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Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast. On Friday, we do double duty, not just reading our daily meditation, but also reading a passage from the Daily Stoic. My book, 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance in the Art of Living, which I wrote with my wonderful collaborator, translator,
and a literary agent, Stephen Hanselman. So today, we'll give you a quick meditation from the Stoics with some analysis from me, and then we'll send you out into the world to turn these words into works.
What do you do when you have nothing to do? The in-between moments, the lulls, the waiting, the extra time you weren't planning to get. What do you do in those moments? For many of us, these brief windows are instantly filled with what Seneca called busy idleness. We get occupied by mindless and meaningless distractions. We check email, we gossip, we sit there waiting for it to be over.
Over on the Daily Stog podcast, we were talking to James about one of the challenges in the new year, new year challenge, which we don't want to spoil, and you should definitely join. You know the link by now, I'm sure, but I'll link to it. Anyways, it prompted him to say really interesting, which if you haven't listened to the interview, you definitely should. I'll just, I'll play what he said, because it was great.
I like the idea of having good defaults. Sometimes the way I phrase it is, what do you do when you have nothing to do? For a lot of people, when they have nothing to do, when they've got a 10-second break while they're standing in line at the store, or when they have five minutes in between a meeting, what they do is they scroll on their phone. They pull up social media, they look at whatever. They have a default mode that they go into when they have nothing to do.
And what I've really tried to do, I'm still working on this. I definitely don't have this figured out. But what I've tried to do is have a better answer to what do I do when I have nothing to do. In Book One of Meditations, this is one of the things that Marcus said he admired most about Antoninus, that he was, quote, not prone to be pulled in all directions, but sticking with the same old places and the same old things. Antoninus knew what to do
when he had nothing to do. He was able to avoid being pulled in all directions because he had his defaults, he had his priorities, and he had discipline. And we encourage you to find yours because those in-between moments, they're not insignificant. They're not nothing. They're your time. Time you will never get back. And it adds up, shaping not just our days, but our lives.
And again, if you haven't signed up for the Daily Stoke New Year New Year Challenge, definitely do that dailystoke.com slash challenge. I appreciate James popping by and chatting. And I think you'll really like the challenge, dailystoke.com slash challenge.
Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast. Today we are talking about the December 27th entry in the Daily Stoic, 366 Meditations on Wisdom Perseverance in the Art of Living. I am holding a clothbound one here, although I just signed
so many leather-bound daily stokes to get out for people for gifts for the holidays. And then this is the window, something like 30 or 40% of all the sales of the daily stock come like this several week period, like the last half of December, first half of January. It's crazy. Everyone is just like, gifts, wanting to get serious, wanting to make changes. I love it.
It's really cool. And we end up discounting the e-book of daily stock in this period. So if you look where you get e-books, it's probably like $1.99 on Kindle and everywhere you get books. So check that out as well. I'll put a link in today's show notes. But in the meantime, today's quote comes from meditation 629. It's a disgrace in this life when the soul surrenders first while the body refuses to.
The title of the entry is based on that. Don't let your soul go first. Despite his privileges, Marcus Aurelius had a difficult life. The Roman historian Cassius Daya amused that Marcus did not meet with the good fortune that he deserved, for he was not strong and body and was involved in a multitude of troubles through practically his entire reign.
At one point he was so sick that a rumor spread that he had died, and matters were made worse when his most trusted general used it as an opportunity to declare himself the new emperor. But throughout these struggles, the years at war, the crippling illnesses, his troubled son, he never gave up.
It's an inspiring example for us to think about today if we get tired or frustrated or have to deal with some crisis. Here was a guy who had every reason to be angry and bitter, who could have abandoned his principles and lived in luxury or ease, who could have put his responsibilities aside and focused on his own health. But he never did. His soul stayed strong even after his body became weak. He didn't give up right up until the second that his body finally did.
when he died near Vienna in the year 180 AD. Yeah, Mark's through this was a tough dude. I've said this before, but the fact that
This guy who buried multiple children, who had chronic illnesses, who experienced betrayal and pain and loss and heartbreak and disaster after disaster that he kept going was a profound statement of hope and resilience and sheer willpower. That to me is what Stoicism is. It's not this, oh, I don't feel anything, you know, nihilism. It's this,
love of what you do and who you are. That's what he talks about in that famous passage about waking up early in book five of meditations. It's people who love what they do wear themselves down doing it. They just stay at it. They just keep going, quit. He had so many reasons to give up, so many reasons.
to not go on, so many reasons to take an easier way out and she didn't. And I find that very, very impressive. I actually thought of it briefly. I told you I was at the White House for their Christmas party and Biden came out and gave a brief talk and left my feeling about
where we are politically, we don't have to get into. And we don't even have to get into this problem with aging politicians not making room for a new generation. I think there was a lot of validity in that. But the next day, I was reading, I was still in DC because I was giving a talk the next day, but he had then flown back home to
Delaware, where he was laying a reef at the grave site of his wife and his young daughter who died in that car accident in the 70s, right at the beginning of his political crisis. He had a reason to give up and not keep going just then. Stutter. You know, again, it's sad where to place politically where, again, whatever you think of some of his policies, and if you think he did a bad job as president or you think he should have left the presidency earlier, this is a tough dude. This is a dude who life
knocked around, who could have spent his golden years not in public service, could have just cashed in on the speaking circuit or the memoir circuit or any number of things. And again, I think it's negative that we only look at it as, oh, you know, clinging to power. I'm sure that's a part of it. That's what draws everyone to politics, just as like, I have many reasons why I do what I do, some more selfish than others, but
He also clearly had policy aims that he wanted to accomplish. He also clearly thought he could do a good job and he stuck with it. And for the Stoics, this idea of a long life of public service, a long life of being committed to your ideals,
being involved in the thick of things, not taking the easy way out, not retiring in indolence, even if it's much deserved. Certainly Biden would relate to the idea of a troublesome son and didn't always get it right. Certainly Marcus didn't always get it right as history shows us.
But these things, you know, again, right or wrong decision, it's exhausting. It would take so much out of you. Yeah, I just thought about that as I saw him up there and some element of it was also, you know, it just seemed crazy that he thought I could go another four years. But maybe that's sort of the point is you think you have more in you.
Then you do. Marx really dies on the job. And then when it sort of snuck up on him, he said, go to the rising sun for I am setting.
You know, inevitably, we'll all be that setting sun at some point. And the idea, I guess, to quote the famous poem is that we don't go quietly into that good night, that we push, we stay at it. We don't give up before our time. Because, you know, there was another moment, the betrayal that Cassius Dio tells us about involving the Avidius Cassius.
his general who declares himself emperor. Marcus was sick and supposedly near death.
And he had been written off. It had been assumed that he had nothing left that he had expired. But he had, in fact, many years left. That's what we're talking about. And we mean this in the big ways, like in the presidency, but also in the small ways, to make time for your grandchildren, to make time for your children, to be a resource, to be an ally, to be a mentor. As long as you still got the juice in you,
you know, to keep doing good. I think of Jake Seliger, who died this year, my friend, who we had on the podcast. I mean, he was writing and publishing up until his last days, and that work was meaningful to him. I'm sure, but it was meaningful to me, and it's still there, and people are still discovering it, and it means
Something and I think that's what Marcus is talking about here as long as you got a little left in you Do what you can with it stick around make a positive difference tough it out This is what we're training for preparing for This is what one of the things the philosophy helps us with and that's my message So again look this comparison isn't to imply that anyone is like
Marx really is anyone is a king, anyone is a philosopher king. That's not what I'm saying. I was just struck by the timelessness of that story of people in power and the way life takes its toll on us. And at some moments, maybe we still feel young, we still feel like we've got it in us, but it has unmistakably worn us down. But that spirit inside us has to stay there, has to
keep going. And yeah, look, I do think he's a consequential president. I think he accomplished quite a bit. I think he ironically did probably more for what we would call the working class in this country, and then watched as those were precisely the voters who abandoned him. Again, a timeless idea. I'm actually going to talk about being leaders to earn a bad reputation by good deeds.
I think history will come around. We're in it now. Probably end up being judged like a Carter or a Truman unpopular when they left office, but not in the George Bush sense of the word where a disaster well in the making continues to get worse and worse and worse. I think it'll be the opposite. We'll start to see the payoff of
Some of these things as time goes by and certainly the fundamental decency and sincerity and commitment to public service, tragedy of being painted as somehow corrupt by one of the most corrupt politicians in American history is, again, a tragic irony. And look, as the transition of power comes here in the next few days, I don't think we need to worry about anyone leading a coup against the US government
He'll be in the audience at the inauguration, peacefully handing over power, and there's something noble and stoic about that, even though I'm sure he has a number of doubts, probably better information than most of us do about
you know, the handoff that he's having to make. But this is, there is something, I think, lowercase, stoic about all this, certainly as a practicing Catholic, he'd be quite familiar with all those cardinal virtues, courage and discipline and justice and wisdom. I don't know, I'm losing the thread on this. It's late in the evening now. I've just signed like a bazillion books. I just went for a run. So I'm getting a little tired. I hope you had a good Christmas if you celebrate. Hope you're ready for the new year.
Don't get too crazy. And I hope I can see it in the Daily Stowak New Year New Year Challenge, which is built around challenges to toughen you up and build some of that will and to explore some of these ideas from the Stowaks. And you can sign up for that at DailyStowak.com slash challenge or just put in the final touches on it now. I think it's awesome. I think it's our best one yet. We do a new one each year. We spend the good chunk of the year coming up with the days fine tuning and workshop and then building out resources and then we get all the tech behind it and everything.
It's our biggest production. It's a huge part of what we do here at Daily Stoics. I think it's going to be awesome. And by the way, you can get all our challenges for free, including the New Year, New Year Challenge as part of a Daily Stoic Life membership, which you can grab right now at dailystoiclife.com. And I hope to see you in it on January 1st, just sign up at dailystoic.com slash challenge. And I'll see you there.
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