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    Here it is. The BAD aspects of tinder/online dating in my experience as a university student during my prolific dating period... there were many bad times :(

    Join me for a frank discussion on the negative side of Tinder dating from a female perspective. In this podcast, we delve into the challenges and dangers that we women face when using this popular dating app. Gain valuable insights on how to stay safe while searching for love on this platform.

    This podcast provides a crucial and empowering look at the negative side of Tinder dating for women. Listen and stay informed about the challenges and dangers to look out for when using dating apps. Stay safe and stay empowered with this informative and thought-provoking podcast.

    The ugly, will be out on Monday! Can't wait to get that one off my chest!

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