lisieux entitled “C’est la Confiance: On Confidence in the Merciful Love of God”. We reflect on what it looks like to abandon ourselves with total confidence in God's love and how to overcome places in our lives where we feel orphaned or forgotten by God. We also chat about how a praying church is a powerful church and what it means to be childlike instead of childish. St. Therese’s “little way” can guide us in learning to pray, trust, and love. 

Heather’s One Thing - Renewal Ministries (Check out this video as well)

Heather’s Other One Thing - St Therese’s poem “My Wishes Before the Tabernacle” 

Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  Sarah Kroger’s cover of the song What a Wonderful World 

Michelle’s One Thing - One of our future sponsors: Bell Road Beef

Other Resources Mentioned: 

S1 E11: Striving vs Abiding

Our Searching for and Maintaining Peace Book Study

Journal Questions:

• Where have I distorted the goodness of the Lord?
• How do I treat God like my personal assistant?
• When have I felt that God was unsafe for me to trust?
• In what ways do I live out of self-reliance?

Discussion Questions

• How often do you receive the gaze of Jesus in your life?
• Does childlikeness come naturally to you?
• When have you relied on and trusted in God in your life?
• What parts of your daily life can you surrender to God?

Quotes to Ponder:

“It is confidence and nothing but confidence that must lead us to Love.” (St. Therese)

Scripture for Lectio: 

“God is love” (1 Jn 4:8-16)

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In this episode, we chat about the importance of living in the present moment and recognizing the beauty of ordinary life. In today’s modern world, we are constantly surrounded by distractions and can be tempted to focus on the past or the future and can lose sight of the gifts and graces right in this present moment. We share practical ways we live in the moment, we discuss the struggle of being in the culture, yet living differently from it, and ponder the power of prioritizing people over productivity. We invite you to take the present moment and see how the Lord is working in your life through the people and world around you.

Heather’s One Thing - Healing pilgrimage to France with Jake and Heather and Fr. Nathan Malavolti, TOR 

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Twitter Feed of @DanWuori

Michelle’s One Thing - The book: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer 

Michelle’s Other One Thing - Two recipes: Chili Lime Roasted Cauliflower and Apple Crumble Cheesecake 

Announcement:

Happy birthday to our dearest Sr. Miriam! We love you!

Journal Questions:

• Do I live like a tourist or a pilgrim?
• Do I live like a consumer or a cultivator?
• How does the Lord want to reorder my loves?
• Where in my life do I feel hurried? Am I the source of hurry or is the source external?
• What specific duties of my vocation am I avoiding or too distracted to fulfill?

Discussion Questions:

• What is distracting you from the present moment in your daily life?
• Do you have a favorite way to bring yourself back to the present moment?
• What battles are you fighting that God isn’t asking you to fight that are costing your attention?
• How is my current relationship with my content and media consumption?

Quote to Ponder:

“If we have abandoned ourselves to God, there is only one rule for us: the duty of the present moment.” (Jean-Pierre de Caussade, Abandonment to Divine Providence)

Scripture for Lectio: 

 But strive first for the kingdom of God and his ]righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.“So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today.   (Matthew 6: 33- 34)

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In this episode we welcome back Fr Boniface Hicks, OSB, a Benedictine monk and spiritual director at Saint Vincent Archabbey, to talk about the discernment of spirits. We chat about the reality of spiritual warfare, why we need not be afraid, and how to practically discern God’s voice versus our own thoughts. Fr. Boniface also defines the difference between spiritual desolation and psychological depression as well as clarity on whether we should seek spiritual direction or counseling. 

Heather’s One Thing - Why Not Become Totally Fire Shirts

Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song Godhead Here in Hiding - Luke Spehar

Michelle’s One Thing - Pumpkin Olive Oil Cake 

Fr. Boniface’s One Thing - His St. Bernard Honeybee Story

Other Resources Mentioned:

Fr. Timothy Gallagher’s Podcast, Books, and Resources

Journal Questions:

• Where do I see division within my heart and seek the Holy Spirit’s bond of love?
• When have I experienced spiritual consolation?
• When have I experienced spiritual desolation?
• Is there anything I am discerning in this season? How can I listen for the movements of the Lord?

Discussion Questions:

• How have you experienced the closeness of the Lord?
• What questions stirred in your heart while listening to this episode?
• What obstacles do you experience in noticing the movements of your heart?
• Have you been able to distinguish the Lord’s voice and movements? How did you identify His voice?
  
  

Quotes to Ponder:

"Our only desire and our one choice should be this: I want and I choose what better leads to God's deepening life in me."- St. Ignatius Loyola

“Lay all of your cares about the future trustingly in God’s hands, and let yourself be guided by the Lord just like a little child” - St Teresa Benedicta of the Cross

Scripture for Lectio: 

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” -Romans 12:2

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