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    Ep: 102 - How To Guide High School Students Into An Undergraduate Degree With Dan Wendelken

    enJanuary 18, 2023

    About this Episode

    Transitioning students from high school to college is tough.

    In this episode, I interview a colleague and great friend Mr. Dan Wendelken, an elementary band director from Long Island, New York. We have a wide ranging conversation surrounding his career now having taught elementary through college students. We start by discussing the differences between the emotional displays of elementary students and those of high schoolers. Dan explains that while elementary students are more likely to show their emotions, high schoolers are much better at hiding them.

    We then discuss a few ways to intervene in order to keep things as positive as possible for students who might be falling behind and feeling left out. We then get into the issues surrounding high schoolers who are transitioning to college. We consider whether it's better for students to take more advanced courses, more career specific prep courses or more individual mentoring such as private lessons and leaving more time to hone their craft (in this case, their abilities on the instrument).

    Our conversation today offers teachers important thoughts to ponder so they can help guide high school students into college based on the specific needs of each teen. You can see Dan perform with the Brooklyn Wind Symphony here!

    00:00 Intro

    02:58 Dan Wendelken

    07:56 Emotional differences between different aged students

    16:56 Decisions to make after high school

    22:48 Kevin's college acceptance story

    29:38 Difficulties choosing how to prepare for college

    42:57 Final thoughts

     

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