What Fuels You? | Ep 831
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January 31, 2025
TLDR: Learn strategies from Alex Hormozi to scale your business by gaining more customers and profit per customer while improving retention on his path toward $1B net worth

In this insightful episode of The Game with Alex Hormozi, the renowned entrepreneur and author delves into the complexities of motivation, fear, and personal growth. This episode focuses on the fuels that drive success in business and the transformative journey from hustle fueled by anger and fear to a more nuanced approach driven by passion and patience.
Key Takeaways
1. Navigating Fear and Anger
- Hormozi candidly shares how his initial motivations were rooted in fear and anger, driving him to prove others wrong.
- Over time, he learned to shift from anger-driven actions to pursuing projects he genuinely enjoys, leading to sustained personal and professional growth.
2. The Importance of Long-Term Thinking
- Hormozi emphasizes the value of long-term vision in entrepreneurship. He reflects on how starting his business lacked a solid outlook beyond mere survival.
- He contrasts entrepreneurs with safety nets, who can think strategically without the immediate pressure of financial stress.
3. Reducing Liabilities to Foster Growth
- A recurring theme is the idea of decreasing liabilities and ongoing stresses to create a mental space for better decision-making.
- Hormozi advises minimizing expenses and commitments that contribute to a constant state of stress, allowing entrepreneurs to breathe and strategize effectively.
4. Facing Adversity with Perspective
- He recounts his early struggles, including sleeping at the gym and feeling isolated in a challenging environment.
- Hormozi shares a profound analogy comparing his struggles to historical injustices, highlighting resilience in the face of dire circumstances.
5. Creative Self-Dialogue
- Hormozi has a unique practice where he engages in dialogues with his future self, specifically his 85-year-old self.
- This method helps him process decisions, as future him has the perspective and context to guide present actions. This practice fosters accountability and wise decision-making.
6. Documenting the Journey
- He stresses the significance of documenting both successes and failures to create a narrative that can inspire and inform future actions.
- Hormozi regrets not capturing more of his struggles, recognizing that they provide the most critical lessons that contribute to his overall success.
7. Understanding the Input-Output Equation
- The challenge for listeners is to define their input-output relationship in business and then 10x their efforts.
- Hormozi encourages entrepreneurs to think beyond just doubling their input but to strategize how to leverage their time and resources for exponential growth.
Expert Opinions and Practical Applications
- Hormozi advocates for taking action even before finding passion, suggesting that passion is often a byproduct of becoming proficient at something.
- He advises against waiting for the "perfect" opportunity or career and emphasizes the importance of consistency and dedication to the craft.
Concluding Thoughts
- Hormozi concludes by reiterating that successful entrepreneurship is about embracing the highs and lows of the journey. He argues that every moment, whether good or bad, contributes to your growth.
- The episode serves as a powerful reminder that the entrepreneurial journey requires patience, passion, and the willingness to persevere through challenges.
Overall, this episode is filled with practical insights and motivational strategies for entrepreneurs at any stage of their journey, encouraging them to redefine their fuels for success and embrace the complete spectrum of their experiences.
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Fear and anger would drove me to take action. Like, I didn't have a lot of faith. I had a lot of anger. And that's what I had. And so that's what I used. And it took me years, like years, not like a year, like six to like, I would say even switch to not always being driven by anger and trying to prove people wrong and make the point that I was right. You know what I mean?
And I wouldn't say that I'm purely faith driven now. I would say that I have elements of it. And so I just don't know if it's a binary for me. I would just say that over time, I have less of that and I have more of some other stuff. Like I enjoy what I do now a lot. And so I do a lot of it. And so, you know, trying to find what the fuel is now.
I don't think about it much. I just do the things that I enjoy and that I've been rewarded for doing in the past. And so like I work hard on things because the harder I work on things, the better things tend to work out for me. And so the projects that I'll work on now, I have a way longer time horizon than I did. Like Jim launch was just like, I mean, I told Layla when we started making like, I'll say crazy money and quotes here, but we were taking home like a million a month dish and we're in our twenties like, like,
I didn't think it was going to last. So I was like, we need to live so cheap and take every dollar if possible. Again, I told her, as soon as I started working, I was like, we have 18 months. I told her, I sat her down. I was like, we've 18 months before this is going to not work. So like, we need to just make this work. And they hear Jamont's six years later, still crushing it, you know what I mean? But like, I didn't know that, right? And so there was no faith in zero.
People were like, what was the vision of gym lunge? I was like, the vision was don't be broke. That was it. That was the whole vision. And so I think what happens is you have to get your head above water so that you can even breathe and look around. But it's kind of like the air mass scenario, which is overused. But if you're looking at how you're going to pay rent and how you're going to make payroll and all that stuff, it's very hard to make strategic decisions.
Like in some ways it's like, I do like having the idea of some entrepreneurs who have saved up enough from a job or career that like they're not worried about shelter. They're not worried about food. So they can actually think on a 10 year time horizon. Like it's easy for me to stand here and be like, guys, be more long term thinking, except you're like, well, rent's fucking due tomorrow. So what do I do now? Right?
And like the reality is you decrease your liabilities, you decrease all of the things that stress you out. And so if the things that stress you out are the things that you spend money on a regular basis, then it's like decrease those to the absolute greatest degree possible so that you're not in fight or flight every month so that you can breathe. And then you can actually make the better decisions because like if you're in that state, it's so hard to win because other people who are competing against you aren't there.
You're sleeping on the gym floor where you're fully in that state, I assume. Yeah. Take me through that scenario and also like wanting to be seen as the person who was sleeping on the gym floor.
So that was not external. So I'll impact this. So for everyone who's listening, I quit my job, drove across the country, mentored with a guy for three months, then opened my own gym. And I didn't have enough money for two rents. My rent was $5,000 a month, which
I was 20, like it was all, I couldn't even, it was insane. Like it was 5,000. I was like, that was more than, that was like my salary. You know what I mean? I was like, what am I going to live on for everything else, right? And so I moved out of the place that I was at, which was just a spare bedroom. And I slept at the gym. And I remember like, you know, I would read the Instagram motivation manifesto when it was just like stock images of girls that were like, chase your dreams, you know, like whatever. And I'd be like, like, you know,
And the thing is that I had a very different idea of what that suffering would feel like. It was very praised and lauded, L-A-U-D-E-D, by Instagram and the world and motivation manifesto. But when I was alone,
in a city I didn't know in a dark warehouse that was underneath of a parking garage and people would drive over the metal cracks in the concrete on the ceiling six, seven times a night and he was like, and he was like, this gunshot. And there'd be kids my age partying on the roof illegally. And I'm trying to like wake up at four o'clock in the morning to do the first sessions. Like it wasn't fun.
Like there was no like, like the rocky cutscene lasts 30 seconds in the movie and lasts five years in your life. It's powerful. That's powerful. And so you have to find ways to win in the meantime. And that's where the patience comes in. It's like, I didn't, I didn't, I've said this before, but
I didn't know if I was going to win, but I did know I wasn't going to stop. And that was the only thing that I felt OK committing to. Because when we talk about fuel, it was like when it got back down to it, the wall that my back was against was going home, a failure. And to me, I would have rather died. And so that was it. So I love this quote, which is, it's amazing what you're going to accomplish when you have no choice.
And so, like, and this is a really visceral example, but I'm gonna use it for the sake of being visceral. Slavery has happened for thousands of years. We think about it in America with our American slavery, but slavery exists everywhere, right? Thousands of years. Slaves work all day, every day.
And the idea of being a slave right now for many people who are free is incomprehensible, right? And so I remember, as twisted as this is, maybe I started thinking this one when I was younger, is that I would be in this gym alone, not having slept for a long time, doing all the jobs, and being like, this is horrible. And then I would think, well, being a slave and being whipped every single day,
and not being compensated and having sunburned everything with everything chapped and peeling constantly. And the only respite that I would have would be a meal at the end of the day and then eventually maybe a day off once a month and then eventually have the good grace of dying. And yet those sleeves continued to work. And I was like, how are they able to do that? They were do because they had no choice. The choice was death or work. And so they worked.
And so when I thought about it like that within the context of the gym, I was like, for me, I wasn't in an extreme scenario like that. But it felt that way. Because to me, the idea of going home of failure might as well have been done. It had to do with your dad too, right? Of course. Yeah. And all the people that, you know, and all the people real and fake in my mind that were speaking against me. And I still probably have this issue is that like, I will fabricate
other people talking shit about me. Who aren't even thinking about it? Right? And so in that time though, I had gone from what would be considered a high status setup. You know, I've been doing everything right. No, like my dad could brag about me at the cocktail parties and I could see guys at the reunion and be like, Oh yeah, I've got a good consulting job. Like I've got a 401k, whatever. Right.
And going from that to this that I was, I'd already swallowed the pill of looking foolish. Like why would I leave my white collar job to be a personal trainer? And I don't say that it's an insult to personal training. I just say that in the general rung of status, white collar management consultant is perceived as higher than personal trainer. And so I had swallowed that pill once and I was like, I'm not swallowing it again. Like I will not go down a rung and then fail.
And so it was just like there wasn't an option. If the gym had gone, if I somehow wouldn't have figured it out, I wouldn't have told anyone. I would have just kept working and found a way. And I've already told my plan B before, but my plan B in my head, which allowed me to do this, is that I was gonna drive Uber and I would strip. That's what I would have done. Because I knew that if I lived on $1,000 a month and I made another 150 the next year if I did, driving Uber and I stripped at night, then I could start over again.
And I would have done that cycle as many times as I took until I won. And so like, the thing that I could commit to is that I, my actions were under my control. And that was the only, like I didn't know if I was going to win. And honestly, there was many times where it didn't look like I was. But the only thing I could, I could commit to was like, okay, well, slaves continue to work. And so can I take me through those voices that you make up in your head currently.
Oh, I mean, they're, they're like what I would call fake enemies. You know what I mean? Like they're not, they're not real. I know they're not real, but sometimes it's just, it just, it just gets the juices going. Like what? Um, and I'll tell you this, a lot of times it's, uh, like some of my content, like my more spirited content comes from me seeing someone post something and then I'm like, this is such worship. And then I just go off on basically that person, but I'm doing it to a camera and an anonymizing it. Um, but
I think I resent the passion thing, not long term, but in the short term for people who are starting. And I think that's because it sets too high of a bar. I understand the intention behind it and I think the intention is pure and I think the intention is right. But I think the execution of that is where people fall short, is that they wait for something that they're going to fall in love with. And you don't fall in love with things unless you're good and you only get good at things if you suck first.
And so I think it's really about like lots of action, even if it's destroyed it. And so you're like, Oh, I have seen some progress on this. I will do more of it. And then all of a sudden you get good at whatever the thing is, and then you like it, and then you find your passion. But you didn't find your passion. You created it. And you created it through excellence and through finding ways to consistently win over time.
And so I think if we lowered the bar for a lot of people were starting out, it's kind of the same thing with like romantic partners right now for a lot of younger people. It's like you have the paradox of choice is that there's so many fish in the sea. There's so many swipe rights. There's so many opportunities to meet girls or meet guys that you're looking for this perfect key or this perfect lock that's gonna like unlock all the amazing romantic thing that, and it's just not like that.
And I think that you could probably look at careers the same way. And so people haven't connected like there's some element of people are like, okay, marriage isn't perfect. And there is no perfect partner. Well, there's also no perfect career. And so it's like everything has overhead. And that's a basis quote, like everything has elements that you don't want. And I think the expectation that everything is going to work out makes it so that nothing does for most people.
Wow. I needed to hear that so, so much. Thank you for, for laying that out. What do you think the, what do you think the modern day version of the cigarette is? The thing that we accept as normal currently, but that the rest of in 50 years will look back and be like, how are we so dumb to do this thing? I think, I think brain meds are like, we have no idea what's going on in the brain.
And so like we take, you know, it's kind of like electroshock therapy of like 50 years ago. We're like, I can't believe we did that or like lobotomies, you know what I mean? I can't believe we used to do that. And I think a lot of the, the psych drugs that people put kids on really early is tough. I think there are, there are, the problem with this stuff, there's probably even hates that I got into it, but like there, wherever there's a need, there's always a 10 times bigger,
amount of abuse, of a solution, right? And so it's kind of like workers comp, Charlie Munger talks about this, but it's like, it is absolutely wrong that someone should work and get injured on the job and not be compensated by the company that they were doing work rightfully so far, right? The problem is, how do you manage that when there's no way to hold people accountable? And so what happens is you actually sacrifice the system
for a select few. And so I tend to be a global optimizer, but a local minimizer. What that means is like, I'm willing to sacrifice the small, I'm really to sacrifice the pawn for the game. And society is not willing to sacrifice the pawn for the game, because the pawn is a headline. And that's the problem with how media, I'm not even getting into that.
That's what makes it hard. And that's why it's hard for sometimes cultures to move forward. But I think most people on a common sense level would rather have the whole benefit, but they cannot make the decision in the short term. And so like total side note on this. If you want an amazing razor for predicting people's behavior, just look at what will work in the fastest. And you can with fair enough certainty guess what people and groups of people will do.
Should we print more money or should we reel things back? Well, short term, this one's better. That's what we'll do. It's near impossible. It's hard for one person to do it for themselves. It's almost impossible for a group. And so groups will always optimize for the short term until eventually they run out into other group points. It almost seems like there's a heaviness within you when you're speaking about it.
Is that accurate? Because your mood and complexion changed completely. I don't like getting into this because it gets off the beaten path of... It's just a bummer. And I would get more into it, but I don't like getting into the politics around things. I've never been in it ever. I've just never gotten involved. Because I try to play games
that I have variables that I have control over. And so I got this from my dad, actually. But he said, I only play games if I know I'm going to win. And people might take that and take a lot of different things from it. But I'll tell you what he meant by that was that
He wanted to do all the preparation and have all the unfair advantages he possibly could before taking the first step into a game. And I would say that that's probably the biggest difference between people who are big time winners and everyone else, is that like, once you learn the rules of the game, then you learn how to stack the deck. And you can do it ethically and you can do it legally, right? Like easy way to stack the deck, wait longer than your competition.
You can come in with unfair advantages simply by measuring success on different time horizons or measuring a different metric for success. Like right now, what am I optimizing for? I'm optimizing for brand. I'm not optimizing for money. So I'm measuring something different than somebody else might be. And so someone who may start making content at the same time as me might be making more money than me today. But are they winning? I don't know. We're playing different games.
I think that that lens can be used by most people and most people don't do that because they don't even know the rules of the game that they're trying to play. And so they are pawns in someone else's game.
And so I think that's where the, the heaviness of this whole thing comes from for me is that like, I hate not feeling like I have an element of control over the outcomes in my life. And a lot of the stuff that's happening in the world, I don't feel like I have control over it. And that annoys me. And so I focus on the few things that are controlled before me and I direct all of my attention there.
makes a lot of sense. I've also taken a similar approach. And then I'll hear from loved ones or you should be paying attention to the news. You should. And it's like, well, I mean, I'm going to control the things that I'm going to control. And part of me is like, maybe when I'm that age and I can impact it more, I will. But in this moment, I can't. Is that a similar approach you take as well? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I am.
The question always comes down to, what am I going to do? And so if the input, I consume all this media, I get co-educated.
Not even getting into where you get sources of information which conflict and it's tough for anybody right now. To even know what an informed decision is. Because no one actually can touch the situation anymore. Everything's, it's banana foam times 100 right now across all media. So it's really hard to have an informed decision. And so for me, I really thought about this. And I was like, the reason I actually haven't, I voted one time in my life.
The reason that it's so tough is that if I'm going to vote, I would like to be an informed voter. In order for me to be informed voter, people are like, it only takes 10 minutes. I'm like, if you're an idiot, it only takes 10 minutes to literally click the buttons. It takes weeks to be informed about what buttons you're pressing.
And so for me, that's where the time trade off has not been good. And this isn't me saying I'm an advocate for not voting. I'm an advocate for being informed, but the cost of being informed relative to the amount of change I can make with my vote is relatively small. And so for me, I look at the opportunity cost of that time and could I, with that same time, more positively impact my life than what my one vote will impact my life through?
And for me, the answer is yes. And so then I choose not. And so I am uninformed, which is why I try not to give a political opinion because that's exactly what they would be, opinions. I have no idea. So it's same as me making up answers because I don't know. So I try to talk about only the few things that I feel relatively confident that I know about. I had a DM the other day. He was like, I watched one of your videos and he said, you don't know how to get to nine figures a month. And so I wanted to tell you.
mind you. The only person is going to say, this is not someone doing nine figures a month, but we'll leave it aside. The point is, is that I will only talk about getting to eight figures a month because I have been there. And so I know what it takes to get there. And I said, once I get to nine figures a month, I will tell you that, not that I don't have a map or a roadmap of how I plan to get there, but I won't talk about it until I've walked it.
And so like right now, I don't feel like I could walk any political discussion because I would get trounced by anybody who's more educated than me. And I'd be like, you're probably right. I don't know. And then I would be like, why am I here? I'd be like, oh, this is a game that I don't know the rules to. I'm going into a game that I don't have an advantage. I don't want to play. And so I play games that I know that I can win. Could you see yourself going into that realm after
I don't, not on any time horizon that I associate with the current identity that I have. So good.
I like my life a lot. And so I'm good. I like the path I'm on. I like what I'm doing. I like the impact that we're making. I love seeing the businesses that come in every day. I can stop in the street from every day for most people being like, dude, I read your book. I quit my job and I'm doing a million dollars a year. And I'm like, that might not have happened if I hadn't taken the extra 20 hours on that one page. That's true.
And my editor said this to me and it's been like, it's, it's haunted me to a degree. When we were, when things would get hard, right? In the editing process, like there are times where we, you know, I mean, we're the closest to friends, but we would really argue viciously over point because we wanted to get to the truth when we do the bottom of it. And he was like, Alex, he's like, there is a 16 year old kid who's going to sleep with this book under his pillow.
He's like, you owe it to him, man. And I was like, fuck, he's right. He's right. So let's keep working through it. Let's make it simpler. Let's not cut the corner. Let's explain it. Let's define the term. Let's make a visual. Even though it's going to take me another five fucking hours.
Like I didn't, you know, like it's, it's, that's the hard part. You know, and, and it was during the writing process that I tweeted this tweet that went pretty, whatever, got a lot of lift. It was, um, whenever I, whenever I like, it gets really hard. And I just think to myself, like, why am I even bothering? Why should it? Why should I even keep doing this? I just remind myself that this is where most people stop and this is why they don't win.
And so that's a quote that has helped me get through some of those like really tough times. It's like, well, do I want to win more than I want to fail? Yes. It's like, well, then this is a Trevor quote is my, my editor and my closest friend. He said, well, whenever someone says they can't stand it anymore. He said, well, if you're alive, you have proof that you can stand it. And if you die, you won't have to stand it anymore. So you can always stand it.
And I think that's a really powerful message. It's really simple. But like, if you are going through it, then you are going through it. You may be uncomfortable. It may be painful. You may hate it, but you're still here. And I think like to me, it reminds me of this, the Morpheus quote. I think it was in one of the matrices. And he says, I stand here truthfully and afraid, not because of the path of lies before me, but because of the path of lies behind me.
And so I think that that's like the gift that we all have. It's like we all have stood life to this point. And I think that's like all the proof you need that you can keep standing. Hey guys, real quick, this podcast only grows from word of mouth, quite literally. There's no other way to grow pockets than word of mouth. If there's some element of this that you think somebody else should hear or be relevant to them, it would mean the world to me. If you shared this via text, via Instagram, via DM, via whatever way you like to share stuff with the people you love. Thank you.
Or just sit down and then get back up for a second. Sure. Yeah. I would love to talk to you about a couple of your tweets here. I have a bunch listed, but yeah.
They're so good. And you're writing is like, it's really one of your gifts or one of the things that you've built to be amazing at it. So really just want to give you that acknowledgement. I'll be effective, had a coaching call with myself. I typed up a chat conversation with some problems I was having and pretended to be my 85 year old self. I got some really insightful replies, worth a try. After all, no one cares about younger you as much as older you.
thought that was really cool, impactful, and a practice that anyone can do. I'd love to learn about are there specific prompts, questions, things you say to yourself that, that make for the best conversation? This is the perfect question.
Real quick, guys, you guys already know that I don't run any ads on this and I don't sell anything. And so the only ask that I can ever have of you guys that you help me spread the word so we cannot more entrepreneurs, make more money, feed their families, make better products, and have better experiences for their employees and customers. And the only way we do that is if you can rate and review and share this podcast. So the single thing that I have to do is you can just leave review, but take 10 seconds or one type of the thumb. It would mean the absolute world to me. And more importantly, it may change the world for someone else.
Well done. So this is something that I learned about later that stems from a psychological concept called the Solomon Paradox.
And so the Solomon paradox, if you don't know who anyone's listening, is there was King Solomon who was known for being wise and he was one of the richest men of all time, et cetera. And so people, King's rulers would come to him and ask for his advice. The reason that it's a paradox is that he gave exceptional advice to everyone else, but his actual life was in ruins. His son was a terrible son and he had many wives and he cheated and he had this lust for money and all these things, but his advice to other people was amazing.
And so the Solomon paradox and it's been studied in multiple facets that people give better advice than they follow themselves. And so they've studied this with relationships. They'll have somebody in a weird romantic relationship, tough setup, and they'll whitewash the names and say, hey, there's a lady and she's getting beat by her husband once a month.
It's happened for four years, and this time, she says that her husband says that it's not gonna happen again. What do you think that that woman should do? And then the person would give advice, and it completely conflicts with how that woman actually lives her life, even though she's giving advice to somebody who's not her, right? And they have postulated why this is. Now you could say you've removed the emotions from it, you've removed the tensions, whatever you wanna say. But what we do know is that people give better advice than they follow.
And so if you pair that concept with the idea that no one has more context on your life than you do, then you have a very powerful combo. And so one of the issues that I've had with like therapists and performance coaches and things like that is that I've done a hint. I would say maybe I've spent like five, maybe 10 hours in total in a setting like that. I'm not very good at it. And it's because I usually feel like I'm spending the majority of my time trying to give them enough context in order to give me advice.
But they don't know every one of my skill sets. They don't know every one of my backgrounds. They don't know how that business deal like. He kind of looked a little dodgy, but I didn't have time to give more context to it so that they could give me the advice. And so I have failed at most of those things. And so when I tried this experiment, it was because I was actually really stressed about a decision. And so I said, OK, and this has been a mental practice of mine was just talking to my 85-year-old self. But I was like, let me formalize this a little bit. I'm actually going to write it out in a document.
And so I started talking to my future self. And what's kind of interesting is I could hear myself laughing at myself. So I'm like, this thing isn't happening fast enough. I don't know what's going on. And then I'd be like, what did you expect? You're trying to build a billion dollar thing in what a year?
And then I'm like, well, I mean, no. And I'm like, well, what's the objective? And I'm asking the same questions I would ask a portfolio company or CEO, right? Or whatever. And I'm now getting coached by me. And some people might take that as like wild and egotistical, which hopefully they don't. But the other side of it is that like this person has two things that no therapist has. They've complete context on my situation and they have completely aligned incentives.
And there's no one else in the entire world who has that. And I would argue that most people know what they should do. They just don't do it. So I'll relate this back to weight loss sales way back in the day. I'd sit across the table from Sandy and she'd be like, I don't know what to do. And I used to just like play into that be like, oh yeah, well, I'll help you to educate and all that stuff. And as I got more and more experience with sales, I'd be like, sure, you do. And they would look at me because they didn't expect that. And I'd be like, what do you mean? And it's also it breaks the frame. And all of a sudden you actually get their attention.
But I would say that and they'd look at me cross-eyed and I'd be like, if you had to lose weight, what would you do? And they'd be like, well, I'd probably like, I'd work out for it. I'm like, OK. I was like, what else would you do? They're like, I'd probably eat a little better. I'm like, OK. I was like, pretty much got it. I was like, but that's not the issue, is it? And I'm like, well, no. I was like, it's that you're not doing it. Just like, yeah. And I was like, I can help you with that. And so the issue is that a lot of times we think that we have a knowledge gap.
But a lot of times it's not that we have a knowledge gap. We just need someone else to hold us accountable. And so the ultimate gift that I think you can give yourself in life is holding yourself accountable. Like if you can do that, if you can really hold yourself accountable, you can do anything. And so sometimes it's really hard to hold yourself accountable. And so I'm just asking my 85 year old self to hold me accountable to what I say I want, right? Because even the flip side, and I said, there's two things. There's the knowledge and there's the incentive, right? Somebody might be able to help you out.
but their incentives aren't allowed. So as terrible as I'm about to say my sound, there are therapists that I think are very good and really help people. But there are also therapists that are human and have bills to pay and have families and they look at their business like a business and have a recurring revenue stream and say, like, if I solve your problem, you won't leave. And so you come here and you vent to me and I say, let's do the same same time next week. They're not trying to solve your problem. They're trying to make you feel better in the moment, but not solve it long term.
And so I want someone who has complete context and completely aligned incentives. And there's only one person who has that and that's me. And so the question is like, how can I give me advice? And it's like, well, me giving me advice isn't working. So I need old me to give advice who has 85 years of context. And the nice thing is, is that most of the time he just laughs at me and makes fun of me and tells me that none of this is going to matter.
And so it's been a very nice razor for focusing on the few things that do. And so when I am stressed or I have a big business decision, I also know that I don't have to educate a therapist or a coach on at least my level of business acumen to get good advice, right? And so that has been what I've called the Solomon Project. And so I have a recurring calendar meetup with myself for an hour on Mondays. It's the first thing I do. And I have a back and forth dialogue with 85 year old men.
And I, I mean, it's a dialogue. It's just like a chat. And so I chat to me, and then I click enter, and then I chat back. And I do the whole thing. Like I, like it's, and I'm like, well, dot, dot, dot, and I'm like, what, dot, dot, dot. And it's like, well, you kind of know. And I'm like, what do you mean? You know, like I have the whole thing. But I can't tell you it's been one of the most rewarding experiences that I've been through because like, I old me has absolute grace for young me. And old me,
appreciates the sacrifice that young me right now is putting in for old him. And it's like, I wouldn't be living the life I have if you weren't doing what you're doing right now. So thank you. And it like, it hits. Because like, there aren't many people who thank you for doing what you do.
but like there's no one that it benefits more than you, right? But actually to be thanked by, it's very weird, it's very meta, but like it's been a really powerful experience for me. And I think from a mental health or anxiety or longterm planning perspective, it's allowed me to pump the brakes on reactivity in my life, whether it's with relationships or business decisions and be able to just be wiser if we call it that, but really just, you know, most of wisdom is just thinking over a longer time horizon. And so it's like, might as well talk to the guy at the end and see what I should do today.
And that this is through a Google Doc or just a chat. Yeah, yeah. Let's just click enter. It's simple. I mean, it's I can tell who's talking. I know who's turned this.
Yeah, I love it. It's really powerful. I'm going to do that right after this. And I got to get another tweet with you while we're here. In a similar vein, advice to my younger self, document your life more. Otherwise, you'll forget the details and the details are what make it worth remembering.
as powerful. I always tell my friends, we got to, we got to take more pictures, more videos, whatever the amount that you take, it's not enough. Like always take more, not because you want to show anybody, but just because when I have those from the years past, I'm always so grateful I do. So what role has that played in your life and how do you have you done that?
Well, I was notorious for not documenting anything for most of my life. And I think I have a different tweet that says, the biggest regret I have is not documenting the failures. It's like not documenting the low points. Because everyone wants to document the success story. But the only way you have success stories if you show where you came from and where you came from is the shitty part. And so I did 30-something launches of gyms. I only made one recording. It's like two minutes.
And that one recording made me like $10 million because I read it as an ad. Wow. Imagine if I had 30 other ones. But it was me in some random gym being like, look at this random gym I'm in in the middle of nowhere. And I'm like, isn't this weird? I was like, I just sold 200 people into this thing. Look at the stack of contracts. And I was actually not making it as an ad. I was sending it to a group that I had just joined to try and show that I was cool.
They're like, they were all these internet people. And I was like, I do cool stuff too. I was like, I do stuff. Look, look at those contracts. It was me flexing to a group. It wasn't even an ad. And then I ran it as an ad, then it murdered. Like people in the gym world are like, I remember that ad, right? Because it was so crazy, because it was real. And so I think that the biggest mistake that I made from a marketing perspective, maybe a life perspective, biggest is strong. One of the mistakes I made is that I didn't document the low points.
And so like, I have a screenshot in my first book that's my, when I had a thousand dollars in my bank account. And for the audience who's listening, the thousand dollars in my bank account for me, I had had, you know, six locations before that. So going from six gyms to a thousand dollars in a matter of like 90 days was very hard for me. And, but it was hard enough that I do remember screenshotting it and being like, fucking remember this. Like don't make the mistake again.
And it was a little bit of like at the time, like self-punishment of being like, you will not forget this. But as I've gained a little bit more grace to my younger self, I have those screenshots. And I've used that one screenshot of $1,000 from my bank account, probably more than any screenshot I've had from my past.
And I've used the, I took one picture of me sleeping on the floor at the gym. One, and I just said it's my dad being like, first night here, you know? And I'm so grateful that I took the picture because if I hadn't, I wouldn't, and I have so many other crazy things that happened, that I have no documentation of it. And so it's easy to say, hey, document. But the thing is, is that documenting is a local cost for a global benefit.
It costs you now, but it benefits you long term, which is why most people don't do it. And so what I've tried to do with how we've oriented our life is that I give myself local benefit and local benefit. So I get fast feedback loops for documenting what we do now. And so we document everything, but I also get really fast feedback because I post it. Now, the problem is if you're not posting things, then you have no feedback cycle for remembering them, especially if they're tough.
And so I think that one of the, one of the genius concepts of capture don't create, et cetera, is that it actually gives you a feedback loop on something that otherwise has no benefit. Because in the moment you remember it, it just happened in some ways you're trying to forget it, right? But like when you think about the human experience and I think about my 85 year old self, like what makes the human experience in its entirety, the human experience is the highs and the lows.
And so like there was a, we were talking about frames of mind for like getting through hard things earlier, but I'll give you another one, which is there was a guy, a friend of a friend, success entrepreneur, and he got really bad cancer, like super bad, really, really fast, right? And I think he lost his like trachea and some other stuff and like they thought he was gonna die and ended up making it. And he was telling my friend, he was like, man,
so grateful. And it was like, you think it was like the whole I see life a different way now. It wasn't that. It was while he's going through it. And his reasoning was, how cool is it that I get to live this part of the human experience? He's like, so many people don't get to live this. Like I get to know what it's like to have cancer. Like so many people live their whole lives and then die not knowing what cancer was like. I get to know that. And I just thought about that as like a very interesting frame. It's like whether it's bankruptcy, going to jail,
Like even the depths of human suffering and some people who are still going through that trauma, I'm not saying that like, I'm not justifying it. It's just a frame on like being human is the rainy and the sunny days.
Like you can't skip weather. And so I think like embracing the totality of the experience can give you gratitude for what feels locally like a low point. But most of the defining moments in our life, broken leg, then he doesn't have to go to war, right? When you expand the time rise and those are the things that create us. And so again, I mean, I talked to my 85 year old self a lot, which sounds really weird. But whenever I'm like complaining about something, one of the common things he'll ask me back is like, well, who do you want to be?
And I'll be like, well, I want to be like this. And he's like, do you think that person would not go through hard times? And I'm like, yeah, he's like, well, it sounds like you're wishing for the outcome, but not willing to pay the price. He's like, are you willing to pay the price? And I'm like, well, yeah. He's like, well, this is what paying the price feels like. Embrace it. Because these will be the stories you tell. And so I think that's given me the ability to weather rainy days, sunny days.
because like there are a lot of those days in the entrepreneurial journey because that rocky cut scene is five years and not 30 seconds. And so I think you need as many of those tools as you can possibly put together your new tool belt to just keep going.
So, so beautifully said. I want to highlight to the part about sleeping in the basement and that sleeping in the gym and taking a picture of it. You posted on social media that day and it gets your likes. You posted on social media today and it gets a million. And I think there's something interesting to that is like the more you build the story, the more the low points actually mean and the greater the
I'll give you something that you probably didn't expect from me on this one. It's actually, I think, it's a smiley face. So if you post it when you're going through it, people will respond, say, keep chasing your dreams, keep at it, et cetera. And then when you start succeeding, all of a sudden, they won't do that. And then later, they'll be like, it's cool that you came from that.
But like when you're on the come up and I remember I wrote this essay and I've actually tried to find it. And it was because I liked creative writing. I had a creative writing scholarship back and I didn't actually take that scholarship into it. But anyways, the point is I've liked writing for a long time. And I wrote this essay to myself because I'm a weirdo. I said, everyone believes in the American dream until it comes true.
And so I was like the heading and it was this weird observation that I had because like everyone was rooting for me when I was sleeping on the floor. So like in my head, I head back home, everybody that I was running away from, but everyone in the local, like the people at my gym and stuff, they were like rooting for me. You know what I mean? They're like, good for you, chasing your dreams. Like, you know, you're sleeping at the, like you're going to get it. You're going to make it, man. Right?
But like nine months later, when I had like a team and I had a manager and like, I wasn't at the gym every hour of every day, I was working from home sometimes because I got more dungs that wouldn't, you know, disrupt me. And I would show up to the gym or I'd show up to a second location and they'd be like, Oh, big man, like, can't be too bothered by us. Like, don't forget us little people, right? You know, all that stuff. And I remember being like, when I was like, when did I go from the underdog to the man?
as in like working for the man, which is a saying that Gen Z probably isn't. No, but, um, I think that there's a quote that I think, uh, Chris Williamson said that I really are, and he, I think he was quoting something. I don't remember what it was. But anyways, he, he said, people root for you on your way up because you remind them of their dreams and they try to tear you down once you're there because you remind them that they gave up on them. Well, something. And
I've lived that. And it's weird because I think there's these cycles as you kind of gain an influence. It's kind of like the crab story, like in the beginning, like all the crabs try and pull the other crabs back into the bucket. So I think like you start succeeding and people are like good for you that gives them hope. And then you start passing them. And it's like, everyone wants you to do well, just not better than them. Yeah.
And so then you start passing them by the objective measure, whatever you want to call it. And then they start cutting at you. Well, he cut corners. He's not ethical. They start making things up, whatever. But then what happens is people who are not from your hometown start recognizing for who you are now. And they didn't see the path. They didn't see you suck in the beginning. They just see who you are now. And they're like, wow, this guy's great. He's provides so much value, whatever it is. And I think there's a saying that Jesus wasn't the Messiah in his hometown.
Right? Like the, the, it's counterintuitive, but you think that the place that someone was from is the place that they, that would root for it. But it's the last place that accepted him as Lord in the story. Right. And I think there's a lot of truth to that. And so it's also, I'm a big advocate of leaving. Like if you want to become a different person and change your environment, because the environment you have is reinforcing the person you used to be.
It's, it's so crazy. Six months ago, I know you probably, you got to go soon, but six months ago, I moved to Austin and haven't had more growth personally and professionally in my own life because I moved to a different place. And then I go home and I noticed the patterns again that I was once living with. So that's how life goes. But I, that's awesome.
Yeah, thank you. I'd love to. I am these podcasts with a challenge. Ask the guest for a challenge of the audience to do something and take the action from the hour and a half. We spoke. Does a challenge come to mind? Define the input output equation that gets you closer to where you want to go. And then 10x the input.
So, whatever your thing is, like if you're like, I wanna be an editor, I wanna be an agency owner, I wanna be a whatever, whatever the thing is, the first thing you have to do is figure out the input output equation, which is what do I have to do that will get me closer where I wanna go? Step one, if you can't define your input output equation, then you need to define your input output equation because otherwise you're working for no goal. Once you define that, then do 10 times more. This is the flyer story.
Like you probably, you might be doing the right stuff. You might be working out, but you're working out five minutes a week and being like, I don't know why I'm not losing weight. It's like, you're not even close. You're like, no, I think I need to double it to 10 minutes a week. It's like, no, you're not even close. The thing is, in fitness, we have some context, right? But in business, you have no idea.
And that's the big disconnect, is that people might be doing the right stuff, but doing the wrong amount. They're doing way too little of it. And they think in doubles, not in orders of magnitude, as in 10x, 100x. But like, you want to make 100 times more money than you are. You need 100 times more input. Like, hold on, I'm going to hit this on real quick, because this is important.
I have right now 10,000 times the input that I used to use to have when I was running my gems. I just have leverage on my input. And so for example, so I could do 200 call calls a day and get a certain amount of sales. The next level is I could go get somebody to do those 200 phone calls for me and then I make the same amount of sales, but that'll do anything more leverage.
Another leverage above that is I go call, do 200 phone calls a day until I get a recruiter, and then that recruiter brings me a new person every week. And then every week I get another added 200 phone calls per day that keep stacking and the number of customers that comes from that. But what did I do there? I made calls for a week to get one recruiter. And then from that point going forward, every single month I get more and more sales. And so that's three levels of leverage.
There are more than that. And so what you unlock in the game of entrepreneurship is leverage. And the way that you unlock leverage is through relinquishing control. And so the tough part about the entrepreneurial journey is that the thing that got you to quit your job is the very thing that you have to stop doing.
And so what happened is you felt out of control and so you quit your job, so you could take complete control of your life. And we were self-employed, you take complete control. You hunt, you kill, you produce, you do everything, right? And then the thing that you got the big massive reward for, because you quit your job, you started making money living life, you're on terms, you now have to unlearn that. And you have to say, now I'm going to give up control again. And then the rest of the journey is unlearning the control that you so hardcore rewarded for in that first action.
Because in the beginning, you have to give up doing production or doing delivery right on the back end. And then you have to give up doing admin work. And then you have to give up doing sales. And then you have to give up doing marketing. Then you have to give up doing management. Then you have to give up doing leadership. Then you have to give up doing financing. Then you have to give up all these things until eventually you're like, but I'm not needed. And then you have to give up the desire to be needed by your business. Because many people make their business to fulfill personal desires.
But the business doesn't need to do that. It doesn't exist for you. It exists for the customer. You're not required. You think you are because it makes you feel more important. And so that's the unlearning experience and that's where leverage comes from. And so right now, to answer the question, the challenge for the people is figure out what the input output equation is and do 10 times more. And if you can figure out how to do 10 times more, figure out how to do 100 times more. And the secret is that if you're trying to do 100 times more, it's probably not just you.
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