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    Tripping Out with a Legend: Jon Kabat-Zinn on Pain vs. Suffering, Rethinking Your Anxiety, and the Buddha's Teaching in a Single Sentence

    enApril 05, 2023
    What is the primary lesson from John Cabot Zen's interview?
    How does MBSR relate to pain relief according to John?
    What harms others according to the interview?
    What mindset should we aim to outgrow?
    How can mindfulness enhance our understanding of relationships?

    Podcast Summary

    • Lessons on Mindfulness and Meditation for Pain ReliefLet go of expectations and embrace self-regulation to enhance awareness and interact with the world; mindfulness meditation can aid in managing pain through acceptance and healing.

      John Cabot Zen's interview with Dan Harris on the 10% Happier Podcast taught the lesson of abandoning expectations, a key Buddhist teaching. The interview, which focused on mindfulness, meditation, and the origins of mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR), highlighted how MBSR allowed scientists to research meditation in a systematic way, leading to fascinating information on the physical and psychological benefits of meditation. John's new book, Mindfulness Meditation for Pain Relief, discusses the origins of MBSR and its relation to pain relief. He explains how healing is coming to terms with things as they are and emphasizes the importance of self-regulation at the level of the body, mind, and heart for a better understanding of awareness and interaction with the world.

    • The transformational power of mindfulness for chronic pain management.Mindfulness-based stress reduction can enable individuals with chronic pain to differentiate between pain and suffering, improve awareness, appreciation for the present moment and heal through ancient transformative practices.

      Mindfulness-based stress reduction can help people with chronic pain conditions to learn how to live with their conditions and differentiate between pain and suffering. Meditation can help to increase awareness and deepen the inquiry into the nature of our being, which can help us to understand the depth of our wholeness, beauty and being. When we inhabit the domain of full being, we can appreciate the present moment, relationships and the richness around us. This can help us to differentiate between physical pain and emotional suffering. By drawing on our own deep interior resources, we can learn, grow, heal and transform ourselves using ancient practices that cultivate attention and awareness.

    • Understanding the Power of Mindfulness and Human Awareness in Alleviating Suffering.By Developing Mindfulness Through MBSR, We Can Learn To Separate Our Thoughts From Pain, Emotions and Stories, and Transform Suffering into Wisdom. It's our Ethical Responsibility to Optimize Access to Awareness and Attention for All.

      MBSR aims to make meditative practices accessible to all, including those who are suffering, by optimizing access to awareness and attention. Through mindfulness, we can learn to separate the raw data of pain, emotions, and stories from our thoughts and see the difference between them. Human awareness is a superpower that we all possess, but we often neglect it in favor of other intelligence factors like thought. Mindfulness is moving into the mainstream of society, and we have a moral and ethical responsibility to meet everyone's suffering and transform it into wisdom, not to take away the pain but to understand the space between pain and suffering. If we don't evolve in this way, we won't succeed.

    • Mindfulness and meditation can help create a better future.Connecting with each other and nature through mindfulness and compassion can lead to a desire to positively impact the world for future generations. It's not just about self-improvement, but recognizing our interconnectedness and limited perspective.

      All individuals need access to resources that allow them to live a life of dignity, peace, health, wellbeing, and contribute to a larger sense of meaning and collaborative engagement. We are all interconnected and the way we treat the planet affects all life forms. Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help individuals recognize their profound interconnectedness with others, and with the environment. A love affair with the present moment and with others can help develop compassion and a desire to make a positive impact on the world for future generations. It is not about improving the self, but recognizing the limited perspective we have of who we really are.

    • The True Essence of Meditation: Beyond Sitting on a CushionMeditation is not just about improving oneself but about understanding one's true self beyond thoughts. Being aware of actions with kindness and rigor leads to positive change and prevents clinging, confronting the source of delusion and ensuring survival.

      Meditation is not just about sitting on a cushion but also about being aware of your actions throughout the day. It is about understanding who you are beyond thoughts and improving yourself without clinging to self-identification. The practice is about gifting back the ability to swim, which you were born with, to people who cling to narratives like wreckage to prevent drowning in depression. Being mindful and aware of your actions prevents clinging and confronting the source of delusion, which leads to understanding oneself. Meditation should not be about forcing oneself to improve but about experiencing positive change. Therefore, being aware of one's actions with kindness and rigor is the only way to heal the disease of clinging and greed, ensuring the survival of homo sapiens.

    • Rediscovering the Wonders of Life through MeditationMeditation helps us appreciate the preciousness of each breath and overcome separation within ourselves. Embracing this art form provides a path towards developing lasting relationships and experiencing life's endless marvels.

      Meditation helps to infuse wonder into our lives by reminding us of the miracle of each breath. We are only one breath away from being out of here, and this fact makes each inhale and exhale a precious gift. The beauty of meditation is like that of poetry, transcending the thinking mind to express the inexpressible. Through meditation, we can reconcile the bifurcation between 'me and myself' and become mutual monarchs, ruling our own lives with our full humanity. By banishing toxic thoughts and relationships, we can stand on our own and develop stable relationships that last over decades. Meditation is an art form that helps us find the beauty in science and art and experience the endless wonders of life.

    • The Importance of Mindfulness and Heartfulness in Overcoming Tribalism and Toxic Projections.Practicing mindfulness and heartfulness, taking responsibility and living an ethical life by doing no harm can help us overcome our dualistic mindset and embody the evolutionary nature of possibility in the present moment.

      We often stuff our emotions and beliefs in a bag and carry them around, which becomes toxic projections. This leads to the epidemic of certainty and the tribalism mindset that harms others. To overcome this, we need to exercise the muscle of mindfulness and heartfulness to take responsibility and live an ethical life by first doing no harm. Being aware of our actions and catching them can help us learn from our mistakes and apologize. Our karmic assignment is to outgrow the dualistic mindset of self and other, and to embody the evolutionary nature of possibility in the present moment.

    • The Importance of Being Present in the Moment in YogaLetting go of distractions and building stories can lead to transformative experiences. Embrace the present moment and find equanimity by accepting what is felt, seen and known. Appreciate the miracle of life and be grateful.

      The key takeaway from this conversation is to be present in the moment and let go of the unnecessary distractions and thoughts. Accepting what is to be felt, seen, and known without building a story around it leads to transformative experiences. The corpse pose in yoga is an invitation to let go of the past and future, and truly be in the present. Realization and awakening are not about building big stories of enlightenment, but rather appreciating the miracle of life and being grateful for what you have at the moment. Equanimity can be achieved by relabeling anxiety and accepting the present moment with a feeling of everything being okay.

    • Embracing Equanimity to Manage Anxiety.Accepting anxiety and observing it as an object of meditation practice can bring new degrees of freedom in dealing with physical pain, anxiety or depression, enabling us to be in control of it rather than letting it control us.

      The practice of equanimity means to accept things as they are, including anxiety or any other challenges we face. It doesn't mean that we don't act, but we act from a place of spaciousness where we are not taking things personally. By observing anxiety just like a weather pattern in the mind, and putting a welcoming attitude to it, it becomes an object of our meditation practice. This brings new degrees of freedom in how we work with physical pain, anxiety or depression. Healing is not about fixing everything, but about coming to terms with things as they are. Thus, wise relationship with anxiety means to be in control of it rather than it being in control of us.

    • Healing and Transformation through Mindfulness and CompassionThrough mindfulness and meditation, we can let go of our constructed self and find unity in our pain. By staying present, we can contribute to positive change and experience a renaissance of compassion.

      Through mindfulness and meditation, we can see the emptiness of our story or construct of self, which can help us come to terms with our pain and suffering. Learning and growing from this experience can lead to healing and transformation, where we recognize discordant elements and become more unified. Although we cannot fix everything, we can contribute in whatever ways we can. And as we take care of the present moment, the future takes care of itself. Through this lifetime adventure and love affair with mindfulness and compassion, we can potentially have a renaissance of wakefulness and compassion, even in the face of darkness and destruction.

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    Wise Selfishness | Part 3 of The Dalai Lama's Guide to Happiness

    Wise Selfishness | Part 3 of The Dalai Lama's Guide to Happiness

    How can we get better at selfishness? That’s one of many fascinating topics we cover in this episode, in which we play snippets from Dan’s one-on-one interview with His Holiness, and then unpack it all with Dr. Richard Davidson, neuroscientist and founder of the Center for Healthy Minds. We talk to His Holiness about “wise selfishness,” how to handle our enemies, and whether he ever gets angry. Then Richie recounts a time when His Holiness exhibited a rare flash of anger— towards him, in fact.


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    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/dalai-lama-guide-540


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    Michael Imperioli (From The Sopranos and White Lotus) Knows a Shitload About Buddhist Meditation

    Michael Imperioli (From The Sopranos and White Lotus) Knows a Shitload About Buddhist Meditation

    Actor Michael Imperioli is best known for a string of memorable onscreen performances that include Goodfellas, The Sopranos, and most recently on The White Lotus. What you may not know is that he has a deep Buddhist practice and has actually grown into something of a meditation teacher. 

    In this episode we talk about:

    • The classic celebrity life crisis that brought Imperioli to Buddhism 
    • The importance of consistent practice as a way to get familiar with your mind so that your thoughts and emotions and urges don't own you
    • The specific Tibetan Buddhist tradition Imperioli practices and what his daily practice looks like
    • Whether meditation helps him be more creative
    • How acting and meditation are similar
    • Whether getting older affects our ability to grok impermanence
    • Why Imperioli started teaching meditation online
    • How to meditate off the cushion in daily life


    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/michael-imperioli-591 


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