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    The fundamentals of being human

    Mireille and Adam explore what it means to be human at a basic level. They aim to understand humanity by examining the inner-workings of the human brain and common experiences shared in life.

    en-usAugust 06, 2019
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    What are the main struggles humans face according to the text?
    How do our genetics influence attachment styles?
    Why is communication important in building relationships?
    What role does empathy play in connecting with others?
    How can we address misunderstandings in relationships?

    • The Human Struggle: Navigating Life's Challenges and Relationships.We all face challenges and seek relationships. Our attachment styles are not influenced by genetics. Humans cope with emotional, mental, and physical difficulties, including ADHD and disabilities.

      As humans, we all struggle and face challenges, whether chosen or not. We are designed to feel and have emotions, and the need for relationships is hard-wired in our brains, as we all learn to attach and connect with others. Our genetics don't contribute to our attachment styles, and we all develop ways to manage the threat of losing a relationship. While other animals struggle for survival, struggle for humans encompasses physical, emotional, and mental challenges, ranging from dealing with relationships and grief to learning new things and coping with ADHD and other disabilities.

    • The power of naming and acknowledging our strugglesBy acknowledging and understanding our emotions, we can better navigate and connect with others through empathy. It's important to accept that struggles are a natural and shared part of the human experience.

      Naming our struggles and putting words to our experiences can change the way we navigate them, and help us find people or resources to move forward. Being designed to feel is a unique aspect of being human, and is rooted in our brain's limbic system and neocortex. Understanding these structures and acknowledging our emotions can help us make sense of our experiences and connect with others through empathy. While everyone's struggles may be different, recognizing and accepting them as part of the human experience can help us navigate them with greater resilience and support.

    • Understanding the Complexities of the Human BrainThe brain is made up of distinct structures that work together to process emotions, build new neural networks, and store memories. Language plays a critical role in this process, and information can take time to form new pathways. Research continually adds to our understanding of the brain's complexity.

      The brain consists of the brainstem, limbic system, and neocortex. The amygdala in the limbic system is the primary emotional center, responsible for processing emotions while the frontal lobe of the neocortex makes us human. It is capable of modifying and building new neural networks by creating a symphony of different brain structures that work collaboratively. Language plays a critical role in managing emotions as humans have the ability to converse using words. Memories are dynamic and changeable as they get modified every time we retrieve them. Neurons that fire together wire together, and information takes time to develop new pathways in the brain. Our brain is always more complex than what we know, and research continually adds to or modifies current beliefs.

    • The Unreliability of Eyewitness Testimony and the Power of Neural PathwaysMemories and truth are subjective, making eyewitness testimony unreliable. Refocusing our attention can create new neural pathways, leading to more accurate recollections and breaking autopilot mode.

      Eyewitness testimony is often unreliable due to differences in personal truth and memory even if both people were coherent and eyewitnesses. The way we remember experiences is based upon how it made us feel and the bigger the emotion, the more memorable it becomes. Neurons operate through an all or none principle, firing only when it reaches the threshold of excitation. We can change the way we think by refocusing our attention to reinforce the channels we want to focus on in our brains. Neural networks become habituated when they are well-practiced and can be automated, leading to autopilot mode. This highlights the importance of paying attention and refocusing attention to create different neural pathways.

    • Empathy and the Importance of ConnectionOur emotions are not always reliable guides, but they offer valuable feedback. Empathy helps us connect with others and break down barriers, promoting mental health and recognizing the value of all individuals.

      We get conditioned around certain emotions, leading to wired networks that associate negative emotions with particular experiences. However, feelings aren't always facts, but they are feedback. Empathy is crucial for connecting with others, allowing us to see things from their perspective and walk alongside them. Having 'our people' is important for our mental health and well-being, and isolation can drive people crazy. Ironically, we all have an in-group and an out-group, and social psychologists have found that groups can value their people but commit atrocities against other groups. Empathy can help break down these barriers and acknowledge the value of all individuals as human beings.

    • The Importance of Shared Understanding in Building Connection and Empathy.To connect with people, we must find shared understanding based on geography, interests, or other factors. Respect individual differences, but recognize the value of shared experiences. Connection involves attachment and empathy, supporting each other during hard times.

      Connecting with people requires finding shared understanding, whether it's based on geography, interests, or other factors. This shared understanding leads to empathy, feeling understood, and support. Connection is not about catching people up on your history, but about finding people who already understand where you're coming from. It's important to respect everyone's individuality, but also to recognize the value of shared experiences. Testing on humans is the last case scenario in drug testing because humans hold a different value, and therefore they should be treated with fundamental respect. Connection involves attachment, relating, and empathy, and it's about finding ways to support each other, particularly during hard times.

    • The Role of Touch and Visual Cues in Human ConnectionTouch and visual cues are critical for building and maintaining human connections. Lack of touch and visual cues can lead to feelings of isolation and disengagement, ultimately affecting our relationships and decisions.

      The importance of touch in human connection cannot be overstated as it helps to reduce stress and buffer reactivity. Infants need touch for survival and it plays a crucial role in their initial attachment with their mothers. Touch also plays a significant role in adult relationships, especially in times of illness or when feeling lonely. The lack of touch can lead to feelings of isolation and disconnection. Visual cues, such as facial expressions, also play an important role in human empathy and communication. When visual cues are lacking, it can lead to feelings of being undervalued and disengaged, ultimately affecting our relationships and decisions.

    • How to Build Strong and Healthy RelationshipsCommunication and effort are necessary to build strong relationships. Address issues with love and respect, using observational feedback and direct communication to avoid misunderstandings and resentment. Struggles are inevitable, but choosing how we respond can improve our connections with others.

      Building strong, healthy relationships is a struggle that requires communication and active effort. Addressing issues like phone use during time spent together can be approached with love and respect to foster understanding and create stronger bonds. Using observational feedback and inviting the other person to explain their behavior can help avoid misunderstandings and resentment. Passive-aggressive behavior should be avoided in favor of direct communication to build trust and avoid conflict. Struggling is inevitable in relationships, but we can choose how we respond and work towards improving our connections with others.

    • Coping Strategies and Emotional Regulation in ProgrammingCoping with struggles in programming involves naming things accurately, skill acquisition, and having patience. Being curious, non-defensive, and mindful of our struggles helps navigate the journey.

      Struggle is a part of being human. Coping strategies can be emotional or problem-solving. Naming things accurately and not minimizing them can help navigate struggles better. Skill acquisition takes practice. Having patience for oneself and one's learning process is essential in programming, which involves uncharted territories on a daily basis. Negative emotions can interfere with problem-solving and coping. Being curious and non-defensive toward others and oneself can help us navigate our struggles better. Being human allows us to have amazing experiences and figure out how to get better at things, both good and bad. Understanding that people mess up, and doing amazing generous things is all part of being human and being mindful of our struggles.

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